One of the main arguments in my last relationship was over picking a restaurant. When he was the only one who wanted food.
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Oof yikes I would have ended it right after the first time he did this. This is beyond misogyny it’s clearly rape.
Not even lying, this happened multiple times. I don’t fucking understand it at all. I felt like I did a shit load of labor in the relationship and also felt like I got shit on all the time for reasons I couldn’t even comprehend.
I 100% without a doubt don’t believe trollxers because of posts like this. not only do we know they’re definitely not doing any physical labor, but from their posts to subs like “ptsd” “bpd” “anxiety” and “witchesagainstthepatriarchy” I’m guessing most of the weight of the emotional labor, was definitely dropped onto the partner to handle lol
a lot of them are the alt-right mirror images of our tankie edgelord teens, and a lot of people there are broken, toxic people and their parasites who exploit and humiliate them for sociopathic fun
There is no way that any individual in that topic is actually a girl. They all talk as if they are men pretending to be women. It’s a literal castle of white knight cucks.
Men get frustrated because they have to go through a list of restaurants he wants to pick that she has to say no to and we wind up going to where she wanted to go in the first place.
Giving foids the power of choice was the greatest mistake men ever made.
"Emotional Labor" Foids really can get away with not working for 4/5ths of their lives if they play their cards right and they still write shit like this,
My husband calls me “picky” because I’m vegan. Never mind the first 4 years of our relationship his diet was 100% fried chicken, burgers, potatoes, eggs, cheese, corn, and candy. He actually cried the first time I made him taste a mango.
He used to get so annoyed when I “couldn’t pick a place to eat” because i wasn’t always down for burgers or pizza and he “couldn’t eat” anything I suggested like Chinese food.🙃🙄
Happy to report he quit that shit and has been vegetarian for 2 years now. The other day he ate (and liked) gumbo with collards, turnip greens, and wild dandelion.
Eating wild dandelions is the dumbest shit. They dont taste good! I know because I ate one once as a child. Theres a reason they dont stock fucking dandelions at Safeway.
It's always some dumb hippy bitch who doesn't have the mental compacity to actually manage a garden but still wants to eat something grown in the backyard. Dandelions are perfect because they are invasive, stupid weeds that grow everywhere and they look pretty for Instagram posts. Fuck.
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9 pvijay187 2020-02-06
"Emotional Labor" is such a white women phrase. I can hear the whining through the screen
7 big_papa_stiffy 2020-02-06
the only people who use it are the ones who dont know what actual labour is like
1 bigfuckerton 2020-02-06
You need some word to describe the times when karen is about to get fry boy fired because he didnt smile right
1 closedshop 2020-02-06
Women don’t realize that they are the labor. It’s like a fucking job to have to tolerate them.
1 Total_fakecel 2020-02-06
"My (now EX) boyfriend made [asked] me to get out of bed today! What should I do now that I've been sexually assaulted?"
5 Aletherios 2020-02-06
The emotional labor to come up with that snarky response must have been brutal
4 PplOfColoredMeShockd 2020-02-06
Oof yikes I would have ended it right after the first time he did this. This is beyond misogyny it’s clearly rape.
I 100% without a doubt don’t believe trollxers because of posts like this. not only do we know they’re definitely not doing any physical labor, but from their posts to subs like “ptsd” “bpd” “anxiety” and “witchesagainstthepatriarchy” I’m guessing most of the weight of the emotional labor, was definitely dropped onto the partner to handle lol
1 AlexJones_GayFrog 2020-02-06
Their idea of emotional labor is "knowing the cat box needs to be cleaned" and "not acting like a slob all the time"
4 big_papa_stiffy 2020-02-06
its because grown men dont want to deal with a fussy indecisive toddler lol tf is she even asking
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3 SnapshillBot 2020-02-06
leave that place it isn't worth it
a lot of them are the alt-right mirror images of our tankie edgelord teens, and a lot of people there are broken, toxic people and their parasites who exploit and humiliate them for sociopathic fun
just a really bad community all around
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2 RBnumberTwenty 2020-02-06
There is no way that any individual in that topic is actually a girl. They all talk as if they are men pretending to be women. It’s a literal castle of white knight cucks.
2 Spysix 2020-02-06
Men get frustrated because they have to go through a list of restaurants he wants to pick that she has to say no to and we wind up going to where she wanted to go in the first place.
Giving foids the power of choice was the greatest mistake men ever made.
1 SmurfPolitics 2020-02-06
"Emotional Labor" Foids really can get away with not working for 4/5ths of their lives if they play their cards right and they still write shit like this,
1 NiceGuyNationalism 2020-02-06
So you turned him into a faggot, nice.
1 Yeetsauce100 2020-02-06
Eating wild dandelions is the dumbest shit. They dont taste good! I know because I ate one once as a child. Theres a reason they dont stock fucking dandelions at Safeway.
It's always some dumb hippy bitch who doesn't have the mental compacity to actually manage a garden but still wants to eat something grown in the backyard. Dandelions are perfect because they are invasive, stupid weeds that grow everywhere and they look pretty for Instagram posts. Fuck.