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33-year-old pays $2,100/month to live with 23 roommates in Brooklyn—take a look inside

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In a city as notoriously expensive as New York, it's common to see people in their late 20s and early 30s living with roommates to help manage the high cost of living.

But Ishan Abeysekera has taken that to the next level with his current living situation in Brooklyn: a communal building that he shares with a whopping 23 other people.

"When I say I have 23 housemates, people are like 'What? That sounds wild,'" Abeysekera tells CNBC Make It. "But actually, it's quite nice."

The 33-year-old engineer lives in a space operated by Cohabs, a company that offers fully furnished bedrooms and communal living spaces for stays as short as 6 months or as long as a year or more. In addition to locations in Manhattan and Brooklyn, Cohabs has properties scattered across European cities including Madrid, Paris, London and Milan.

Abeysekera actually didn't set out to have so many roommates — or any roommates at all. When he first moved to New York City from London in late 2022 for work, his job put him up in a one-bedroom apartment in Manhattan's Financial District.

When he set out to find his own apartment, he looked all over the city for a one-bedroom that would fit into his monthly rent budget of $2,000 to $3,000. On a whim, he looked up communal living in Brooklyn and came across Cohabs.

When he went to tour the available room in Crown Heights, Brooklyn, he was immediately sold seeing some of the residents having dinner together in the dining area.

"How do you really meet people when you're new to a city? This seemed like a great way to do that," he says.

As a result, Abeysekera put pen to paper and moved in. He currently pays $2,100 a month for his room. His monthly payment also covers WiFi, utilities, household supplies, a weekly cleaning service and monthly communal breakfast.

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He initially had a smaller room for which he paid $1,850 per month — along with $1,850 due up front for his security deposit — but upgraded to his current space when the larger room became available.

The four-floor, 24-bedroom building's tenants range in age from 21 to 36. Each person has their own locker in the communal living area, and the six refrigerators have enough space for each tenant to have their own shelf for their groceries.

"Sharing a kitchen with so many people is completely fine," he says. "You have your own cupboard to leave your stuff in."

The building is complete with coworking spaces, an outdoor patio and a finished basement with a massive couch that can fit all the residents at once. There's even some gym equipment and number of ongoing building-wide exercise challenges.

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"There's so much shared amenities and space that you're never really in each other's way," Abeysekera says. "And everyone has their own space in terms of their own room."

Still, he admits that his current setup has "a lot of similarities" to living in a college dorm. But, he says, there's one key difference: "Everyone's a lot more respectful because they're more of an adult and more mature."

And just like some people you dorm with in college become friends for life, Abeysekera says he's formed strong relationships with people he has met through Cohabs.

"Being here has really helped me build a community and make friends," he says. "It's really enriched my life."

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Wtf I expected some IT techsupport "haalo saar don't redeem" guy. I didn't expect this

To start with, this guy isn't even from :marseytunaktunak: but from sri lanka?

>top of the class in structural engineering from Imperial College

>won an international prize in structural engineering

>worked for the last 10 years as a structural engineer

Why would these guys pay 50,400 every month when they have to wait in line to take a shower or poop (I guess they have designated body odor and pooping streets in sri lanka too)?

Are the lankanese the same as Indians? :#peperealization:

!chuds - living in squalor, filth and smell has got to be genetic among south asians. You could put Asians as a whole in that group because there are innumerable chinese and south east asian guys too living this way.

I could not live with more than 2 guys even if I was getting paid unless all of us had our separate bathrooms and exit-entrances. Living with 23 other people is just a retirement home for the advanced Alzheimer's club.

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velli lude dont lump us in with indians

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I thought you were throwing a srilankanese slur at me before I realized that was " very rude " :#marseyxd:

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i only know hindi slurs :marseydepressed: my racism isn't on the level of knowing sri lankanese slurs :marseysob:

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Give me some hindi slurs. Sri lanksans will definitely know them.

Unless they are pretending they don't know what the words mean like singaporeans do with malay:#marseysmug2:

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terima kit chod: your mother's vagina

chutiya: butthole, idiot, stupid person

madharchod: motherlover

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I have heard all of these in scammer trolling videos

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Yeah that's where I learnt them from lmao

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:#marseychudnotes:

Edit: I have heard motherchod (mothertoad :marseyrofl: ) in kitboga's scammer videos

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Just say you hate Indians and Muslims, you like Buddhist monks taking care of the Muslims, and flip flop on which side of the civil war you supported. Tada! You are Sri lanken now


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Even in the poorest nations in SE Asia people might live in extremely tight quarters, burn trash, and lack the best food safety practices but even the people here use bathrooms and have bidets/potty paper. @ObamaBinLaden :marseyindignant:

Asian dudes like to get drunk and pee in random places outside more than is customary in the USA but that's about it. Take notes and be a better racist. :marseychudnotes:

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Yes. You're all the same. Take pride in that bro. :#marseyxdorbit:

Also, the largest hindu temple is in se asia. You exported some good things too! :#marseywholesome:

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>catholic

>lives in se asia

Statistically you're a pinoy or indonesian but couldn't have guessed you a catholic jungle asian. @X you know what country this guy is from?

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AFAIK he's American lol

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Yeah he told me. He's 'merican but lives in seA

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From my understanding Sri Lankans are generally more clean than their indian counterparts. Also helps being an island and not being as populated as India

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I know a sri lanken. She looks Indian. She sounds Indian with a slightly strange accent. She claims to hate Indians. Ever since moving to America, she is constantly assumed to be Indian. I think the main difference is the Sri Lankens think they are better than the Indians, but the reality is, they are just island Indians away from the mainland


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@MARFAN_EATS_DOODOO discuss bb.

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Real butt Indians identify first through religion/language/ethnic group before anything else. It's the 2nd+ gens in the west that do the whole generic "brown" conglomerate thing.

Anyways Sinhalese are basically just desis like Indians, Pakis, and Bangloids (probably genetically closest to people in Tamil Nadu and Kerala). We've just had to reinforce our identity because of the Tamiloid chimpouts (literal chimpouts, the Ramayana refers to Tamils as actual monkeys) funded by Indians all over the world and was basically created by India's RAW to destabilize us. Of course it epically backfired later because Tamiloids are Tamiloids but there's good reason for Sinhalese to hate the "Indian" label, even if most of us don't hate Indian people on average. Most people don't hate Tamils actually, we find their nepotism annoying and their tendency for insularity and inbreeding strange, but that's mostly it.

Also, we're one of the last bastions of Theravada Buddhism in South Asia after it disappeared from the mainland, and our priesthood holds itself responsible to maintain the Dharma as close to the original form as possible. Without our priests' intervention throughout history it's likely Buddhism in SEA would have lost out to Islam or Christianity.

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Tamilians failing to destabilise your country doesn't matter given how you guys did that yourself :#marseyxd:

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That's not true Muslims aren't Indians and I wish Biharis weren't but other than a slight partiality for my fellow Bengalis I believe all Indians are my brothers and sisters. :marseyembrace:

The Aryan Bengali coloniser genes and culture kept you away from the truly strange customs of the Dravidoids. You should thank me you know. :marseysipping: Will never get over how nonchalantly those frickers still marry between relatives till date.

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I meant genetically were basically Dravidians but yeah their culture is fricking weird to us. Apparently one of the most common pairings apart from 1st cousin marriages was the uncle niece marriage :marseypuke:

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The srilankanese did some bombings too in India because..I don't remember honestly (@Sasanka_of_Gauda help me out here).

They are just like the curry version of British temper tantrum throwers. :marseyir#alove::marseyir#alove::marseyir#alove:

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