Hello fellow foids I just wanted to post this to show you why we need feminism.
In this case study, a woman cooks food every day for her family because she "loves cooking"
One day she accidentally burns the dinner and, put of stress and fear, has some kind of foidal meltdown.
But I stead of beating and berating her, the hero of the story, the moid in shining armour, her husbanderino, comes in and says "no big deal" and eats the burnt food anyway.
He told me we can scrape the burned part off no harm no foul and he was so excited to eat the dinner I made. I burst into tears. He's the most loving, caring, and kind human I know and the little things like tonight just make me so happy to have him. I grew up with a mom that blew up about everything and my husband heals that part of me that feels like I can't do anything right. He's truly my favorite person. That's all. Nothing major but wanted to get it out there.
Fellow foids, are you seeing what I'm seeing? That this foid needs to set some higher expectations from her moid? Such as maybe cooking his own dinner once in a fricking while?
This foid is blind to the unfair share of household labour which falls to her that even when overloaded to the point of failure, instead of asking her useless mood to help more, falls at his feet for treating the minor mistakes as a minor mistake.
Look at some of these comments:
You've got yourself a good man, I'm happy for you π.. It's always nice to read about something sweet.
SHE COOKS FOR HIM EVERY NIGHT AND SHE'S GOT A GOOD MAN?!
I'm so happy for you. Wish you wellπ€π
SO HAPPY FOR YOUR DOMESTIC SERVITUDE!
This is the love language of a good man.
MODERN MAN CALLED! HE SAID COOK FOR YOUSELF ONCE ON A WHILE!
My husband has done the same for me and the feeling is so amazing. I'm so happy for you that you have him.
YOUR HUSBAND ALSO DIDN'T BEAT YOU WHEN YOU OVERCOOKED HIS DINNER? WOW LIVING THE WOMENS LIB DREAM!
There's terminology for this phenomenon of moids getting undeserved praise but /r/gendercritical has been banned for too long and I can't remember it. Hope some fellow radfems can help me out.
Thanks
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You will never enjoy being a woman.
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No surprise an AGP sees this submissive 1950s dynamic as loving relationship.
Gender roles like this is what women's liberation set out to destroy and instead the AGPs said "Actually we like the sound of that therefore we must be women."
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A true liberation movement would accept that some women actually like cooking and doing domestic work. One of my besties has a degree in electrical engineering and chose to be a stay at home mommy instead of dealing with that garbage everyday. Sorry you were built different i guess
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When has liberation ever made someone panic to the point of crying?
There's a difference between "liking" cooking and it becoming your duty in a relationship of equals.
It didn't even cross anyone's mind that the mood could have helped with the starters while she watched the burgers because of embedded misogyny. Whatever he was doing was far too important because he is a moid.
Read theory.
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As she explains, she is a victim of an emotionally immature parent. Newsflash, people have breakdowns in formal workplaces, too. Like, kinda frequently. We are an emotionally delicate species that is sensitive to rejection. I'm sorry traditional gender roles aren't for you. They don't have to be. But you have to accept that other people like things that you don't like instead of patronizingly assuming theyre all stupid or something. Being a butch doesnt make you above other women sweety, that attitude is itself misogynistic
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I agree with you, but I am compelled to call you a massive cute twink regardless.
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Feeling free to be a massive cute twink is just another way to liberate yourself. Just do what you wanna do as long as you don't hurt anyone else
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What a waste of human capital. This would never be allowed under true capitalism.
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Simping for radfems just to dunk to s is more pathetic than simping for s.
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Sure thing chaser cute twink.
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