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fatcels posting their Ls

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!thin:redlight::redlight:FAT FOID COPING AHEAD:redlight::redlight:

You will never get over him saying this. It will play in your head as long as you're with him. He doesn't deserve you.

There are men who will love you and who'll think you're hot exactly as you are. Leave this prick and look for a real partner.

This. My then fiance left a workout DVD on the seat of my car one night so I'd find it when I left for work. That was 20 years ago, we split up a long time ago, and that shit still bothers me.

Ask him. "What kind of a response are you expecting from me? Because this is pretty manipulative. Your negativity is yours to fix, not mine."

Yeah, it probably won't go over well. But with a dude like this, who cares? Do you want him trying to manipulate you into "yes, sir, I'll change my body for you" for the rest of your life? He is showing you who he is. Believe him.

Call him out on it. His response will tell you if he's worth making it work.

I would absolutely end this relationship because of this. You deserve a man who is attracted to you 100%, not someone who feels like they are settling. You're going to think about this every time you see him and you'll never know if you're good enough for him. I don't see a future in a relationship where this is an issue.

caring about your partners health = manipulative

One word. Bye.

Actually, 2. Bye, b-word.

Lmfao best comment

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He is 100% trying to manipulate you. He’s pretending he thinks he’s the issue, putting himself down, while also shaming you so you’ll feel guilty and change for him. Don’t.

Your reply is “this is a you problem, not a me problem. You want someone skinny, go find one.”

Oh snap!!!!! This!

SO MUCH THIS!!!:#marseysoylentgrin:

It feels manipulative to me. Saying you’re wife material, but… Then adding in he feels like he is pushing you and you don’t really want it. I think he wants you to be swooning by the “you’re wife material” so you will say “no I do want it, I do.” Then if you succeed he got what he wanted but it was you who wanted it or if you fail it’s your fault he isn’t marrying you.

I could be wrong, but this is what it feels like to me.

this is the result of women in america being referred to white woman therapists who charge by the hour to talk to you like a friend and validate your experiences and assure you that nothing in life is your fault

Sounds like he needs therapy. You are not the person to help him process his feelings around attraction and weight.

Can you imagine saying anything like this about someone’s body, regardless of their relationship? It is not appropriate and no one else’s responsibly to work through what he is feeling.

The social norms regarding weight and beauty are harmful. They harm everyone in our society.

Your value is inherent.

see, just what i said.

This reads to me as gaslighting and abuse. You're somehow not good enough and need to try harder because he just can't find you attractive as you are? What's next? Where's the line? My reply would be "I will box your shit up and you can come get it at (date and time). Miss it and it goes to the dump." I also have a zero tolerance policy for this stuff because it's a thing I have struggled with my entire life. That cycle just demands me with romance. So soften as needed if you're going this route.

Is he perfect? Why do you need to change but he is just fine? Why isn't he applying this to his own issues? If you're so great and perfect your body should not be a barrier. This is a cop out and disgusting. You deserve better

heckin GASLIGHTING

From one of my favorite TikToks: If I'm too much, go find less.

And follow up: DUMP HIS BUTT.

:#marseycringe:

I think this is when you do your hair toss, check your nails, and get the frick gone. I am so very very sorry you had to read his words. I’m sorry you will remember them even for a minute. I’m sorry he hid that from you for so long. I hope with all my heart you can let any of that attachment fall away because you know you lost nothing really and chose you with extreme prejudice. Love and peace to you Goddess!

:#marseyyikes:

Ewww. He sounds like one of those men that is attracted to big girls and is embarrassed about it. You deserve SO much better, period. 🩵

ACTUALLY you do want to frick us

Here is your reply: "Baby, I have tried my best to deal with this myself and just ignore it, but I just can't anymore, and I have to be honest with you finally. Your peepee is so small I can't feel anything. The only way I get off is by using my toys, and I know it's a ME problem, but I couldn't keep lying to you anymore."

obligatory small peepee “joke”

MY JAW LEGIT DROPPED UM

how could he say that :#soycry:

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It's kind of a shame that the FQ is going to be answered with that diabetes drug, because the cope and seethe around the issue from People of Size bears an awful lot of resemblance to general addiction/vice cope (yet is increasingly socially acceptable). Would've been nice if we'd come up with a more general solution to the willpower problem. I guess the boozers and fentanarians have naltrexone at least.

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>take semaglutide to lose weight

>don't actually learn habits that cause you to stay skinny

>stop semaglutide, regain all the weight

>get discontinuation side effects from long-term use

>...stuck on semaglutide for the rest of your life

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>big pharma wins again :platyrich:

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nah its not that effective without lifestyle interventions. it helps you lose weight, it doesn't lose weight for you, and it doesn't cure whatever psychological problems cause these cows to binge eat until their stomach hurts every day

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Wonder if they'd find it offensive to be gifted ozempic.

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Bro all that expensive butt drug does is make you feel fuller while giving you diarrhea. The studies show you lose like 10 more pounds with diet and exercise over the course of several weeks compared to placebo, it's definitely not worth. Especially since it stops working the moment you stop taking it.

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