What's the dog breed, this is important before I form an opinion.

1 drop rule applies here too so you know what to do with a shitbull like that

It's a male sub, probably a pug or bulldog

When I first heard of findom I thought it was some sort of weird fetish involving Finnish people.

Some blonde chick demanding you mail her salty licorice.

LAKKUPIIPU unintelligible gibberish LAKKUPIIPU more unintelligible gibberish

I’m doing much better now, thankfully. I first got into Findom at the end of high school during a period in my life where I was at my lowest. I had never had a relationship, the few friends I had all went away for college, and I felt totally lost. I found a “domme” online when I was 18 and working two full time jobs and I would send her over 60-90% of my checks every payday while only getting the occasional acknowledgement every so often. The thing is I was so lonely at the time that I would just keep sending more money for a simple “thx loser!” or some other low effort reply just because it was all I had.

I hit my breaking point when she blocked me on Twitter for some comment I made without sending a payment first and she demanded I send her my largest tribute ever to be unblocked. So I sent her the money... all $2,000 of it... and she never unblocked me. I remember crying my eyes out at how pathetic I had become and slowly got out of Findom after that experience. A couple years (and several therapy sessions) later, I am in a much better place with a girlfriend I care for deeply.

I apologize for the wall of text, but I felt like venting a bit. I calculated how much money I wasted on that “domme” over the nearly two years I was in contact and it was roughly $25,000. So, yeah, I am not a fan of Findom. The women who participate are not good people and have nothing but greed in their hearts.

Holy shit!!

This is legitimately the stupidest thing I have ever read. "Give thousands of dollars for an acknowledgement on the internet".

...I could literally come up with a list of 100 ways to interact with people without doing that. Like... Wow. Is this why we need mayocide?

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automod is being a nazi, but the answer is math

instead of go place or do thing to get friend and girl me send money to gril online so she call me loser. this how me stop be lonely. me think this good idea!

Goddamn dude I had to go to engineering school to make money. Even if you’re just a slightly attractive woman, you can probably easily make twice my salary just by marketing yourself towards losers online.

Women be living in creative mode

findom completely fries my brain. like i just dont understand how this could be appealing in any way.

may allah judge this filth harshly

When finding an actual domme, especially one you're not paying, looks like an impossibility - I guess these abusive harpies look like a glass of water in a desert. Sub frenzy is a crazy thing.

they could just date fdsers. abusive golddiggers shouldnt be too hard to find.

Those needy cunts are too lazy to put up a pretext of dominance. The online bloodsuckers at least try and fake it.

mids cant tell the difference between abusive fids and dommes anyways

I mean obviously - that’s why we’re here 🤷‍♂️

cbt

When I saw that for a split second I was thinking I'd make a really clever joke about cock & ball torture and then I realized she was actually talking about cock & ball torture.

Xi, could you just launch the missiles now please? 🤮

Lung Pao Sicken wasn't enough clearly

Xi pls vaporize me and send me to Jesus

s!mps deserve to be parted from their money 💰

cmv u cannot

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Imagine blowing up your hard-earned cash on walmart Kat Dennings, minus the tits.

Findom is financially findumb.

Nailed it!

I need people to stop banning my lolis. That's all I need! Just let me be with my drawings. Let me enjoy cute happy anime lolis that are so full of love and affection. That let me forget about this horrible world and the shitty people in it. Is that so hard to ask for? Why are people so fucking hell bent on banning lolis? What do they or society gain? I don't like scary slasher movies about people murdering people(illegal BTW). But I don't call for them to be banned nor insult those that enjoy them. One of the few things in life that makes me happy. Little glimmers of joy in my shit life and they fucking ban it because they want to make an extra buck fron ad investors.

Maybe there's a reason why people want these pure, perfect maidens? Could it be that the real world is filled with darwinistic people? Filled with murder, drugs, deasise, genocide, virtue signalling, inequality, false politicians, false ronance, bullies, ect. Where everyone is out to push eachother down to get on top? Yea, no wonder people are so eager to want something better.

Is it really difficult for people to mind their own business? If you don't harm anyone, why ban it?

You know. What about GTA that glorifies crime and actually hurts people in the real world with predatory microtransactions? What about rape fantasies? What about guro? What about furry porn? What if she's canonlly legal age? What about girls that look mature but are underage(Ikkitousen, HSoTD)? What about all that incest porn on pornhub? That's illegal IRL but no one is harping to ban that. What about r/trees? A sub dedicated to glorifying marijuana but one problem...weed has been and still is illegal and classified as a class1 drug in the US. Or the sub that literally shows real kids being killed. Or all those propaganda and ad shilling? But no one bans that!

BUT BAN THE LOLIS!!!!!

IF. PEOPLE. JUST. STOPPED. BANNING. LOLIS. I'LL. BE. HAPPY

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Look I get Femdom but findom doesn’t make sense to me

yeesss euthanize the dog for mommy dom

fucking ♀️oids

the sexual revolution was a mistake

There's this weird air of pearl clutching in the comments. Like they're apalled that the doms are actually grifters and not legitimately taking part in a totally wholesome kink that involves giving someone money for no work. 🤔

me think findoms dumb thots but me think men who pay findoms even worse

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Next time someone tells you W*men are oppressed, just tell them that they can easily be paid thousands of dollars to insult absolutely pathetic men.

wrong sub.

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If she is serious it is concerning, and if she is not serious it is cringey.

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