what is a boymoder? a primer

when i say im a boymoder ppl get confused. let me tell you what it is. i am a trans female taking estrogen. i want to go by she/her and be a girl, but i dont look like enough of a girl yet so when i go out of the house i "pretend" that i am a boy. so i am "boymoding". if i dressed up as a girl and went out, that would be "girlmoding". girlmoding is the ultimate goal, but im not there yet.

<-- typical boymoder. notice the bangs, hair currently growing out and the sweater. the black sweater helps hide your body and breast buds and bra. usually the boymoder will match her hoodie with women's jeans.

<--- boymoders do not like to be seen without their hoodies.