EFFORTPOST The ongoing meltdown of Destiny's subreddit over him being a chad/coomer and constantly associating with insane r-slurs


								

								

Rejoice, Destiny viewers, it seems that finally we have reached the end of Lav and MrGirl appearing on stream.

I'm gonna be honest and say I'm straight up not watching this. It's pretty gay and 80 different multihour streams. More than a few tangentially related content creators are jumping in with to give their hot takes via live reviewing stuff and I just do not care enough to watch the primary sources let alone the content vultures.

From what I can tell, this starts with an hour-and-a-half stream by MrGirl (often referred to as Max) on Twitter (because he's banned everywhere else lol)

https://x.com/mrgirlreturns/status/1590909109087633408

From what I can tell, he announces he will be investigating former friend and Youtube streamer Destiny over sexual misconduct allegations (that he created) via messaging every woman Destiny has talked to on Groomercord. At some point Destiny says he has actually been contacted by a number of these women who are rightfully a little skeeved out by a streamer who has been repeatedly been accused of being a p-dophile (pretty much the entirety of MrGirl's KF thread is related to this) contacting them asking about their sexual history. It shoudl also be noted that MrGirl is one of those "I'm an empath and can tell you are lying about you deepest thoughts and actually you're a p-do too"/"You said I'm wrong, but sincce I"m an empath you're gaslamping me and we both know I'm right and you're unable to admit it" types. One of the contacted women, Ana, is a more than a little mentally unstable foid who has previously had a multi-month long meltdown about Destiny ghosting her or something.

Here's here DMs with Destiny where she says even MrGirl is insane and trying to convince people they were sexually abused by Steven Bonnell II.

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1684136130790606.webp

You may notice they're referencing an additional person, Lav. Lav is an on-again-off-again OnlyFans girl and Twitch/Youtube streamer. Her biggest claim to fame is jumping into every single Destiny stream she can to cloutfarm, claiming all s*x work is evil, then going back on it the next day and reopening her OnlyFans. I think her current stance is "All s*x work is bad and evil, but I do s*x education, which is different and good!" She's so hated for being annoying and inserting herself into things that Destiny's subreddit has begun a "campaign against misogyny" to combat people who vocally hate her the wrong way. Destiny's subreddit has also come together to build a list of random contractions she's said or done and just generally how stupid she is.

Around the same time that MrGirl's stream on Twitter goes live, Destiny decides he needs to address the situation on stream. The actual stream is unlisted but still on his channel, but I'm going to link the curated and titled video since it's less likely to get taken down.

The video also, I assume, will give more context, but I'm not watching 2 hours and 40 minutes right now.

Lav, the OnlyFans and streamer girl from earlier, reveals that the only reason she knows and really got included in Destiny's stream is they had some sort of sexual encounter, implied to be he ate her out. She also decides that getting eaten out, then invited on stream, and later hated for being an r-slur is equal to Harvey Weinstein. Very quickly, she runs this back to "I don't like how mean he was."

https://i.rdrama.net/images/16841361312720492.webp

https://i.rdrama.net/images/1684136132145877.webp

Around this time, Destiny-adjacent streamer ChudLogic goes live with an interview with MrGirl's girlfriend.

Again, haven't watched, but some backstory is according to MrGirl, she is by and large not allowed on stream or something because he doesn't want her to get hurt by the Internet. She also is not allowed to have a phone (this was later walked back as a joke). At some point there was a lot of drama surrounding MrGirl wanting to have a s*x doll and her not being okay with it and crying in one of his videos about it.

By now, both MrGirl's subreddit and Destiny's are in full meltdown, so let's take a look at both. While both are more than a little cult-y, MrGirl's is a lot more so, especially due to the previously mentioned "I'm an empath who is always right" stuff. I'll try to go through these somewhat chronologically, but I'm just going by hours ago posted, not the actual timestamp.

"I didn't allude to him being a Harvey Weinsten... but if the shoe fits..."

Look at all these groyper's contributions to misogyny. I mean come on people haven’t we learned yet, Blav is always right and if you ever disagree with her you’re a misogynist pig. Those are destiny’s own words btw

Thank you for cancelling misogyny, Destiny!

There we have it everyone. All this talk about "growth" and "personal development", and this is where it ends up. What the frick has she learnt in her many conversations with Destiny? Where is the maturity? How is she a better person now than before with remarks like this?

Destiny has previously gone to bat for Lav saying she's just figuring out life because she's young (true to some extent). Hoisted by his own petard :marseysmug:

Okay, now that I'm caught up on this, this was the most obvious betrayal of all time. From the very second of the debrief on her shit talking Destiny to Mr. Girl behind his back, it was obvious she is a malignant narcissist. She will lie, demean, undermine, blame others, etc. for all people at all convenient times. I would be more surprised if there is a single person in her life she has always treated with respect and love than if there was exactly zero. But she's actually a good public example. If you ever encounter someone who reminds you of Lav's behaviors, specifically: a. consistently gaslamping you about past events, especially their own actions. b. Minimizing the impact of their own behaviors. c. Apologizing but repeating or worsening behaviors d. consistently wanting to be the center of attention, etc. then run! If you are not interacting with them in a professional setting, you cannot fix them, and they will not fix themselves. They will consistently harm the people around them. Lav is the Brittany's level 1 personified. The world is a worse place for her being in it, and it is probable that will never change.

The Levels shit this guy is talking about is in relation to another femoid streamer who categorizes people's personalities into levels and tries to tell people how to live their life or something. Unsurprisingly, she also has some sort of OnlyFans thing. Coomer streamers smh.

holy shit. Nuke him Destiny. Max just leaked destiny s*x life details live on air.

Finally, a thread with some good cope and argument threads

If Destiny has been sexting Ana for the past year he needs to see a therapist. There is no reason to continue to engage such an intimate relationship with someone so obviously unstable and who abused you for YEARS.

There is an alternative read of the situation: that Ana is only manageable and able to be dealt with when she's romantically linked with Destiny in some fashion.

Actually lmao

As much as MrGirl is a creepy psycho Steven absolutely deserves every single bit of this for gaslamping us for months. Even Melina didn't know he was still sexting Ana or that he slept with Lav.

Why do you think you're entitled to know who his s*x partners are? He wasn't gaslamping anybody. He told us he and Anna were chill and had no problems anymore, every time her name came up.

Guess who is upmarseyd!

"I will never betray you." ~ Mr. Girl, to Destiny

He was literally creepy AF immediately — second time on Destiny’s stream: “I’m your friend. I’m going to be your close friend. I will never betray you.” Then quickly escalating to “I love you. You gave me my career you saved me.” 🚩🚩🚩🚩

This actually happened and everyone thought it was normal and wholesome chungus.

Max just kind of nuked him already lol. Sexting a girl you called psycho and claimed was your stalker for a year afterwards is not a great look optically when you’re fighting these kinds of accusations.

Just another multipage thread of fighting.

Darn, Max is actually a horrible person.

he essentially said he wanted to r*pe her body and was demanding she let him do it in their relationship. All while he's filming her. That's when I realized he was a manipulative psychopath.

Normal relationship btw

Here is some threads about him from this subreddit I googled.

good post btw

Yeah it's dumb of Destiny to keep in contact with Ana in this way or at all frankly, but I don't think it's any evidence of anything other than him making some dumb career decisions.

Actually if you look at it in another light, it could be that the constant/sporadic contact has been the the only thing keeping her sane.

"Clearly the streamer I like is the one who can do no wrong."

Remember the “I will never betray you, Steven”? The nauseating love proclamations?

[...] Most manipulators want to make it seem like you are the one that's crazy. Max was always very willing to be like "I am very weird, and I require a lot of translation to be understood." It's almost like reverse-gaslamping.

lol

Lavs Husband right now

Anyone else kind of bummed out to learn of this entire arc? I mean he already has Melina who's better in every way and he's still gonna go frick this guy's marriage up just so he can frick possibly the worst person ever?

and I thought I was a simp sometimes.

She opened her relationship just to frick Destiny LOL

cucked by a manlet

According to this comment, her husband is the CMO of Ridge Wallets LMAOOOO

Queen Brittany Simon has been vindicated! Pay your respects at her altar or have your bubble popped.

Finally, we can simp for the other weird empath.

MELINA VS LAV MAKES 10000% MORE SENSE NOW

It's kinda weird, but that's her life to live (and Destiny) none of our business really. Especially not for us to judge.

open relationships rarely work this long term, especially with younger couples who are yet to have children (in Melina's case). Melina is only getting older and being with someone for this long triggers her evolutionary baby making response, even if it will end up being a manlet.

-45 btw

Oh boy

frick you Lav, you manipulate piece of fricking shit, I and many others never hated you for being a woman, you're just genuinely a terrible fricking person and I hope you read this because you're truly the fricking worst and it has absolutely nothing to do with your s*x your personality is just truly toxic.

Destiny actually deserves to be called out even if he's well within his "OPEN" relationship parameters.

nahhhh

cope cope cope

honestly what kind of relationship are you in where your significant other can open and close the relationship at will to frick people that she wants? isnt that just cheating?

brainblast

Remember when Mr. Girl was going in on Destiny for not trusting him? What a skeezy little frick

This thread seems to have the most back and forth arguments

Mr Girl is a weirdo with a God Complex

Uh-oh, time to defend empath daddy.

Okay, I'm officially bored of writing this, so we're gonna speed through a few threads:

Finally, Destiny himself chimes in.

For me, personally, I'm swearing off all friendships. If you see me questing a friend or it looks like I'm about to go full remedial into another friendship feel free to throw this reddit link at me again to remind me that I am never friending again, I seem to function much better inde-friend-ently.

Even Brianna Wu makes an appearance to take a "rare W"

EFFORT POST: The DGG'ers Guide on How to Refute Max's Claims a.k.a. the ultimate cope/wagon circling post!

Now from MrGirl's subreddit. Check these threads for maximum angry:

Nice job Max, you called Destiny a friend and pulled this stunt?

Max, I've agreed with you many times, even recently, but you've completely lost the plot. It's incredibly painful to root for and care about someone so self-destructive. I recommend you take the often repeated advice, take a few weeks and "chill".

I feel like Destiny looks pretty weak muting Max and then doing an hour long hit piece retracting good faith he extended before like calling Max a male feminist and serial abuser. His infantilizing of Shaelin especially after Chud's stream was also pretty disgusting. I'm waiting to see what Max says.

Male feminist is a new one, I haven't heard that allegation yet. Shit moves so fast nowadays.

words words words The copium is real and his community of terminally online virgins are just too parasocially invested to see it.

Written like a schizo virgin. If someone said any body shaming shit about Max I bet you'd cry about it.

body shaming shit about Max

Sorry, but is there a non-"terminally online" version of what you're trying to say here? Unlike you, I haven't watched every second of Max' long library, so I can't just decode the random stuff your clouded mind introduces as common knowledge. In normal decorum, with sane people that posses a functioning theory of mind rather crippling autism, there is usually an expectation of a certain level of mutual communication that doesn't involve cryptic messaging in the form of schizophrenic and highly niche inside jokes, you see. And you normally shape your message in a way that it doesn't appear as garbled gibberish to an uninitiated recipient who is not apart of your tragic little echo chamber...I know, I know... this is a lot for you to process... but every person you engage with on this or Destiny's sub doesn't obsessively study and absorb every twist and turn in the dramas and you shouldn't take it for granted that everyone is as, lets say... "involved", as you are.

dab dab dab dab

frick, I am not sure anymore, I supported mrgirl cause he got unfairly banned from D subreddit, but the shit he pulled on destiny behind the scene? this is unacceptable. I am losing faith on you, max. I don't know if I can support you anymore.

I don't know why people are arguing under this one lol

Destiny sexting anna is the most abusive shit i have ever heard

Idk Mr Male feminist trying to trigger Ana into another self destructive loop so he can use her as a weapon against Destiny seems a little more abusive

Mr Male feminist lol

Just got to the part of the vod where Destiny calls mrgirl a male feminist and it made me remember something from years ago, Steven's ex-gf Tigerlily revealed that Destiny spousal r*ped her more than once while they were seeing each other. I also remember the logs his old friend Desrow leaked, Destiny shared lewds of a 15 year old girl to a groupchat of semi-pro starcraft players talking about how hard it is to control himself from fricking teenage fangirls at Starcraft lan events. He's about my age so he would have been around 23-24 at the time.

oh how the turn tables.

Destiny ends Max manifesto with a counter-accusation #SaveShaelin

You’re a liar.

You told Steven he could trust you. You told him you would never hurt him. Now you’re poisoning the well against him. You’re a horrible friend. You’re a manipulator. And you deserve all the banning and loneliness you get.

mrgirl, your not the person you said you were, and this is saddening.

Sexting an ex that you've made up with isn't a crime

Frick yourself Max, you fricking weirdo. The day I stop hearing about you can't come soon enough.

Ana speaks out about mrgirl

Here's another Destiny-adjacent streamer going over stuff (5 hour stream in 2 parts)

And here's the @autodrama thread from earlier today: https://rdrama.net/post/122194/mrgirl-is-absolutely-in-the-right

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some thread I could not fit in and am too lazy to:

I’ve sexted with Destiny

He probably has no idea who I am because like everyone knows, he gets around, and this happened a while ago (only via groomercord). I came on to him.

But let me say this about our interactions: He is indeed extremely midwestern polite. He negs or whatever but I’ve never experienced a more respectful interaction.

-There are no surprise pictures or videos, his insistence on consent is sickening and you always know what’s coming.

-He never offered for me to come on stream or anything related to his career.

-I have zero worries about him leaking anything. It felt very safe.

-He was refreshingly honest and open. He answered all my questions regarding what we were doing and our boundaries.

My two cents are that he is a genuinely sweet guy. That’s all I’ll say. I’m not online at all (no real accounts etc) and have nothing to gain from an association with him. I just thought he was cute, and I was single at the time.

Erudite on identifying Maxcels in chat

Destiny, one day Lav will accuse you of R*pe, the real kind.

Also I picked out these threads this morning, so there's been developments since and I'm not gonna include those because im zleepy.

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No, don't reply like this, please do another wall of unhinged rant please.

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Replying to tell you I did not read a single sentence of this post about your favorite streamer “person”

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No, that's Vinny

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>be political streamer

>insist on male feminism

Is anyone suprised at this point

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God I fricking hate streamers and the people who watch them.

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:marseyeyeroll: millenial cope

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Destiny short lol

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This wall of text is taller than he is

:#marseymanlet:

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PPorn Hub Video Srch """"""65YO Sissy--HYPOTiZED BigButt Minnetonka WhiteMman SEDUCES BigPeepee LIBerian WarLord KONGO GREENE And BEcomes Paragranent /. """""

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GO KONGO GREENE

:#marseyraisinghands:

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Who the frick cares about the intricacies of this little clique of zoomer teenagers.

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Isn't Destiny 30 something? He just thinks like a zoomer.

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I can not fathom why anyone would ever care about any of this. Maybe there's drama to be wrung out of this piss soaked jizz rag but I can't be bothered with it. It's just so tiresome.

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You can seethemaxx at the stupid allegations. High profile men need to be really fricking careful who they frick and document everything.

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Good post. Its weird seeing mrgirl go on this crusade against destiny. It seems somewhat personal for him.

Mrgirls head mod Dooby also released chatlogs between him and mrgirl. Where mrgirl asked dooby to reach out to all of Destiny previous partners. There's also a rumor that Mrgirl made an account on Kiwifarms asking for a list of all of streamers that destiny has slept with.

I think her current stance is "All s*x work is bad and evil, but I do s*x education, which is different and good!" She's so hated

Lav is doing mental gymnastics to justify her doing sexwork. I believe she's still doing it after recieving backlash for making a gofundme for 10k for a medical procedure. Her fiance makes 500k a year, and lav was making 6 figures a year while doing onlyfans.

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i don't get how lav can make so much on OF when she's not even attractive.

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People that watch streams are a whole sub class of subhumans w disposable income

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In normal decorum, with sane people that posses a functioning theory of mind rather crippling autism, there is usually an expectation of a certain level of mutual communication that doesn't involve cryptic messaging in the form of schizophrenic and highly niche inside jokes, you see. And you normally shape your message in a way that it doesn't appear as garbled gibberish to an uninitiated recipient who is not apart of your tragic little echo chamber.

normiecels seethemaxxed by schizowords, cope and dilate. autismnauts stay winning :marseyretardchad:

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Reading this makes me wanna kill myself

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these guys need to assimilate into @Soren

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ive never watched a destiny stream but you put a lot of effort in to this post :marseyupvote2:

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never trust a man who filmed and uploaded a "masturbation diary" or whatever he titled it

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this may be streamershit but it's an effortpost

sneks pls 2 pin this :thumbup:

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:#marseywoah:

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Jesus Christ neighbor I got pretty deep into this before giving up good job

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What happened to destiny's son nathan? Did he abandon the kid or something?

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bipoc im not reading all that

also that destiny bipoc shouldve just sticked to yelling at kids in Starcraft

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:#marseytangerinefeline:

Snapshots:

https://x.com/mrgirlreturns/status/1590909109087633408:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/16841294036971786.webp:

build a list of random contractions:

equal to Harvey Weinstein:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/16841294042128255.webp:

https://i.rdrama.net/images/16841294046663258.webp:

"I didn't allude to him being a Harvey Weinsten... but if the shoe fits...":

Look at all these groyper's contributions to misogyny. I mean come on people haven’t we learned yet, Blav is always right and if you ever disagree with her you’re a misogynist pig. Those are destiny’s own words btw:

There we have it everyone. All this talk about "growth" and "personal development", and this is where it ends up. What the frick has she learnt in her many conversations with Destiny? Where is the maturity? How is she a better person now than before with remarks like this?:

Okay, now that I'm caught up on this, this was the most obvious betrayal of all time. From the very second of the debrief on her shit talking Destiny to Mr. Girl behind his back, it was obvious she is a malignant narcissist. She will lie, demean, undermine, blame others, etc. for all people at all convenient times. I would be more surprised if there is a single person in her life she has always treated with respect and love than if there was exactly zero. But she's actually a good public example. If you ever encounter someone who reminds you of Lav's behaviors, specifically: a. consistently gaslamping you about past events, especially their own actions. b. Minimizing the impact of their own behaviors. c. Apologizing but repeating or worsening behaviors d. consistently wanting to be the center of attention, etc. then run! If you are not interacting with them in a professional setting, you cannot fix them, and they will not fix themselves. They will consistently harm the people around them. Lav is the Brittany's level 1 personified. The world is a worse place for her being in it, and it is probable that will never change.:

holy shit. Nuke him Destiny. Max just leaked destiny s*x life details live on air.:

If Destiny has been sexting Ana for the past year he needs to see a therapist. There is no reason to continue to engage such an intimate relationship with someone so obviously unstable and who abused you for YEARS.:

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good post. would tear apart ur butt. 9/10

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All this drama over a literal cuckold lmao :marseyniggy:

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he actually fricks tons of women on the side tho unlike most "poly" people.

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Yeah, but his taste in women is questionable at best or is gonna get him cancelled / jailed at worst. :wolfrofl:

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I don’t understand how people can obsess over someone so uninteresting.

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Holy shit... that's an effortpost. Way2long...

Only thing I know Destiny from are his SC2 days with the r-slur magnet and the ling r*pe analogy. Special debo clip

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Give me a TLDR or frick off.

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oooh thank you think you I love streamer drama. I saw the destiny videos in my suggested feed but skipped them thinking it's just clickbait. Destiny streams are also long af and I can't listen to people arguing for hours. I need to go watch I guess. I know there was some beef with MrGirl and Aba too, and I love Aba on Destiny's streams. I hate the brunette girl, mainly because Destiny seems to hate her and the whole vibe is just gross. She's not smart and he just talks about how she wants attention based on what she is wearing so meh.

eta: also hasn't Destiny admitted to having s*x with 100s of girls? Doesn't seem surprising he sexts with girls so I don't know why these girls think it's a big deal.


Krayon sexually assaulted his sister. https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241526738973.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241426254768.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17156480765435808.webp

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idk about 100s but yeah a lot. aba's whole things with mr girl is he thinks he's an r-slur with a big ego who tries to manipulate people and won't shut up

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What's always funny to me is these streamers post their entire lives on stream for subs and then get mad that people comment. xqc breaks up with a girl and gets cucked at a party by some OF thot and gets all mad that people comment on his relationship. lol All this is just trash TV to me without the producer scripting lol


Krayon sexually assaulted his sister. https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241526738973.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17118241426254768.webp https://i.rdrama.net/images/17156480765435808.webp

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yeah, and i when you have entire stream arcs based around the dumb relationship shit you do, idk what they expect. honestly I'm real over destiny's current drama. this plus all the black men r bad for women or whatever stuff is boring. retvrn to tradition of getting into fights with lefties.

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