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Smart dude "tricks" cheating whore wife into getting abortion, Redditors are PISSED that he got away with it and side with the cheater. Remember, women are always the victim, no matter what. :marseythumbsup:

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My[30M] friends are upset that I made my wife[27F] get an abortion

I've been with my wife for 3 years. For the last year or so I noticed that she was hanging out with a co-worker a lot. I had my doubts and snooped around and I found out that she was emotionally cheating. She didn't think it was but we showed the messages to her friends (anonymously) and everyone agreed it was emotional cheating. My wife was quite distraught and very apologetic but it broke me. It didn't matter that she claimed she didn't know (she definitely did) but I was truly hurt. Up until then I was filled with anxiety and I cried after finding the texts.

We were also intimate and my wife was 3 months pregnant. I was truly disgusted that she could text another man he looked handsome while laying in bed with me. I knew I couldn't be in a relationship with her, much less have a baby with her. I told her I loved her but I needed time to process things and that a baby was not good right now for us. I basically lied to her that I wanted to focus on our future. She finally agreed and she got the abortion.

I've already contacted a divorce lawyer. I was significantly richer than my wife coming into the marriage (house is mine) and I signed a prenup. We've only been married for a year and I'd be taking everything I came into the marriage with. I served her the papers in office and well she was hysterical.

My friends think I was wrong to trick her into getting an abortion but I don't think so. I was always going to leave her and having a child in such a situation would be messy for the child. They also think she truly misinterpreted the conversation (only my female friends think this). How do I make them see I was right and that I need their support. What do I do?

TL;DR My friends are upset I tricked my wife


Yeah, you’re a huge butthole. Tricking her under false pretenses to get an abortion was cruel and traumatic. This will scar her for life. Yeah, emotionally cheating sucks. What you did sucks 1000 times more. It’s actually evil to me. I would definitely drop you as a friend. The language you use makes my skin crawl. I wouldn’t be surprised if you were at bare minimum emotionally abusive in this relationship.

A mature adult would have co parented. Or given her all the information upfront, so she could make an educated decision on whether she wanted to go through with it alone. You’re giving sociopathic vibes.

Lmfao this cannot be real. :marseyxd: "yeah bro just co-parent the child with your whore wife! I'm sure that won't take a toll on you and be a burden for the rest of your entire life!" :marseybrainlet:

Take your win and accept that you’re not a good person in this situation. I’d be generous in the divorce, she due that.

Cheating whores deserve reparations! :marseyyass:

too cruel and manipulative..

don't act like you got her aborting the pregnancy because it was better for the kid nah it was better for your wallet.

Do these holes not understand the consequences of cheating on their partner? Oops sorry, I mean MAN BAD WOMAN GOOD :npc:

That was kinda fricked up. You don't treat people like that. In the end you got what you want I guess. But I would definitely not want to be friends with someone shady like that.

The wife? She coo tho. :marseyclueless:

I can see why she cheated on you.

GOOD MORNING

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First off, "emotional cheating" is some foid nonsense that's coming back to bite them in the butt, and I am here for it.

But also, I feel like this is the optimal outcome. Sure the dude was underhanded about pushing the abortion but at the end of the day they get to go their separate ways with no further attachments and nobody has to raise a kid solo. And now the foid can go get with that dude she wants to frick, everyone wins!

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What they call "emotional cheating" is actually just normal cheating without the s*x. They just make up a fruity term for it and keep the actual definition quiet so they can move the goalposts for what constitutes it depending on their emotional state for the day.

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No it's qualitatively different to physical, normal cheating in the same way that a compliment by an ugly guy should be called a different word than violent r*pe.

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stochastic r*pe?

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I don't believe in "emotional cheating." Emotions can't be quantified or clearly defined. They're vague and you can always shift the goalposts. But whether a :marseycock: went into a :marseyfans: is something that is very binary: either it happened or it didn't. Naturally foids like to avoid any hard definitions because then it allows them to move the goalposts at any given time to whatever they consider convenient.

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Any attachment put into question by "emotional cheating" is obviously not based on actual love :marseyshrug:

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What is though? How many couples do you actually know that could be described as being in love?

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A handful. Mostly those that wait until their 30s or longer for the serious relationship part. :marseyhearts:

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Is anal cheating?

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It depends on what you and your partner agree on. That's why it's so important to write up a notarized contract beforehand and get it signed in triplicate

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Sure the dude was underhanded about

Yeah, it was a nicely written main character. :marseywholesome:

So weird that the redditors didn't rally around Mr. Sigma. :marseyhmmm:

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If he really wanted to be "pragmatic" about this, the dude should have kept up the lie. After a month or two say that he'd considered their future together and realised he didn't want one. Suddenly there's no trick, no unnecessary shame, and the same outcome occurs.

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I disagree. He should’ve served her right as she’s walking out of the clinic for maximum drama.

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Nah frick that. Tell her to her peepeehole you wanted to abort the kid, refuse to elaborate, get a divorce.

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It wouldn't be bait if the character in it did what you've described, duh

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It's a fruity term because it's something that women care about almost equally to physical cheating, while men don't. Still fricked up as heck either way.

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it's something that women care about almost equally to physical cheating,

Only when men do it, or they need to justify themselves actually cheating - "well, I've been emotionally cheating with so many people already and he doesn't care, might as well start fricking."

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How about you learn how to respect yourself and your partner instead of justifying your cheating ways? Cheating is never okay, no matter what your reasoning is. If you can't be faithful, then end the relationship before you hurt the other person even more.

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Shut up

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I'm not going to shut up just because you tell me to. I have a right to express my opinion, and you're just going to have to deal with it.

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Frick you moron

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That's right, tell those foids off for being cheating sluts.

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What a charmingly misogynistic thing to say. I'm sure all the women in your life just adore you.

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What is it like being a king amongst pawns?

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I don't know what it's like to be a king, but it's certainly better than being a pawn. Pawns are nothing more than expendable resources to be used by others to achieve their goals. They have no power, no voice, and no choice. Kings may have to make tough decisions, but at least they get to make them.

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Thank you for sharing your wisdom with me on this day.

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I didn't know you were looking for wisdom today. How convenient that I had some to share!

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BIPOCloving fbiminion BIPOCstrag keep yourself safe

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First off, "emotional cheating" is some foid nonsense

no it's not

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She just got rid of a clump of cells, why are the Redditors so upset? :marseyhmm:

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That's just a parasitic lump of cells.

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isnt the argument on whether it's human or not? no one disagrees that it's alive. it's like killing a chicken from my moral perspective.

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So vegetarians can't get abortions? :marseyhmm:

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If they were morally consistent yeah. In reality, people feel different about killing 1 "chicken" that they made themself vs torturing & killing 9 billion chickens a year.

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The frick? I wouldn't kill a chicken I personally "made", it's MY chicken. Also I'm not consuming 9 billion chickens a year singlehandedly

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not consuming 9 billion chickens a year singlehandedly

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I know, I'm a filthy lanklet :marseysob:

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So you aren't cut out to be a farmer huh

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Her body her choice, I don’t see the problem :marseyshrug:

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Unironically this. I am also gonna call out the r-slurred rightoids in my other comment but also unironically this both sides are genuinely r-slurred about abortions.

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Deez hoes need to do a better job swallowing these clumps of calls if you ask me

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I wouldn't lie. I would mention the child would have two parents who hate each other and want nothing to do with each other isn't optimal. That being a single parent is very hard, and there will be no change to the prenup.

Are you even a parent?

Thats not your business, and has no relevance to the question at hand

Friendly reminder that if you ask for advice on the internet, this is BEST case scenario

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Bbbbbb tier response

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Killer-BBBBcel(l) strikes again

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Thats not your business, and has no relevance to the question at hand

This should have been the 2nd answer, not the third.

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Never ceases to amaze me how rabidly redditors defend foids.

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their thirst is palpable

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Every redditor defending a foid has contacted a foid at least once through reddit dms hoping to score a hookup.

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Ive done this once but it actually worked, cringe or based?

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having s*x with a redditor

100% cringe. Might as well have s*x with a dramanaut at that point.

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Give us the deets.

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Relationship subs are like Marxist subs, they both believe reddit posting is praxis and their way to change the world to foid are eternal angels who can do no wrong. And they take this duty very seriously.

And than you have the moids neurodivergent enough to hang out there who believe anything mlady says.

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Hi

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I agree 100%. This is one of the most disturbing posts I've ever read here. If your wife wanted the child but you tricked her into getting an abortion you're really close to a fricking murderer, and I'm as a pro-choice as they come. Wow.

so is abortion murder or not? i'm confused here

For you. You may have mentally fricked her up for life. Women who have abortions can have mental breaks or even suicide attempts.

sounds like abortion should be strictly regulated to prevent women from hurting themselves, because by this description it sounds really dangerous!

Heck, i'm a pro choice heathen but it's hilarious how quick people flip on a dime from "a clump of cells, no big deal to the baby or the woman!" to "you literally committed murder"

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They 100% believe the difference between human baby being murdered and parasitic clump of cells being removed is whither the mother wants it or not.

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"Emotionally cheating" lol zoomers are fricked.

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:zoomer: u think im bussin' like flussin' fr fr no cap?

plinkity ploo sksksksk fam :!zoomersoy:

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what does that even mean? she was flirting with some hotter dude and was gonna cheat sooner or later

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Lol metroid awesome

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30 year old zoomer

Lmao millennials are pathetic

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Emotionally cheating

That's what your toxic ex said when you interacted with anyone except her.

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I've heard gen X use this loaded term before

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Fricking based if true. Everyone responding be like -

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At no point in this does he say "Getting this abortion was something that bothered her". From the context of the post for all we know she was perfectly fine with it except for just wanting to have a kid and had no ethical qualms against it at all.

But of course we have to assume the worst, that this foid was traumatized and scarred by this abortion, not because they care about her but just because assuming so allows them to make the guy look even worse.

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It’s shrodingers abortion. If the man pushes for it it’s horribly scarring and will frick her up for life. If the woman chooses it, it’s nbd and nothing more than getting a tapeworm removed.

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"You're not willing to coparent a child that might not even be yours together with your narcissistic whore wife? Bro, what's wrong with you? You sound like a sociopath."

:#soyreddit:

Just your daily reminder that not only are many Redditors spineless cowards who are unwilling to stand up and fight for their own happiness and well-being, but they also actively try to tear down anybody who isn't willing to be a doormat like their own pathetic soy selves.

This poster is a true chad and I hope he lives on forever in the Hall of Fame as somebody who took direction of his own life instead of trying to live up to other people's expectations and just allowing life to happen to him.

And by the way, this is exactly why we as a society need to embrace the concept of financial abortions. I was thrilled about the repeal of Roe vs. Wade because now self-centered foids know exactly what it feels like to not have any say in whether they have to be a parent or not. If foids are too selfish and unempathetic to support parental choice equality for men, then they absolutely deserve to get their own parental choice rights stripped away. Remember, it's stupid to have empathy for people who don't empathize with you.

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I oppose Abortion generally, but Liberals' lack of support for financial abortions shows it's not about "Choice" and their pro-vaccine mandate positions show that they don't give a shit about "Bodily Autonomy" or anything like it. Their support of Big Tech, "Contact Tracing" via GPS phones, and mass surveillance shows they hate the very concept of Privacy.

What is it really about? Killing babies for Satan. What else could it be about?

TRANS LIVES MATTER

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I agree with you. Liberal "principles" are almost always about "How do I get what I want" and they discard those "principles" the instant it would result in them losing out rather than getting their way. Even the way they define "racism" is explicitly designed to ensure that white people can never be the victims, so it's insane to think that they genuinely care about preventing racism. If they did, then they would define racism in a way that protects everybody, not just minorities and special interest groups.

If somebody claims to have a principle and they're not willing to stand by that principle even when applying it consistently would be detrimental to them, then they don't really have any principles at all, just "positions of convenience." And a person without strong principles isn't really a human being, just a soulless flesh automaton. Why wouldn't a monster like that kill babies for Satan? Unprincipled people do whatever it takes to get ahead, so it makes perfect sense that if Satan offered them a good deal, they'd take it.

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>yeah bro just co-parent the child with your whore wife! I'm sure that won't take a toll on you and be a burden for the rest of your entire life!"

Reminds me of a girl I went to high school with. She posted on Facebook bitching about how the state put her soon-to-be-ex husband as the father on her kid's birth certificate "even though we all know he AIN'T their father" and this was "a headache i don't need right now"

So the divorce took over 9 months (how? Neither of you have any assets) and now you're upset because Presumption of Paternity statutes penalize women for being cheating whores.

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and this was "a headache i don't need right now"

Doesn't that mean she can go after him for child support? Why would she be mad about this?

Neither of you have any assets)

Oh that's why she's mad

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At least where I live you have to sign papers in the court that you’re separating and then a full year later you can officially get divorced, even if there’s no assets. Any attempt at reconciliation resets the clock.

Source: my first marriage

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I checked for my state. Looks like filing for separation is enough to prevent him from being listed, so she has nobody to blame but herself. Nine fricking months (or more) where you knew you intended to leave, but did nothing about it

>A man is presumed to be the natural father of a child if any of the following applies:

>(a) He and the child's natural mother are or have been married to each other and the child is conceived or born after marriage and before the granting of a decree of legal separation, annulment or divorce between the parties.

It really comes down to the interpretation of "conceived or born". A child can be conceived before separation but born after.

I'm guessing the conceived is for the case of stillbirths / failed pregnancies and any tax credits that go with it; the presumed father is linked to the fetus

Idk I'm not a lawyer

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It’s more about making sure someone other than the state pays for the child. She might be complaining now, but that dude is way more fricked. Unless she’s nice and let’s him remove himself, he’ll be paying child support for a kid that isn’t his for the next 18 years (more if the kid goes to college). It won’t even matter if he gets a paternity test and proves he isn’t the father.

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Well she died two years ago so :marseyshrug:

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Let me guess. Overdose?

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I assumed so, but guess not. Died suddenly at 32 of natural causes in a hospital. This was in 2020 so probably blamed on covid

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"natural causes" that were in no way aggravated by an unhealthy lifestyle, I'm sure.

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"Emotional cheating" is straggot :marseycope:

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And this really is a strag issue. Seen any homo couples where one of them starts :marseymalding: cause the other one paid somebody a compliment? No wonder gay marriages last longer.

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Neighbor dodged 18 years of paying child support, i dont see no issue

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Funny seeing the reddit masses here all of a sudden go for the life at conception path when it was the man who wanted rid.

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He genuinely did nothing wrong.

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:#marseygoodnight:

But also it’s kinda evil to kill ur baby just to get back at ur whore wife. But that’s not what these r-slurred redditors are pissed about so frick ‘em

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No, it's based.

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Good for the guy but aren't you r-slurs supposed to be anti abortion instead of celebrating this or is this more proof on your end that abortions are actually about controlling women and as expected have frick all to do with actually valuing someone else's kid because that's cuck behavior.

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I'm just a contrarian tbh for most things.

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Im not anti-abortion I’m just pro drama

Don’t ever make false wing-cuck accusations

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Who here is pro life

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Well, it depends on who I'm talking to

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This site is populated mostly by r-slurs. You do the math

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loads.

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Decent bait attempt, I'll give you that.

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B8? Just because it made you seethe on Rdrama doesn't always mean it's bait. Sometimes you people on both sides of the aisle are unironically r-slurred for people looking in from the outside.

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Lol good bait dude

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I hate women and love murdering the most innocent and defenseless. What’s not to celebrate? Also, this is obviously complete fiction anyway and op needs an invite to rdrama.

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:#marseyfans:

Snapshots:

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One of the biggest arguments redditors use in favor of abortion is if one the parents isn’t going to dote on and love the child to death. Really they say no kids unless their environment is totally in an unachievable perfect state.

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So, how did he trick her?

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With a rube Goldberg abortion machine that was both whimsical and violent

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Now i want the video

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It's basically peewee Herman's breakfast machine but with a fetus instead of eggs

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He didnt do nothing wrong. It was her choice.

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Unironically the more I stay on the internet I think women will always play the victim, sure 70% of the time they are but we def need to talk about the 30% of flaps ruining it for the rest, they act like children and should have their rights restricted due to it.

/full unjerk

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The rightoid in me is conflicted - on one hand, he got away from a cheating foid, but he had to murder his own (or at least a) kid to do it. Cringe on that basis.

I suspect the reddit leftoids are similarly conflicted in the opposite way lmao.

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The frick is "emotionally cheating?" Did she get fricked by the other guy or not?

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You could generate a lot of seethe by pointing out to the redditors that this situation could have been avoided if only financial abortions were legal.

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don't act like you got her aborting the pregnancy because it was better for the kid nah it was better for your wallet.

It was better for both.

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Emotionally cheating isnt actualy cheating lol. Dude deserves the hate.

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