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Looking for advice on responding to comments - /r/AntiDiet :marseychonkerfoid:

https://old.reddit.com/r/antidiet/comments/1gt4vku/looking_for_advice_on_responding_to_comments/

								

								

Started on Adhd meds 6-12 months ago. My body has changed a bit because of it. I've been an advocate/practicing this anti-diet/HAES lifestyle for years; in and out of BED over the years as well.

Lately, I've been getting comments about how "good I look" and "WOW have you lost weight!?" Etc. My biggest problem is comments from people who I really shouldn't "piss off" if you know what I mean. I'm generally a people-pleaser and tend to chicken out on the really good responses anyway but especially when it's someone I need "to like me."

Just wondering - any response ideas!? Advice on how to handle it? I hate when people comment on my body (or anyone's) and even more so in front of my KID. Sick of people assuming/implying that weight loss should be everyone's goal 😔

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"Please don't comment on my body, even if it's meant to be positive."

how do these people go through life

they sound like absolutely miserable people and insufferable to be around

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how do these people go through life :bruh:

they sound like absolutely miserable people and insufferable to be around :marseyserioushatfact: :marseytruthnuke: :autism:

>they sound like absolutely miserable people and insufferable to be around

:#marseyclueless: !metashit !dramatards

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:#marseyme:

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how do these people go through life

fatly

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If you feel like embracing your inner snark try, "Yeah, chemo is a real b-word." Or "So I looked bad before?" Or, "yeah the eating disorder is paying off loads, I hope I can stop before I need hospitalisation!"

Imagine the collective :!go: :go: in a room if some insufferable pig said some shit like "So I looked bad before"

Luckily nobody will have to experience that because these "people" will never lose fat or have friends :marseylaugh:

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So I looked bad before? :marseychonkerfoid:

:#chadyes:

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>insufferable to be around

That's a given, they're fat and an assault on the senses.

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Dear /u/No_Transition_8746

The response to a complement is customarily "Thank you"

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"I'm surprised you feel comfortable saying that to someone" is my favorite thing. It makes them question everything

The only thing they're questioning is why they're talking to you

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The doc knew exactly what he was doing when he gave her (presumably) vyvanse.

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