Banged my Friend's Crush. He and friend group is hurt and angry.

4  2017-10-07 by thecoberto

I am a 19 y/o male, he is a 20 y/o male. The girl that I hooked up with who is the girl he likes, is a 20 y/o female. Am I in the wrong as much as they make it out to be? When my buddy found out that I hooked up with his crush, he blocked me, did not pick up my calls, and told a bunch of people that I "f*cked him over."

Now, the same friend group have sent me endearing messages saying that I have been shunned, saying that I did him wrong, how could I do such a thing and that I lost all of them as friends. One person told me that I would rather have p*ssy over friendship.

I have sent messages in a group chat, really just casual conversation like nothing ever happened yet they are still butthurt about it. I did not cheat, I did not hook up with his ex-gf. I did not rub it in his face, I acted like it never happened.

Are they being childish, petty, immature? Or am I being harsh, and uncaring?

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This is just my opinion. And I don't know the whole story, but I really don't think I need it.

You are wrong. If this was just a cheap fuck, and you chose an orgasm over a friend, then you don't deserve this person as a friend.

Kinda Crappy bro.

Loyalty.

I do not deserve him as a friend because I had a cheap fuck with his crush-is what youre saying? Thanks for the response!

Yes. What is hard to understand there?

Hahaha. You are doomed for a very lonely life if you can't understand the concept of betrayal.

Good Luck.

Can't tell if trolling or bitter incel...

Have you tried not being a cunt?

Elaborate please!

Imagine being so stupid you literally don't understand Bros b4 Hoes.

Bros before hoes.

I choose my friend over a girl anyday!

Any day, just not that one day. Probably never.

Just because I had sex with a girl he liked, does not mean I am a bad friend. She can have sex with who ever she wants. My buddy has no say. I am there for my friends. Do not think I am not.

Just because I had sex with a girl he liked, does not mean I am a bad friend.

Yes it does.

Explain then please

You chose random pussy over friendship. Apologize to him and learn from your stupidity.

He's not the one who cut the friendship because he wants pussy.

His friend clearly liked the girl more than just for sex.

Fucking implying, breh's twenty

Bae, you need to overcome this denial. It was the bro or hoe and you picked the hoe. Now, how was the sex?

Ask her to hook up again at your place. When yous go to fuck, do it doggystyle. Turn off the lights and have your friend hide in the closet. Then, pull out and have him swap in and take over.

Houdini her

Just let the guy cum first. Then he won't be pissed about not getting to fuck her.

Man he was in love with her. He thinks she is the one.

Why won't she fuck him?

She has told me personally that she is "just not that into him."

For real though. Is he ugly? Sounds like he acts like a spaz.

Did you use a condom or go bareback?

Bare. And yes he has impulse control issues.

What's she look like? Did you cum in her?

Damn man youre wanting a bio

So she's not even hot?

This makes you a shitty friend. Plenty of other sloots out there. Why'd you bag this one?

if you and your friends were girls she’d already have ripped your hair out in clumps and broken three of your ribs

Sure, you're a top lad. I value my friends ability to choose 5 minutes of friction over my feelings.

She can have sex with whoever she wants and your friends can choose to not be friends with whoever they want. If a buddy of mine had such disregard for my feelings my group would drop him fast. Try not being a sack of shit.

*Holes.

It's not your fault she friend-zoned his sorry ass.

yes, this. He has been caught up on this girl that has no interest in him at all.

He's trying to undermine your dominance as alpha male to get a chance to mate himself. Pity fucking him will not only put him in his place, it will also regain his friendship and cement your new status in the group.

Pity fucking? Please elaborate on the term

He's a pitiful lonely creep and nobody will ever touch his genitals if you don't do it

Your "bros" are cucked faggots who, rather than get pissy at this slore, are just jealous of you so now they are shunning you. They should be telling this hoe to fuck off, but have put the pussy on the pedestal and cannot relate to you just trying to moisturize your cock with some natural female lubricant.

Don't worry my bro, you will find a new group of friends who aren't such beta losers that will happily toss around some jizzrag with you. Find some gymbros, boost some testosterone, fuck bitches, then find a tradwife who will be worth settling down with and not fuck other dudes on a whim.

I don't want to make any "personal attacks", but I think it's objectively true that this city, state, nation, world, and likely your own family would all be better off had you never existed. Everything I've ever seen you write has detracted from the conversation and stands for nothing other than evidence that the caricature of Americans as stupid, lazy, gullible, fearful, and incapable of complex thought has at least some (read:one) basis in fact.

Unfortunately, there is no way to erase you entirely from existence. You can, however, rectify this problem yourself. It won't get us back all the time and oxygen you've cost us, but it would prevent any more of this waste from occurring. There are many ways you can do this. I would be happy to help stop the unfortunate mistake that your life represents on the balance sheet of humanity.

This is good shit my duuuude! Can you show me the proper method in offing myself first. I want to make sure I do it properly.

[tip]

But I could do it for free.

Timestamp or gtfo

No you didn't

Lmao all your friends sound like whiny little pussies who can't get laid. He doesn't have dibs on her and he can't dictate who you fuck. Tell them to such a fat dick after you fuck her again

Why hasn’t this been stickied yet

I hope it does lol!

anyway if she rejected your friend before she fucked you you’re fine. if she rejected your friend AFTER she fucked you you’re terrible. buy him a hooker in compensation

Rejected before.

ok that’s their problem then

If he liked her so much how come he didn't fuck her?

Go find some better friends brah, you're barely more than a teen so it'll take about half a month.

you chose a hoe before a bro as is your right. Your friends think you're a cunt for doing that as is their right. And we are laughing at you for losing your friends as is our right.

There's no dibs. Bunch of limp dicks here that sit and wait instead of making a move, like your buddy. If it wasn't you it would be some other dude.

Sounds like you two are going to have to fuck each other to get over this.

This. If it wasnt me some other dude would.

Your friend needs to move on, it's what's best for him and he is taking his rejection out on you. If he won't even hear your apology or how you could make it up to him, that's his deal. Friends forgive each other. Can't believe your other friends are enabling him. Tough shit, man.

Enabling is a great word for it. I'm unsure if I should apologize to him, or just let it be with time.

I'd definitely give it time if he is being hot headed. Hopefully you will get a natural time to talk to him about it.

Ask yourself why the fuck you want to be friends with a spaz. You're being as bad as he is with her.

I think you should be killed.

All sex outside marriage is wrong.

How hot is she and how close were you and your friend?

Id say 6 on my scale. Good friends you could call us.

I think you messed up then, if he was a good friend and she wasn't even that hot then I doubt the benefits outweighed all these costs

I do see your point!

Did your friend have a chance with her?

Not a chance. She did not like him.

Bang her again duh

The only solution is to have sex with your friend.

Logical

OP literally did nothing wrong. There's no such thing as 'dibs' on single people.