Hysterical foid who opened up her relationship gets buttmad when her moid finally snags some kitty and whineposts about it. Even the foids at Twoxindia are having none of it.

Years down the line, we discussed opening up the relationship. This was during corona and there were a lot of life changing events that happened which caused us to talk a lot. He always said that he feels inferiority towards me since I’ve had 5 partners before I met him and him only 1, which he called “inexperienced”. I always reassured him that he’s more than enough and I’m very happy. But I didn’t want him to regret it years down the line and I thought why not yolo too, so we “opened” our relationship

Sure

There he met this female coworker who he said came onto him straight away. He told me on every other day that “oh she asked if I’m in a relationship” and “she asked if I’ve never cheated, and how’s that possible” 😐 and apparently asked to see a picture of me etc. I didn’t get a good vibe and told him that but I don’t know her and didn’t want to judge her unfairly

Foid detects her moid possibly getting closer to snatching some poontang and tries to discourage him by citing "bad vibes".

Then he said this morning that he’ll be home from work an hour later since he is going on another walk with her to talk it though. He was more than 1.5 hours later than he said, and I started getting paranoid. I went on find my iphone(I know I shouldn’t, believe me when I say that this isn’t something I’ve felt compelled to do since the very beginning of our relationship where I didn’t trust him yet) and saw that he’s in a wooded forest area. I freaked out and started texting him, he didn’t reply. I called him, it rang out twice and he picked up on the third call(he always replies/answers immediately). I asked him where he was, he said I’ll be home soon. I asked if he’s still at work and he said yes. I immediately cut the call. I saw that he was at the spot for 20 more minutes before he left.

She hooked up with two guys but has a panic attack when her moid could possibly be getting down dirty with another foid lmao

We argued further about me telling him I feel like he broke my trust and he violated my boundaries.

Foid thinks there are boundaries in an open relationship

He then texted her saying he doesn’t think it’s appropriate anymore so hope that’s ok. She replied saying “I wasn’t looking for anything anyway, and tell your girlfriend she has nothing to worry about

Whoa an actually based foid!!

I then asked for his phone and saw that they were texting every day back and forth chatting, making plans etc. I was in shock and disbelief, and he kept saying this was just him making it clear that he wants to just hookup. I saw with my own eyes that they were saying how much they liked spending time with each other, talking to each other and updating each other on day to day and making plans to meet up, which according to him never happened(I believe him because he left for and came home from work on time). He also told me that she’d come into his office and they’d chat sometimes. I lost it and told him I can’t believe that he keeps on lying to me, to which he replied that he only wanted a hookup, where did he lie, I knew he was talking to her and he said he wanted to be friends with her etc. I told him he’s shattered my confidence in him and it’s over between us.

she literally can't believe an open relationship lead to her moid treating another foid like a friend. Aren't moids supposed to see foids as more than just a kitty?

This ho so stupid, even her fellow twoxers are dunking on her

WTF did I just read? And you’ll are 30? 🤦‍♀️🤦‍♀️

My head hurts reading this.

I don’t know of ANYONE in love, married or otherwise, who opened their relationship up. It’s done when the love has ended or fizzled out for one of them and the other wants to hang on for dear life so they strike this bargain. Then as soon as the partner who wanted to open it finds someone worthy, even if they aren’t in love yet - BAM.

I didn’t do it out of lack of love, the opposite. I did it because I didn’t want him to resent not having had experience which he complains about down the line.

Darling. It’s obviously not you who has fallen out of love. My statement wasn’t aimed at you. No matter what Andrew Tate and other incels says, men who love their women have no FOMO about banging other women.

Just stop.

You need therapy. Childhood wounds and the kind of family you had might be a factor in the lack of perception but this is not what real relationships are like.

Golden rule.

No one ask to open it unless it’s over deep down and they’d rather not break up.

Common sense from a twoxer

The stupid ho still tries to convince herself that opening up the relationship would somehow save it lol

You clearly are insecure and have alot of control issues but wouldn’t want to accept it. Even if it is just s*x it doesn’t mean someone will go in, bang and come out. You need to flirt, have a build up and take it there. If he had explicitly mentioned in the texts that he doesn’t want a relationship and the girl agreed then I really don’t see a point. You opened up your relationship so what is with this whole drama of getting fussy over text. If he is allowed to seek pleasure outside and it looks like it hasn’t been defined as to what the boundary of that open relationship is then how is it cheating? Honestly girl my one suggestion to you would be therapy. Stop projecting your insecurities on a relationship and you clearly don’t sound like someone who can handle an open relationship.

We had an agreement that we would only have casual hookups, which is what I did. Picked 2 random people on tinder and hooked up. I told him I’m not ok with having s*x with friends or family. He didn’t mention that, and he said things like “I love spending time with you, we should do this and that together, I love talking to you” etc. she never even hinted at having s*x and he led her on. I’m angry that he led her on, if like he says that he doesn’t care about her and would drop her anyway. I don’t think it’s ok to lead people on.

It was totally different because he texted her like they were friends or something .

One of the foids from the above thread make a post in the same subreddit which contains a brief mention of the open relationship ho and advices the other foids to stay away from polygamy. Said ho finds it and makes a sneed post in there too.

Yeah hello, you’re probably talking about my post. If it’s about my post, then I can talk for myself. Do not misinterpret what I said as my relationship ended because we opened the relationship and my partner acted on it. You’re projecting your own ideas about non monogamy onto other peoples relationship. blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah seriously this shit goes on for way too long :marseylongpost:

And this starts a minor catfight in the comment section

The fact you felt everyone else is mad - speaks volumes about yourself no?

lmfao, the majority opinion isn't always right. this has been shown throughout history.

lmfao, the majority opinion isn't always right. this has been shown throughout history.

Ah, nice of you to point out that democracy rests on the shoulders of the wrong. That kind of ego, comes from a blackhole of inner life, to imply fascism so casually.

So you agree that Patriarchy is okay because most Indians agree with it? Lmao

So you agree it’s ok to first lack comprehension skills and then makeup for it by forcing implications that someone isn’t making?

Self report? You did just that by misrepresenting /u/Extension_Waltz2805's post.

Lol 😆🔥Got her

Holy fricking shit why are women so utterly incapable of being funny, I've seen better bantz in the comment sections of fricking 9gag memes. This is what counts as "comebacks" and "snark" to them.

Anyway the ho is a pretty interesting character. She's a sexy Indian dudette who posts in vindicta complaining about the yuropoor beauty standards so you just know she is a special case.

She has also went under the knife and is also currently thinking about going under the knife again, so add in a healthy dose of insecurities and an inferiority complex too. I deduct it won't be long before she starts posting in gonewild subs looking for validation, so I'll keep an eye out for it.

Diagnosis: Histrionic Personality Disorder