Another episode of you weren't exclusive so it's fine

So she has been very ok with casual s*x, and has been involved in it a lot.

I kinda made peace with this thing. That Okay, one can do whatever one likes when single.. its her own thing to deal with.

But, she just told me about something and it shook me.

So after our first 2 dates, she met one of her ex-casual partners and slept with him.

...poor dude.

And now the Redditors weigh in:

You love her.

She was honest.

She stopped when you became exclusive.

These are the only facts that matter.

Don't cling to the "not experienced / not evolved." Accepting people sometimes date more than one person at a time until the exclusive conversation is evolution. Do you want to evolve or cling to a notion you can't articulate?

this shit sounds like brainwashing darn

Yeah… two dates? No direct talk about being boyfriend/girlfriend? I understand the discomfort but this is perfectly understandable to me & wouldn’t make me think she’d eventually cheat or anything like that

It’s not a big deal. She barely knew you. You weren’t official, YOU feeling that bond is different than you two being official.

wow they're just pooping all over this dude

This is fairly standard behavior in 2022. She liked you but didn't feel at that point the same way about you as she does now. This should not be seen as an indication that she will be unfaithful to you or that she has done anything wrong.

the entire thread is like this, these are just the most upmarseyd ones