Sent dark text messages to married woman who my boyfriend of 5 years was having an affair with. She called the police.

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You're oversimplifying a complex situation to the point of adding nothing to the discussion.

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did the police contact you?

Yes, they just told me to knock it off. I just felt very powerless and bitter so that's why I lashed out.

They important part is that you weren't dumb enough to make death threats. 👍🏿

Death threats are so lame....Miss, you should threaten to cut of his balls, eye to eye of course. Also him being your boyfriend for 5 years, you must know all his dark secrets, it may sound petty, but I'm just saying....

Top it off by going over to give a beatdown then posting a video of it on utoob.

"If I ever see your face around here I'll make sure it gets thoroughly smeared off onto the curb."

You are lucky you didn't get charged with a felony for this. Get a fucking grip before you end up in jail.

Yeah, there is a deth penalty for annoying sms in some states, i'm sure.

Lol and what retard law school did you go to?

Yeah he's too retarded to even study bird law

You would think police would have better things to worry about than someone calling another person a cunt.

When someone feels threatened because they're receiving threats, they are supposed to do something about that. That is their job.

if these are threats these are the lamest threats ever. if the words hurt, it's called a block button. When someone goes beyond their means to threaten their life, I'd get it. But this isn't the case.

This is why the cops told her to knock it the fuck off instead of arresting her, etc.

i can read the thread, too.

That's nice, I too enjoy literacy.

I don't enjoy it

I found out that my boyfriend of five years had been having an affair with a married employee of his. He had also been exchanging dirty pictures and text messages with a different previous employee of his and I can only assume she was going to be his next sexual escapade. I discovered screenshots he had saved of conversations with these women and that is how I found out. That woman's husband was our friend and he had bought my boyfriend the phone that he used to cheat with his wife. The day after I found out, I sent the screenshots to the husband and a shitstorm started. The woman and my boyfriend both lost their jobs. I then sent some texts that I'm not proud of to that terrible woman and she called the police. My (now ex) boyfriend is planning to focus on making it big with his country music cover band. Good luck asshole!

Yeah the texts were kind of unnecessary. Maybe a smug "so how's the job and marriage these days?"

Unnecessary for her, but great for us. More pls.

EDIT: I am also using a throw away account for this post.

u/riemann1413 we know it's you

oh no

I can't believe your boyfriend was cheating on you, or that you know someone named Maxann

oh no

user reports:
1: Riemann used to be funny. What happened? This "indifferent and better than u" shtick is old.

oh no

Riemann used to be funny.

When?

What the hell? Did we just comment literally the same thing within a minute of each other?

Riemann used to be funny.

When?

Riemann used to be funny.

When?

That's not what I wrote, you fucking bitch.

idk fam that's literally what the report was

I was just pretending that was my report.

someone named Maxann

I'm glad someone brought this up.

the most offensive part of it all for me, tbh

maxannocide

i googled maxann spectrum and got a bunch of stuff about autism

No one wants to fuck rie, much less for five years. I mean, can you imagine?

can you imagine?

Do I have to?

Yes. Then, kys. As a kindness.

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1: Pretty rude tbh

It's not hazing if it comes from a place of love.

Don't beat yourself up over your text. She deserved it.

making it big

country music cover band

Why were you ever dating this redneck moron to begin with?

What can I say, I live in Kentucky so it's hard to weed them all out sometimes lol.

You should move to the big city and just slut it up. Chase your dreams!

Was he your only cousin?

I have never actually met anyone that dated/married their cousin here haha. I'm sure it's fairly common in shepherdsville, ky though. That place really is stereotypical Kentucky.

Also the fuck kind of name is maxann. That's not ok

Yeah I honestly really hate this state mainly because of the people. There's so many beautiful state parks, caves, and cool places to go climbing though!

Goofy's son's girlfriend in A Goofy Movie.

Kentucky

Well that explains Maxann.

Alright. That woman didn't hurt you. Your man did. I've never felt bad for one second when fucking married women. That was their choice.

I was equally angry at both of them. She acted like my friend and we hung out alot even during the timeframe that the affair was supposed to be happening. Her husband is in the military and they live on fort knox, he's also been paying out of pocket every month for her insulin treatments. My ex got kicked out of our apartment and received just as much hate from me as she did. The whole situation was just disgusting.

Everyone is capeable of that. I could easily have a pleasant dinner with the husband of a woman I was fucking. It's not hard and there's absolutely no animosity between me and him.

What I'm trying to say is she probably never thought about you for a single second while she was sucking his dick.

I could easily have a pleasant dinner with the husband of a woman I was fucking.

Who else /sociopath/ here?

Haha I just mean I don't connect the chick with anyone else ya know? Like she's just who she is, her husband isn't part of the equation.

ya know?

No. I try to stay very aware of husbands when I'm fucking married ladies.

W-which is like, all the time, bro. Totally crushing puss 25/8.

ya know?

No. I try to stay very aware of husbands when I'm fucking married ladies.

W-which is like, all the time, bro. Totally crushing puss 25/8.

:( I can't tell if a good person, being sarcastic, or incel.

Just cause I'm an incel doesn't mean I'm not also a good person.

Is it extremely less likely? Sure. But it's not certain.

Any combination dammit. I need to know!

After browsing /r/incel for far too long, I now know that being incel does in fact make you a horrible person.

Everyone is capeable of that

nah bruh that's just you

its like how rapists think everyone else is also a rapist. you're the outlier.

The link isn't working.

Maybe you're right, but I doubt it. I mean when you are fucking a woman do you seriously think about every other man she's been with? Or do you sit there on a date wondering what her brother thinks about you. I mean, who gives a shit about the extra people that don't matter at that moment? Wives, husbands, fathers (especially fathers), who fucking cares. You have her right there and you want her and she wants you. Its so hard for me to understand people who think they are so important that the cheatee gave them a second thought.

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mayocide urself tbhfam

Wives, husbands, fathers (especially fathers), who fucking cares.

nobody give a shit about fathers, but well-adjusted non-sociopaths care aboht wives and husbands you psycho. DAE not understand basic morality?!?!?!?!?!

you'retheoutlier

Oh fuck I forgot what sub I was in. My bad. Didn't mean to rustle any virgin nerd panties.

Hey Faggots,

My name is John, and I hate every single one of you. All of you are fat, retarded, no-lifes who spend every second of their day looking at stupid ass pictures. You are everything bad in the world. Honestly, have any of you ever gotten any pussy? I mean, I guess it’s fun making fun of people because of your own insecurities, but you all take to a whole new level. This is even worse than jerking off to pictures on facebook.

Don’t be a stranger. Just hit me with your best shot. I’m pretty much perfect. I was captain of the football team, and starter on my basketball team. What sports do you play, other than “jack off to naked drawn Japanese people”? I also get straight A’s, and have a banging hot girlfriend (She just blew me; Shit was SO cash). You are all faggots who should just kill yourselves. Thanks for listening.

This is amazing. And relevant.

please tell me you didnt eat THIS pasta

Nigga I eat all the pasta.

slinging the basic bitch insults costs style points, yo. bring the ruckus or spread cheeks.

Aight. I just got a squatty potty. Hold on.

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Some of us are on mobile my dude

Including me rn, and I have sub styles. Git gud skrub.

insulin treatments

How fat is this bitch?

Honestly she isn't fat at all lol, we are both skinny brunette chicks. I probably would feel alot better about this whole thing if she was fat or unattractive haha.

You would feel better if you were considered less worth fucking than an ugly fat chick?

me_irl

To be fair it's Kentucky, skinny probably means type 1 obese

and meth. Methabeetus.

Kentucky skinny means still fits on a mobility scooter.

So it's Jonas Brother diabetes not fatty diabetes?

insulin treatments kentucky

She has to be a fatty.

Her name is "maxann"

Lol she has to be a porker

Surprisingly not at all

Yeah I just seen.

Still dat name betrays her looks. Maxann is up there with "bertha" or "agatha"

Husband is though

PM'd you so mods don't ban

Cheeeeeeeee-ow

Yeah pretty tough to turn down

-.-

dependa

she literally lives off of his bennies

still has a boyfriend

mfw

I'd be a little more careful with the personal details.. How many Maxanns do you think fit that profile? I'm pretty sure I have her address, phone number and picture. She's pretty hot actually, if her last name does start with a C

Oh my. 😅

She's lucky that she gets to keep the same initials after the divorce

I'm really glad she blocked me on all social media because her face is really annoying. I hope they are getting a divorce, but whenever I was talking to her husband he said they were going to try to work it out. I saw that he had given her car back to her before she blocked me on instagram.

Then he's even dumber than he looks... Good you're not making the same mistake

I'm really glad she blocked me on all social media because her face is really annoying. I hope they are getting a divorce, but whenever I was talking to her husband he said they were going to try to work it out.

lol he doesn't wanna give up those married military benefits

I saw that he had given her car back to her before she blocked me on instagram.

Just requested to follow her, will update

Oh hey he wasn't lying she is kinda hot. OP we need a pic of you for comparison now

Since OP has posted her entire life story, it shouldn't be that much harder to find her picture either.

Unfortunately Maxann as her friends list on Facebook set to private and OP didn't give any indicator for her name. It's proving difficult

Yea that was too easy. She hot doe

She reminds me of Kenny Powers' ex girlfriend on east bound and down

lol she even has a diabetes awareness banner on her FB profile

Lmao I know right? The whole situation is pretty funny honestly.

Her husband is in the military and they live on fort knox, he's also been paying out of pocket every month for her insulin treatments.

Your boyfriend is Jody!

I've never felt bad for one second when fucking married women. That was their choice.

I mean, in your case it's actually their programming and pixels, but hey, to-may-to to-mah-to.

Like is the only way to have a story about sex taken seriously on Reddit to film a porn? Cause I'll do it. Every time I talk about normal everyday shit involving women the fucking 'tism comes out in you losers.

fucking married women isn't normal.

How? They are all fucking other people regularly. How is that possibly not normal?

Not every married woman engages in infidelity. It is possible not to cheat.

I'd say half do. That's what I'd call normal.

Source?

Lmfao Jesus do you never leave the house? Just look around.

Source?

Relevant flair.

Yes, it is.

So I take back what I said. You clearly can't leave the house due to your infirmity so you'll just have to trust me. Out there in the two legged world people fuck each other regularly. And often those people are in relationships with other people.

Source?

:) ok I like you now.

Bahahahhaha and you think people tell the truth on surveys about infidelity?

And why would people lie on anonymous surveys exactly?

Take like a single class on tests and measures and you'll see exactly how dumb any survey is, especially one on a subject that is even kind of controversial.

Whatever helps you sleep at night bud

:) knowing things does tend to help with that.

Every time I talk about normal everyday shit involving women the fucking 'tism comes out in you losers.

hey, how's buying panties going? Totally what all the alpha Chads do, right?

Just wanted to remind you that you're fucking lame :)

Whoah. Blast from the past. I did however buy new panties for my wife yesterday and I think overall it went well. The lady at Victoria’s Secret was very nice and helpful. So I’d say the panty buying is going well.

I’m going to hope that was a coincidence and I totally have no reason to worry about someone stalking my boring ass because that would be both horrifying on my part and very sad on theirs.

If you're knowingly doing something that you're aware will cause someone else a lot of pain and sadness then you're a piece of shit. Not as big of a piece of shit as the married person, but still a piece of shit

Pretty much. But they were going to do it with someone.

I've been a piece of shit in one way or another my entire life. So has everyone else. I just embrace it.

Pretty much. But they were going to do it with someone.

Which still doesn't absolve you

I've been a piece of shit in one way or another my entire life. So has everyone else. I just embrace it.

Edgelord much?

I literally said I'm a piece of shit after that... why in earth do you think I'm trying to absolve myself?

My (now ex) boyfriend is planning to focus on making it big with his country music cover band

Smash all his musical equip b4 you dump him for good.

Nah, sell all of it and go shopping.

Get a jetski

Nice, skipping r/relationships entirely, straight to drama

My (now ex) boyfriend is planning to focus on making it big with his country music cover band.

You are too blame here. You picked a loser to be attracted to.

underrated comment

Haha yeah love blinds you sometimes I guess.

Well don't leave us in suspense, nigga, what'd the popo do?

should have posted the screenshots to their facebook pages tbh you blew it

should hook up with her husband tbh fam

she already caught all the relevant stds from fuukboi mcfuckington. might as well double dose.

TFW you were a groupie all along

Lol naw, I hate country music so I rarely went to his shows unless it was a big one that I wanted to show my support for him at.

Been there done that, my ex moved to canada and got a record deal there haha

There's country music in Canada? There are record companies in Canada? I thought that's why they all came here

NO! Don't throw it away! Make it your coward account! You know, the drama account that you use but are afraid to be seen on drama so you use a throwawy with a name like u/pointmanzero... You know, a coward account!

you dun good, queenie. you bost dat good bussy.

What's my main account?

Wasn't is greatroh or some shit?

This is my main. I wish I had the time for an alt

This is your main? Sad

I mean this is my main too, but I've got a hand gun arriving in the mail, so I got that going for me.

Good for you.

My (now ex) boyfriend is planning to focus on making it big with his country music cover band.

Bro why would you date a guy like that? Have some respect for yourself

Did anything come of the police report? Are you in fact fit enough to smash her face in?

Nothing came from it thank goodness. They said they didn't have enough to charge me and just told me to knock it off. I've also never been in a fight before but I don't plan to try. Then I really will go to jail lol.

Yeah, probably shouldn't be talking shit unless you're fit. Unless she's as flabby as you are. Otherwise you risk a beat down.

I'm not flabby lol, I'm just a skinny anemic chick that works in an office. Not fat but also not muscular enough to be fighting. Shes about as small as I am though.

The only thing she said that was possibly illegal was the wipe her face on the pavement thing and even that wasn't really direct enough to constitute assault since it was "if I see you I'll..." not "I'm coming over there and murdering you tonight" or something

This was the best course of action. Revenge and lots of drama. You go girl

"Don't contact me again"

"I won't", she says, while contacting.

Yeah I slipped up there a little in the heat of the moment haha.

To be fair that little slut was sending mixed signals. "Don't not contact me" at first. Teasing you with a double negative. "Must've been auto-correct tee hee"... That's what they all say, little slutty minx whore.

I think she wants you to get over there and punish her. She's obviously into dom/sub. Give it to her rougher than your boyfriend ever could OP.

Aw im so sorry that happened to you fam.

Thank you for your kindness internet friend. :) The hardest part has been handling the financial strain of affording our apartment on our own on top of this emotional chaos but I'm pulling through!

look girl, just do what brianna wu did.

Claim some dude sent your a threat over twitter because he plays video games. Set up a patreon. Use money to buy a motorcycle.

Just a thought, but have you considered banging Maxann's husband? I would.

what little I can gather about you from this post has lead me to believe i'd cheat on you too.

Harsh bud bro

the rough sex has made me feel closer to you

basic-ass thirsty bitches smh

I'm glad your mom died. I hope your life is filled with misfortune and I hope your diabetes kills you someday.

Savage.

heteros smh

het genocide 2017

OP you're a hero.

Someone mod this woman

Sorry to hear that this happened to you miss. Now him being your boyfriend for 5 years you must know all of his dark secrets, this may sound petty ( remember we are on r/drama)......add to the drama.

His mom and sister found out and ragged on me for telling that woman's husband. They said "I had no right to do that." FFS. A bunch of our mutual friends found out as well and ostracized him. He's always put up a really convincing front to everyone that he is an extremely moral, god fearing person haha.. He only reaffirmed my agnostic beliefs. :)

Was he a choir boy too?

My ex is seriously one of the nicest, sweetest, most innocent women I've ever met in my life. I've known her my whole life and mean I thought this girl could do no wrong whatsoever, like the embodiment of a perfect person.

Yeah so long story short she's now cheating on her current bf with me. You think you know someone...

Quick question: You are doing this, because she is good in bed, or for another reason?

Corrupting someone through sex is one of the highest attainable forms of pleasure that comes without withdrawals.

there's nothing better than sex with a ex

A little bit of both to be honest, and I'll try and keep the explanation short.

Its not the first time I've been with someone in a relationship, and it probabaly wont be the last. I guess I do enjoy knowing that I am fucking a dudes gf way better than he ever did, but the sneaking around balances it out because you can't scratch/bite/pull hair hard etc. So it's not something I ever go looking for, it always just falls in my lap. I mean this time it started innocent enough, she was in the area visiting her cousin for her bday. She wanted to grab coffee, while there she mentions wanting to check out my new apartment, then she wanted to check out my room, and it went from there.

Oh yeah and this girl is a mental patient in the sheets, I still have scars from when we dated, So it was definitely a deciding factor.

Sex with the ex is by far the best sex

Who names their kid Maxann? White people, I'm sure.

This what I am going to name the child I am buying adopting from the Philippines

Max can be girl or boy so that's 1/2 girl. Ann is full girl. So he's like 75% girl. /u/DramaQueen222 did you marry a girl?

A girl (male)

How did the husband react? You should revenge fuck him if he's hot.

Or if he isn't buy him a lap dance or something more..The man deserves it.

I considered trying to court him but decided it was probably a bad idea lol. We talked alot for the first few days after it happened and kind of vented to one another. He was mostly just really sad and angry. The day I found out I called her and told her that I knew what was going on but that I would let her tell her husband herself. She just kept saying how sorrrrry she was and how she didn't mean to hurt me blah blah blah. I told her husband right after we hung up. It was three days before their wedding anniversary apparently. Her and my ex were both working together that day, the husband immediately pulled her out of work. He told me he also cancelled all of her credit cards he gave her and the appointments he had set for her to go to the spa. He took her car that he bought for her too haha.

Her and my ex were both working together that day, the husband immediately pulled her out of work. He told me he also cancelled all of her credit cards he gave her and the appointments he had set for her to go to the spa. He took her car that he bought for her too haha.

ahahahahaha that's fantastic. Hopefully he doesn't have to give up the car in the divorce though.

It's probably a bad idea to fuck a married guy in the military since that's a criminal offense on his part as far as the UCMJ is concerned. Not saying it wouldn't be overlooked, but he could still get in trouble.

I think you misunderstood. The husband of the cheating is military, OP isn't (as far as I know).

Yeah, but snally was suggesting she fuck the military husband in revenge and OP said she considered it.

Ah, then it's my bad for not really reading this thread

Rekt

and you had the presence of mind to screen shot and post here. I ain't even being sarcastic, what a champ!

Actually, he had taken screenshots of these conversations and I found them when I was looking for a photo in his phone, lmao. He had to slip up eventually I guess.

The day I found out I called her and told her that I knew what was going on but that I would let her tell her husband herself.

I told her husband right after we hung up.

Bruh

I'm sorry your boyfriend cheated and you didn't deserve that, but these texts were to the wrong person and she didn't deserve them. She was right to feel threatened because you sent her threats.

implying anyone should feel bad for a whore

what sub do you think you are in right now? Don't look! that's cheating.

just because we like drama doesn't mean we have to cuddle up with retards who put in text posts about their shitty stupid lives.

So are you saying this because you're a cheater, or because you've been cheated on and are trying to convince yourself you actually forgive them?

no lol the girl didn't cheat on OP, her boyfriend did.

Getting mad and sending death threats to someone who sleeps with your SO is retarded. The blame is on her boyfriend.

The woman was her friend and faked friendship while fucking her boyfriend. Seems pretty scummy to me

they clearly weren't friends.

Should have just had a threesome.

You guys are stupid. Her husband isn't even in the military, and I'm pretty sure her diabetes has nothing to do with her weight. She's super tiny. Have any of you guys actually talked to this girl? Or are you all hating on her based off of what the angry ex girlfriend says? She makes one bad decision and suddenly she's a terrible person? Why don't we ask the girlfriend about her squeaky clean past?

Jesus fucking christ OP you didn't mention that when you told her you were glad her mom died that her mom only died 2 weeks ago! That's some cold shit lol