Another example of why some demographics make less than others : Happy update on my leaving healthcare to go back to the barista life post

I was a lifeguard in high school and I teach some BJJ classes sometimes but other than that no. I haven't been officially hired anywhere in almost 10 years.

You wouldn't, because that's not what a fricking job is. The fricking business isn't paying you for charity. They're paying you because you provide value to them. You're productive. And unless the fricking owner is a fricking real r-slur, they're actually paying you a fricking portion of what your generate, because the fricking business needs some kind of profit to survive and thrive.

I would want all of what I generate because otherwise I would feel like I was getting scammed. And the hiring process is extremely demeaning. They make you fill out personality charts and then I'd have to listen to a manager who lives in a smaller house than I do, and is less jacked than me? There legit has to be a way to get a girlfriend that doesn't involve the ratrace because I just don't think I could take it.