I'm honestly convinced you have a severe learning disability. The poor reading comprehension, the inability to grasp points, the forming of strong opinions on subjects you have no understanding of.
Especially with the whole cash app thing. I honestly don’t think the story is made up.
Me and my friends sometimes had running tabs with each other that went into the hundreds of dollars, at one point my roommate owned me like 650 bucks from various trips and shit. We always got each other someone’s card was declined/wallet left/they were just broke. And always paid each other back. Now a fucking 8 dollar burrito? Lol
And when I’m dating I prefer to pay like 3 of every 4 times. Almost every girl I have ever dated will just randomly treat me when I’m not expecting it and I assume that’s normal.
Some of this new age dating shit is fucking gay lol
Unless this kid watched his mom rake his dad over the coals for every penny and he like shot himself or something. Then I could see it lol
Ya I don’t play this game, but I honestly haven’t had to the last few years. I get 1 of 2 things like 90% of the time
“Hey I’m new/not looking for anything, let’s just hook up and have fun”
Which I’m 100% fine with, actually made a really good friend this way and my chiropractor now charges me like 2 drinks once a month.
Or
“Omg I just need a good man I just want to settle down!!” Which I have had mean “I live with my ex still can I live with u I can’t afford to leave” “oops I still have a bf” “ok I didn’t tell you but if I don’t take all 9 of these pills I may physically assault u oops” “oh I know we are in our 30’s now but I have the coke habit of a 24 year old cocktail waitress” etc et
It’s either all in or all out. Don’t get much of the “I won’t act like I care when I do” shit.
I hear you man. I have no clue how to navigate the dating market in 2019. "I want something real" is almost always "currently in a shitty relationship" or "four kids from five fathers" or "37 and fat, missing a leg". Girls on Tinder will straight up put their Venmo info on their profile.
The only thing that's worked well for me so far is long hair and playing heavy metal. If I couldn't attract 23 year old girls into heavy metal and depressing 80s music, I'd be forced to install Grindr.
Hahaha I actually do really well at work. I constantly have new clients coming and going, and every fucking PR/marketing/secretary is a chick age 24-34
I met one really awesome chick on a dating app, things went great for a few months, she took a job across the country and I wish her the best.
The disasters running around looking for some guy to save them is pretty fucking hilarious. Look bitch I’m 30, have a nice car, a nice place, a good job and I’m in good shape(still had one bitch try to bash me for not owning a home, she was unemployed lol) it’s ridiculous though. Some have spent the last 5-6 years swiping right and getting fucked but guys who just didn’t give a shit, so they assume some knight in shining armor is going to come save her.
Hahaha I actually do really well at work. I constantly have new clients coming and going, and every fucking PR/marketing/secretary is a chick age 24-34
I've really enjoyed going remote for work, but I definitely miss meeting people through work. Even the cleaning ladies at my last office were cute girls in their 20s and 30s.
I keep hearing that from everyone. I want to build, I have land. But I’m holding out. I just don’t want to rent forever. Been renting since sophomore year of college and I’m exhausted.
And ya my office personally isn’t very attractive. My clients though. Grade A
It still is a beautiful mix. 26 acres of heavily wooded on the front 11, open field on the back 15 in a nice L shape. 2 decent sized bass ponds(too small to be a lake obviously but the front one is plenty big for a row boat)
The problem now is we got fucking houses on 3 sides. It used to just be a field on 3 and houses on 1. My father is 70 and retired and lives on the front half. I’m thinking about building on the lower half. I’m the only 1 of my brothers not married and me and my dad are very close, I would like to stay by and literally be next door, while for all intents and purposes be 1/3rd of a mile away.
It still is a beautiful mix. 26 acres of heavily wooded on the front 11, open field on the back 15 in a nice L shape. 2 decent sized bass ponds(too small to be a lake obviously but the front one is plenty big for a row boat)
That's heaven, man. Land around here is kind of expensive at the moment because of the Californian Plague but when that gravy train ends in the next couple years, there are plenty of 10-20 acre plots smack dab in the forest out here with streams and meadows and no building codes of any kind.
God the California plague feels like it’s everywhere that isn’t Cali.
And ya, I really want to come up with something that’s modern but still rustic. I got a few years until I’m ready.
I hope you land it man. I was super bummed kinda something that got to me about not owning a house when I turned 30 now I’m realizing everyone who does is miserable rather wait until I’m 32-33 and build what I want
And ya, I really want to come up with something that’s modern but still rustic. I got a few years until I’m ready.
I hear you. I want to frame it up like a normal house, but with some rough cut or rounded siding so it looks more like a cabin than a white people house in the burbs.
I was super bummed kinda something that got to me about not owning a house when I turned 30 now I’m realizing everyone who does is miserable rather wait until I’m 32-33 and build what I want
Most of my friends out here are on their 2nd or 3rd house now and don't plan to stay in one forever. All the equity they put into their houses is sapped by the fact that they all want to upgrade, and the cost of housing just gets worse. You're probably better off doing a one and done, or what all my white female friends call a "forever home".
Most of my friends out here are on their 2nd or 3rd house now and don't plan to stay in one forever. All the equity they put into their houses is sapped by the fact that they all want to upgrade, and the cost of housing just gets worse. You're probably better off doing a one and done, or what all my white female friends call a "forever home".
Everyone assumed I would be one of the first married but I’m the one who ended up living in the city and renting.
I like your idea for a house, the mayo cookie cutter gets old. I really want to design something that I can have a rooftop on. My buddy has a place where his roof is a patio and I love it.
Haha shit man, all my friends are going 300 blackout or 308 and I'm waiting for TulAmmo .223 to go on sale. I think you said you're in Texas, but out here a shit ton of the land is either in or butted up against National Forest land, so nobody can complain when some pews go off.
Ya I can’t do that here. Used to be able to not anymore. 10 years ago I took down 6 pigs with like a 20 round mag dump in my backyard when I walked through bushes right into the middle of them.
Well, my dear cope, that's a valid point, if we don't consider why someone would take this route rather than just saying they're broke.
My take: He's likely been lying about how much money he makes for their entire relationship and when confronted with this saw 2 options.
A) Not pay and then come up with an excuse after, something like "I just didn't think about it, sorry."
B) Admit he's been lying for their entire relationship, which would likely expose a bunch of other lies.
There are some clues for this, like for example how she said he wanted them to each pay for whatever they order on their dates from the start, rather than just split the bill like most people do.
He was afraid of having to split the bill and pay more than he had.
This is a very good point. I hate how we actually find a relationship advice that probably isn’t a fucking larp and we are debating it. And I’m finding myself side with the fucking foid. 🤮🤮🤮
It's perfectly possible he's just retarded, but 99.9% of people are going to know how bad not paying looks. Unless this guy is just completely socially retarded my money is for sure on him building a web of lies and being afraid of crashing it all down.
I can see the Chad wanting to maintain stern FWB boundaries if he has other options. Otherwise maybe it's a soft breakup. Clearly, he doesn't want to invest or jest.
They should be an unconditionally positive sounding board. Also, they shouldn't burden women with too much 'emotional labor'. Plus you should be prepared to be the daddy even if you're not the father. Get with the times.
Also, they shouldn't burden women with too much 'emotional labor'.
well yeah, our primate brains aren't designed for that shit. how much "emotional labor" did the typical caveman handle? he just stuck his dick in Grugelle and continued about his ways irrespective of whether it ended up in a pregnancy or not
I mean...I have had friends I do that with I wasn’t dating....is that not a thing? I’m not going to stick up for some guy who did that to his girlfriend. But All I know from this foid is she said her boyfriend always makes her split, and refused to cover the bill.
I don’t disagree. If that’s what they are doing you are absolutely right. My first post said as much. I’m not one to rule out the possibility of foids embellishing or lying lol
Only clear takeaway is that she's sub-friend status to him. Was it the red pill taken too far, or was he merely tolerating giving her the illusion of dating her for some sex?
Yeah this is the first RA post in a long time that made me gasp. Hit the eject button OP. Remember when Ebenezer Scrooge McDuck foreclosed on his girlfriend’s mortgage because she couldn’t pay? That’s what you’re heading towards
Scrooge McDuck. Are redditors aging backwards now?
she probably forgot her wallet because she was distracted from thinking about where she wanted to eat for an hour before her bf finally said “how about fucking chipotle again?”
I will 100% agree with the entire point of a post but as soon as I read those words I instantly disregard all logic and cape-up for the dude. Because 95% of the time that phrase is used it is to tell some guy that they're required to take care of some woman / child / limp-wristed man without question. Is this guy a dick for just letting his girl hang and not paying like that? Probably. Should she dump him? Again, probably. But fuck off with this idea that he's required to do it.
Ordinarily I could see your point, but if you want to consider yourself a "man" in any traditional sense of the word in the way the Western world uses it(or used it historically from like 1700-now) then you're expected to step up and at least try to help the situation.
And this doesn't even cover the fact it's the dudes girlfriend. What's the point of a partner that won't help you? You wouldn't marry a girl who did this and expect her to be a good wife and you can't expect a guy who won't pay for a burrito to be the hunter in a hunter-gatherer style dynamic lmfao
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1 RamRanchSamsquanch 2019-07-16
Broke nigga alert 🚨
1 ManBearFridge 2019-07-16
I'd dump a girl if she didn't offer to pay in a similar situation. That's bizarre.
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1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Especially with the whole cash app thing. I honestly don’t think the story is made up.
Me and my friends sometimes had running tabs with each other that went into the hundreds of dollars, at one point my roommate owned me like 650 bucks from various trips and shit. We always got each other someone’s card was declined/wallet left/they were just broke. And always paid each other back. Now a fucking 8 dollar burrito? Lol
And when I’m dating I prefer to pay like 3 of every 4 times. Almost every girl I have ever dated will just randomly treat me when I’m not expecting it and I assume that’s normal.
Some of this new age dating shit is fucking gay lol
Unless this kid watched his mom rake his dad over the coals for every penny and he like shot himself or something. Then I could see it lol
1 heretobefriends 2019-07-16
Remember, the key to dating in 2019 is to be as detached and unavailable as possible.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Ya I don’t play this game, but I honestly haven’t had to the last few years. I get 1 of 2 things like 90% of the time
“Hey I’m new/not looking for anything, let’s just hook up and have fun”
Which I’m 100% fine with, actually made a really good friend this way and my chiropractor now charges me like 2 drinks once a month.
Or
“Omg I just need a good man I just want to settle down!!” Which I have had mean “I live with my ex still can I live with u I can’t afford to leave” “oops I still have a bf” “ok I didn’t tell you but if I don’t take all 9 of these pills I may physically assault u oops” “oh I know we are in our 30’s now but I have the coke habit of a 24 year old cocktail waitress” etc et
It’s either all in or all out. Don’t get much of the “I won’t act like I care when I do” shit.
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
I hear you man. I have no clue how to navigate the dating market in 2019. "I want something real" is almost always "currently in a shitty relationship" or "four kids from five fathers" or "37 and fat, missing a leg". Girls on Tinder will straight up put their Venmo info on their profile.
The only thing that's worked well for me so far is long hair and playing heavy metal. If I couldn't attract 23 year old girls into heavy metal and depressing 80s music, I'd be forced to install Grindr.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Hahaha I actually do really well at work. I constantly have new clients coming and going, and every fucking PR/marketing/secretary is a chick age 24-34
I met one really awesome chick on a dating app, things went great for a few months, she took a job across the country and I wish her the best.
The disasters running around looking for some guy to save them is pretty fucking hilarious. Look bitch I’m 30, have a nice car, a nice place, a good job and I’m in good shape(still had one bitch try to bash me for not owning a home, she was unemployed lol) it’s ridiculous though. Some have spent the last 5-6 years swiping right and getting fucked but guys who just didn’t give a shit, so they assume some knight in shining armor is going to come save her.
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
I've really enjoyed going remote for work, but I definitely miss meeting people through work. Even the cleaning ladies at my last office were cute girls in their 20s and 30s.
You dodged a bullet. Fuck that noise, man.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
I keep hearing that from everyone. I want to build, I have land. But I’m holding out. I just don’t want to rent forever. Been renting since sophomore year of college and I’m exhausted.
And ya my office personally isn’t very attractive. My clients though. Grade A
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
I hear that, man. I'm socking away almost every extra penny for some homestead land in the next couple years. Already have a house designed.
Is your land rural? Forest?
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
It still is a beautiful mix. 26 acres of heavily wooded on the front 11, open field on the back 15 in a nice L shape. 2 decent sized bass ponds(too small to be a lake obviously but the front one is plenty big for a row boat)
The problem now is we got fucking houses on 3 sides. It used to just be a field on 3 and houses on 1. My father is 70 and retired and lives on the front half. I’m thinking about building on the lower half. I’m the only 1 of my brothers not married and me and my dad are very close, I would like to stay by and literally be next door, while for all intents and purposes be 1/3rd of a mile away.
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
That's heaven, man. Land around here is kind of expensive at the moment because of the Californian Plague but when that gravy train ends in the next couple years, there are plenty of 10-20 acre plots smack dab in the forest out here with streams and meadows and no building codes of any kind.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
God the California plague feels like it’s everywhere that isn’t Cali.
And ya, I really want to come up with something that’s modern but still rustic. I got a few years until I’m ready.
I hope you land it man. I was super bummed kinda something that got to me about not owning a house when I turned 30 now I’m realizing everyone who does is miserable rather wait until I’m 32-33 and build what I want
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
I hear you. I want to frame it up like a normal house, but with some rough cut or rounded siding so it looks more like a cabin than a white people house in the burbs.
Most of my friends out here are on their 2nd or 3rd house now and don't plan to stay in one forever. All the equity they put into their houses is sapped by the fact that they all want to upgrade, and the cost of housing just gets worse. You're probably better off doing a one and done, or what all my white female friends call a "forever home".
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Everyone assumed I would be one of the first married but I’m the one who ended up living in the city and renting.
I like your idea for a house, the mayo cookie cutter gets old. I really want to design something that I can have a rooftop on. My buddy has a place where his roof is a patio and I love it.
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
Oh well dude, fuck em. When you do get a house, there'll be no shortage of 24 year old gym girls who will want a tour.
That's sweet as hell. Not to mention a good place to pop off rounds on your own land.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
With the amount they are building going to need a .22 with a suppressor my .300 black already too loud
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
Haha shit man, all my friends are going 300 blackout or 308 and I'm waiting for TulAmmo .223 to go on sale. I think you said you're in Texas, but out here a shit ton of the land is either in or butted up against National Forest land, so nobody can complain when some pews go off.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Ya I can’t do that here. Used to be able to not anymore. 10 years ago I took down 6 pigs with like a 20 round mag dump in my backyard when I walked through bushes right into the middle of them.
Now I would have swat at my land lol
1 jaredschaffer27 2019-07-16
That's based as hell. Those hogs have to die
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
Only 1 was big but they scared the shit out of me lol
1 JamesYSmithson 2019-07-16
Absolutely, it's quality over quantity. You want an amazing, romantic date but very rarely as this is the key to foids.
1 professorshillphd 2019-07-16
It is bizarre and makes no coherent sense. Which is why the real story is he's like broke as shit and couldn't afford it.
Like no sane person doesn't offer to pay in that scenario unless they just can't or are completely retarded.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
At this point just fucking own up. They sound like what, maybe early 20’s? Maybe? Like 90% of kids are paycheck to paycheck at that age
1 professorshillphd 2019-07-16
Well, my dear cope, that's a valid point, if we don't consider why someone would take this route rather than just saying they're broke.
My take: He's likely been lying about how much money he makes for their entire relationship and when confronted with this saw 2 options.
A) Not pay and then come up with an excuse after, something like "I just didn't think about it, sorry."
B) Admit he's been lying for their entire relationship, which would likely expose a bunch of other lies.
There are some clues for this, like for example how she said he wanted them to each pay for whatever they order on their dates from the start, rather than just split the bill like most people do.
He was afraid of having to split the bill and pay more than he had.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
This is a very good point. I hate how we actually find a relationship advice that probably isn’t a fucking larp and we are debating it. And I’m finding myself side with the fucking foid. 🤮🤮🤮
1 professorshillphd 2019-07-16
It's perfectly possible he's just retarded, but 99.9% of people are going to know how bad not paying looks. Unless this guy is just completely socially retarded my money is for sure on him building a web of lies and being afraid of crashing it all down.
1 KanyeetWeebs 2019-07-16
I can see the Chad wanting to maintain stern FWB boundaries if he has other options. Otherwise maybe it's a soft breakup. Clearly, he doesn't want to invest or jest.
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
This is the only other thing.
Her “boyfriend” is literally just fucking her and the title is a pure cope on her part.
1 taytaybraps 2019-07-16
They're supposed to do other stuff?
1 KanyeetWeebs 2019-07-16
They should be an unconditionally positive sounding board. Also, they shouldn't burden women with too much 'emotional labor'. Plus you should be prepared to be the daddy even if you're not the father. Get with the times.
1 taytaybraps 2019-07-16
well yeah, our primate brains aren't designed for that shit. how much "emotional labor" did the typical caveman handle? he just stuck his dick in Grugelle and continued about his ways irrespective of whether it ended up in a pregnancy or not
1 JamesYSmithson 2019-07-16
Bullshit. This is cope on the boyfriends part if anything.
"Yeah bro she totally isn't my girlfriend, we just fuck, hangout, shop and spend a ton of time together."
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
I mean...I have had friends I do that with I wasn’t dating....is that not a thing? I’m not going to stick up for some guy who did that to his girlfriend. But All I know from this foid is she said her boyfriend always makes her split, and refused to cover the bill.
1 JamesYSmithson 2019-07-16
> I mean...I have had friends I do that with I wasn’t dating....is that not a thing?
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If it looks like a horse, it sounds like a horse and smells like a horse... It's a horse.
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They're literally consitently going on "dates", that alone makes it that they're "dating".
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
I don’t disagree. If that’s what they are doing you are absolutely right. My first post said as much. I’m not one to rule out the possibility of foids embellishing or lying lol
1 JamesYSmithson 2019-07-16
Neither am I haha, seems like we're on the same page
1 KanyeetWeebs 2019-07-16
Only clear takeaway is that she's sub-friend status to him. Was it the red pill taken too far, or was he merely tolerating giving her the illusion of dating her for some sex?
1 Day_of_the_COPE 2019-07-16
He’s still the douche in that situation imo. He gets a pass only if she’s embellishing, not if he’s just being a cocksucker.
1 heretobefriends 2019-07-16
Shit, I'd dump a friend if they didn't. Total robot move.
1 modsarelosers22 2019-07-16
Scrooge McDuck. Are redditors aging backwards now?
1 princess_y_fronts 2019-07-16
I would like one ticket for this magical train ride towards misspent youth.
1 Anti-GallowBoob 2019-07-16
Boomers learning about reference humor.
1 AI_WAIFU_REBORN 2019-07-16
That's not very nice.
1 Osterion 2019-07-16
If she wanted nice, shouldn't have got with a moid.
1 DeweaponizedAutism 2019-07-16
Moids đź‘Ź are đź‘Ź animals đź‘Ź
1 Pashol_Nahui 2019-07-16
she probably forgot her wallet because she was distracted from thinking about where she wanted to eat for an hour before her bf finally said “how about fucking chipotle again?”
1 Intravenousmemefluid 2019-07-16
I will 100% agree with the entire point of a post but as soon as I read those words I instantly disregard all logic and cape-up for the dude. Because 95% of the time that phrase is used it is to tell some guy that they're required to take care of some woman / child / limp-wristed man without question. Is this guy a dick for just letting his girl hang and not paying like that? Probably. Should she dump him? Again, probably. But fuck off with this idea that he's required to do it.
1 JamesYSmithson 2019-07-16
I'm going to disagree here.
Ordinarily I could see your point, but if you want to consider yourself a "man" in any traditional sense of the word in the way the Western world uses it(or used it historically from like 1700-now) then you're expected to step up and at least try to help the situation.
And this doesn't even cover the fact it's the dudes girlfriend. What's the point of a partner that won't help you? You wouldn't marry a girl who did this and expect her to be a good wife and you can't expect a guy who won't pay for a burrito to be the hunter in a hunter-gatherer style dynamic lmfao
1 MzCherryBlossom 2019-07-16
That guy ain’t friend material let alone boyfriend material.
1 ubermanwolf 2019-07-16
She should be glad he wasn't posting pictures of her corpse to Instagram.