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my bad, and i like just figured you had cleaned up today.

back story, and short story form

so my husband had a heart attack last year, and he quit work to recover, and he was really proactive in the first few months but eventually fell totally into a deep depression, and and along i stumbled with him

my heart is telling me his days consisted of beinge watching youtube, movies ect, and mine revolved around the kids, and like just taking care of them, and my depression got worse and along with it, the house, and clutter and disorganization now rule here

well my husband has started working again, light work, with a buddy of his but go off i guess

With today being his third day of work. Afterwards his buddy and his wife are dropping my husband off at home. To which my husband calls me, while out front and proceeds to say, "Hey they want to come in and say hi to the kids."

I immediately begin calmly freaking out saying "What the frick, what the frick your not serious are you?"

he says, yeah, whats wrong?

by this point i am near tears saying why??? what the frick is wrong with you??? why are you doing this to me??? are you serious??? no, and no they cant come in right now, and im sorry but no.

so i am mortally embarrassed, and ashamed and sick with my husband right now, and sick with myself over the state of my house

um when he finally gets inside (after telling them god knows what of why they couldnt come in) i ask him what the frick is going on and his reply is simply

my bad, and i like just figured you had clean up today.

He just figured in the 4 hours he's been gone that I was able to clean up 8 months* of depression clutter.

and these arent like just regular ole buddys, and no no no, and these are his our maids have maids wealthy buddys

i am still crying

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also like man has heart attack, woman most affected

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Sweaty, this man is so toxic that having to spend more time with him while he recovered made the stay at home wife depressed.

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heart attack = sudo make me a sandwich

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There should be a codecel award that transforms your text to codecel speak

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100.times do

   puts "fuck off carp"

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while(1) :carpbackstab: ;

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During his recovery I did absolutely no cleaning and now he's gone back to work I am still doing absolutely no cleaning and it is his fault.

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:marseydomesticabu#se: I don't always suggest this but...

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This but unironically. Equality is lie. I feel there is a midwit meme somewhere in there

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Man is unaffected by hearth attack

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:marseyde#rp:

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I mean she should clean out of general hygiene but its wild that no one has noticed that he literally neeted around for months?

His days consisted of beinge watching youtube, movies ect. Mine revolved around the kids. Just taking care of them. My depression got worse and along with it, the house. Clutter and disorganization now rule here.

He has two hands and can move around. He should deffo clean if it bothers him that much :marseyshrug:

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The clutter doesn’t bother him tho, she is clearly ashamed of it however.

Heart attacks can make someone depressed but her depression is just foid neuroticism

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I mean it clearly bothers him as he expected it to be clean by the time he came back from work and wanted to invite his friends to the house

Either that or he is shameless and would be okay with presenting a dirty house to guests

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u been presley a fricking while now bb :marseyeggirl:

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Straggots still don't understand the average foid is a misandrist.

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