my bad, and i like just figured you had cleaned up today.
back story, and short story form
so my husband had a heart attack last year, and he quit work to recover, and he was really proactive in the first few months but eventually fell totally into a deep depression, and and along i stumbled with him
my heart is telling me his days consisted of beinge watching youtube, movies ect, and mine revolved around the kids, and like just taking care of them, and my depression got worse and along with it, the house, and clutter and disorganization now rule here
well my husband has started working again, light work, with a buddy of his but go off i guess
With today being his third day of work. Afterwards his buddy and his wife are dropping my husband off at home. To which my husband calls me, while out front and proceeds to say, "Hey they want to come in and say hi to the kids."
I immediately begin calmly freaking out saying "What the frick, what the frick your not serious are you?"
he says, yeah, whats wrong?
by this point i am near tears saying why??? what the frick is wrong with you??? why are you doing this to me??? are you serious??? no, and no they cant come in right now, and im sorry but no.
so i am mortally embarrassed, and ashamed and sick with my husband right now, and sick with myself over the state of my house
um when he finally gets inside (after telling them god knows what of why they couldnt come in) i ask him what the frick is going on and his reply is simply
my bad, and i like just figured you had clean up today.
He just figured in the 4 hours he's been gone that I was able to clean up 8 months* of depression clutter.
and these arent like just regular ole buddys, and no no no, and these are his our maids have maids wealthy buddys
i am still crying
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So wait, her husband nearly dies from a heart attack and had to take time off to recover, so because of this SHE falls into a depression and lets the house go to shit?
Then she freaks out when he tries to be friendly and invite his coworker in, because the house is such a mess, but she's perfectly fine with her and her family living in such conditions?
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I like how she framed it.
He's binge watching YouTube and she heroically takes care of the kids
Like he can do much more while recovering from a heart attack
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He literally has permanent damage to his heart and scar tissue on his heart.
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skill issue
no pity for moids
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Recovering from a serious near-death health issue is no fricking joke. Having to quit your job is pretty messed up for a man.
I'm guessing him no longer being the uber-provider set off some shit in her brain. House busy work is always the first what-are-you-doing-for-me thing
buuut he was probably out of shape already which is what caused the attack, no one likes a fat slob
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Yup. Witnessed it with my dad. Dude was a shadow of his former self for months before he could sloooowly start rebuilding some of his fitness. Take care of your hearts, kids
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I saw it on my dad as well. He had been working monday through monday for decades, when he had to take a year off to take care of his heart issues he went deep into depression
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His body gave up. He showed weakness. Even if he still had money. She would still get ick. Becouse his man is weak
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my heart is telling me least egotistical woman
!foidmoment
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H8s heart was tellinimg him ьжовякинодипазшпязопиджвянипеджпемативязжпапъфмйвяпjajdhe
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Yes. What is it so hard to get
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I guess the part where everyone is saying they're sorry for her, and her husband is a piece of shit?
I didn't know if I was missing something obvious that actually made her sympathetic
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World ended. Woman most affected
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