bonus: corporate cucks give 1.4 percent of their bitcoin each year to middlemen for no reason.

https://old.reddit.com/r/fidelityinvestments/comments/1bewdro/31m_employer_401k_with_fidelity_and_opened_a/kuxgmz7/?context=8

For reference, the minimum wage for retail managers as per the general retail award is ~$27AUD or $18USD full/part time.

You may not think the same when you're in your 40s and still renting and still in retail. I wish I pushed myself more when I was younger . But everyone is different. You may be happy working your entire life in a job like that. +2

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Sure. Live a happy and stress free life now. Sounds like fun! Just don't b-word about it when you're 45 and wish you had better income, a house and thought about how you're going to fund your retirement earlier. -4

Your snarky bitchy comment ignores the fact that people HAVE to do these jobs otherwise society doesn't function. And they SHOULD be able to have a house and retire with ANY job . Go lick a boot. +4

y'see, they're right but not for the reason they think. our GDP would be fricking obliterated if the service industry stopped because we don't make anything

Do none of you have any darn ambition? I'd already bought my first apartment at 24. -4

evidently not

I haven't even watched it yet the thumbnail just made me lmao irl

I miss when this was a serious show about helping people!!!

Reddit is, of course, mad. Just from latest comments

!coomers

I fricking hate how firefox puts bullshit like this in my face when I open a new tab

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As always, nothing makes !peakpoors seethe harder than telling them to live within their means.

This post reeks of privilege portraying itself as advice. [+65]

Explain [-10]

It just seems like someone who didn't work a job til after college, had their entire expenses paid for and had their parents help them with a down payment on their house preaching about finance, it's hysterical.

Majority of the case, your finances are an indicator of your upbringing. It's not the rule, but usually in the case I mentioned, that person didn't do anything special, they just had parents who helped them out. But because they did well, they want to convince themselves that they're just more responsible. Especially with the last gripe of “don't live on govt/others”, it's pretty clear you're incapable of considering any case where you do need to rely on government/others.

My parents have both been on disability since I was 16. My mom has had 2 strokes, and my dad had a really bad work injury and suffered moderate brain damage. Both of them are now incapable of working. So what do you consider they do for income instead? [+35]

1st gen cuban american. I've worked since I was 14 and my parents only gave me food and shelter. I paid my own way through college and bought my own house at 23 (funding the down payment myself).

I'm glad your disabled parents had govt/taxpayer support. Obviously disabilities might require some form of govt assistance, which is why those programs exist. My advice remains, whether one is disabled or not. Live below your means, work more/harder (as much and as hard as your mind/body can) to provide for yourself and your loved ones to the best of your ability.

Haters gonna hate. Whiners gonna whine. I prefer to suck it up and improve my lot no matter my circumstances nor my limitations. [-20]

Ah, classic machismo. You just proved their point. [+15]

This is just self righteous, mental masturbation. Just put it in your journal next time.

Personal responsibility is a dirty word on Reddit

Spoken like a nepo-baby who got a "small loan of a million dollars" handed to them.

This isn't educational, it's abundantly ignorant to the reality that much of the population is facing.

We have hundreds of thousands dying in poverty. They are not "living above their means" and people who rely on the government don't have a choice. This idea that it's "optional" would be hilarious if people weren't actively dying because they are unable to afford basic necessities for survival.

https://www.usnews.com/news/health-news/articles/2023-04-18/americas-4th-leading-cause-of-death-poverty

We need to be expanding these programs right now because the current state of poverty in the US is unacceptable and it's been getting much worse with inflation.

In that article you posted they didn't talk about how poverty is actually killing people, they just kept saying that it kills and says it's the 4th leading cause of death but yet accidents are the the 4th highest.

I'm gonna be real with you, if you need someone to spell out for you how poverty can be detrimental or life-threatening you might be r-slurred.

Employee approached me crying, asking if he could park his car in our parking lot overnight and work late “to stay warm”. I asked him what he meant and he told me that he hasn't been paying child support so 100% of his next three paychecks would be garnished and now he couldn't afford rent and was planning on living in his car.

I told him that I wouldn't allow any of my employees to be homeless so I gave him a $6000k interest free loan to pay all of his child support at once, so his paychecks wouldn't be garnished and he wouldn't be homeless.

Then we sat down and I helped him form a budget so he wouldn't have this issue ever again (he makes nearly six figures, just financially illiterate)

Four week later, he requesting PTO because he's flying out of state for a little vacation.

How do you go from on the verge of homelessness over unpaid child support to buying a plane ticket and taking a vacation four weeks later? Wtf man? Why can't people just be normal?

Edit: $6k my bad yall!

I also personally know the guy, he's a good dude just a little deep on the goofy spectrum.

Supposedly the money is being pulled from his paycheck so OP might eventually get paid back. There's some back and forth about whether or not child support can take your whole paycheck. Other manager stories dealing with poors.

One time I had an employee come to me sobbing that he was unable to buy groceries for his family. I spoke with my superiors and we agreed to help him out. I went and bought $500 worth of groceries and we filled his fridge and cupboards. Lots of shelf stable stuff that would last a long time. Beans and rice and stuff.

About a month later he was super excited telling me about the new vr headset he bought. A couple weeks after that it was the airsoft gun he bought to go play with his friends. Couple more weeks on he's showing me the puppy they're going to buy. He didn't understand why I didn't seem excited about the puppy, so I laid it out for him.

Haven't been willing to help an employee in that capacity since, unfortunately. I will show them compassion and even leniency for things like attendance when they're having a hard go at things, but I've learned that that has to be the extent of it.

I had a staff member give me a sob story on how they have to have surgery but do not have enough PTO to cover their surgery. She was very upset since the surgery is not optional and she didn't want to lose her job. I felt bad and donated 40 hours of my PTO to her so she could take the time worry free. Two weeks later she went on a weeklong vacation...

My dad used to give our payroll advances for situations like this semi-regularly. At best, the person just ends up coming back for another one as soon as they paid off that one. At worst, then end up quitting or needing to be fired for cause before it's paid off and we have to garnish it in its entirety in their final paycheck, which usually pisses them off more and some have gotten violent. Even worse, sometimes their final check isn't enough to cover it and we either kiss it goodbye or have to pursue them for it with threat of legal action. I've made him add the stipulation that it has to be taken out of the next check for whatever pay period we're in and cannot be greater than where their takehome pay is at the moment they're asking. Doing that, we've been able to help people that just had a very rare shortfall for rent or something like that so they don't have to go to a payday loan place while also keeping away the people that abuse it.

As everyone mentioned you got played, sorry.

It took me knowing someone who was "always broke " over 10 + years...at first it made sense, they were supporting a lot of kids, no degree and few jobs to accommodate the schedules for various kids and pick up drop off being sick etc...but then she attached herself to a guy who paid big bucks.. and I had hope for her, they got bills paid off, a nice house, help with the kids...except now with the change in support and schedule she continued not to work by choice (no medical issues). Annnnd then came the (in my mind unexpected) money choices...new cars, lots of new tech and junk for her and the kids...then we learn the mortgage is behind and they used COVID as an excuse to blow it off...despite making the same amount of money throughout...dude made 2.5 times more than me and she started asking for help with bills...they scammed medicaid/snap/wic etc and got found out and had to pay it back and got banned for life from receiving benefits.

Long story short she had already fricked her credit and fricked his...got him to quit 3 years before he could retire and cash out.. when the money ran out she ditched his butt.

So I say this: she could get a million dollars and still be broke within a month. It's pointless to give her money because she won't learn. I remember one time hanging out and Bill collectors were calling and they both acted irritated with the people for bothering...she doesn't see this as an obligation to pay back just another free paycheck. Sorry OP.

I own a travel agency, and I've seen the other end of this. His vacation is very likely being covered by a relative or it was purchased before the garnishment was announced and was non-refundable. It's a bad look, and people assume that someone like this is playing them, but it isn't necessarily that they have played you. Just keep this in mind as you move forward.

Travel agent's still exist Also

Why do people here .. ?

You show people a way they can save a lot of money eating out (apps, save 50% or more)

So they lecture you that instead of eating out you should spend hours shopping and making everything from scratch like you're some kind of a farm family Like, some of us don't like to eat out or do it for convenience?

Or, why do people eat out when poor people can't afford it? How about this: you might be too poor but some of us like to if that's okay with you!!

They do that to steal your data! Like, using credit cards or loyalty retail cards or when they have your email or phone number, They don't also get your data?

Natalie 22,

Christian 23,

Willis TX

Careers -

• Natalie - stay at home mom (2 kids)

  • First kid intended, second not

  • Not planning any more kids (later clarified to not planning any within the next year and a half)

    • Out of nowhere - "I could probably only go through with having one more kid, I almost died with my last one" timestamp

• Christian - restaurant manager

  • recently got a promotion

• Household income net $5200-$5400 a month

Finances -

• HELOC background

  • Christian's initial explanation timestamp

    • Was in insurance "for a while" "buying insurance leads" "living on a credit card"

    • 15'000 credit limit from chase at 18

  • "Why did we take out a HELOC" timestamp

    • Pay off credit card debt

    • Credit card bills were $600 a month minimum (later clarified to $900), saw his options as taking a HELOC or failing to pay them

• "He has a problem telling me no" timestamp

  • "I ask for things and he won't tell me we don't have the money for this"

• Overall - 5'161 in, 6'630 out timestamp

  • Higher last month to attend cousin's wedding in Oklahoma, they turned it into mini-vacation "went crazy"

• Don't create budget at the moment

• Pay-advancing timestamp

  • "Did you know he's pay advancing"

    • "I don't even know what that is"

  • His explanation is a little weird, I don't understand

• Cars timestamp

  • Toyota Sienna (21,281, 8.9%)

    • 549.50

    • Over 100'000 miles, banks will only do 48 months

  • He drives her old Toyota Corolla

• 32'419/32'500 at 12% timestamp

  • This is the HELOC

  • "Part of the reason it's so high is because we also had a second lien on our house" timestamp

• Credit card ($2'446 / 14'000) timestamp

  • Was paid off prior to last month, not any more, had car repairs on the Corolla because it wouldn't pass inspection without it

  • Lot of random spending lmao

  • Moid stop stops at the gas station for a bear and some chips nearly every day

    • Says there is a specific brand of Doritos he can't find at HEB

• His credit score is 750 post-HELOC

• Moid Affirmed Hair Removal timestamp

Basically most of the comments are saying the same thing.

>throw another $5 in cheap frick

I love how he has no problem spending $80 on the food but leaving a respectable $5 tip is out of the question. Congratulations instead of wasting $85 he wasted $80.

I mean if you're using $70 on food you might as well tip $5 at that point.

You are just figuring out why we say no tip no trip. Another $5 isn't going to break them and if it does they don't need to spend $80 for take out

If they can afford to pay all that, they can afford to tip. Fricking buttholes

If you can spend 80 bucks, you can give a tip or you can get it your darn self

Why would I do that if a delivery monkey is doing it for free?

you people are desperate. instead of taking $3 orders that ur basically breaking even on if not losing money why don't u get a job at McDonald's for $17 an hr lol

A lone voice of reason in a sea of

Somehow this post generated over 400 comments. Dashers be sneeding.

This whole thing is a non-stop snipes at each other over who's to blame for the disastrous state of their shared finances and bickering over long standing relationship issues. I've only timestamped a few things that really stood out. Girlfriend is a pothead, making 30'000 a year cooking at a nursing home. Boyfriend is some sort of maintenance tech.

His Section -

• "Why do you feel no obligation to contribute to the household?" timestamp

  • long discussion about how lazy she was not looking for a job, coming home to dirty dishes

• "Where's your retirement?" timestamp

  • Neither has anything.

  • "I don't think she's worried about it, her family's pretty well off"

  • "They bail her out, they bail her out a lot"

• He's borrowing constantly from Cashapp at 5% interest

• She finds out he's paying for OnlyFans timestamp

  • "This is why he gets away with a lot, because I don't even know what he spends"

  • He blames the age gap

• "I bought an Apple Watch" timestamp

  • It got stolen, he got an empty box

• He's a Cowboys fan

• He goes to the coffee shop every morning even though they have coffee at home

• Concluding statements (Caleb screeches at him for a little bit) - timestamp

Her Section -

• Loan timestamp

  • 730% interest rate?!

  • while they were separated over a year ago

  • "I need to pay it all at once"

  • Not making the $139 payments

  • "I want to stop and pay it all at once so it's not as much"

  • "Hasn't looked at it lately" doesn't know how much it is now

• Phone Loan timestamp

  • 150 loan paying back 1200???

  • Her phone under the boyfriend's name but she's been paying it

• Her job hunt failures timestamp

• Discussion over whether going out to eat is cheaper than groceries timestamp

• Justification for the Cowboys playoffs seats timestamp

  • They get berated again lmao timestamp

  • "You deflect on everything. You know know nothing about finances. You both have your own addictive tendencies. I don't think me making a budget would be helpful."

It's actually impressive how incapable and r-slurred these folks are