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Confused poly whore posts words galore about getting tested for the clap because her girlfriend’s fiancé’s wife’s husband fricked his second cousin who turned out to be pozzed. Polys seethe about the term “clean”.

https://old.reddit.com/r/polyamory/comments/s3ouvf/i_have_a_moralethical_question_for_you_all?sort=controversial

Jesus Christ what is wrong with these coomer poly whores?

On my end, I have my boyfriend, and my fiancé, and then my fiancé has her girlfriend, and her girlfriend’s husband - let’s call him John.

I need a chalkboard to figure this out.

Somehow they knew he was dating a pozzed foid

So a while back, John was dating this woman, who was Herpes 1 and 2 positive,

John’s a Chad who just non chalantly let it drop that he’s barebacking a pozzed foid

So, just a few days ago, it came out that John had been having this unprotected sexual relationship, which obviously came as a massive surprise to all of us, not least of which because he had actually brought up the topic of wanting to have unprotected s*x in this relationship

John’s wife is pozzed now

His wife was the most surprised of all, and immediately got herself tested. She just got her results today, and they (of course) show her as positive for both Herpes 1 and 2.

And the whole of the rest of the coomer squad have all rubbed up against John’s wife a bunch of times.

I have had s*x directly with his wife, as well as the more typical route amongst each other (my boyfriend with me, me with my fiance, and my fiancé with her)

But should they get tested? Everyone’s gonna get the clap eventually right?

the argument that the stigma/shame associated with having the virus is often much worse than actually having it, and what seems to essentially be the idea that “everyone on the planet is going to eventually have it anyways, so we might as well just let it spread”

The rest is words words words about STDs and testing but bottom line is - don’t be mean to pozzed people!

First off, don't use the word "clean" in regards to STIs, it furthers the shame and stigma by insinuating that people who have STIs are "dirty" -- you're already feeling that stigma right now, yeah, that worrisome little feeling of having to tell potential partners and deal with their reaction and your perceived judgement of you, that's part of the stigma.

After spending time amongst these coomers who frick like dirty dogs I have no surprise anymore as to why we have things like aids and syphalus.


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In regards to future sexual encounters, if you're aware that you're STI positive, then yes, you should tell them so that they can make their own informed decision for their own sexual health. It's really not that scary of a prospect, it's just a simple "hey, I'm looking forward to this hookup later. Just so you're aware, I'm positive for _____ and this is what I do to limit exposure to other people _____ (treatment and protection used). If that's not a risk you're willing to take then I understand and wish you well, however, if you're okay with it, what, if any, harm reduction techniques would you like to use to mitigate your risk of exposure?"

Imagine hooking up with somebody who would even say “Hey I’m looking forward to this hookup later”, then follow it up with a load of stilted doctor’s office speak

I hate Redditors and poly coomers

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Much like my hate towards :!marseytrain:s, I've come to realize that my hate towards polycels is also misplaced. There are probably some cool polystrags out there that don't think they're enlightened for fricking multiple people at the same time and don't need to set up numerous exhausting rules that they selectively enforce.

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You’re absolutely right, I was being glib. I’m sure the majority of polycels live their lives and frick whoever they frick without any fuss and without feeling the need to endlessly bang on about it or make it their entire personality

I could more accurately say I hate Reddit poly coomers

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I cannot wait to have an open, honest, and frank discussion about sexual preferences before filling out this twenty page questionnaire with the strange I just picked up at the bar at closing time

I know South Park made this joke about seven years ago, weird to see it gradually become the status quo on Reddit

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it's like the gentle, soothing voice talking quickly in the background of a commercial for a new drug for your bowel disorder, talking about how this new drug causes bowel disorders as well as suicide

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