My main takeaway from this, a hypothesis that I've been developing since the first time I voted and was appalled about how our side managed to lose, is that the people running the Democratic Party don't want to win.
Look at how the Democratic Party works in South Korea. The they're hounding the current president's wife because:
Would be such a MILF but...
She's a weirdo.
She's into geomancy.
She believes that she's clairvoyant.
She accepts very small bribes.
She's childless. She doesn't hear the pitter patter of childrens' feet in her house, just the paws of cats. (Yes a female DP member actually this.)
The last president before that:
She might have been fricked by a cult leader in the 1970s. (Heard this one direct from a Korean ajumma.)
She's the lesbian lover of that guy's daughter (I've actually never heard any Korean say this but it's so fricking obvious I'm gonna say it now.)
She's always been controlled by the cult.
She sank a ship carrying 1000 kids as part of a human sacrifice to that cult.
She's childless.
It's not important how many of these things are true (it's a lot ). There's one pattern here to me that's really obvious: None of these things are ideological. They're things that would offend rightoids as much or more. That's what you do when you're trying to win. You try to appeal to the middle to join you and the other side to be so disgusted they stay home.
In America the Democratic Party would rather lose than do anything obvious like:
Call Trump an r-slur.
Call out Trump directly for adultery. (It's everyone's right these days.)
Call out Ivanka for being a literal whore. (Some GenX dem got really offended at me when I even said this on a message board.)
Cut ties with the Teachers' Union and appeal to parents. (You ever wonder why you're losing support among blacks?)
Drop the whole gun control issue. You lost on this long ago. Every time you bring it up you're (no pun intended) shooting yourself in the foot.
Say that you're against illegal immigration without using a bunch of euphemisms that us regular people don't understand because we didn't just graduate from Oberlin with a gender studies degree.
Block blatantly illegal mergers that directly effect consumers, like the one where all grocery stores in the western US are merging.
Do a publicity stunt on Columbus Day where you say something like "I won't apologize for America."
Insinuate that Lindsay Graham is homosexual.
Say that abortion is really bad but it shouldn't be illegal. (Remember when Clinton did this and won?)
Say that you're not "woke" and denounce "anti-racism". (Virtually everyone in America agrees with this.)
Acknowledge that blacks have been losing their jobs to illegal immigrants for a long time.
Reform the tax code so that ordinary people don't need to have so much stress about it. Blame the other side for stopping you.
Reform corrupt county sheriffs and judges so that you can't get held up by highwaymen in uniforms and given a ticket while traveling through hick towns. (The President can't actually deliver on this, but promise it anyway.)
Stop treating Cesar Chavez as the token LatinX you'll appeal to all Latinx through, because you're lazy and want a Martin Luther King of every minority and they're all the same.
Stop saying LatinX.
Call out Republicans for blocking every attempt to stop illegal immigration for generations.
Propose actually doing e-Verify.
Explain to r-slurs that building a wall was always a scam because most of the illegal immigrants come right through the gates and just overstay their visa.
Emphatically support nuclear power to combat climate change.
That's just off the top of my head. I've got better ones I can't remember right now, issues that neither party will address but are really important to the American people.
I've heard that the Democratic Convention in 1980 was already like this. By now it's terminal. The Democrats these days are a bunch of special interest groups tied together by intersectionality, which just means nobody can do anything because someone might be offended. It's an organization where most of the people don't give a shit if their party wins or loses because they'll keep their "activist" job either way. For the rest of us who are actually voting, that's not good enough.
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This is extremely topical because my foid and I just got in an argument, she told me she would have "ghosted me shortly after we met" if she had known earlier that I had voted for DJT in 2016, 2020 or that I planned to this year. I matter-of-factly told her it was not the same for me and that I figured she was a leftoid right off the bat because she had piercings and tattoos and colored hair, and despite all of that I chose to date her anyways. Not only did she get angry about me telling her I had successfully profiled her, she then (she was drunk) started getting really rude and upset and telling me that "the whole foundation of our relationship was built on a lie." She launched into a screed about abortion rights being important to her as a woman and about how DJT is gross and misogynistic and what not and about how that enables other men to act the same way as he does. To prevent crashing the car to give the rest of my brain cells an honorable death, I just turned up the radio so I couldn't hear her anymore and eventually after taking the hint she just fell asleep. No moral here, just bask in the bad feelings of what letting a dating app woman stay the night for half a decade gets you.
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All the !moidmoment discourse about how leftist women will just adopt your hoe scaring dissident RW politics when you date them makes me understand why those people are so fixated on no-fault divorce
Picking someone where every choice you make about your children isn't going to be an uphill battle seems like a good recipe for not causing a ton of resentment and divorcing, but idk, maybe the guy with the Greek statue pfp knows better
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!foidmoment
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Nothing good is ever easy
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Would you adopt my hoe scaring dissident RW politics?
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I'd hoescare you so hard you'd have to become the leftist girlfriend in the relationship
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And I was a Democrat most of my life so I could come up with the right policy positions.
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I am partially successful in the first part of what you said, she is redpilled on the kang issue and she is an absolutely massive TERF after years of my griping and moaning, however 2 issues I cannot get her to budge on are abortion and . The latter because, and I am not kidding, she has an admitted fetish for Jewish women.
And surprisingly we are not terribly far apart on anything else, especially child care. We pretty much have identical opinions on homeschooling, what clothing is age appropriate for them, what they should/shouldn't be allowed to play/watch and all of that. Her only condition on children is to wait until she's 30 to have kids which I am okay with as I'm not close to ready either. Also we are not married so basically the only thing we're concretely bound by is sharing a lease.
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That's awesome, I'm glad it worked out for you. I'm pretty sure Abby Shapiro was built in a lab for exactly that purpose tbh
One of my buddies says the "I'll just get a lib" thing but one day at work his coworker was talking about how cute it is her kids watch drag race with her and he was raging like SHE NEEDS HER KIDS TAKEN AWAY lmao. For me it just seems hard when one site thinks something is wholesome (trans kids or homeschooling or w/e) and the other thinks it's evil and jailworthy. If you're both normal and aren't RAHGHHHRGHASRG about everything it's def nbd, but being politics brained seems more of a default these days
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You know back in old boomer times we had this word "disagree" for times when your ideas weren't completely the same as somebody else's but they weren't doing the Holocaust or something so you don't have fight them. I'm not sure if that's being taught in schools anymore.
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You look at literacy rates and I'm honestly not sure what they could even be teaching kids if like half of them can't read
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I'm not Somalian I just clicked that one on accident when I was scrolling through them and decided to keep it, I am a genuine purebred mayo monkey
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Expecting obnoxious people to not pair up is very naive tbh.
These types like the energy of being with someone who is just as obnoxious and combative as they are.
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Hotness and Craziness are often linked.
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following this thread
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I've actually used this technique with my wife several, several times. Mostly with success too!
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It's not too late to pull a Chappaquiddick
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😴😴😴
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when are you going to learn that sometimes the women are right
too busy sucking trump's peepee to listen when your woman tells you that you're choosing trump's peepee instead of her needs.
you treat women poorly and don't deserve women and that's funny
many such cases. trump derangement syndrome makes chuds unfrickable and that's so funny
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Words words words you know nothing about me and nothing about my situation other than the specifics of what I've said on this thread. You didn't even read most of it apparently. Where did I display the behavior of treating women poorly? Where did I pledge my undying allegiance and admiration to the Orange Cute twink? I couldn't care less whether he lived or died and I would much rather vote for some boring corpo-shill haircut over him if I had the choice. But here are three facts you need to understand pertaining to this matter:
1. I will never vote for anyone who directly sucks the peepee of people who hate the fact that I exist (Every single radical Dem atm) so DJT remains the best option.
2. You must be r-slurred or just not pay that close of attention to internet lingo because Trump Derangement Syndrome refers to people like Fatrick Tomlinson that hate Trump so much they cannot think straight. Not people who like him/are voting for him?
3. And I have never had, nor will I ever have any trouble with women. I am tall, normal looking, not fat, I have a job, have a car, have a steady, clean place to stay, and I'm not a weirdo other than some mild to medium 'tism. I think you fail to understand how many males are resolute failures in this day and age and how far simply not being THAT goes towards getting a foid to stick to you like glue. You would be correct in assuming my life isn't perfect, I'm not one of these people who sit and work some nothing job at a computer all day and make huge bank, I am nowhere near the top of the company I work at. However something I can claim that you cannot (I know nothing about you but I will assume based on your intense sperging) is that buy and large I am a regular, normal person and I'm okay with that. I don't know what the frick is wrong with you but I'm sure if/when my current foid and I or another foid and I do get married I will have left this place and you'll still be here on rDrama watching the time left in your life tick down.
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I want more posts like this
!metashit comment about your awful relationships you think are normal
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Women will never understand what principled chuds sacrifice to be with them
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It's 4am and I can't sleep and it's on my post so I'll answer to the best of my ability.
I'm no relationship guru but If I'm gonna be Dear Abby I'd say:
From my experience, if she's hostile to you about some political/religious thing and keeps indicating that you're a bad person, this is a yellow alert situation.
If you try to explain to her that maybe you aren't that different and you could learn to understand each other and she doesn't want to, it's over. She's just playing with you and treat her accordingly.
I'm assuming that you're talking about what I guess you call it an "LTR" now? If this is some casual s*x thing then I'm totally out of my depth here and don't really give a shit.
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Yeah an LTR is the best way to describe it. We live together and have pets and stuff. We are not married and share no financial ties other than the bills and the lease. We both work full-time and share the gathering of the food and the chores. It's kinda like being married but having the cushion of knowing either of us could dip if one of us goes off the deep end. Which would probably be her considering, true to the "alternative" foid phenotype she's on a bunch of meds already.
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so you're not man enough to be a husband yet
she should kick you to the curb and when she does I'm going to laugh at your weak moid butt
you never grew up and I can tell because you're not married lmao
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Darn @HauntedCrack you got Impy all up in his feelings with this one. That heckin alt-girl qt3.14 should have been with HIM dammit! You don't heckin deserve her
@BWC I found the leftoid equivalent of chud interracial couple seethe.
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@hauntedcrack is a thin skinned BIPOC who blocks people because his life was so hecking hard :(((
Black trans lives matter
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Go on...
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HE GOT BULLIED SO HECKING HARD AS LE KIDDO THAT WHEN IT WAS CALLED OUT AS A SKILL ISSUE HE BLOCKED @StakeNegg
Black trans lives matter
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Linky?
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I've been with mine for 12 years and won't ever marry her. If she fricks up bad enough I can just leave and say we were only acquaintences. You're really clueless when it comes to foid management.
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Lel you're such a cute twink loser
Black trans lives matter
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Additionally, her outburst was out of character and she normally reacts with air through the nose and a shake of the head when I chud out about stuff. I guess her elevated reaction was because she was drunk. It had literally happened like an hour before I commented so I was a little bit miffed is all. Didn't mean to make it sound like a repeat issue.
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You shouldn't just dismiss things like that. I mean ffs look at me posting on this gay cat website. The only times you f-slurs see what I really believe is when I'm extremely drunk and am nice to everybody. You gotta work something out where you agree to disagree.
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This is a great relationship dynamic because neither of you have to vote
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!volcels lifefuel
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why would you tell on yourself like this boo
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Got to test the kitty first
Unless the personality is rancid, have to make sure she won't try and trap you. Which is not the case with my foid her outburst was actually an out of character moment
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