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I used to spend my god darn days smoking weed and tanning my hot body on different costa rican beaches and now I'm a depressed overweight shell of my old self that cries everyday wishing she could crawl back to her old life.

https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/14139k9/ruined_my_life?sort=controversial

That sub is a goldmine

OP is a trainwreck, good writeup here

I've been lurking this sub since I found out I was pregnant. Long story short, IUD baby.. husband pressured to birth baby even when I sobbed for an abortion.. gave in to exterior pressure from family and friends that "I would fall in love once it was here" FRICK NO. And frick every person who blamed hormones for my feelings. Anyways I was 27, had already graduated college, lived abroad a few different times, fresh into my new logistics career and I loved my husband. I was always a generally happy person, bubbly and excited about living every morning.

I lost everything after having a baby.. it started with my body, then my friends, then my autonomy, then my sleep, then my happiness and with that I lost my marriage, my sanity and my will to live.

I never wanted to be a mom. I always thought babies were extremely boring, toddlers were dirty and annoying and I never experienced any type of baby fever. I wake up every morning hearing him cry and all I can do is grit my teeth, here we go again. Endless cycle of crying, feeding, bathing, changing until it's bedtime and I'm to drained to eat anything after eating half a banana the whole day. I used to spend my god darn days smoking weed and tanning my hot body on different costa rican beaches and now I'm a depressed overweight shell of my old self that cries everyday wishing she could crawl back to her old life.

My advice to anybody on the fence or currently pregnant, just don't do it. Stay child less and enjoy your life please.

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I'm to drained to eat anything after eating half a banana the whole day


now I'm a depressed overweight

:#marseysurejan:

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:mars#eydrunk:

don't underestimate liquid calories

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sugar IV

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That sentence instantly clocked her as a fattie. Only fatties boast about "how little" they eat. Normal people never talk about it because they think not gorging themselves everyday is normal.

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baby is 11 months old for context

but three months ago, she's happily living the pampered life of a new mother / social discount code slinger with the hubby: https://old.reddit.com/r/starbucks/comments/10y3nf8/the_hostile_change_towards_star_rewards_may_be/j7z7rxh/?sort=controversial

My husband got me the Vertuo Next to stop my starbucks addiction and it worked 😂😂 If you decide to purchase from the Nespresso site, the machines are on sale right now and you can stack my code for an additional $40 off and a free pod dispenser! my code is 5TAE4T 🫶🏼☕️

and then she gets salty that she's not getting a new car, even though she's a stay at home mom with a loaded husband who pays everything for her https://old.reddit.com/r/askcarsales/comments/1146z5t/how_to_buy_a_car_in_february_2023/j8wispk/?sort=controversial

My husband was in an accident in his paid off GMC Sierra, he got about $15K from insurance so we finished paying off my Ford Escape ($8K) and after some catching up we had about $6K left to play with. This man went with a 2019 Ram Limited 2500 needless to say it was very expensive. $72K ($110K after financing) Point being this is exactly how our process went, almost scary accurate! I wish I would have read this about two weeks ago because now I'm getting major buyers remorse.. he makes pretty good money to the point where I don't work and we still have flexibility for fun stuff but our payments are about $1200 which seems crazy high to me. Things are getting paid but I don't know if I should bring up to my husband that I wish he would have gotten something cheaper? Even in the $30K range would have been fine 🙃 I'm also salty because my Escape is a piece of junk and was hoping we could upgrade both cars to something decent instead of just him to a super truck. Am I being selfish and should I just let him enjoy/worry about it?

she even dunks on the doors a month ago in a deleted /r/childfree comment https://old.reddit.com/r/childfree/comments/13a7k1k/kids_on_my_street_making_my_life_miserable/?sort=controversial:

get your money up and move somewhere where they don't allow kids, brokey

then 2 days ago, the truth comes out that her friends have had enough of her... https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/13yqfcw/what_do_you_do_when_its_particularly_difficult/jmya1sh/?sort=controversial

love that you're doing this! unfortunately I lost all my friends, even the ones I had since 4th grade after becoming a mom so it's nice to see that maybe I just need to find new friends that are supportive. Oh and they don't need anything, they just need YOU.

10 hours ago is publicly admitting she wishes her husbands son were aborted https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/13wyi67/how_old_is_everyone_is_waiting_later_in_life/jmyad0a/?sort=controversial

27 graduated college, lived abroad a few years, well into my new career and thought I was ready. Boy was I wrong, I miss my pre-baby life more than anything. He's 11 months and I still wish I would have aborted him every waking day.

and then finally her husband has had enough, too:

I lost everything after having a baby.. it started with my body, then my friends, then my autonomy, then my sleep, then my happiness and with that I lost my marriage, my sanity and my will to live.

great find OP

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I love reading these posts by (narcissistic) stay-at-home moms who think their lives are so hard and challenging. Like obviously caring for a child full time isn't easy, but it's definitely better than working that 9-5 grind. Like if I was a trophy husband with nothing to do other than stay home and take care of the kids, I'd be going down on my b-word every single morning simply as a way to say thank you. But some of these ungrateful foids, you can give them a house and they'll still be bitching about why you didn't give them two

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but it's definitely better than working that 9-5 grind

It really depends on the job. It sounds like the work she did before she got pregnant was white-collar remote work. A lot of those jobs require expertise but are not necessarily stressful (and definitely not physically exhausting). Taking care of a kid full time is much harder in comparison. It's still "better" to take care of your own child full-time because you get to spend more time with them, but it's also a lot more tiring and requires real physical labor.

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>72k, 110 after financing

Jesus, on a 5 year loan that's 15% interest. Not surprised it's a Dodge

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That sub is full of terrible :marseyyinzer: people but this was a good deeper dive. Added to post :marseythumbsup:

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>avoiding the pizzashill award I gave you for being illiterate

:marseydisagree:

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https://i.rdrama.net/images/16857425099610343.webp

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Thank you for your service

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Lmao it's the first time I see this workaround for the pizza award.

I like seeing drama from these kind of subs but I'm never willing to browse them because it's just crab bucket all the way except the crabs are willingly asking to get inside the bucket. Makes me sad because I know someone like this

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yinzers btfo

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He's 11 months and I still wish I would have aborted him every waking day.

What a massive piece of shit. I hope her husband can get full custody of the kid. I'm worried this lady is gonna kill her son

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Honestly can't imagine being that selfish wtf is wrong with this foid

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https://old.reddit.com/r/regretfulparents/comments/uhu7av/frick_autism/?sort=controversial i found this in the top posts and i'm honestly shocked the undoubtedly neurodivergent mods there would allow this one through lol. overall the most depressing sub i think i've ever seen

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fetch new snappy quote please:

I’m tired of all the extravagant accommodations and never ending extra shit that goes into autism. We’re supposed to bend over backwards to children who only care about their immediate needs and themselves no matter what the frick anyone else’s needs are - and then we get blamed for churning out entitled buttholes.

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:!marsey#beandizzy:

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:#marseykingkrazy: Friendly reminder a /r/childfree user murdered his son by leaving him in a hot car, so this is a slippery slope as far as im concerned :#marseykingkrazy:

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Didn't they also give him advice on how to make it look like an accident?

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So many redditors are terrible at living. Having one baby was easy as shit. Even having multiple kids too young for elementary school was more manageable than this woman is making one seem. It is so bizarre that dramatards seem to be more functional than the typical redditor.

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babies are way less likely to hurt themselves than teenagers, you never know what dumb shit a 12 year old will do

if u you do all that baby care stuff on autopilot, they are pretty low stress


"let's smile at bright shiny objects and shit ourselves" :chadbaby: :!chadbaby: "actually I was gonna cry a lot"

"cool bro-- Oh look it's mom, she didn't dematerialize so we are safe" :chadbaby: :!chadbaby: "nvm, I found the baby wipe container and imma shove it in my mouth"

vs

"watch me ride my bike down this wooded hill" :marseyzoomer: :!marseywhirlyhat: "do it with no hands!"

"idk bro there's a lot of ice sheets maybe I should use my hands" :marseyzoomer: :!marseywhirlyhat: "baby!"

:marseywhirlyhat: "I warned him mom but he didn't listen" :marseyglancing::marseybattered:

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Dramatard supremacy

:#marseydramautist:

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For tens of thousands of years primitive humans successfully raised children despite every minor injury or illness having a 90% fatality rate.

Today when life has never been easier, and literal 80IQ welfare crackheads manage to raise 4+ kids to adulthood, redditors compare having one child to doing hard labor in Auschwitz.

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If an 11 month old has worn her out this much she's in for a couple rough years...

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/r/BreakingMom but extra white :#brookscringe:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/16859755939646287.webp

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That kid gon die

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That poor kid lol. RIP

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She just seems like a lazy r-slur. Why are so many redditors like that?

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They were never pushed to work hard for themselves. Their horrid selfish boomer parents probably spoiled the shit out of the as kids. Now they need to learn how to help themselves while balancing the stressors of an adult life.

It doesn't help that they dig themselves into holes by making the most dumbfrick stupid decisions like buying a 72k truck for 110k (lmao) just for commuting.

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skill issue

u should be able to change a diaper on autopilot after a while

when I was a teenager I took care of the babies my mom had and my mom just chilled but she got to yell cool things like "I HAVEN'T SLEPT IN [oldest siblings age] YEARS!" to make people move and then she'd fall asleep lol

sounds like she need more babies and it's a self solving problem in just 10 years

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>raising another man’s kids

It was never even going to begin

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:marseyhesright:

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I support this woman's right to bodily autonomy. I support her right to an abortion at any time, especially now.

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SIDS incoming

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I hope hubby divorces her, gets full custody, marries a hot piece of young butt he met at work, and leaves her broke and dead.

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Dude, weed lmao

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We're doing drugs. If i wanted to hear “don't do it man” or any other sort of social stigma about wanting to put meth in my butt I would have asked my mom what her thoughts were. Obviously if I'm ready to put meth in my butt and I want to know whether or not I should take a shit first, I've already made up my mind. It's going up there.

Snapshots:

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I wake up every morning hearing him cry and all I can do is grit my teeth, here we go again. Endless cycle of crying, feeding, bathing, changing until it's bedtime

Yes, that parenthood. When you enter it you literally have to go into the mindset that your life, your old life, is fricking over. There is no you anymore. Not until they grow up and have some semblance of their own agency.

Yes its lots of crying, yes its lots of whining, feeding, and waking up at 2am to feed. The teeth gritting when you're trying to rock the baby to sleep and he just does not fricking want to. You have to figure out techniques for your kids to redirect their frustrations and be distracted by something else.

But its frickin worth it when your now two year old picks up a wrapper off the floor and puts it in the trash when you say "trash" or when they run up for a hug and call your name when you come home. Or just seeing the world through their eyes and everything that's old seems new to you again.

But I guess you won't get that if you're a stoner babe used to treating every anxious moment with weed.

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I feel bad for the babby but rightoids really need to lay off the pro-natal propaganda and let Darwin do his job. This person was not fit to have children and her husband is an r-slur for pressuring it.

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