I (f26) have been dating this guy (m25, German from a small village) for 8 months now. He's amazing and I truly love him. I have had my fair share of shitty partners but he's totally different.
However! I have been noticing that he says some really racist stuff. Now, I'm not the kind of person who throws the word racism at every opportunity, so this is big.
He ALWAYS has a bad thing to say about arab immigrants, he always makes the assumption that these people don't work and just leech of the government.
Looks like someone doesn't like kebab
He praises colonialism and tells me it's the reason why these “shit hole countries ” have been modernized, and if they were left alone without the Europeans, they would have still been inhabitable deserts, so there must be a “reason” why Europeans could achieve all this greatness while other ethnicities couldn't.
Germs are quite behind on the colonialism game compared to most Europoor (especially ) countries.
We cooked a traditional dish from my country and he said that I shouldn't be taking any pride in that because it was invented by the British, and if not for them, we would have still been eating rotten fish! (Fermented fish is another traditional dish that we have).
Said by the people who eat Mett (raw pork)
He also says that the reason why black people were so happy about the movie Wakanda was because they wanted to see themselves “finally achieving something”,
Really?
Black users please explain
he's also 100% against immigration and tells me that he doesn't want to see these people here, and when I ask him what if these people integrate, he responds that this is like asking what if water doesn't make you wet.
Expats that only speak English but not local language exists everywhere.
I told him about some very obvious racist situations and he still tried to justify these situations, saying that I'm just overreacting and that this wasn't racism.
no No NO I AM NOT A CHUD
What's really weird is that he isn't even a “pure German”, his own mother is an immigrant and he's half Jewish! And due to his Jewish parent, he always gets mistaken for spanish/Italian, not only that, but his own gf (me) is Arab, an immigrant, brown, Jewish and is originally from one of these “shit hole countries”.
Max Naumann moment
EDIT: okay, I'm stupid, very stupid, I admit that. You're all right.
To answer some questions:
yes I am both Arab and Jewish
no his hatred to Arabs isn't because he's Jewish, it's because they “destroyed his country”
Yes he knows that I am an Arab
Yes I know that I am an idiot, I was just gaslamping myself and telling myself that I was just overthinking, thank you all for opening my eyes.
Chuds not going for non-white womyn challenge (impossible!)
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