@TrapEnjoyer's comment on 'I'm asexual, s*x averse, and polyamorous. Should I ever meet guys like this I think I'll just lie and say I've slept with 50 guys instead of the truth, which is more like 3 people, zero if we are only counting PIV.'

I'm asexual, s*x averse, and polyamorous. Should I ever meet guys like this I think I'll just lie and say I've slept with 50 guys instead of the truth, which is more like 3 people, zero if we are only counting PIV.

https://old.reddit.com/r/confessions/comments/15v3cic/ive_had_sex_with_20x_more_people_than_my/?sort=confidence

Oh boy, another thread about body count :marseydeadhorse:

Just don't mislead him if he asks just be truthful.

He's never asked but I've told him that it's a lot more than his

Is he aware of the threesomes?

Yup

:#marseysurejan:

Check your misogyny omg. He doesn't owe him details on her sexual past wtf, apart from STI status everything else is irrelevant

:#marseyjeans:

You truly found a unicorn, you better hold on to him and treat him good because 90% of guys would have an issue with that.

In my experience 90% is way overshooting. I'd say more 20% of guys would have an issue and the rest won't care. You have to realize that the real world isn't Reddit or the comment section of a Fresh & Fit video. Most people have more important things they care about in a relationship and in life.

:#marseycope:

the western world. Almost anywhere else, it's a big deal

Right now, yeah. But the whole world is becoming more modern as we speak.

least delusional foid :#marseyfoidretard:

Never in my real life has this come up, but it the idea that people care about this sort of thing seems to live on Reddit

:#marseyhammersnoo:

I guess he's not insecure because he knows he's good

Not every guy is Adam 22. Don't think it can be chalked up to being secure/ insecure. If a man has a problem with how much you slept around it's probably because you're more or less a ho. And not some “small peepee energy” of being insecure

this exchange caused someone to post it on /r/NotHowGirlsWork

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Just unsubbed. Why is it I've never actually met any of these supposed men who hold body count in such esteem? Perhaps I'm just mad because if she's a 'ho' for 20 people (her pure chaste Chad knight has only slept with 2 including her) then I'm a whoreasaurus rex lol

>if she's a 'ho' for 20 people then I'm a whoreasaurus rex lol

what an unbelievable twist :#marseymindblown:

I almost wish I was looking to date again so I could ask a guy his "body count" and then act repulsed when it's above 10 or so 🤣

In the name of a friend being "slut shamed", I went on a date with the man who shamed her. He said he "picked me because I was more chase". I worked "So what's your number" into the conversation. He started to brag about experience, how his number is huge because he likes to "teach girls". I made a big dramatic scene out of dry heaving and saying "that's so disgusting!". He was absolutely stunned in shock.

I turned to a table with some older women and said "He said he slept with so many girls and most of them were virgins!" The oldest lady called him a "Babylon whore", lectured him on being away from God and shaming his family with his promiscuity and low morals. He looked like he was having an out of body experience from shock and disbelief.

For once it wasn't a woman. Sweet justice.😄

:#marseylaugh: funny, but i doubt it actually happened

My husband has never asked for an exact number because he doesn't care. He knows it's “a lot” and he knows that it doesn't affect a. the size of my vag and/or labia, b. my ability to be faithful, or c. my DNA.

Bingo! Majority of us don't care and know it doesn't really affect anything.

woah, ladies one at a time :#marseypolyamory:

Of course OOP's comment relating to not being misogynistic on a thread in a mainstream subreddit gets downmarseyd

because why wouldn't it

>not the hecking reddit karma

:#marseysoycrytalking:

I've met some of them and trust me, you don't want them.

I'm in my late 30s and polyamorous but sexually inexperienced when it comes to number of partners. And sometimes that comes up with some dude I'm talking to and some of them... Their interest increases so much it's disgusting. Like, they see me as having higher "value" and they see their own chance to potentially "lower" that "value" by a lot since there is still "so much left".

Absolutely vomit inducing. Sadly, though, I might not ever have noticed if I hadn't given them reason to drool like that, because they sure as heck wouldn't have turned me down no matter that pointless number. They just wouldn't respect me, in either case, because men like that don't respect women or even see us as fully human.

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I'm asexual, s*x averse, and polyamorous. Should I ever meet guys like this I think I'll just lie and say I've slept with 50 guys instead of the truth, which is more like 3 people, zero if we are only counting PIV.

>I'm asexual, s*x averse, and polyamorous

:#marseyconfused2genocide:

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Aba here/there 1yr ago #4832479

https://old.reddit.com/r/NotHowGirlsWork/comments/15vbvj0/on_a_post_about_a_woman_sleeping_with_gasp_20/jwucd85/

I've met some of them and trust me, you don't want them.
I'm in my late 30s and polyamorous but sexually inexperienced when it comes to number of partners. And sometimes that comes up with some dude I'm talking to and s

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here's what she looks like

>Asked my teenage son if his friends know that his parents are poly.

https://old.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/10ihi3m/asked_my_teenage_son_if_his_friends_know_that_his/

My teenage son lives with me, his father and my other partner. He's also close with his father's other partner, and spends quite a bit of time with her even though she has her own home.
We've been poly since he was ten. We have always told him the truth (in an age appropriate way, of course) and he has a healthy outlook that different kinds of relationships can be just as valid, and that the important thing is that the people involved are honest with eachother, treat eachother with kindness and respect and find something that works for them.
But one's own attitudes is one thing, and openness to others knowing is a separate thing. One that we had never really discussed. But yesterday I got around to asking him if his friends know, and if not, how he would feel about it if they somehow found out, given that people can sometimes be both judgemental and mean.
He replied that he doesn't know if his friends know but they don't know from him because he sees no reason to talk about it. And fair enough, why would he? They talk about the games they play and what they do in school and things like that, not about their families.
He also said that he's not at all worried about them finding out. "If I had reason to be worried about that, they wouldn't be very good friends, now, would they?" No, that's very true, kiddo. And regarding kids who are not his friends and who might even be looking for things to judge and reasons to make fun of him, he just shrugged and said he couldn't care less about what they think.
He's a good kid, and I'm glad I had that talk with him. I hope he keeps both the attitude and the friends.

:marseyitneverbegan: