Train is angry about a sticker in the pottys so he yells at a woman he thinks is a TERF, throws a tantrum, then demands she tell him he's a woman.

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I complained about it to human resources, and they didn’t take my complaint seriously. It was clear that the b-word I talked to had never had her identity questioned and had no empathy. She just didn’t care at all and completely minimised what I was feeling. I wouldn’t be surprised if she was the TERF who put it up as she just didn’t see the problem. She just kept saying “its just a sticker” but its not just a sticker, its someone going out of their way to try and completely deny who I am and try and take away the rights of all trans people and deny are right to even pee. And that’s why I was fuming but it was clear from the onset she didn’t care. She was constantly minimising my experiences. She asked me sarcastically “what do you expect me to do” and when I suggested doing fingerprint scans she practically laughed me out the room.

It's amazing how completely unaware he is of how insane he sounds here. The actual police wouldn't sink time and resources into dusting for prints since it's not a crime scene; does he really expect his employer to bring in a private investigator because of a fricking sticker?

she told me that I had male privilege and was rude to me. This is such an ignorant comment. Does she not realise I have spent my entire life in the closet pretending to be someone I am not? How can she say that that is a privilege?

Funny how the man complaining that someone else is ignorant can't tell the difference between "getting unfair social advantages due to being recognized as male" and "getting everything I imagine I want."

I went on a bit of an uncontrolled rant to her about the sticker and TERFs in general and why I thought she was a TERF. However she claimed to not even know what a TERF was. How can you not know what a TERF is in the UK in 2022? They are literally everywhere, even in the fricking government. Either she is completely oblivious and clueless about everything or she’s a lying TERF c*nt. And I strongly suspect it's the latter. Also, I’m pretty sure I’ve called her a TERF before and she seemed to understand what it meant then. But she claimed she thought it was a generic insult. She also just looked like she didn’t care and almost like she resented having to have this conversation and just wanted to go. It was clear she has no respect for me. Even if she is not a full out evil JK Rowling style TERF, she is still a TERF. I told her that if she wasn’t a TERF to tell me that trans women are women, as I know this is something no TERF would ever say.

>Throwing around “b-word” and “terf c*nt” with impunity at a place of employment.

Tell me that you are a man without telling me directly that you are a man.

And she refused. I told her again to tell me that I was a woman. She then said that it would be meaningless as she would just be doing it for the sake of it. Which sorta made sense but its also exactly what a TERF would say

I fricking swear I'm living in the cartoon world, this shit is straight out of a tv show.

She seems so like some of those stuck up mumsnet c*nts. I thought it was probably her who put the sticker up and I decided to confront her about this. I realise now that this was a bit impulsive and it was wrong to do this when I was so angry. I should have waited till I had calmed down. I went on a bit of an uncontrolled rant to her about the sticker and TERFs in general and why I thought she was a TERF.

... she then went to complain to HR about me and now I have been called in for a meeting with them tomorrow. Supposedly I have been accused of “harassment” which is just absurd. Especially considering she is a TERF. I realise that I probably shouldn’t have confronted her about this but I was just so angry and felt I had to do something. I literally never even touched her.

Can you imagine this guy cornering you and screaming at you about being a "terf" while flinging spittle in all directions? No wonder she complained of harassment! And telling that he thinks "terfs" don't have a right to go to and from work unmolested, that he has the right to terrorize them any way he wants, short of touching them, I suppose, simply because of what they believe.

Also she rarely wears any noticeable makeup which, although this may be a bit of a sexist stereotype, is a sign of a TERF. I don’t know why this is but TERFs normally don’t bother to wear makeup and so I thought this was a sign she was a TERF.

This is terribly amusing. This man sounds paranoid beyond belief.

And even if I were to get actual proof then because of that stupid Maya Forrester c*nt’s ruling nothing could happen anyway which makes me even more fricking angry

Not only that but she then went to complain to HR about me and now I have been called in for a meeting with them tomorrow. Supposedly I have been accused of «harassment» which is just absurd.

s refuse to take accountability of their own actions as usual. The purity of his male rage, aggression and entitlement is just chefs kiss 10/10 five stars, it almost sounds like a dramanaut wrote this one. Even when written from the perspective of a lunatic male trying to make himself look better, the way he describes interacting with her paints a picture of her being very unwilling to engage with him and him absolutely insisting that she accept being his scapegoat. He literally backed her into a corner and demanded that she chant the mantra and accept blame because he was so psychotically enraged and fixated on her. If I were her I would be asking a friend to meet me at the end of my shift every day to try to discourage him from going through with any assault that he's is absolutely working himself up to committing.

The cooments

One of the ways TERFs advance in discourse is by playing optics, gaslighting, and making transwomen look deranged.

They don't need to make s look deranged, LOOK AT WHAT HE JUST DID!