Dad kicks son out for jealously injuring daughter

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So for context I am 45 and his father. My son is trans male to female. (Not why I'm kicking him out) I made a throwaway because I don't want this tied to my main account where I mostly just follow cars 🚗 and golf ⛳️ .

So about 2 weeks ago I made the decision that my 22 year old son was leaving the house. My wife supported my decision and it isn't one that came easily but to be honest I can't take his toxic behavior anymore and neither can my 17 and 14 year old. (Boy and girl)

For some background at age 18 my son announced he was dropping out of school. As an adult I couldn't stop him so while I wasn't happy about it and thought it was a mistake I told him. "Fine then you're getting a job and contributing to the household." Which of course resulted in a meltdown about how I'm an shitty father because I refuse to provide housing and food for my adult son and let him play video games and jerk off all day.

Classic behavior. If you have graduated from high school and are NEET, you have no business living at home. All this does is cause arrested development, not to mention it sets a bad example for younger siblings.

So during the start of the pandemic I gave him some grace and didn't try to make him get a job as much but around that time is when he transitioned. I'll be honest I was totally blindsided by it and while I'm not going to devalue anyone I really don't get it. My wife and I have tried to be as supportive as we can be but it's lead to A LOT of tension in our home and between my oldest son and his siblings. It's hard to get used to calling someone a different name and using different pronouns when you've called someone the same things for so long but we've all been trying.

Bingo. He wasn't doing anything productive so they allowed him to sit around watching sissy porn all day.

Well 2 weeks ago yet another fight broke out. My oldest son grabbed my daughter of 14 by the throat and slammed her into the wall and started beating her because she accidentally used his real name and when she got screamed at told my oldest son he’s not a woman and was just an ugly man. Which while I am not defending that or saying that's okay a 22 year old man choking and beating a 14 year old girl is so much worse. I had to pry him off of my daughter and pin and hold him to the floor until he calmed down.

My wife took my 14 year old to the hospital while I tried to keep my two sons from killing each other and yelling at my oldest son for doing this to his sister who is A CHILD.

She had a broken nose, broken eye socket needed stitches and was missing a tooth along with lots of bruises and swelling on her face and neck.

That piece of shit literally needs to DIE, who would do that to their own sister over a fetish?! He injured her so badly imagine if he chose to go further on that poor little girl.

My wife and I decided that my oldest son needed to go to prison move out. He found some friends to live with but of course there was another huge melt down that lasted for days and he keeps saying it's because I'm transphobic. I'm not transphobic. I have tried to be supportive for his entire life but I can't tolerate him beating our youngest child.

Edit: Yes we are pressing charges. I have a home security system that recorded the whole attack.

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The people in the comments choosing to "respect the pronouns" of this abuser are making me physically ill. He beat a child, but you still don't wanna hurt his precious trans feelings. At what point are people going to seriously still stick with ‘transphobia causes these levels of psychological disturbance’ rather than maybe ‘agp and transition is a symptom of a wider psychological disturbance’.

But good on Dad for kicking him out and pressing charges.

Yup. It’s stuff like this that actuall just hurts the real trans people who have been whitewashed by overprivedged kids

REAL trans people aren't entitled, out-of-control buttholes, no!

You can and always could, so long as it doesn't devolve into hating people for being trans. That's the thing, there is nobody who is going to defend this person's actions. That has nothing to do with anything. But as soon as somebody is trying to twist it around into being an excuse to crap on trans people in general, then you're going to get pushed back. Or act as though the actions were because she is trans, despite the same crap happening in a lot of screwed up families regardless of that and nobody paying it any mind. It's the same thing with dozens of other topics that people act like Martyrs because they "can't talk about it"... You can, just don't pretend to care about the issue and use it as an excuse to demonize a group you don't like. Do you want to talk about how men who have s*x with men have a higher rate of sexually transmitted diseases? Go for it. There are many interesting scientific discussions to be had about the epidemiology which is behind that. It's a civil discussion I've had frequently with people on Reddit when the topic comes up. Do you want to say "since gay people all have AIDS they shouldn't be allowed in public"? Then we're going to have a problem.

Yeah, trans has nothing to do with being trans! There's simply no connection between narcissism, personality disorders, hormone scrambling, pornography addiction, and violence in TIMs. Even though they practically all have at least two of those things! This comment, goofy pronouns not withstanding, it pretty insightful, though:

the problem is not if she's a real trans or not the problem is that she thinks, because she's trans, she has the monopoly on "being right" and then what happend because of it