pickmeisha is as attention whore : As a women, body count matters

decided to check this lady's post history and found her whining about men dating younger women immediately:

Nah it’s because it’s usually predatory. Not always, but usually. It relies on inherent power dynamics that stem from traditional gender roles. These relationships are rarely based on mutual respect and equality. The normalization of men being attracted to younger and younger women is really just an excuse for thinking their behaviour is okay. It also gives men a pass, like it’s okay to hit on considerably younger women because it’s “natural” to find young women and even girls attractive. it was shocking and not shocking how many adult men approached me when I was a teenager and even more inappropriate were the ones who didn’t stop their advances after finding out my age. It was normalized in the sense that young girls know to expect it and have to learn to navigate it somehow. They are also conditioned into wanting this kind of attention from men, some embrace it, some succumb to it, some reject it. You can’t escape the attention so why not like it? Why not “benefit” from it? Why can’t it be consensual? Theoretically it can, and surely under the right circumstances it happens but a majority of the time… it’s easier to convince women you’re a decent guy when they don’t have much experience with men.

https://old.reddit.com/user/bakingisscience/?sort=controversial

If ya’ll realized blackness and black culture were born out of an effort to exclude black people from society and the wider culture you’d realize it’s not all that strange for them to want to manage their own events and celebrations. What do you expect? Black people to not rally around each other and their shared experiences? The funny thing is that this event probably was open to anyone who wanted to attend but people just don’t because it’s “for black people”.

Lol we found a guy who not only won’t wear a condom but also won’t take a male birth control pill, trying to argue that he shouldn’t hold any responsibility for himself and the biological material he leaves in other people. Is this why men’s pants come with all those pockets? To hold all that audacity?

she thought she slayed ^

https://old.reddit.com/r/TrueUnpopularOpinion/comments/q22joe/so_youre_opposed_to_abortion_no_problem_i_have_a/

If we didn’t have feminism I would probably have to marry some dude who shares a lot of the opinions I see on this sub…. The absolute horror.

But also to assume that attention women get from men is wanted in the first place. The older I get the less attention I get. Aging out of the male gaze is going to be pretty awesome for a lot of women. Having to prove you are more than your appearance is something women understand, I really don’t think this is news to anyone who isn’t OP. To act like they don’t have to think about things like this shows how little these guys think about women as actual people with actual interior lives and thoughts and desires of their own.

You try going without any positive attention for over a decade, let alone longer. The only times you even get noticed are when you’re being blamed for something, happen to be in the way and make a convenient punching bag, or when someone wants to swindle you. it’s not pleasant.

Assuming men are the only ones who go through this is ridiculous. As if women or attractive people aren’t taken advantage of literally all the time. Stop pretending you have a monopoly on misery.

Right back at you. And at least people give a shit about yours, even if only superficially. All we get is mockery, how we deserve worse, and scorn.

Women have support because women created a support system. We vent to our friends, we go to therapy. Men can’t even call their male friends at 3am to cry about their ex gf. Women compliment other women. Men can’t even ….how is it our fault? Go make a support system from other men! Women won’t solve your problems.

"men... pull ya darn pants up!"

When we do have support systems, they’re either taken over and redirected to support women or are shut down for not being inclusive.

Really? Give me an example, I’m genuinely asking.

There was a men’s shelter in Canada that the founder had to jump through endless contradictory loops of red tape for, all while being labeled a misogynist and every other label in the book no by the government agencies he was trying to get approval from as well as the media. Years of this drove him to suicide. And his death was celebrated by his detractors. His name was Earl Silverman. In less dramatic examples, every mens or boys club that I can think of has been either abolished or forced to become more inclusive to women/girls (which means the space is no longer conducive to male bonding.) there’s nowhere left outside of the extremely high end of professional sports, which, for obvious reasons, can’t accommodate for the rest of the men. And even there, they have to be on eggshells because of all the cameras and microphones on them constantly. There is no real place for the average man or boy left. Gaming, both video games and table top, have been neutered. Clubs are pressured to be inclusive to the point where they lose the activity that made them in the first place. The workplace is a nightmare. If you aren’t the best, and irreplaceable, running afoul of HR due to an anonymous accusation can see you unemployable for the rest of your life. And “just get better” isn’t helpful. The military is all inclusive now, and seems to be hostile to the young men they need to actually fill the ranks of infantry. There’s really nothing much left. And attempts to create new spaces exclusively for men are always denied, unless it’s to further emasculate men. And emasculated men do not foster male camaraderie or bonding. They undermine it.

I’m not in support of women being in the military because of the high rates of sexual assault. I’m not familiar with this story of men’s homes less shelter as I’m not Canadian but in USA here, male homes less shelter is very much a thing. They had to shut down boys scout due to sexual assault of little boys by grown men. Other than that I haven’t seen men’s space being take away here.

lmao