r/drama: 40 year old man child comes to Reddit AITA because he freaked out on his 27 year fiancé for wanting to spend 1/20th of the wedding budget on a dress and not shopping on wish. She finds the post.

40 year old man child comes to Reddit AITA because he freaked out on his 27 year fiancé for wanting to spend 1/20th of the wedding budget on a dress and not shopping on wish. She finds the post.

1 2020-01-15 by McFluff_TheCrimeCat

Initial AITA post where OP shows everyone he’s super stable and knows nothing about wedding dresses or how to talk to people:

https://www.reddit.com/r/AmItheAsshole/comments/eoley4/aita_i_38_m_for_telling_my_fiancee_f_27her/

His post history is a mine of him lashing out and blaming Reddit for her packing to leave him: delete the ... to view profile

https://np.reddit.com/user ... josh8449

Thread moves to wedding shaming where she has left to her parents and blocked his number after he decided to scream at her and say she can’t spend “their” money on her dress.

https://www.reddit.com/r/weddingshaming/comments/ep4qqr/update_to_the_guy_who_wanted_his_fiance_to_get_a/fehw8kl/

Her post history of what’s going on on her end:

https://www.reddit.com/user ... throwawaywedding22

60 comments

2 boyoyoyoyong 2020-01-15

Wtf a grand on a wedding dress isn't even a lot tbh

1 McFluff_TheCrimeCat 2020-01-15

It’s worse than that they spend 14 out of 20 on the wedding so far. Have 6 left for the honey moon, etc and her parents even offered to buy the dress. here but he freaked out because he doesn’t want them contributing since he’s a “not a teenager”.

1 MzCherryBlossom 2020-01-15

Correct he’s not a teenager. Still just a brat

1 TwoTriplets 2020-01-15

Teenagers have an excuse.

1 Burnnoticelover 2020-01-15

I totally get him not wanting his parents’money, but by god, but the woman a dress.

1 [deleted] 2020-01-15

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1 ImJustaBagofHammers 2020-01-15

It still seems like a waste of money to be honest.

2 boyoyoyoyong 2020-01-15

It is but we're talking about foids here

1 Starship_Litterbox_C 2020-01-15

I was expecting 10k not 1k

1 OniTan 2020-01-15

Imagine paying this much to put rags on a foid!

1 EvilIndustries 2020-01-15

right? I was settling down for a nice read and got 3 sentences in to thee dress price before completely losing interest. I've never had to buy a wedding dress but 1k sounds pretty cheap

1 artemis_m_oswald 2020-01-15

Yeah but he found the same dress for like a hundred dollars. The thing is, that FEELS cheap so of course the foid will seethe over it and make up bullshit excuses to feel good about spending a lot on a dress.

This dude is still a retard for not knowing this basic fact about foids.

1 Pepe_von_Habsburg 2020-01-15

Have you seen Wish?

1 joseph_smithereens 2020-01-15

I want you to be right, but nobody has ever bought a good looking piece of clothing on Wish.com (they blatantly lie in the product descriptions, stuff looks so bad it's almost funny)

1 artemis_m_oswald 2020-01-15

I didn't see the Wish part lol, I can't read

1 joseph_smithereens 2020-01-15

Your criticism is still valid about my buddy's $600 red-dot sight

2 Corporal-Hicks 2020-01-15

this feels like a farce

1 affectionateotter1 2020-01-15

Fake and gay.

1 McFluff_TheCrimeCat 2020-01-15

Even if it is then he’s dedicated multiple hours on multiple accounts for this. So a lolcow none the less.

1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2020-01-15

Imagine that, someone doing it for free on reddit for multiple hours on multiple accounts.

1 McFluff_TheCrimeCat 2020-01-15

You grandpa ticktock?

1 BernieMadeoffSanders 2020-01-15

*yawn*

1 WholesomeDrama 2020-01-15

those kids didnt get to sleep when donald trump RAPED THEM

1 RIPGeorgeHarrison 2020-01-15

Yes

1 The_Reason_Pete_Wins 2020-01-15

Got em

1 Ed__ButteredToast 2020-01-15

1 RecallRethuglicans 2020-01-15

Multiple hours is nothing.

1 chodemessiah 2020-01-15

They nailed the cringy weirdo reddit user vibe but the wish shit was mega sus and felt forced to me. Like this has to be some chinese psyop to subliminally market wish. It's literally all shit-tier chicom schlock, you have to be autistic as fuck to unironically order anything from there, let alone a wedding dress.

1 MagicHoudini 2020-01-15

The only absurd thing it’s him thinking that 50$ is acceptable and that wish is an acceptable alternative to anything but joke gifts.

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1 FoidBlaster 2020-01-15

What a cheap fuck but this thread is prime Redditshit. What an autistic way to ruin a to be marriage lmao

1 capthazelwoodsflask 2020-01-15

this dude is a wiener

They're not wrong tho.

1 Curbside_dental 2020-01-15

I got married at the courthouse, and I'm pretty sure my wife spent 4 digits on a dress still.

This is wild.

Also her post said she's 23.

1 Bummunism 2020-01-15

https://np.reddit.com/user(slash) josh8449

NP posting. So where'd you take this from?

1 McFluff_TheCrimeCat 2020-01-15

No where? I found the original thread to read all these through bestof so probably continued from there gathering links.

1 Bummunism 2020-01-15

We'll accept this for now. You're on thin ice.

1 2Manadeal2btw 2020-01-15

You have to NP post because directly linking to user acc is not allowed. Believe me, I've tried it before.

1 Bummunism 2020-01-15

Np dont do shit dude, either way.

(SLASH)

https://np.redxit.com/u/bummunism

1 pm_me_ur_butthole420 2020-01-15

I posted the direct link a few hours ago and it was auto removed because of some gay janny rule I won’t read

1 Bummunism 2020-01-15

Its an uber-janny rule. Admins sat down and actually made code so drama (and drama specifically) cant ping or link to user ages in any shape or form.

1 FearOfBees 2020-01-15

Dude 10k weddings lol

1 fbcc1233 2020-01-15

Dude imagine not having a vegan Earth bounding ceremony instead lmao.

1 ernaschabulski 2020-01-15

based and soypilled

1 MzCherryBlossom 2020-01-15

Bag of hammers. Why you delete?

1 Hoes_very_Mad 2020-01-15

Why does his post say they are 38 and 27 yrs old while hers says they're 43 and 23 years old. Are they both retarded?

1 Bummunism 2020-01-15

Foids lying about their age, what else is new? 🙄

1 Dramabanevader 2020-01-15

He explains this, he lied about their ages in order to obscure their identity

1 Not_Obsessive 2020-01-15

Yes, plausible deniability. No, he didn't post any threads on reddit. It was another girl with the exact same name who had the exact same fight with her equally dense fiance but he is younger and she is older

1 Dramabanevader 2020-01-15

Here’s the comment. He skewed ages of anonymity

1 Not_Obsessive 2020-01-15

I know that this is his reason but he pretty obviously only changed the stuff that would make him seem like a dominant abuser. Same with how he supposedly contributed half of the budget when he did a quarter. His throwaway also held his own name. Since he knew his fiance frequented reddit he probably wanted her to find the thread when he would have been validated. That's why he lied abt the weirder parts. Backfired obviously but I never said he was smart.

I'm still not set on it not being elaborate fake.

1 MagicHoudini 2020-01-15

His lies: - he made himself younger - He made her older - He made himself contribute half of the budget while he only puts in a quarter

Her lies: - he changed his name

If any of this story is true, we are talking about a 40 yo doing minimum wage marrying a 20yo that already makes more than he does.

Truly a mistery who’s more retarded between the two of them.

1 RedditPunRater 2020-01-15

HE wanted to make the relationship seem less creepy. 11 year age difference vs 20.

1 classyfahgotte 2020-01-15

ive had my grammar picked on ive even had people wondering if its a troll account and had people creating accounts pretending to be me

lmfao even regular redditors took this goldmine of drama and ran with it

1 Chapose 2020-01-15

Imagine spending thousands of dollars on your wedding... People are retarded.

1 bigfartguy 2020-01-15

imagine being poor 🤢 🤢 🤢

1 a_jill_sandwich 2020-01-15

Both accounts only just signed up, all posts from both parties read the same and are littered with the same retarded spelling errors...

Hmm, yeah, this is fiction.

1 FuckYouDramaModsREEE 2020-01-15

This guy is on a level of retardation so high that I'm actually siding with a foid.

1 capthazelwoodsflask 2020-01-15

Hilarious if true. He's probably missed his last chance of having someone else pull him out of his own misery and she's probably just dodged the biggest bullet of her life. She's earned a free pass for a few times around on the cc.

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