That said, when I see trans women dressed excessively girly, inappropriately or almost in a costume (school girl outfits, Princess dresses, etc. etc.) I have trouble relating. It feels like this is enforcing negative trans stereotypes, and harming us as a group.
Logically, I know what other people do is unlikely to affect me, and my reaction is probably due to some remaining transphobia. Just a bunch of girls and women living their best lives and doing the things they always wanted to do but couldn't. I just have trouble squaring this away with my own feelings.
No hate on those enjoying themselves, I really am tempted to chalk this up firmly as a 'me' problem.
The TL:DR is that yes, it's a me problem. Trans women are beautiful and unique, it's our business what we wear, and haters are gonna hate anyway so I need to get over myself. And I promise I'm working on it.
OP trying so hard not to offend the hugbox, wonder what the commenters have to say:
so brave!
none whatsoever I'm sure, might as well drop the cis/trans labels
hormones make you young again!
learning to accept that you can't get your childhood back and moving on? nah, wear the outfit xueen
need safe spaces without c*s chuds telling us we're being "creepy" or "inappropriate"
op is noticing things
it's just trauma, chud!
mids 30s, dressing 13-14, perfectly valid and normal!
not wanting creepers to represent you is bigotry
cis women need to pass too
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this comic probably drove dozens of people to suicide
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One step at a time insha Allah
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These comics are hilarious but you just know it hit a little too close to home and derailed some trains
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I sure hope so!
!blackjack105
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I wish that existed.
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This is verno
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glad to see that trans folks have adopted the foid trait of refusing to take responsibility for your actions. in that sense they're truly women
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In a much, much better place lol.
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Openly admitting they put themselves above literally everyone and everything to avoid even a minor inconvenience like having a independent thought
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white person spotted
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Yeah no shit its a mayo
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This is the funniest one to me., I've been with "queer" groups of people before and even the butchiest lesbo still looks like a foid.
simply delirious levels of cope here
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I'm 6', often wear men's clothes, and still have never been mistaken as a man
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What's the weather like up there freak?
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Hmu
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one more rdrama foid eh...
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All cissies have a transdar
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There isn’t a single woman (male) that passes.
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Wtf has this train ever been outside.
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What this porn addict doesn't realise is that actual school girl uniforms have skirt that go down to the knees and blouses that look professional, not the miniskirts and half-open bare-midriff shirts in the videos he jerks off to.
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I went to a private school, girls dressed like that and us fellas had to wear dorky blazers. no one, guy or girl looked sexy in those uniforms lol this laydee is just coombrained
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Not looking sexy is the literal fricking point of these uniforms at the middle and high school level.
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You normally don't have to worry about elementary school children dressing like sluts.
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Lmao literally thinks the fetish existed first. You can't make this up
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The valid should never stop.
Being a bad caricature of a woman is the best
(and most dramatic) part about them
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A huge, blinking button that say's "I'm a woman! Address me as ma'am!" with a recording that says the same over and over would be just as effective and ridiculous as the get-ups they wear.
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Just trying to get this straight here. This guy -- a transphobe who hates performative ery -- has somehow been convinced to transition?
He's working through his transphobia with his therapist?
Hand up here who is this guy's therapist?
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it's an mtf who hates the worst "skirt go spinny uwu anime girl" types but because it's a hugbox that's "internalised transphobia" and a bad thing, not just common sense
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So he's just gunna transition into a frumpy cat lady. Probably end up more convincing than 99% of them.
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Problematic.
You have seen nothing yet. There's a LessWrong/SSC/TheMotte guy that goes by Saotome-Westlake and idk where he is now, but some years ago I had an argument with him about https://slatestarcodex.com/2014/11/21/the-categories-were-made-for-man-not-man-for-the-categories/ where he firmly insisted that no, trans women are not women, that's not how categories work, while (as I accidentally discovered because I'm a nosy b-word) being like six months in on heroic dosing of estrogen. Like still totally identifying as a man(male) who wants to grow tits because of gender dysphoria.
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For onlookers who enjoy reading wordswordswords and aren't already familiar with him: http://unremediatedgender.space/ with best-of posts list on /about/
His overriding thesis seems to be that Blanchard's taxonomy and the existence of autogynephilia (AGP) ought to be publicly recognized for the good of the AGPs (not least the turbo-autists in his LessWrong rationalist in-group) so:
they might avoid feeling compelled to out from a spergy obsession with logical consistency & their already weak identification with the masculine gender role,
they don't contort their world-model into thinking that the "woman in a man's body" shtick is actually true in base reality, and
the previous point being important for the fate of our future light cone, because he fears that when said friends create the 100ft-tall great AI god, they'll make it believe that transwomen are women, and this will lead to eternal heck on earth.
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Oh yeah, I forgot the "reparenting concept" where basically trains who are training, want to reexperience what its like being a kid or whatever but as their "correct" gender.
So these adults have to not only transition, but also regress mentally in order to re-experience their "missed childhood."
Making these the most mentally useless adults ever.
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That just sounds like extreme age play.
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there was a least a few examples on /r/itsafetish of these s who clearly were trying to live some teenage slumber party turned lesbian orgy fantasy like in their pornos.
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That's the one that caught my eye, like, yeah, it's still cringey and should be socially unacceptable for 30 year old "women" to dress like 6-14 year olds.
The time has come for the Necromaster. The unleashing of the fourth joker's card. The arrival of The Great Milenko
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If I saw a non-trans person pretending to be a 5 year old in their free time i would be just as disgusted even if they "had a repressed childhood"
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Exactly. Men who have a mid life crisis and buy a muscle car or motorcycle get mocked as is, but imagine if they walking around in a police costume complete with plastic badge and handcuffs.
The time has come for the Necromaster. The unleashing of the fourth joker's card. The arrival of The Great Milenko
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it's not a fetish or a mental illness ok
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Can someone explain the lack of self-awareness in terminally online mtf trains? They wear unironically cringe shit that women won't wear, they wear cat ears and shit irl. Is it due to being neurodivergent? Has to be.
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They jack off to anime. Women IRL don't dress like anime because sane people aren't out there trying to look like cartoons. But these guys don't really know anything about 3D women, so when they transition, they dress like the fantasy of a woman they have made up in their head.
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Yesterday i saw a tall neurodivergent girl in cat ears loudly talking to her dead eyed mid 50s father lol i think trains base themselves off of neurodivergent biofoids they interact with on groomercord
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they dress how they want women to dress, which is influenced by their borderline pornographic harem animes
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I- I'm sorry but I actually need this translated.
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Middle aged straight man pretending to be a gay tomboy.
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wearing pajamas and my "please be patient I have autism" cap and a band tee right now.
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pic?
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not wearing makeup rn and i was memeing cuz i don't have the hat. Tried to buy it once and it got mixed up with something else and I got kid's sized fortnite pajamas.
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Shenis. Now.
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Every time. Reminder that this movement is manufactured by (((them))) and "therapists" are the foot soldiers
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Coincidence? I think not
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Alright who did this?
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More lilely dresses like the 14 year old goth girl he wants to be inside of...
Also, lmao these inkwells have definitely never interacted with foids if they think its normal for women to dress like disney sissy porn whores. Pretty telling that their counterpoint is weebshit and cosplay conventions. Not their coworkers, friends, or family...
In closing,
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s vs. AGP enjoyers
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As true as it is who cares about “the group”. Just be a normal person if you want to be and let the AGP people get their heads stomped in
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We're very aware that the female-dating-strategy subreddit is operated for the purpose of misinformation, cult-like indoctrination, promoting dysfunction and hatred and negative emotions.
There's an extremely excellent reason (backed up by hours of discussion, ten-thousand-word essays no one outside our mod team will ever read, and theory literature digging and reaching out to experts) why AHS does not put the words "incel" and "women" into the same noun phrase the way that you did in your comment here:
It's because one of the major methods of bad faith apologetics for hate movements is the Tu Quoque: "They're just as bad".
But -- importantly -- the female-dating-strategy is not:
Importantly, there are no mass murders committed by FDS adherents. There are no restraining orders that we're aware of that cite the FDS subreddit. There are no men on Twitter stepping forward to say that members of the FDS movement are bombarding them with unwelcome tweets and direct messages, sexual advances, and photoshopping pornography of them.
In fact we cannot find any credible evidence that there are any groups of powerful women who take over institutions of power to leverage oppression of men as a whole class.
So calling them anything like "incels" is comparing sour apples to radium poisoning.
Snapshots:
undelete.pullpush.io
archive.org
archive.ph (click to archive)
ghostarchive.org (click to archive)
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