my bad, and i like just figured you had cleaned up today.
back story, and short story form
so my husband had a heart attack last year, and he quit work to recover, and he was really proactive in the first few months but eventually fell totally into a deep depression, and and along i stumbled with him
my heart is telling me his days consisted of beinge watching youtube, movies ect, and mine revolved around the kids, and like just taking care of them, and my depression got worse and along with it, the house, and clutter and disorganization now rule here
well my husband has started working again, light work, with a buddy of his but go off i guess
With today being his third day of work. Afterwards his buddy and his wife are dropping my husband off at home. To which my husband calls me, while out front and proceeds to say, "Hey they want to come in and say hi to the kids."
I immediately begin calmly freaking out saying "What the frick, what the frick your not serious are you?"
he says, yeah, whats wrong?
by this point i am near tears saying why??? what the frick is wrong with you??? why are you doing this to me??? are you serious??? no, and no they cant come in right now, and im sorry but no.
so i am mortally embarrassed, and ashamed and sick with my husband right now, and sick with myself over the state of my house
um when he finally gets inside (after telling them god knows what of why they couldnt come in) i ask him what the frick is going on and his reply is simply
my bad, and i like just figured you had clean up today.
He just figured in the 4 hours he's been gone that I was able to clean up 8 months* of depression clutter.
and these arent like just regular ole buddys, and no no no, and these are his our maids have maids wealthy buddys
i am still crying
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ok but it's one thing and I can kinda empathize if she had a bunch of toddlers (well not really you should still clean more than once a year ffs
) but her oldest is almost 18
even a 5 year old can be made to clean. just make your kids clean up after themselves or they get the back of a shoe wtf no reason why one person should clean up after an entire family other than spinelessness
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Yeah anyone with kids can see through this bullshit. Once mine got to 6 and 10 they were like totally autonomous and actually helped. Young kids are a huge drain but once they can fend for themselves it becomes infinitely easier. Of course this assumes a hysterical twox redditor who lets trash pile up has kids who are mentally stable (unlikely).
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My younger siblings in the 6-10 age range have an insatiable desire to destroy things and are embodiments of entropy.
The house constantly looks like a tornado went through it and my parents have dealt with it by working long hours so they spend the minimum amount of time home.
The youngest had its birthday recently and the others celebrated by breaking all of its toys the very next day.
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That just sounds lile your parents didnt raise the kids lmao
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You should let them watch anime with you so they'll have a distraction to prevent them from breaking shit.
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Stop grooming kids into a porn addiction/transitioning
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I don't watch anime.
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You know who you are.
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Keep yourself safe
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You first
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I wonder if the absent parents could have something to do with the kids being feral
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You have bad parents and they should feel bad
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18??? What the frick??
My mother would’ve killed me if I didn’t help clean at like 8
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She better mean 18 months
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