Lots of women in their 30s are total babes. If this has relationship potential, a bird in the hand is worth more. You haven’t articulated exactly what your “future” concerns are. You want to have kids and you’re afraid she’ll be too old when you’re ready? That’s pretty far ahead to extrapolate. Another approach is to enjoy this connection here and now. You have time to make choices about what “makes sense” down the road
It sounds like your gut is telling you to keep dating her, but your mind is focusing on her age. Why do you think her age is turning into a big issue for you? Do you think she is looking to settle down but you aren't?
Why is that important to you? There's no objective reason why being 9 years apart in age is a problem, so this is more about your personal concerns. Maybe elaborate on this part of your post: “I am thinking of the future and I just don’t know if it’s gonna affect it or not." What are your actual concerns about the future?
I don’t get ur concerns,yes she‘s older,but let me tell u,some older ladies may have some good tricks for u to learn,try not to think how it ends,try to enjoy the moments with her…u got this
Also, it bugs me how many comments to your post keep saying 9 years is a big difference... xD. I guess some must be from teenagers here, cause when you are a teenager then, yes, 9 years is a big difference.
But, dude, if you are both past 20, then 9 years is almost nothing! I'm 32 right now, and I can assure you I feel pretty much the same person I was at 23.
Our mid 20s is the time when we seem to stop changing emotionally and just remain the same person. Also the perception of time seems to change too. You'll see your 30s arrive in no time at all, believe me.
When you get to your 30s, you'll understand. You'll be thinking "what?! Already? How did that happen?"
So as for personality differences, no worries.
As for the physical age, I see no worries either. It's not like you're dating a 45+ women, nearing menopause. You still have plenty of time to date, enjoy life and then have kids in a decade or so.
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Very nice, now lets see the reddit thread about the 32 year old man dating the 23 year old woman.
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Either liar or actual r-slur.
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23 year old me was a total fricking r-slur. I'm still a bit
but I'm a very different person 10 years on.
If you feel the same at 33 as you did 23, you have arrested development.
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Actualll r-slur, dime a dozen. Dudes are the same, hit 23 think "I'm god" and never get older.
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Role reverse and see what happens lol
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Since when did redditors start believing the mid-20s mental maturity meme
With a 32yo foid your time is already running out if you want kids, it doesn't go from 100 to 0 at menopause, fertility starts fading away rapidly at 30-35
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I think the dating comment was more like "enjoy life with the old foid and then trade her in for a younger model who can still has kids".
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Yeah I read it that way to, dudes right btw
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thats as bad of an L as anything else in that thread
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W for the dude if she is a babe and a sugar mama. Has like 10 years left to find a serious relationship that he wants to settle down with. Stop being a kitty.
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Harddrive check immediately for this guy
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no such thing
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Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
ghostarchive.org (click to archive)
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Men can't be groomed into dating women. Only women can be groomed, since they're dumber, weaker, and less mature than men until the age of 30
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I kinda agree with the redditors on this. My wife is older than me (although the gap is shorter than 9 years) and we get along fine.
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