What’s with men always wanting to invade queer spaces? : actuallesbians

Edit: should've said cis men

PSA, Trans men usually really don't like being turned into a special exception like that.

You ain’t had THIS peepee🙄

Let's look...

Transbian

Somebody post it to /r/selfawarewolves

They do the same to trans women too. Cis guys put down that they’re trans on places like grindr because they’re chasers.

I hate the feeling of being someone’s fetish

For this exact reason I’ll never start dating. I feel like imposter irl so online it would be worse because of this type of people.

Extremely Reddit moment

If trans woman are brought up and your first thought is "I'd never date a woman with a peepee", it's probably coming from a transphobic place. Because;

1. It's weird for you to so readily, and unprompted, define us so explicitly by something we did not ask for and do not want. Especially when it's the same thing transphobes use to deny us womanhood, and paint us as unwanted, unlovable deviants. Especially when many of us don't use, and actively hide our peepee during s*x, even actively hating the idea of being made to use it during s*x. Especially especially when some of don't even have them anymore. It can come off like you see us as woman in name only, and that we still want to have s*x like, and as a man. As if s*x with us inherently distinct and alien to s*x w|w have. That is transphobic.
2. It's not too dissimilar to having a racial preference. In that, while everyone respects you can't control who you are attracted to, there's clearly a line that can be crossed. Being overly proud of, defensive of, and vocal about this preference, especially when it's uncalled for, and litterally just being done in response to marginalized people existing in your space most definitely crosses a line. It comes off as targeted dislike of that specific marginalized group.
3. It's not like trans woman are litterally trying to force you to date them and you have to constantly wave a sign telling us to stay away. If that's what you feel is going on, you almost certainly are coming from a transphobic place and operating under confirmation bias. It's plenty fine enough to just politely decline a trans person asking to date you. You know, the way you'd decline litterally anyone else you don't want to date. Instead of loudly broadcasting how much you don't want to date them preemptively, unprompted, in spaces they are trying to feel safe within.

Simply put, "It's not inherently transphobic to have a genital preference" doesn't mean "that type of transphobia is allowed", it's saying it's not inherently transphobic to feel that way, as long as it's not coming from a transphobic place, and you don't act on that feeling in a transphobic way.

But honestly, it's still shallow. It's not "perfectly fine" to refuse to date a trans person, it's just not inherently transphobic. If you aren't transphobic, you are still being really shallow and judgmental, treating people like meat to be discarded for their imperfections.

They're all thinking it

And not to mention that if a lesbian woman does want one, it is likely coming from her cute trans gf, not from some weirdo cis man

Top tier baitpost, good work fellas

They do the same to trans women too. Cis guys put down that they’re trans on places like grindr because they’re chasers. I hate the feeling of being someone’s fetish

She is tired of being someone’s fetish

I'm gay now

frick! i got banned so quickly and wasn't even trying to be mean

I think they Just don't understand that there are woman who really DO NOT want a peepee. In their head wlw couples are something that is specificly made for him to injoy as a kink, Not something that can stand on it's own. It's pure narcissism.

And not to mention that if a lesbian woman does want one, it is likely coming from her cute trans gf, not from some weirdo cis man

I wanted to say the same, some lesbians might want d*cks from nonbinary people or trans women, but surely not from men.

You ain’t had THIS peepee 🙄

>transbian flair

Poetry

Fricking butt-sucking goblins keep your dumpster-fire dead website which is a sorry excuse for an abuser in competition with the biggest abuser of all—reddit—; that’s all this is, a painfully despicable shot at usurping reddit as the principle toxic internet forum; keep dreaming bug-brains, you’re just a woodlouse trying to take the corner from the fricking centipede. Not even reddit would have banned me for this. But no, they are evolved here because they don’t delete posts... what a piling load of fricking horseshit this is. There is no way to have a fair forum in this world, and it’s the complacency of the majority that keeps it that way—the majority like sucking dirty butthole, let them then.

Snapshots:

• undelete.pullpush.io
• archive.org
• archive.ph (click to archive)

They do the same to trans women too. Cis guys put down that they’re trans on places like grindr because they’re chasers. I hate the feeling of being someone’s fetish

What about being your own fetish?

🤭🤭

"And not to mention that if a lesbian woman does want [peepee], it is likely coming from her cute trans gf, not from some weirdo cis man"

That's gross and also very dumb. Unless they've done a bunch of research (like sociopathic levels of research on a topic they don't really care about), it should be pretty easy to figure out that they're just a cis man.

jeezz yea who would do that

They hate LGBTQ people 😰

Men like conquest, what's not to get?

They view us as a challenge. It’s really gross. I’m not a test of your manhood and capabilities buddy, I’m an individual human being with my own thoughts, feelings, and desires.