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Looking for advice on responding to comments - /r/AntiDiet :marseychonkerfoid:

https://old.reddit.com/r/antidiet/comments/1gt4vku/looking_for_advice_on_responding_to_comments/

								

								

Started on Adhd meds 6-12 months ago. My body has changed a bit because of it. I've been an advocate/practicing this anti-diet/HAES lifestyle for years; in and out of BED over the years as well.

Lately, I've been getting comments about how "good I look" and "WOW have you lost weight!?" Etc. My biggest problem is comments from people who I really shouldn't "piss off" if you know what I mean. I'm generally a people-pleaser and tend to chicken out on the really good responses anyway but especially when it's someone I need "to like me."

Just wondering - any response ideas!? Advice on how to handle it? I hate when people comment on my body (or anyone's) and even more so in front of my KID. Sick of people assuming/implying that weight loss should be everyone's goal 😔

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"I'm surprised you feel comfortable saying that to someone" is my favorite thing. It makes them question everything

The only thing they're questioning is why they're talking to you

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