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Literally NTA on this one tho
You guys really don't have principles you just hate women lmao
who is you guys?
I've literally spent a significant portion of my life taking care of children.
I'm also of the belief that you are responsible for your family, you should take care of each other.
This is also the type of person who would leave their husband if they got cancer/in a bad accident.
It's one thing to take care of them for a week or a month to bridge a gap.
Adopting three children is a completely different and much taller ask. Especially if she didn't want to raise kids anyways.
if my brothers die im raising their kids no questions asked
that's literally a completely different situation LMAO
not really, die, incapacitated, same shit
She didn't die tho. She abandoned them. And they're not her sister's kids. They're her sister in law's kids.
You do you, bud. Maybe you're just more "virtuous" than I am. But I don't think she's being unreasonable here. Nor do I think the husband is, fwiw. If they just had to take care of them for a few months until they find a new home or track down their actual parents, sure. That's not the situation.
Lol at the "MUH FAMILY" cels marriage is a partnership if theyre both unwilling to make concessions then the dissolution of the marriage is the only way forward
Tryin to make a change :-/
bro there is no "in-law" when it comes to nieces and nephews, your sister in laws kids are your nieces and nephews in the same way your sisters kids are your nieces and nephews
Don't ever get married.
The audacity to accuse people who believe (or at least have the decency to pretend) in "for better, for worse" of having no principles is beyond r-slurred
!r-slurs we found a new comrade
She literally aays their wedding vow was to break up if shit started to suck you illiterate !r-slurs
>She literally aays their wedding vow was to break up if shit started to suck you illiterate !r-slurs
You mean the edit where she ruined it by revealing it was bait because no one fricking does that? Thanks for ruining the illusion cute twink.
Cope, its clearly not bait as those are the average redditor vows
What dumbass would agree to a marriage on those terms?
Troll. 100% bait.
While I understand hubby not abandoning family, I also understand her not wanting to be a literal cuck and raise the kids of a deadbeat she has no relation to. Definitely NTA
I know that in ameriKKKa marriage means nothing and is only a scam for women to get gibs, but pretty sure the vows say 'for better, for worse'. And this broad left the moment it got worse, but go off queen. Not like actions have consequences, lmao.
Husband made the decision. She said no kids, made that 100% clear. Husband demanded they adopt three children. Wife decided "frick this" and dipped.
>Husband demanded they adopt three children
Go back to Reddit with that faux bullshit phrasing. He didn't demand shit, he said that he would be taking care of his abandoned nephew and nieces to avoid them being certainly r*ped in foster care.
he said that he would be taking care of his abandoned nephew and nieces
yeah and she said she wasn't gonna raise them for the next 15 years
he can still raise them you know. solo. or maybe find another wife, have fun trying date as a single dad w/ 3 kids tho.
>yeah and she said she wasn't gonna raise them for the next 15 years
Yeah, she tried through divorce threatening to convince him to do the impossibly repugnant - let his family be r*ped and abused in foster care. When that inevitably failed, she ran to Reddit, an echo chamber completely out of touch with reality, to get the validation she clearly isn't getting in society.
>he can still raise them you know. solo. or maybe find another wife, have fun trying date as a single dad w/ 3 kids tho.
Nice job mocking the only moral person in the story (bar the children). I doubt he'll struggle with a story as good as "I'm saving my nieces from foster care and abandonement".
I'd worry more about his soon to be post-wall ex who sacrificed both her nuclear and extended family all because she was a selfish narcissist who couldn't handle raising anything tougher than a FunkPop. Gonna be real awkward when this broke b-word goes back to her childhood bedroom and mom and dad are giving her side eye and having hushed conversations at night about how their precious daughter has no integrity.
let his family be r*ped and abused in foster care
I doubt he'll struggle with a story as good as "I'm saving my nieces from foster care and abandonement".
Gonna be real awkward when this broke b-word goes back to her old bedroom and mom and dad are giving her side eye and having hushed conversations at night about how their precious daughter has no integrity.
This might be the most unhinged of all the bitching I've collected in this thread.
>This might be the most unhinged of all the bitching I've collected in this thread.
Ironic considering you're the one all over this thread bitching about how you still haven't fathomed how marriage combines families.
" THEY'RE NOT HER SISTER'S KIDS THAT MEANS THEY'RE NOT REALLY FAMILY RIGHT I THOUGHT MARRIAGE IS JUST A MEME!!! " @tempest
Like, I'm in awe at how genuinely !r-slurs ed you are.
Yes, I do hate women
trans lives matter
Abandoning your relatives who are children is bad. Pulling the marital rug out from under your husband because he didn't want his sister's kids to disappear into the foster system is bad.
Redditors reproduce by raping kids so they're not concerned with childbearing
Le Reddit bad guiz upmarseys to the right
the internet isn't real and neither am I
This but without a hint of irony
Whooooaaaaa there partner, this here is a redditor thread, you can't be bandying around language like that, you might hurt someone's feelings!
She right, though. One thing to raise kids that aren't yours, imagine picking up the tab on someone that's objectively a failure of a human being.
All those kids are 50% failure, better if they chillax on an ice floe for a li'l while
Sadly exile for societal failures is no longer possible.
Then she shouldn't have gotten married. No one makes you marry, just be perpetually dating like a reddit atheist.
Marriage is useful though. Gets a lot of shit done legally that makes life easier. Power of attorney, estate, making sure remains are treated according to their wishes… it turns years of paperwork into one easily accessible signature, and makes even braindead r-slurs able to legally exist in an intertwined way
Gets a lot of shit done legally that makes life easier. Power of attorney, estate, making sure remains are treated according to their wishes… it turns years of paperwork into one easily accessible signature
lmfao this is abjectly false. Peak /r/legaladvice!
Hey anyone reading this, just know @butthole is trolling here.
No, Im not. Ask Terri Schiavo if simply being married is enough to cover any of those things.
Schiavo's husband and legal guardian argued that Schiavo would not have wanted prolonged artificial life support without the prospect of recovery, and in 1998, he elected to remove her feeding tube. Schiavo's parents disputed her husband's assertions and challenged Schiavo's medical diagnosis, arguing in favor of continuing artificial nutrition and hydration. The highly publicized and prolonged series of legal challenges presented by her parents, which ultimately involved state and federal politicians up to the level of President George W. Bush, caused a seven-year (1998 to 2005. delay before Schiavo's feeding tube was ultimately removed.
Husband and wife do not automatically have power of attorney over one another. If you dont properly prepare and execute a will with burrial directives your spouse can do what they want with your remains. Are you a troll? Lmao
Yeah, I am a troll, but also I was just wrong here. Thanks for correcting the record
>correcting the record
Not wrong, but the Schiavo thing was about specific questions regarding brain damage and possibly getting better.
Most people won't be in that situation so legal marriage makes lots of stuff much easier.
the Schiavo thing was about specific questions regarding brain damage and possibly getting better
The point I was making that your spouse doesnt mecessarily have total say
legal marriage makes lots of stuff much easier
Makes what easier? With no will ypur estate will pass under the laws of intestacy which may ot may not be what you wanted. Without advanced directives/healthcare surrogate/poa/living will you could totally having your plug pulled(or not) by someone ypu may or maynot trust in circumstances you may or may not have wanted. There are some benefits to marriage but none of them make estate planning any less complicated and important, especially if the marriage bares childrrn. In fact people are more likely to pursue estate planning post marriage because of this.
They're not her kids. Literally.
When you marry someone their family becomes your family too.
They're her nephews and nieces in law lmao.
Sorry I'm with her here. They're not her family she doesn't owe them shit.
I don't think the husband is an butthole either, he just chose his nephews and nieces ahead of her. Which is fine. They can divorce and he can raise them solo.
>Sorry I'm with her here. They're not her family she doesn't owe them shit.
LMAO you don't even understand the concept of family beyond the nuclear one.
!r-slurs, my bad they're too r-slurred for us
They're not even her actual nieces and nephews lmao. No blood relation at all. Wasn't part of the wedding vows. Made it clear she didn't want kids.
You think the dude wanted kids either? Its about doing the right thing even when its hard. Wouldnt expect foids to understand that though selfish butt mother fricker
For each pair of aunts and uncles, you're only related to one. Do you not call your aunt your aunt if her husband is your mom's brother?
I wouldn't expect my aunts or uncles to literally take over caring for me for over a decade, no.
LMFAO growing up i would, and I would do the same for my nieces and nephews
How would you feel about it if you were a 5 year old abandoned by their parents?
Eye'm with the foid on this one.
NTA, only r-slur is the whore sister-in-law.
Not OOP's problem that her husband's sister can't close her legs.
Trans lives matter more than single mothers'.
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You are allowed to have this opinion.
This is not relevant but it is increasingly annoying when 1 out of 5 comments are telling me about wedding vows. We did not do traditional wedding vows. We do not believe in till death do us part. Our vows did include not having children. Our vow was to stay together till staying apart made us happier than staying together will. Staying in a toxic relationship where you hate each others guts just because you made a vow was never appealing to us.
These are the most reddity vows ever and I bet all of their families hated the wedding, and thought it cringe.
We do not believe in till death do us part.
Our vow was to stay together till staying apart made us happier than staying together will.
Why even get married at all with that kind of attitude?
Ever since Beyoncé released her hit single "All the Single Ladies" containing the immortal line "if you liked it then you should've put a ring on it" foids have been compelled to chase marriage, lest they disappoint the Queen.
The fricking most annoying music of my life
Nothing screams healthy marriage like planning for failure in the vows
Dramatards will say this shit then turn around and cry about BPDs because they treat social failure with life-or-death seriousness
So, their wedding vows was their prenup?
I bet you were molested as a child
You're gonna get molested now.
For your personal safety I recommend upmarseying me. And if you downmarsey me…….. it could get ugly…….
Greu, your bit has become Pizzashillian. Reel it in.
C'mon they throw that line at me, why can't I?
Because you're clearly ing in every comment you've made in this thread. Every word is a tiny little mask pathetically attempting to conceal genuine anger. Your shtick is only funny when you're not obviously pissed off. When you are, it's just boring clutter that makes threads an unreadable slog. You know, Pizzashillian.
You're better than that. We're all better than that.
I'm honestly surprised that you prefer smug to seethe.
Depends on the user. If their seething is funny, I prefer that. If their smug is funny, I prefer that. If their seething makes other people seethe, that's inherently funny, and I like that. If their smug makes other people seethe, that's inherently funny, and I like that.
As Draṃsāra carries us through the Lolvacakra, we must come to understand our nature as we seek entertainment.
My seething is fetch tho
Redditors have no concept of loyalty to family, or actually caring about anything beyond themselves. All their boohooing about the less fortunate is just performative hypothetical jerking off, they never sacrifice for anything meaningful.
Zero sense of duty to anyone except themselves.
This reads word for word like Redditors talking about that pro-life protestor that wouldn't adopt an unwanted baby after being listed as a preferred point of contact.
They're literally not her family.
The entire reason marriage was created was to join two families
Fat, neurodivergent, intensely selfish agoraphobe consumerists. That's all Redditors are, specks of flotsam in the dregs of human mediocrity.
They dont have the room, money or time to take care of three kids.