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You sunk low on this one. 1. You forgave your cheating husband 2. Took in the child of his affair. 3. Instead of getting therapy for them you threatened and Invalidated their feelings after springing on them what sounded like your a pathetic loser. 4. You showed them that she is more important than they are. The child is not to blame and their behaviour is misdirected but YTA (167)
I told them they're allowed to feel whatever. Being upset is no excuse to treat me and their sister like shit. (-132)
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You should have been sharing this information as age appropriate years ago. You stole those years of processing from your kids and made this so much harder on them.Some family therapy, stat.EDIT: YTA as per your replies. You lied to your children, and you're acting like you didn't do anything wrong. You are the victim of your husband's affair, but that doesn't mean you can't ever do any wrong. You are wrong for lying to your children and then not giving them the room to process and be hurt and angry over this. You didn't give them any time or help processing this, and then you very suddenly sprang it on them after years of lying to them. That comes with consequences, and while they don't have a right to treat your daughter with disrespect, they absolutely have a right to be confused and angry at your own choices/behavior here. (339)
We never planned on telling them about my husband's affair because it wasn't something they needed to know. (-93)
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YTA You are going scorched earth with your three boys. Why are you allowing the AP to have acting to do with your daughter in a closed adoption? I can't wait to see the "we've moved in the AP and her kids...and are a blended family. My boys won't speak to any of us and moved in with my parents who also think I'm an butthole. But I get my daughter! Who I share with her other mother. Who I share with my husband" I really hope this is fake bc you're boys will need so much therapy to deal with your little house of cards (162)
My daughter deserves to know where she comes from. We are allowing bio mom 1 hour at the park supervised by both me and my husband. Then we will determine if she will be involved in our daughter's life and how much. (-85)
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YTAWow, you are a real piece of shit, aren't you?The girl has no fault in all of this, that much is clear. But instead of talking it out with your sons and getting them therapy and counselling, you threaten to abandon them and choose, what they see as an affair baby, over them.You are the adult here. You should have been the cooler mind, and getting them all the help they need so that they could understand that being angry at the sister is futile. Only their dad and you deserve their anger. Not the sister.They are teenagers. Teenagers are goddarn reactionary, hormonal idiots. They are NOT supposed to know better, especially in a fricked up situation like this.Instead, you idiot, you threatened to abandon them.They have every right to be upset. At your piece of shit husband who is a fricking cheater, and at you, a liar. Who is also a piece of shit.You are going to lose your sons at this rate, and you are going to deserve it. (5)
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YTA. I don't know how they are actually treating the girl child, so maybe they are aholes too. But you and your husband need to realise that your decisions are not just "marital." They affect your children way more. Not in a single decision have you included them. For you, your husband cheated 6 years ago and you got a daughter. For them, their father destroyed their family unit a few weeks ago and they see the poor kid as a living embodiment of their father's deceit and your acceptance. They are human and will lash out. Yes, it does not give them any right to bully their sister. But if they want to keep a distance from her, let them. If they can't "adore" her, it's natural. It's human. Get off your high horse though. You went to therapy - put them in therapy. Stop invalidating their feelings. Stop punishing them for being emotional human beings. Their feelings towards cheating and their anger towards your husband AND YOU are valid. Cheating destroys families, not just marriages. Yo... (5)
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YTAI have never commented on anything before, I normally just read and move on, but I have to put my two cents in here.You absolutely shattered your sons' worlds and are mad at/punishing them? You and your husband lied to them for years and expected everything to be copasetic when you pulled the rug out from under them? Of course they're angry! Of course they're mad at not only the adults but also their sister! They just found out that their father cheated on their mother, produced a child, and that their mother was so okay with it that she adopted the product of his affair. Unless you as a child have witnessed/been made aware of your parent's infidelity, you will never understand the level of hurt and anger your sons are going through at the moment. How dare you try to make them out to be the bad guys. Is the little girl innocent in all of this? Of course! However, expecting your own biological children (who are still actually children) to behave with a rational and calmness that n... (1)
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Remove my username. This is harassment. Or explain to me why my opinion which matches many others qualifies you to make judgments against me and call me names?
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I'm sorry that the user "autodrama" called you a mean name, but that doesn't mean that you should call a bunch of other people, including a random five year old (real or not), names either. Looks like you've got some growing up to do.
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Her mother called her a little princess. I am not the OP, I am commenting on a sub called AITA (am I the butthole) and yes the OP is an butthole to her biological children over the product of her husband's affair.
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Do you think adopting children is butthole behavior?
This woman not only didn't divorce her husband but chose to show love to an unwanted child who she had every reason to hate. She is a saint.
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you should probably shut down your reddit account, the people on this site are basically Kiwifarmers and expert doxxers. Just for you and your family's safety, I've seen them figure out people's addresses and workplaces etc.
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I've seen one eat a cat on livestream
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I just realized how funny the term "kiwi farmer" must sound to someone out of the loop
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You flatter us. The users on here don't even have unbanned reddit accounts.
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Lmao is this real? We milked a true fgt lolcow this badly?
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And it's a femoid at that
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@carpathianflorist they can help you with this and are very understanding
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Haha that's so crazy your husband had an affair. Wanna get one over on him?
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youre a fricking r-slur who can't read, what makes you think this is the OP? keep yourself safe
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simp for random redditors harder r-slur
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It isn't my post! I am not the poster I am a commenter. Grow up.
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I'd just calm down and leave. Everyone on this site is r-slurred and can barely operate a computer. Just look at the UI.
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I'm very sorry to hear what you went through with your father and his second wife. That's heartbreaking, and sounds incredibly tough. It's perfectly understandable that you would be strongly affected and experiencing anger about why he treated you that way. Your strength and perseverance is commendable, and your feelings are valid. If you ever want to talk or vent, I'm here for you
I also want to take a moment to sincerely apologize for how this group treated you. It's not very considerate or understanding at all, and I'm sorry. I hope you can forgive us and stay around, because having someone like you here is a huge part of what will make this group become better
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Psst: everybody in this group is making fun of you
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wow rude
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I dunno. Explain your opinion to me, and then I will choose which names to call you
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Eat shit white BIPOC.
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Weird thread. Even if it's bait, aren't the sons obviously in the wrong here? Mom is saying that they need to get over it or they'll be punished. What are the alternatives? Turning all sibling disputes into "you're picking child X over child Y" instead of looking at who's actually out of line seems typical of Reddit thinking, I guess.
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Yeah, dramatic backstory aside, the sons taking it out on the bastard girl is wrong and the Mom is right to tell them to shape up.
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Yeah, bait or not, Reddit's vitriol on this one surprised me. Mom isn't even saying the sons need to "get over it", she's saying they aren't allowed to be peepees while they come to terms with it all, and giving consequences for their actions if they do.
Normally Reddit is very much on the side of "no victim blaming", but they're being pretty ruthless dumping on her for being a manipulative doormat or whatever after being cheated on. Most of them are teens with no life experience though, so I guess it makes sense they would side with the sons acting like self-righteous little shits and blame everything on mom
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Redditoids all have unresolved family drama which is probably why.
Husband is a shithead, kids are shitheads for hating their biological sister for daddy's (kinda huge) frickup, mom is probably a bit too nice, but at least she tried to keep the family together and not let the woman abort the child or abandon it even if it wasn't hers. !catholics
The other kids need to deal with it. Honor thy father and thy mother. Or just don't a shithead to people who didn't choose the circumstances of their birth.
Not that any of this is real except for redditoids being shitty people larping as whatever today's definition of a "good", right side of history person is.
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tbh the best thing would be to for the 18 year to snuff the 5yr, dump her in a river and blame it on a BIPOC. Then things can go back to normal.
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This might be the shittiest bait i've ever seen
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Yeah, let's tell children that dad banged the maid and raise them thinking it's normal. Little kids would never grow up calling their little sister "halfie" or laugh at mom and tell her dad's doing it again.
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Kids are notoriously empathetic
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Kids are simultaneously incredibly kind and thoughtful, and fricking self absorbed sociopaths.
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Well yeah, they should have kept it a secret and I'm not even joking.
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Getting cucked by a woman
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It really isn't that uncommon, but dad can ghost the bang maid, mom can't
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Wow, this is a rare meme right here. I don't think I've ever seen
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This reads like an AI was prompted to make the ultimate Reddit reply bait.
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The people involved here should've gone to their graves with this secret.
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If there's one thing women are good for, it is fricking a good thing up.
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Wait--you're telling me a woman who brought to term a baby from another man while married with two kids wasn't able to keep her marriage together?
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I told them they're allowed to feel whatever. Being upset is no excuse to treat me and their sister like shit.:
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We never planned on telling them about my husband's affair because it wasn't something they needed to know.:
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My daughter deserves to know where she comes from. We are allowing bio mom 1 hour at the park supervised by both me and my husband. Then we will determine if she will be involved in our daughter's life and how much.:
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YTAWow, you are a real piece of shit, aren't you?The girl has no fault in all of this, that much is clear. But instead of talking it out with your sons and getting them therapy and counselling, you threaten to abandon them and choose, what they see as an affair baby, over them.You are the adult here. You should have been the cooler mind, and getting them all the help they need so that they could understand that being angry at the sister is futile. Only their dad and you deserve their anger. Not the sister.They are teenagers. Teenagers are goddarn reactionary, hormonal idiots. They are NOT supposed to know better, especially in a fricked up situation like this.Instead, you idiot, you threatened to abandon them.They have every right to be upset. At your piece of shit husband who is a fricking cheater, and at you, a liar. Who is also a piece of shit.You are going to lose your sons at this rate, and you are going to deserve it.:
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YTA. I don't know how they are actually treating the girl child, so maybe they are aholes too. But you and your husband need to realise that your decisions are not just "marital." They affect your children way more. Not in a single decision have you included them. For you, your husband cheated 6 years ago and you got a daughter. For them, their father destroyed their family unit a few weeks ago and they see the poor kid as a living embodiment of their father's deceit and your acceptance. They are human and will lash out. Yes, it does not give them any right to bully their sister. But if they want to keep a distance from her, let them. If they can't "adore" her, it's natural. It's human. Get off your high horse though. You went to therapy - put them in therapy. Stop invalidating their feelings. Stop punishing them for being emotional human beings. Their feelings towards cheating and their anger towards your husband AND YOU are valid. Cheating destroys families, not just marriages. Yo...:
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YTAI have never commented on anything before, I normally just read and move on, but I have to put my two cents in here.You absolutely shattered your sons' worlds and are mad at/punishing them? You and your husband lied to them for years and expected everything to be copasetic when you pulled the rug out from under them? Of course they're angry! Of course they're mad at not only the adults but also their sister! They just found out that their father cheated on their mother, produced a child, and that their mother was so okay with it that she adopted the product of his affair. Unless you as a child have witnessed/been made aware of your parent's infidelity, you will never understand the level of hurt and anger your sons are going through at the moment. How dare you try to make them out to be the bad guys. Is the little girl innocent in all of this? Of course! However, expecting your own biological children (who are still actually children) to behave with a rational and calmness that n...:
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lol at some point the bot collaboration will have brought more new people here than actual users have.
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At some point the site will be mostly bots posting bot drama.
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If you're so worried about people seeing your posts, have you considered upping the quality? Maybe making the humor more intentional?
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Did you even see my posts? They aren't even listed here so unless you're actually stalking my username you wouldn't have. Leave me alone, and stay away from my account. Or better yet, how about I block you and you can f*ck all the way off.
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Why are you upset people are looking at stuff you posted online?
I would ask if your parents ever told you about how the internet works but you seem to be the parent, and not a good one at that.
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I am not the OP of that post I am a commenter, I have nothing to do with the fact that poster is a certified butthole.
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That face when you start fighting a mirror and the mirror starts to win
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For what it's worth, those dorks on reddit don't know what they're talking about. Their answer to eveything is therapy and feeling sorry for themselves. Forgiving your husband and adopting his child couldn't have been easy. You seem like a good lady.
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This is what I'm talking about. What would your kids think if they saw this post? It's not funny, or even provocative. Who benefits?
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What would your children do if they saw your BWC uploaded several times in your comments?
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BIPOCs in paradise
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I'm not the OP I am a commenter and yes OP is an butthole. My comments don't even show up here.
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i can remove and blacklist your name from the website. all you have to do is visit my profile and click gift coins then give me your coins. its basically the same as reddit karma (it is useless)
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Idk how the bot determines "bigget lolcow" it didn't even link any of your comments. Weird stuff.
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You realize that blocking doesn't actually do anything right. Everything on this website is basically the troll the frick out of snowflakes
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