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How hard would it be to find a "friends with benefits" but only for cuddling (absolutely no s*x)? :marseyandmarcus: :marseyhmm:

I'm thinking it would be almost impossible. I remember someone making an app that was like Tinder but only for cuddling, and it got shut down because people would meet up and try to have s*x instead of just cuddling.

It sucks that people (let's be honest, mostly men) can't behave themselves. :marseygiveup:

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You might as well have a "just the tip" app where people come play just the tip.

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I have literally never heard of any woman believing that line. Maybe actual teenage virgins would fall for that.

Cuddling is different though, you're fully clothed and you can have non-sexual cuddle sessions.

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No one is falling for anything. They're just both excuses to get into position to have s*x while maintaining that you're not going to have s*x.

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I get it, my point was that at least with the "just the tip" excuse it makes sense why it leads to s*x, because you're in a s*x mindset and you're naked and doing something sexual.

Cuddling doesn't have to be that way.

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Oh you have autism. That's cool but you should lead with that when we're discussing social situations.

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Comes off as a meow alt without being foreign lol

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Why should I when everyone else on here is neurodivergent or r-slurred :#marseyautism:

I am low key r-slurred :marseyfoidretard:

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Wrong and gay

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Sounds like you've never had a long term bf/gf if you've never had non-sexual cuddle sessions.

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I literally just got done fricking my fiancee and showering together but okay liar

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So you're telling me you two have never just cuddled together with zero expectation or need for s*x?

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It's not an expectation, it just happens because we're human and our genitals are in close contact, sorry you're ugly??

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Yeah I get that but EVERY time? I don't buy that, not unless you guys are like in a long distance relationship and don't see each other much.

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I think an important distinction youre missing is that s*x may not always be involved but it sounds like s*x is always an option, which is different than a "platonic cuddle buddy" because any escalation is already denied.

Personally i like cuddling but i wouldnt wanna do it with someone that is adamantly against ever doing something more intimate than that with me

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No it's every time, we see each other 4-5x a week. Sorry you're boring with a low libido???

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