Sending my SO to the grocery store instead of going on my own is essentially self-sabotage. I’m guaranteed to have at least three protracted phone calls to help him locate things or debate between alternative products. If meat is on the list at all, there will be a dedicated call specifically to discuss marbling or cuts or the merits of 80/20 vs 93/7.
It’s like, I THOUGHT we were splitting chores. I didn’t realize that by doing so I was adding babysitting a grown man to my half of the list. Congratulations, honey. You have somehow managed to make your chores my chores. And you will want praise for that.
/u/Durbee let's just flip flop this for a second. If your SO was posting about how you fucked up life's most basic tasks and basically acted like an overgrown little girl who he needed to babysit, you'd be REEEEEEEEEEEEE'ing like a motherfucker about what a misogynist he was.
Why be with this guy? You don't seem to respect him very much. Fucking cut him loose and let him be with someone who won't write horrible fucking things about him on the internet. Besides, you don't need no man, you're an empowered womyn.
Why be with this guy? You don't seem to respect him very much.
Either she's exaggerating because she's a mean spirited bitch, or just imagine what she must be like if this man-baby is the best she can do?
Honestly though, men have to stop believing that the only way to sustain a relationship is to "placate at any cost" their girlfriends/wives. Even if it's encouraged by pop-culture these days, it's just as damaging as the previous era of "shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich" was to women.
Sure, sometimes you need to drive back to the store to get the right yogurt, but sometimes you need to tell a bitch to go fuck herself. Moderation in all things.
Right, but if this poor abused doormat of a man ever grew a set and told her to stop being a cunt, /u/Durbee would immediately post a crying gif on TrollX accompanied by an account of how her SO "emotionally abused her" and how "she's shaking so hard" and "needs support."
Half of these broads would file police reports if their SOs ever treated them the exact same way that they treat their SOs.
Now realize that /u/saltytrannzyballz spends hours every day scouring trollx and has multiple alts for posting on trollx and spends a significant amount of his time not on trollx crafting these elavorate scenarios abput trollx, and then he comes to r drama to complain about trollx
Literally never been banned for that but maybe you should tell me what alt you’re using, you hypocrite? Mine are pretty fucking obvious since they share a word.
lol, are the winter blues making you feel homesick riemann? I know it’s a long wait for you but soon you can jump on a train, get away from stuffy college and disappoint your family by telling them how you spent thousands of dollars pumped into your education smugposting on Reddit in a lonely room. I’m sure they’ll be suicidal proud when they find out you’re an /r/drama moderator, you utterly sad weirdo, pmao
Naw it just all goes back to when you first lied about /u/John_Kvetch not being your alt and why you got banned originally. Enjoy your inevitable ban on this account, and I’ll see you in a couple days as /u/Jerry_Kvetch or whatever it will be.
John_Kvetch wasn't even my first account or first of the Kvetch family line so you can't even keep up with your weird stalkerish obsession. Enjoy the embarrassingly pathetic sense of victory you get by snitching to the admins and I'll eventually mock you as Jerry_Kvetch too (nice name bro).
Honestly though, men have to stop believing that the only way to sustain a relationship is to "placate at any cost" their girlfriends/wives. Even if it's encouraged by pop-culture these days, it's just as damaging as the previous era of "shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich" was to women.
This shit is biologically programmed broski society in general just views men in a negative light compared to women when it comes to stuff like this.
Why do you think the "dumb husband" trope is so common in our media?
It's not biological, it's cultural. In the black community its the other way round and women have to eat the shit while the guys bitch about them. That's why relationships between white women and black guys have such a high break up rate because both partners think it's the other's responsibility to keep the relationship together. However marriages between black women and white guys have the lowest divorce rate.
Either she's exaggerating because she's a mean spirited bitch, or just imagine what she must be like if this man-baby is the best she can do?
Nah, it's because she's a bitch.
"OMG UGH I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GOT THE 90/10, YOU KNOW I'M ON A DIET THIS IS GASLIGHTING AND ABUSE YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE ME FAT"
(next time)
"OMG UGH ARE YOU SAYING I'M FAT WHY DID YOU GET THE 93/7!"
(next time)
"Hey, honey, which ground beef did you want?"
If guys ask a wife / girlfriend's opinion, 99% of the time it's because she was a complete bitch the last time he made a judgement call, and he's too much of a pussy to just say "Who gives a fuck, do it yourself next time if you have a problem, fatty".
100% the guy calls her so he doesn't come home with the "wrong" thing. She doesn't need to call him while she's out shopping because he's not going to give her grief for buying 93/7 instead of 80/20 meat. She's going to figure whatever she brings home is the "right" thing.
Yeah, yeeeeaaaa, the calling thing, specially about something trivial, is a sign of an emotionally abusive relationship. Wanting input from your SO ("Hey, the list says cereal- did you want bran flakes or something full of sugar") is one thing, but calling about every little thing means that he's been yelled at pretty severely. She probably doesn't "allow" him to go to the store with this as an excuse ("he fucks up everything"- also, let's harken to some other red flags and, oh, blaming your SO for everything and devaluing their effort is there) but she wants to keep him under her thumb.
Source: That was me. I was the husband for a longer time than I'd admit.
I was scared to buy the wrong thing from the store. I was scared to stop the car anywhere (even for gas) without my ex's say so because, heaven forbid, I spend 2¢ more on gas than he'd allow. Hell, I wasn't even allowed to have the car unless he was with me. I was broken, my entire life revolves around what he said to do out of fear of what he would do if I didn't. I looked perfectly content and happy on the outside, but I had tried to kill myself more than once. The chances that this husband is being manipulated and controlled are extremely high.
Yea, pretty good. He's the father of my kid, so I have to tolerate him still. He also tries to pull the same gaslighting manipulative bullshit, but I think I put him in his place today. Not sure how long it'll stick, but for now, there is peace amongst world's.
I'm really sorry that happened to you. While that's not typical of my relationship, I can 100% agree that my post presented as such. For us, he's recovering from a TBI. There's no yelling, no matter what. Sickness and health is what I signed up for. I wish you better luck and love in future.
To me it sounds like the poor dude is calling /u/Durbee because otherwise she will nag the shit out of him because he didn't get the exact right product she wanted. So he is kind and calls her because he wants to make sure he gets exactly the right kind of wool vegan pads because all she did was sloppy write down pads.
How do you help someone find things in a grocery store over the phone? Did she memorize the product placement? I mean, that's what the store employees are there for.
Also, he probably worries so much over the details because if he didn't get EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAD IN MIND you'd bitch about it endlessly and we'd get basically the same reddit post with a few details switched around.
I thought it all evened out in the end. Sure, I'll buy the groceries. You change my oil, my dude. Yeah, okay, I'll do the dishes. You cooked dinner. Fine, you asked me where the dish soap is, because I usually out it away.
I dunno I'd say the bigger issue is that he's calling to clarify what she wants and being careful with what he buys, and she's throwing a fucking fit over that.
Well, I’m not sure if I should be worried or flattered by being roasted on one of my favorite subs.
Y’all are right, this paints neither me nor my spouse in a good light. I’m kvetching in that post about this tiny thing in my marriage that’s a bit frustrating.
In truth, these grocery trips are part of a process for him. The calls are pep talks.
I don’t get angry or frustrated at him, but I do bitch about how exhausting that can be on the internet.
Thank y’all for being worried for my guy. Good looking out.
I don't care how my husband folds laundry, I care when the folded laundry ends up somewhere gross so it needs to be washed again. Or when the folded laundry is left piled somewhere rather than put into drawers, so that it eventually just falls into a pile of mess. If the dishes are loaded into the dishwasher in a way that they're not getting clean, it's done wrong. If the bathroom was "cleaned" but the toilet and tub and sink weren't scrubbed, it's not clean.
Basically /u/mungboot is demanding the physical labor of cleaning the house, while imposing the emotional burden of being guilted for "doing it wrong" and the emotional strain of being accused of sabotage.
Of course, these women will say men should just understand where and how to clean all the extra shit women bring into the house to make it "nice" though "nice" only ever lasts a weekend.
You're making a good point, but let's not pretend that "half-assing" isn't a thing people do. Sometimes even with the purpose of getting people so frustrated they stop asking you to contribute. If it was the other person's turn to do the laundry, I'd be pissed if when I went to get a clean towel I found them balled up on top of the dryer smelling of mildew. Do your half of the chores like an adult and not like a sulky teenager. And this is coming from someone who often sides with the guys in the "emotional labor" nonsense.
Oh yeah, that's totally an embodiment of the patriarchy.
Yeah if your partner isn't pulling his or her weight, it's pretty annoying but if you're keeping a mental tally of all the wrongs in your wrong and are expecting a mainstream feminist movement to fix it, you're probably screwed up.
It's shit like "emotional labor" and "manspreading" which totally can be asshole behavior and is actually done by all genders being touted around as a only guy problem.
If I hear anyone say emotional labor, I'm going to assume that other people in their lives are forced to walk on eggshells all day long just for appeasement.
Sure, I agree with you actually. I don't think it would only be a guy who would be "half-assing". It's a relationship problem that people do to each other, not something men do to women. And, even if "emotional labor" was a useful concept to look at, it becomes nonsense when a bunch of dummies start kicking it around.
But all men need to change to accommodate women. There's men out there willing to do housework without the emotional labor of buying a notebook every year but they're all fucking incels and that's what made them incels in the first place.
All men NEED to change because men who do that aren't attractive to women and women demand their men to change into middle class shlubs that they'll eventually hate and dump anyway. Hopefully after marriage.
People are stupid about this shit and everything - but in general this scenario is discussed when both people are working, not when one is a dedicated homemaker.
" Entering into a relationship not expecting some EMOtional labor"........fine Becky, next time you will need tampons or start crying during a movie about DOGGOS - women up, slay queen and go buy them yourself.
Incels are hilarious, but you don’t have to be an incel to recognize women are awful. Especially white women, the most privileged people on the planet.
Just good slapfights on reddit without “haha stupid racist/tansphobic/sexist reddit stricks again!” or “triggered feminists lol stupid women” as the main titles and comments.
Society view femoids as the benevolent creatures of light that can do no wrong. They think that cum dumpsters are nothing but angels that should be compensated and put in a godlike pedestals because they happen to be born with a vagina. But society is wrong. Bitches are nothing but natural born psycho(paths). They are pure and utter evil, who have no thoughts or feelings and should be seen as the malevolent creatures they truly are.
Here are the reasons why:
Femoids pretend to be victims whenever they want so they can get their way.
Femoids accuse men of false ra(pe) allegations only to get them convicted for a lifetime.
Femoids are hypocritical creatures that say one thing only to do the complete opposite.
Femoids are pathological liars who never say the truth; which is why you can't believe anything that comes out of their mouths.
Femoids are masters manipulators who will exploit innocent souls to get what they want.
Femoids treat a large percentage of the population (ugly men) as subhuman.
Femoid are racists who solely reject men due their race.
Femoids are hypergamous sluts who reject men of their own footing for genetically superior males.
Femoid love shaming/rejecting men due to things that they have no control of (example: looks, height, cawk size, and etc).
Femoids will reject a man because he is a virigin.
Femoids are not capable of loving or caring towards men, unless the man is Chad/Tyrone/Chang.
Femoids are serial killers who end the life's of thousands and thousands of unborn children.
Femoids are child abusers who put their children in hormone therapy in a very young age.
Femoids take away attention from males oriented mental illnesses such as depression only to make it about themselves.
Femoids condemn countless of men to suuicide and feel nothing about it.
Femoids are all unloyal and untrustworthy cunts who will cheat no matter how good they appear to be.
Femoids are gold-digging whores who marry men solely due to money only to divorce them and take half of their shit.
Femoids are deceptive cunts who show a facade of false emotions to a man only to lead him on and use him to get what they wants.
Femoids take joy in bullying, shaming, mocking ugly men whenever they can.
Femoid appear to show that they are creatures of emotion and compassion, but only in an attempt of virtue signalling so they can show the world how kind they are.
Femoids only want a small part of the population to reproduce.
Femoid not only take part in degenerate acts, but encourage others to do the same, which leads to the destruction of society.
Femoids say that they care about Incels but won't provide them with sex.
Wow r/incels gets banned, and then I get delivered incel memes directly to me. Amazing.
Buddy unless you stop creating this evil strawmen (strawwoman) of women, you will never be happy. Not all women are evil, men can and do almost everything on that list too. I think you know that these “all women” statements are false, just like “all men” statements are false. Are you telling me every women you ever met is like this? Like your mom is a woman, do you think she applies to this entire list?
Most people in the comment section are (hopefully) ironic. You need help. Being this hatefully isn’t healthy, it would be better to just forget about women entirely than to stew in hate all the time.
I don't consider myself an incel. I gave up on dating awhile back and have decided to go my own way.
People are fucking boring to talk to. I would rather be working (day trading crypto), shitposting on reddit, watching Netflix, etc.
The only thing I ever got out of a relationship was sex and affection. I don't understand the hype. Your girlfriend is not a special snowflake. People chemically bond to people they are sexually attracted to. That's it. I can chemically bond with literally any decent looking woman who is nice to me. That's "love". Oxytocin and dopamine. If you want dopamine so bad, there's something called the dark net markets where you can buy drugs. There's something called cough syrup in an everyday pharmacy that will fuck you up in high doses. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z09lYqdxqzo Also, you need food to survive. You don't need sex to survive. It's called jacking off my dude. Adults don't need affection to survive (apparently babies do or whatever). People with sexual market value don't give their affections freely. You have to be useful to them in some way. Men are pussy beggars so they give sex and affection out very freely. Women don't have to work for it. So women have all the leverage here. They can demand your resources. My last gf was not materialistic at the time that we dated (she started being materialistic after she dumped me because then I think she realized that simps were willing to buy her shit). But she was an emotional vampire with Borderline Personality Disorder (a lot of women have Cluster B personality disorders) who demanded a big chunk of my time and wanted me to give her attention to feed her narcissistic ego. And wanted me to treat her like she was the most beautiful woman on earth or something and that I couldn't live without her or whatever. If you want to be mentally intoxicated that bad, get fucked up on cough syrup. The world is not a Disney fairytale. You are not a special snowflake. Neither am I. You should see the things that my ex-girlfriend admitted to me about her new boyfriend while she was drunk. lmao. She admitted that she didn't love him even though he said he loved her. That's why you liberals virtue signal for starving homeless people from your child slave labour-made conflict mineral blood diamond iPhones while telling incels they are entitled for wanting sex. lmao. You need food, you don't need sex.
Women are so needy. They want you to text them regularly. Talk on the phone with them. Then once they have sex with Chad, they pretend like you never even existed and they never loved you. Women will chemically bond with you. And then when they find a genetically superior male who provides her with all this excitement and takes her on an adventure, she will no longer have those gina tingles for you anymore. It hurts me to remember how my last gf did me that way. But at the end of the day, it was just basic biology on both ends. She was the best I could looks-wise without paying for it, this is why my brain tricked me into thinking I loved the bitch. And women can get fucked by literal Chads on demand so they will never fucking love you. At least not for long.
If you're not Chad and you believe your wife/girlfriend loves you, yous a cuck. If this tall cocky successful Chad tatted low-inhibition badboy white rapper with a big cock approached her https://i.imgur.com/Udg5GYb.jpg, you think your girl would be faithful to you? ROFL There's nothing stopping your girl from having sex with Chad or Tyrone. And that's NEVER going to change. No matter how much you vote for Trump and think that is magically going to change the clock. Tradcon women never loved their husbands. They always wanted Chad. And with the sexual revolution, their sexuality is unleashed in free market sexual capitalism. Ancapistan but with genitals.
r/incels are complaining about nothing. Complaining about not being Chad is like complaining about not being a billionaire. Life is unfair. Life is an injustice. That's why most of the world is in poverty.
Fuck bitches, get money. Money is literally the most important thing in life. Other than health. Like my nigga Drake says, "All I care about is money and the city that I'm from".
You can use all the shaming language you want. You have nothing of value to offer me. The social contract that society hands over to men is fucking bullshit. Be a citizen-slave in exchange for what exactly? A couple warm wet holes, some affection and "social acceptance". Oh and possible divorce rape losing half your shit, paying out child support and paying out alimony for life. The terms of that trade aren't worth it. Normies are boring as shit. I don't receive any dopamine when I listen to some normie talk about his life and his problems. But I get a hit of dopamine when I trigger SJWs on reddit. So I have no incentive to honor that social contract.
After you normies wage slave for the man, you logon to reddit to make fun of people you think you are better than in order to feel better about your shit wage cuck life and the fact that you can't satisfy your wife/girlfriend the way her bull Tyrone can with your average penis.
Sounds like your last girlfirend sucked. You can believe love isn’t real or is just chemicals and thats fine, but it doesn’t mean you have to be a misogynist. You can believe what ever you want about sexual strategy as long as you don’t hate people who haven’t done anything wrong. You can hate your ex. You can’t hate every single woman.
Well, if you sort by top and find older posts, you actually can find that it was a normal, funny sub before.
While Jezebel ( I was linked to that site by women who made fun of it, lol) was always shit as I found, well articles are less shitty now by comparison, the comment section is still hell.
But if you take it like satire of american white feminism, it's better than The Onion.
The crazy level wasn't too high, but the pettiness was through the stratosphere. Imagine being so salty that your SO called you to double check to be sure if you needed anything when they went out to the store. "God, why must he always make me think about stuff and talk to him by asking what I might want!"
It's very obvious these retards have never been in a relationship because nearly all of what they consider emotional labour is something men do too. Because that's what a fucking relationship is.
Hey I am not the op but I am going to try and explain how it is emotional from my point of view. When my SO chooses not to do things that he is capable of and instead expects me to do them. It makes me feel like I am a less valuable of person. that he is using my time and capital to complete his task instead of valuing my autonomy. It makes me feel manipulated , resentful and frustrated to be asked where the keys are
Eh. Literally all of /u/taytay9955 's posts are about being a bipolar nutjob.
Like 75% of TrollXers are self-admittedly mentally ill, which is why it's retarded that they think their dumbfuck political and cultural opinions should be regarded as anything more than the unhinged ravings of lunatics
" Hey I am a crazy nutjob with no idea of what common sense is, and I admit to not being that much of a reasonable person, but I still feel I can judge men for not fiding their keys, teehee "
I thank the lord every day for all of my ex-gfs and girl-friends being reasonable, rational, pleasant human beings.
I think it takes a special person to understand mental illness. My last relationship fell apart because of my bipolar. I had been pretty stable the entire three years we dated ( thank you meds and therapy), but then I hit a depressive episode that I couldn't shake for months and he just couldn't understand, and I didn't have the energy to educate him. We broke up. I month later I checked into the psych ward after a suicide attempt and ended up meeting my current boyfriend. We have been together for 2 years and he gets my mental illness and I get his ( he has major depression). We encourage each other to stay healthy, go to therapy , take meds, exercise, keep a good sleep schedule. Oddly enough it is probably the healthiest and most adult relationship I have ever been in. Don't give up there are people out there who can understand you. A mental illness doesn't mean you can't be in a healthy relationship, it just means you have to work a bit harder at it.
You don't seem to be working very hard at it, /u/taytay9955
I wonder if pinging people like /u/taytay9955 with stuff like this ever helps bring them even a little bit closer to self awareness or whether it just gives them an excuse to plunge even deeper into their myriad delusions.
You're right I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years. You and everyone else here has finally given me the push I need to try and end it again, this time I won't use pills, I'll use my dad's 45. Good thing I am just some mentally ill internet stranger and not a real human. I'll be sure to leave a link to this thread in my note.
You being mentally ill isn't an excuse to subject people to mental abuse. Solve your own problems with professional help or go eat your emotions while projecting human feelings onto an army of pet cats.
You are no better than male incels. I know you are shit posting too because only a man would be man enough to use a gun instead of crying for attention with pills and horizontal wrist slashing.
Some people might say that laying a guilt trip on strangers saying it’s their fault you were going to kill yourself, implying if they don’t try and talk you out of it that it will be on their heads, is quite a bit of emotional labor. And we’re not even dating you!
Talking people off of a ledge is actually quite emotionally draining. This might be a job for your boyfriend. Just saying.
Oh, is it emotional manipulation via suicide threats time already? Gosh, I very nearly missed it.
You're right I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years. Your post blaming me for your actions has finally given me the push I need to try and end it again, this time I won't use pills, I'll use my dad's 45. Good thing I am just some autistic shitposter and not a real human. I'll be sure to leave a link to your comment in my note.
You're right I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years. You and everyone else here has finally given me the push I need to try and end it again, this time I won't use pills, I'll use my dad's 45. Good thing I am just some autistic /r/TrollX user and not a real human. I'll be sure to leave a link to this thread in my note.
I seriously have a deep loathing for people who try to get attention by claiming they're going to commit suicide. However, just on the off chance you were serious, it's not a good idea to shoot yourself. I was in treatment after my own attempt and I met a guy who blew his entire jaw off by trying to shoot himself and survived. Suicide in general is a really bad idea. I highly recommend you stop putting so much importance on people on the internet and maybe get some psychological help/meds. I'm probably wasting my time and you're probably full of shit and seeking attention, like I said, but I don't like to think of someone who may truly be going through some shit and decides to off themselves over the internet. So I hope this is just a joke or whatever. If not, it's a good idea to find someone to talk to, because not a single person here is going to care if you live or die. The internet is not a nice place and not a smart Avenue to walk for any substantive attention or help. Good luck.
When you critize your husband through a marxist lens. Is he paying /u/taytay9955 by the hour to he his wife? Imagine if he could see his way calling him manipulative and how resentful it made her feel. What a cunt.
My slaves are better off as my slaves. I give them housing, food, and an honest days work. Without me they'd be starving out in the woods, getting raped by incel drama shitposters.
No idea, but she is kinda clumsy. However, just to be safe, I will not inquire as to whether or not she has a developmental disorder. Don't wanna get shanked in my sleep.
u/beckoning_cat, I appreciate you coming right out and saying what's on your mind like this. Makes everything much simpler without needing all this talk about "emotional labor" as a workaround.
Sending my SO to the grocery store instead of going on my own is essentially self-sabotage. I’m guaranteed to have at least three protracted phone calls to help him locate things or debate between alternative products. If meat is on the list at all, there will be a dedicated call specifically to discuss marbling or cuts or the merits of 80/20 vs 93/7.
It’s like, I THOUGHT we were splitting chores. I didn’t realize that by doing so I was adding babysitting a grown man to my half of the list. Congratulations, honey. You have somehow managed to make your chores my chores. And you will want praise for that.
When I see a thread this retarded, I feel compelled to make a comment about it. So by linking to it, OP is essentially forcing me to perform the emotional labor of writing this comment.
My boyfriend was always asking where his stuff was and I always knew either due to cleaning or just paying attention (he cleans, too, but he leaves his clutter everywhere and I clean around it so I see all his stuff frequently). I used to tell him where things were, but then he started thinking I was using and moving his stuff, so now I just tell him that I don’t know (unless he’s in a rush to get out the door for work or something). He’s mostly stopped asking and has gotten a LOT better at actually looking for things.
amazing what men will learn to do for themselves when women stop picking up the slack for them!
/u/Prestidigitalization and /u/NoMorePie4U, you're literally bragging about successfully training and conditioning your significant others to behave a certain way as if they were dogs.
Don't be surprised if these guys man up one day soon and decide that they don't want to be emotionally abused by two self-righteous cunts who have the nerve to act like they're victims
It isn't the failure to find something--it's the half assed "looking" and making someone else do it because you always rely on them to do that sort of thing when you're fully capable of doing it yourself. That's the emotional labour bit.
Sort of like how when you're a kid and you can't find your winter hat and you tell your mom you looked "everywhere" when all you did was glance across your disaster area room and give it up as a lost cause.
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How is it emotional though? That's just labor labor. Thanks for answering.
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Hey I am not the op but I am going to try and explain how it is emotional from my point of view. When my SO chooses not to do things that he is capable of and instead expects me to do them. It makes me feel like I am a less valuable of person. that he is using my time and capital to complete his task instead of valuing my autonomy. It makes me feel manipulated , resentful and frustrated.
They honestly, genuinely believe that men intentionally give up on looking for things, just to irritate them. And probably also something something patriarchy.
(Also, that doesn't match how I've heard the term explained in feminist spheres before. But of course, it would be "mansplaining" to raise that objection.)
I’ve discussed this with my SO before. He doesn’t like Christmas shopping or wrapping, so he doesn’t. I don’t love it, but if I don’t do it, no one will get presents. He doesn’t love folding clothes, so he doesn’t. He has a built-in safeguard: me. But I don’t have that luxury, because if I choose not to do something, it simply won’t be done.
Doesn't seem unfair, he doesn't care if people get useless presents and you do. He doesn't care if the clothes are folded properly and you do. so you do those things. Have you considered the patriarchy version of this little situation is that you've been duped into caring and not that he doesn't have strong feelings about wasting money on useless trinkets and uncreased clothing?
One time my husband was making a frozen pizza, and he was like, “I don’t know how to do this.” So I rolled my eyes so far back in my head I thought they would never come out and said, “It’s written on the back, and you know that!” And he turned it around and laughed and was like, “That was shitty of me, huh?” And I laughed but then we had a serious conversation about emotional labor and I showed him that comic that circulated this sub a few times and I think he kinda gets it now. We’re working on it. Sometimes I have to make myself make him do shit or leave it undone, even though it would be so much easier if I did it myself. But he’s become much more aware because of it.
/u/hh831713 uses a harmless, stupid question her boyfriend asks to gaslight him into feminism.
That's funny because if you reversed the genders it could easily be spun as abuse by the guy. My SO has asked me really dumb questions about simple stuff like that, things that she really ought to know, but am I going to berate and lecture her over it? No because that's a shitty thing to do.
That's just labor. Emotional labor is shit like knowing the kid's schedules and making family plans, etc. If you're going to mock it, at least get it right.
My comment is about claiming to do "emotional labor" as leverage to get your boyfriend to do more than his fair share of actual labor. Cute interpretation though, sweety.
It's for when you're a control freak who has to everything done exactly your way, and your "partner" isn't an equal partner because they've learned the painful lesson that they're not allows to make any decisions at all without you berating them. So they're not a partner, they're a follower - a good little follower. And as a result, everything is getting done exactly you're way.
So that's good, right? Youre a control freak and you have control. Mission accomplished. Well no, because now you don't have anything to complain about. The patriarchy has literally robbed you of the joy of complaining. "Emotional labor" is literally complaining that you got your way. Your ~partner~ follower did what you wanted, but you still want to complain about it.
One example from the thread is about how she sends her husband to the grocery store to buy [product] but then he calls her when he realizes there are two brands. "Which [product] do I get?" he asks. And then he gets exactly the one she wants.
So she complains that the phone call was annoying. She complains that she has to micromanage her servant. Wow. Such oppression.
What's really going on is that he has learned from experience that if he gets the wrong thing, she's going to make him feel like shit for it. Even if he remembers "we got this brand last time, so I'll get it again" there's a good chance he'll get in trouble. "I TOLD YOU, I WAS JUST TESTING THAT BRAND AND DIDN'T LIKE IT, YOU SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE OTHER ONE!"
There's no way to win, so he's just checked out of the game. He's a brow beaten man.
My favorite example of this is the time I was at work and my fiancé asked me if we needed anything from the grocery store. While he was at home and could check the pantry. Because apparently I tend to have a running tally of what we have in stock? Nah... I just write things on the grocery list when we're out of something or running low. 🙄
This wonderful human being who totes doesnt hate men has managed to twist the simple question and polite gesture of "do you need me to pick you up anything at the store" into weapon's grade misogyny, and over 300 other harpies upvoted it.
I don't understand how you can be that socially stupid while complaining about "emotional labor". It's like complaining that your spouse keeps too many secrets while shopping for a birthday present.
Well, today I learned a thing. I mean, I don't THINK I'm as bad as "i looked in one spot" but even then I'd always taken it as rote that sometimes you just needed a fresh set of eyes to see what you've glossed over.
This self-hatred is impressive. /u/Rexsplosion can't consider the possibility that he's actually right about something and the feminists are wrong; he forces himself to re-interpret his own personal experience in a way that validates the criticism of others.
Wow. Fuck right off. What I realized is "hey, a thing i didn't think about doing can totally be an extra burden on someone i love that I didn't intend, i love them and am willing to be better as a person."
Take your bullshit and get right the fuck out pushing your twisted agenda on a genuine moment of another's growing as a person.
That's the spirit! Now if you could just muster up some of that piss and vinegar the next time your harpy of a GF lays a guilt trip on you for causing her emotional labourrape you'll be doing much better!
Man, fuck you thinking you understand my life from one Reddit comment, you have to be the most arrogant fool I've ever had the misfortune to come across.
And when you actually have someone you care about, i hope you figure a few things out yourself.
That's what many of those metareddit subs do; go and stir shit up, take things you say and twist them so you sound as sexist as they are
I am not the tiniest bit sexist, and there is no twisting involved. This objectively was not a "moment of self-growth"; it was someone uncritically accepting man-hating rhetoric. Like, look at the phrasing again:
even then I'd always taken it as rote that sometimes you just needed a fresh set of eyes to see what you've glossed over.
The implication here is that there's somehow something wrong with the idea that "sometimes you just need a fresh set of eyes". But there objectively, and completely freakin' obviously, is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes you really do just need a fresh set of eyes when you're looking for something. The only reason to discredit that view is because it reinforces the feminist narrative that serves as the backdrop for this self-flagellation.
Keep in mind, in the same thread we have another man complaining that his spouse actively hides things (possibly abusive behaviour), and OP openly laughing in response.
There is no bullshit, I am not pushing an agenda, and there is nothing twisted about it. I am trying to save you from needless supplication, because the thing you "didn't think about doing" is objectively completely reasonable and should not be seen as "an extra burden", and that community seeks to gaslight you into imagining otherwise.
People on r/drama actually care more about your happiness than people on r/trollxchromosomes. That should tell you something about the kind of company you keep.
Anytime a man asks something of a woman it's automatically oppression-rape. You my friend are a rapist for asking something of a woman because women are strong, capable creatures, unless you ask them something.
This is my first time seeing a DIY struggle-session. I knew that Soviet Russia promoted the concept of "self-guarding" where you had a duty to the people to constantly monitor yourself for counter-revolutionary sentiments, but this is next-level.
On one hand I wanna laugh about how pathetic that is, on the other hand I'm kinda worried how abusive his relationship must be. Like, does she regularly demand he cut himself in front of her, to prove his commitment to feminism?
How many women here have actually performed manual labor where their safety was risk?
A lot. Because most straight guys are pussies. They make comments like these to try to give the impression that they are not.
Right. Straight (specifically, for some reason) men point out that feminist narratives are one-sided not because they feel it's unfair that such bullshit is promoted with a straight face, but because they "are pussies" and feel the need to justify themselves personally.
Also, it's totally not at all reinforcing gender roles for you to frame things this way, and it's perfectly okay to call a man a "pussy" even though I've been told a million times by feminists that it's unacceptable to use the same rhetoric towards women, but this is still about treating women the same way as men. Somehow.
We live in a loft apartment my wife built. Not only do I lose shit all the time, but she puts shit in weird hidden places. On that note go fuck yourself. If I don’t ask her I couldn’t find a god damn thing.
My favorite example of this is the time I was at work and my fiancé asked me if we needed anything from the grocery store. While he was at home and could check the pantry. Because apparently I tend to have a running tally of what we have in stock? Nah... I just write things on the grocery list when we're out of something or running low.
Or maybe he was putting in the effort to care about the fact that you might have been inconvenienced by running low on something, and thus asking if you'd noticed a shortage. Because he thanklessly goes out and takes care of this sort of thing, you know, that whole "provider role" deal.
Women are expected to be born adults and men aren’t until, what...50? If ever. It’s a creepy dynamic that Republicans love to use to excuse behaviour. Men are never old enough to do wrong and women are never young enough to be victims.
YAAAS GURL THAT IS EXACTLY RIGHT OMG YOURE BLOWING MY MIND WITH THESE TRUTHS RIGHT NOW
No one in my family would thank me if I picked up some random milk instead of the brand and type that is always in our shared refrigerator. If I can't remember what we've been drinking every week for decades, that's just sad.
Or maybe you grew up in an environment where people are expected to think that things like this matter, and others didn't? Maybe some people haven't grown up drinking the same brand and type of milk all the time, and can't fathom that that sort of consistency is a big deal to other people? Like, seriously, have you ever tried considering outside perspectives? At all?
Women are expected to be born adults and men aren’t until, what...50? If ever. It’s a creepy dynamic that Republicans love to use to excuse behaviour. Men are never old enough to do wrong and women are never young enough to be victims.
YAAAS GURL THAT IS EXACTLY RIGHT OMG YOURE BLOWING MY MIND WITH THESE TRUTHS RIGHT NOW
So I'd say my hackles were still up, and I probably read what those posters were saying as a continuation of that argument. Thats not cool, and after calming down a bit, I decided to come back and apologize.
I would suggest that you find another subreddit, because that one is never any different from what you just experienced, and it's clear that the regulars there consider your experience highly atypical and are never going to give it any credit.
Oh my god, I got so sick of doing all the grocery shopping, I told my boyfriend that he had to do it for once on his way home from work. Sent him a text telling him that we were definitely out of milk, cheese, and paper towels, so make sure to get those. I was soooooo looking forward to not having to make all the food decisions for the week. I dreamed of bags upon bags of stuff that I didn’t have to pick out myself.
Guess what he came back with?
3 items. Milk, cheese, and paper towels, of course.
He behaved perfectly reasonably. You expected him to infer the presence of random other items on the explicit enumerated list you gave him simply based on the context of it being a grocery list. Yes, he doesn't think about what supplies you're low on, because he doesn't cook with those supplies. He thinks about the work he's coming home from, because he does that work.
And don't fucking kid yourself, if he somehow did get the idea to "make all the food decisions for the week", they would be wrong in your estimation. No matter what. Because in your own words, you were dreaming about this. In reality, people are not mind-readers.
I do it all the time. I can absolutely smell my own BO.
But even if you can't smell for some reason, there's so many other things you can do. I look at where I found it and how the item looks. If it's all crumpled or has stains? Laundry. Found it in the bathroom? Laundry. A single sock? Laundry. If it's sitting right next to the clean basket from last week and looks ok, probably clean. If I'm not sure, I default to washing it.
The other day I asked my boyfriend if we needed milk, since I was stopping on my way home. He says no; I get home, there's no milk. His reasoning? "I didn't think we needed it."
I legitimately don't understand how you think there's anything wrong with that response. Nothing prevents you from asking the question you actually want answered. "Do we need" implies "I want your subjective judgment of this". If you mean "are we out of", then use your words.
I’ve discussed this with my SO before. He doesn’t like Christmas shopping or wrapping, so he doesn’t. I don’t love it, but if I don’t do it, no one will get presents. He doesn’t love folding clothes, so he doesn’t. He has a built-in safeguard: me. But I don’t have that luxury, because if I choose not to do something, it simply won’t be done.
So stop fucking doing it for him. Let him deal with the fallout, if any, for not doing shit.
lol folding clothes. Like just keep that shit in the laundry bin or throw it on the floor and give it the smell test when you wear it. Who even gives a fuck if laundry doesn't get folded.
This literally happened to me at work the other day. Male colleague was looking for a room key, came in, rattled the keys in the key cupboard around and then loudly proclaimed “I can’t find the key to the room!!!” I went over and there it was, right in the front in the most obvious place. His response “see I just needed some woman eyes”. Now this guy is a massive sexist wanker who makes my workplace incredibly hostile for the women who work in it so I got right up in his face and told him “there are no “woman eyes” just not looking and looking properly like a functional adult”.
And then as /u/Requiem89 was walking away, he threw a can at her, and it hit her in the forehead, and the can contained a rolled up $100% bill, upon which was written, "GET OWNED BY GAMERGATE BITCH!"
I'll see her "woman eyes" and raise her "man magic", which is the form of words my wife uses when she can't get something technical to work. Often as simple as turning it off and on again. But I have the emotional maturity not to REEEEEE "functional adult, you make the workplace hostile".
TrollX and Incels are similar in that they both sociopathically think of a relationship as some sort of business transaction. If my girlfriend asked me to bring her clothes I would do it because I'm not a cunt and I'd expect her to do the same.
Can someone please explain what that picture is even supposed to mean. I keep rereading both the original version and the edited one and I can't decipher it.
Wtf does emotional labor have to do with not being able to find something??
I think this is a symptom of the fact that these harpies can only manage to attract the sort of sorry-ass wibbly bivalve who cannot handle baisc domestic shit
This literally happened to me at work the other day. Male colleague was looking for a room key, came in, rattled the keys in the key cupboard around and then loudly proclaimed “I can’t find the key to the room!!!” I went over and there it was, right in the front in the most obvious place. His response “see I just needed some woman eyes”.
Now this guy is a massive sexist wanker who makes my workplace incredibly hostile for the women who work in it so I got right up in his face and told him “there are no “woman eyes” just not looking and looking properly like a functional adult”. I was so fucking angry.
My partner doesn’t do this but I have to get it at work? There is no such thing as “woman eyes” just men who have behaved like babies their entire lives and now refuse to do even the smallest thing for themselves. Fuck off with that.
why do it when some woman in your life can do it for you? i mean, women exist to do the work men dont want to do after all.
Imagine saying this unironically when the all the shittiest jobs of maintaining basic infrastructure (road construction, waste disposal, mining, etc.) are overwhelmingly male.
The other day I asked my boyfriend if we needed milk, since I was stopping on my way home. He says no; I get home, there's no milk. His reasoning? "I didn't think we needed it."
I legitimately don't understand how you think there's anything wrong with that response. Nothing prevents you from asking the question you actually want answered. "Do we need" implies "I want your subjective judgment of this". If you mean "are we out of", then use your words.
One time my husband was making a frozen pizza, and he was like, “I don’t know how to do this.” So I rolled my eyes so far back in my head I thought they would never come out and said, “It’s written on the back, and you know that!” And he turned it around and laughed and was like, “That was shitty of me, huh?” And I laughed but then we had a serious conversation about emotional labor and I showed him that comic that circulated this sub a few times and I think he kinda gets it now. We’re working on it. Sometimes I have to make myself make him do shit or leave it undone, even though it would be so much easier if I did it myself. But he’s become much more aware because of it.
I’ve been watching that show, Big Love, about polygamy, that came out a few years ago. So all of the people who are part of the plural family in the show are consenting of age adults. It’s so interesting. And I’m actually all for people having loving, consensual polyamorous relationships. But the thing that makes polygamy so gross (besides the nasty underage shit that happens a lot of times in Utah) is that all of these women are grateful to share the emotional labor. Like they feel like they benefit from the polygamist marriage because they have sister wives to share the emotional labor with. So the man in the marriage doesn’t have to do ANY emotional labor at all, because he has procured MULTIPLE women to do it for him and they are all GRATEFUL for this somehow. It’s fuckin’ crazytown!
Incels have anime waifus, so what are trollx's husbands?
Emotional labor is the process of managing feelings and expressions to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job.
More specifically, workers are expected to regulate their emotions during interactions with customers, co-workers and superiors. This includes analysis and decision making in terms of the expression of emotion, whether actually felt or not, as well as its opposite: the suppression of emotions that are felt but not expressed.
At the very top of wikipedia which is the first link google provides for you when you google it.
Why are women so incapable of grasping simple concepts?
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1 SnapshillBot 2017-11-24
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1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
Elliot Rodger was right.
1 TherapyFortheRapy 2017-11-24
If all women were Troll-Xers, he'd be a prophet.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
FTFY
1 grungebot5000 2017-11-24
negative effort
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
I almost corrected "is" to "was", but then I remembered:
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
All women are potential Troll-Xers. Might as well shoot them all. It's the only way to be sure.
1 kane4life4ever 2017-11-24
White women are the worse concur.
1 youcanteatbullets 2017-11-24
He mostly killed men. And his mayo/non-mayo ratio was pretty low so he's not even a mayocide-helper.
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
How many women have you killed, Mr. Expert? Hmmm?
1 youcanteatbullets 2017-11-24
I'm commenting on /r/Drama, obviously women don't even come near me.
1 80BAIT08 2017-11-24
Can't dodge the Rodge.
1 GopherGus 2017-11-24
"Emotional labor," how to make doing nothing sound like work
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
/u/Durbee let's just flip flop this for a second. If your SO was posting about how you fucked up life's most basic tasks and basically acted like an overgrown little girl who he needed to babysit, you'd be REEEEEEEEEEEEE'ing like a motherfucker about what a misogynist he was.
Why be with this guy? You don't seem to respect him very much. Fucking cut him loose and let him be with someone who won't write horrible fucking things about him on the internet. Besides, you don't need no man, you're an empowered womyn.
1 DrinkProfessionally 2017-11-24
/u/Durbee break up with the poor guy
1 VidiotGamer 2017-11-24
Either she's exaggerating because she's a mean spirited bitch, or just imagine what she must be like if this man-baby is the best she can do?
Honestly though, men have to stop believing that the only way to sustain a relationship is to "placate at any cost" their girlfriends/wives. Even if it's encouraged by pop-culture these days, it's just as damaging as the previous era of "shut the fuck up and make me a sandwich" was to women.
Sure, sometimes you need to drive back to the store to get the right yogurt, but sometimes you need to tell a bitch to go fuck herself. Moderation in all things.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Right, but if this poor abused doormat of a man ever grew a set and told her to stop being a cunt, /u/Durbee would immediately post a crying gif on TrollX accompanied by an account of how her SO "emotionally abused her" and how "she's shaking so hard" and "needs support."
Half of these broads would file police reports if their SOs ever treated them the exact same way that they treat their SOs.
1 youpostyoudie 2017-11-24
Imagine getting this booty blasted over what how an anonymous person might react.
1 Mayocidesalad 2017-11-24
Now realize that /u/saltytrannzyballz spends hours every day scouring trollx and has multiple alts for posting on trollx and spends a significant amount of his time not on trollx crafting these elavorate scenarios abput trollx, and then he comes to r drama to complain about trollx
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Wow, you are projecting on IMAX levels here.
1 Mayocidesalad 2017-11-24
How many times you been banned for vote manipulation Mr "redditor for 1 day" Kvetch?
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Literally never been banned for that but maybe you should tell me what alt you’re using, you hypocrite? Mine are pretty fucking obvious since they share a word.
1 riemann1413 2017-11-24
stop arguing with people about the various reasons you've been suspended and spend time with your family you utterly sad weirdo, lmao
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
lol, are the winter blues making you feel homesick riemann? I know it’s a long wait for you but soon you can jump on a train, get away from stuffy college and disappoint your family by telling them how you spent thousands of dollars pumped into your education smugposting on Reddit in a lonely room. I’m sure they’ll be
suicidalproud when they find out you’re an /r/drama moderator, you utterly sad weirdo, pmao1 youpostyoudie 2017-11-24
Are you describing Quentin from The Sound and the Fury?
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Unlike /u/riemann1413, I finished college.
1 Mayocidesalad 2017-11-24
Clown college
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Clollege.
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1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Clollege indeed.
1 PastaVagioli 2017-11-24
Why were you banned this time, Ketch?
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Jesus, dude, you really need to get a life. You're the only commentator here who I actually think is fucked in the head.
1 PastaVagioli 2017-11-24
Naw it just all goes back to when you first lied about /u/John_Kvetch not being your alt and why you got banned originally. Enjoy your inevitable ban on this account, and I’ll see you in a couple days as /u/Jerry_Kvetch or whatever it will be.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
John_Kvetch wasn't even my first account or first of the Kvetch family line so you can't even keep up with your weird stalkerish obsession. Enjoy the embarrassingly pathetic sense of victory you get by snitching to the admins and I'll eventually mock you as Jerry_Kvetch too (nice name bro).
1 PastaVagioli 2017-11-24
Mmmhmm.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
mmmm-kay bro
1 PastaVagioli 2017-11-24
Indeed.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Absolutely.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Imagine being /u/youpostyoudie and not keeping yourself safe the second you type out a comment and post it.
1 lemondiddles 2017-11-24
Poor abused man lol im with you that its not cool her writing this stuff but i think you sound a little silly saying that
1 tratsky 2017-11-24
You saying men can't be abused?
1 lemondiddles 2017-11-24
No. Saying that your SO complaining about you on social media doesnt constitute "abuse" and make the other party a poor abused man/women.
1 alphetasauce 2017-11-24
It does say something about how they see you though. Why be in a relationship with someone you don't respect?
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
This shit is biologically programmed broski society in general just views men in a negative light compared to women when it comes to stuff like this.
Why do you think the "dumb husband" trope is so common in our media?
1 JasonJewnova 2017-11-24
When you go all elliot rodger (pbuh) can you let me know first so I can join you?
Tyvm
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
I don't hate women and I would never do anything even close to that.
I just want nothing to with them.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-11-24
WHY
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
Because hating a group as wide and diverse as a gender is absurd.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-11-24
Damn, I was really hoping you'd be my backup in the gender war.
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
Well, if a gender war did break out I'd have to take sides and I sure as hell wouldn't be with the harpies.
1 BigLordShiggot 2017-11-24
But voting for equality just makes this ever more likely.
1 japsock 2017-11-24
but roasties are pretty icky tho
1 CucksLoveTrump 2017-11-24
Says the guy who has daily spergouts about "rural Americans"
1 b33fman 2017-11-24
TBH "rural Americans" is a far smaller group than "women"...
1 fight_for_our_future 2017-11-24
According to overweight & obesity statistics neither of these groups is small, tbh.
1 Mayocidesalad 2017-11-24
Rural americans are the muslims of white people
1 CirqueDuFuder 2017-11-24
Hot take
1 FedaykinShallowGrave 2017-11-24
Bruh muslims gave us shawarma, the fuck's a hillbilly ever given anyone 'sides an STD to a family member?
1 mygoodpostingalt 2017-11-24
Assault Rifle of Peace doesn't really have the same ring to it
1 uniqueguy263 2017-11-24
Oh god, you're not being ironic. You actually believe this shit, don't you
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
I unironically want nothing to do with women, what's wrong with that?
1 jet199 2017-11-24
It's not biological, it's cultural. In the black community its the other way round and women have to eat the shit while the guys bitch about them. That's why relationships between white women and black guys have such a high break up rate because both partners think it's the other's responsibility to keep the relationship together. However marriages between black women and white guys have the lowest divorce rate.
1 pizzashill 2017-11-24
Black women and black men in general both view men as more incompetent as well.
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
Mayocide by miscegenation confirmed to be the solution for humanity.
1 Mayo_Macerator 2017-11-24
FOR THE LOVE OF BUSSY, GET THIS KIND HUMAN SOME 🍞 BREAD!
THAT'S 63 MAYOS SPLATTERED ON SANDWICHES, 63 STEPS CLOSER TO COMPLETE MAYOCIDE!
At this rate, the white race will be finished in no time! DO YOUR PART, FOLKS!
1 CREEPY_CUP_OF_TEA 2017-11-24
Shit bot
1 AHealthySenseofDread 2017-11-24
Hello yes I'd like to volunteer to exterminate the white race now ok thanks.
1 Chicup 2017-11-24
Told my wife before we were married her hormonal swings were her issue not mine. Works well really. She knows she's a bitch Pmsing.
1 wisty 2017-11-24
Nah, it's because she's a bitch.
"OMG UGH I CAN'T BELIEVE YOU GOT THE 90/10, YOU KNOW I'M ON A DIET THIS IS GASLIGHTING AND ABUSE YOU ARE TRYING TO MAKE ME FAT"
(next time)
"OMG UGH ARE YOU SAYING I'M FAT WHY DID YOU GET THE 93/7!"
(next time)
"Hey, honey, which ground beef did you want?"
If guys ask a wife / girlfriend's opinion, 99% of the time it's because she was a complete bitch the last time he made a judgement call, and he's too much of a pussy to just say "Who gives a fuck, do it yourself next time if you have a problem, fatty".
1 glitterjulia2 2017-11-24
Yeah but man babies dont always show their man baby tendencies until you're knee deep in skid mark undies from 3 weeks ago
1 Jazzeki 2017-11-24
also imagine if the guy refused to alow her input just went out and bought shit and then came home with the "wrong" stuff...
1 disgruntled_chode 2017-11-24
Pretty sure there are people complaining about this in that thread, too. It's not supposed to make sense, it's just there so people can complain more.
1 parameciidae 2017-11-24
100% the guy calls her so he doesn't come home with the "wrong" thing. She doesn't need to call him while she's out shopping because he's not going to give her grief for buying 93/7 instead of 80/20 meat. She's going to figure whatever she brings home is the "right" thing.
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
I wouldn't be surprised if she previously scolded him for "fucking up something as simple as groceries".
1 I_Molest_Pasta 2017-11-24
Yeah, yeeeeaaaa, the calling thing, specially about something trivial, is a sign of an emotionally abusive relationship. Wanting input from your SO ("Hey, the list says cereal- did you want bran flakes or something full of sugar") is one thing, but calling about every little thing means that he's been yelled at pretty severely. She probably doesn't "allow" him to go to the store with this as an excuse ("he fucks up everything"- also, let's harken to some other red flags and, oh, blaming your SO for everything and devaluing their effort is there) but she wants to keep him under her thumb.
Source: That was me. I was the husband for a longer time than I'd admit.
I was scared to buy the wrong thing from the store. I was scared to stop the car anywhere (even for gas) without my ex's say so because, heaven forbid, I spend 2¢ more on gas than he'd allow. Hell, I wasn't even allowed to have the car unless he was with me. I was broken, my entire life revolves around what he said to do out of fear of what he would do if I didn't. I looked perfectly content and happy on the outside, but I had tried to kill myself more than once. The chances that this husband is being manipulated and controlled are extremely high.
1 lickedTators 2017-11-24
And this experience mentally broke you, turning into a monster that molests pasta. It's the never-ending cycle of abuse.
1 I_Molest_Pasta 2017-11-24
Exactly. My carb molesting habits aren't my fault.
(Ironically, I was recently diagnosed with celiacs. Story of my life.)
1 umar4812 2017-11-24
Wow, that sucks. Doing okay recently?
1 I_Molest_Pasta 2017-11-24
Yea, pretty good. He's the father of my kid, so I have to tolerate him still. He also tries to pull the same gaslighting manipulative bullshit, but I think I put him in his place today. Not sure how long it'll stick, but for now, there is peace amongst world's.
1 Durbee 2017-11-24
I'm really sorry that happened to you. While that's not typical of my relationship, I can 100% agree that my post presented as such. For us, he's recovering from a TBI. There's no yelling, no matter what. Sickness and health is what I signed up for. I wish you better luck and love in future.
1 BigLordShiggot 2017-11-24
Translation: "REEEEEEEEEE you bought the wrong brand of tomato paste!"
1 Fletch71011 2017-11-24
Obviously that's a trol, no one on TrollX could possibly have a boyfriend.
1 zwiebelhans 2017-11-24
To me it sounds like the poor dude is calling /u/Durbee because otherwise she will nag the shit out of him because he didn't get the exact right product she wanted. So he is kind and calls her because he wants to make sure he gets exactly the right kind of wool vegan pads because all she did was sloppy write down pads.
1 Country-asshole 2017-11-24
You do realize u/Durbee is talking about her cat, right? She doesn’t actually have a human husband.
1 ChipChippersonAMA 2017-11-24
/u/Durbee
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
How do you help someone find things in a grocery store over the phone? Did she memorize the product placement? I mean, that's what the store employees are there for.
1 Whatafuxup 2017-11-24
STOP RAPING ME WITH EMOTIONAL LABOR
lol what a cunt
1 WorldStarCroCop 2017-11-24
So this bitch is complaining about him trying to do a good job at something.
1 NSFW_Jeanne 2017-11-24
Also, he probably worries so much over the details because if he didn't get EXACTLY WHAT YOU HAD IN MIND you'd bitch about it endlessly and we'd get basically the same reddit post with a few details switched around.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
I don't get breeder dudes.
Why would you stay with a bitch who made you so miserable
1 NSFW_Jeanne 2017-11-24
Fear/dislike of loneliness.
Sunk cost fallacy.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Just be a fag, homie. Bussy is cheap. Gussy puts you in debt.
1 NSFW_Jeanne 2017-11-24
Must be swift as a coursing river?
1 RueysSoulDiegosFight 2017-11-24
I thought it all evened out in the end. Sure, I'll buy the groceries. You change my oil, my dude. Yeah, okay, I'll do the dishes. You cooked dinner. Fine, you asked me where the dish soap is, because I usually out it away.
1 Kalthramis 2017-11-24
I dunno I'd say the bigger issue is that he's calling to clarify what she wants and being careful with what he buys, and she's throwing a fucking fit over that.
1 Durbee 2017-11-24
Well, I’m not sure if I should be worried or flattered by being roasted on one of my favorite subs.
Y’all are right, this paints neither me nor my spouse in a good light. I’m kvetching in that post about this tiny thing in my marriage that’s a bit frustrating.
In truth, these grocery trips are part of a process for him. The calls are pep talks.
I don’t get angry or frustrated at him, but I do bitch about how exhausting that can be on the internet.
Thank y’all for being worried for my guy. Good looking out.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
You cannot have both, /r/Durbee. You must choose between us and the trolls.
1 telandrias 2017-11-24
Basically /u/mungboot is demanding the physical labor of cleaning the house, while imposing the emotional burden of being guilted for "doing it wrong" and the emotional strain of being accused of sabotage.
Of course, these women will say men should just understand where and how to clean all the extra shit women bring into the house to make it "nice" though "nice" only ever lasts a weekend.
1 parameciidae 2017-11-24
You're making a good point, but let's not pretend that "half-assing" isn't a thing people do. Sometimes even with the purpose of getting people so frustrated they stop asking you to contribute. If it was the other person's turn to do the laundry, I'd be pissed if when I went to get a clean towel I found them balled up on top of the dryer smelling of mildew. Do your half of the chores like an adult and not like a sulky teenager. And this is coming from someone who often sides with the guys in the "emotional labor" nonsense.
1 telandrias 2017-11-24
Oh yeah, that's totally an embodiment of the patriarchy.
Yeah if your partner isn't pulling his or her weight, it's pretty annoying but if you're keeping a mental tally of all the wrongs in your wrong and are expecting a mainstream feminist movement to fix it, you're probably screwed up.
It's shit like "emotional labor" and "manspreading" which totally can be asshole behavior and is actually done by all genders being touted around as a only guy problem.
If I hear anyone say emotional labor, I'm going to assume that other people in their lives are forced to walk on eggshells all day long just for appeasement.
1 parameciidae 2017-11-24
Sure, I agree with you actually. I don't think it would only be a guy who would be "half-assing". It's a relationship problem that people do to each other, not something men do to women. And, even if "emotional labor" was a useful concept to look at, it becomes nonsense when a bunch of dummies start kicking it around.
1 telandrias 2017-11-24
Yeah, it's a shitty thing to do, but of course feminists come around to turn it into a gendered attack on men.
I think you're being discriminatory against people born with less than an entire ass though, so you should check your privilege.
1 bjt23 2017-11-24
Right, you don't need feminism to dump a lazy bum. Workplace discrimination, sure. But you don't need a whole movement to dump a guy.
1 telandrias 2017-11-24
But all men need to change to accommodate women. There's men out there willing to do housework without the emotional labor of buying a notebook every year but they're all fucking incels and that's what made them incels in the first place.
All men NEED to change because men who do that aren't attractive to women and women demand their men to change into middle class shlubs that they'll eventually hate and dump anyway. Hopefully after marriage.
1 newprofile15 2017-11-24
"Yea you work 70 hours a week at a professional job to support this household but remember that time you didn't help me do the laundry? Fuck you."
1 kermit_was_right 2017-11-24
People are stupid about this shit and everything - but in general this scenario is discussed when both people are working, not when one is a dedicated homemaker.
1 newprofile15 2017-11-24
Oh, did trollX tell you that? You should go there and post that this is only meant to apply in that scenario and see what they say :)
1 Ultrashitpost 2017-11-24
Emotional labor is not losing faith in the world after reading TrollX
1 polddit 2017-11-24
The physical embodiment of Elliot Rodgers is dead, but his spirit lives on.
1 Whatafuxup 2017-11-24
may death find them all swiftly
1 Halfcastebastard 2017-11-24
Oh my god! You are literally idolising the mysogynist!!! Please take your crypto hate elsewhere because I’m sure this wasn’t just a joke!!!!
1 DickingBimbos247 2017-11-24
may Allah break the backs of those who support these disease-ridden symmetric key protocols!
1 RoughGrecian 2017-11-24
Can't dodge the Rodge.
1 Chicup 2017-11-24
I think it's more resenting they get to vote and not caling for a couple.
1 MasterLawlz 2017-11-24
What reality do these people live in
1 grungebot5000 2017-11-24
the best one, which still sucks arse
1 widowmakerOP 2017-11-24
I feel bad for them, like how does it feel that the perfect reality you envision still is the still one of the shittiest ones possible?
1 grungebot5000 2017-11-24
i'm just stringing random words together man
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
/u/beckoning_cat If they're such pussies, you should go challenge one to a fist fight. Do it. Surely you'll win if they're such pussies.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
/u/beckoning_cat, I would strongly not advise calling men pussies when you're whining about how your emotional labour isn't recognised.
1 neveryousay3 2017-11-24
Trollxchromosomes = The Jezebel of reddit.
" Entering into a relationship not expecting some EMOtional labor"........fine Becky, next time you will need tampons or start crying during a movie about DOGGOS - women up, slay queen and go buy them yourself.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Women were a mistake
1 neveryousay3 2017-11-24
Nah dude, more like - "slacktivists, who never were a part of a minority, but wants to paint themselves as one were a mistake"
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
and you just swing 200% in the other direction. Wtf is up with this comments? Looking like /r/incels in here
1 RollTide09 2017-11-24
Are you lost?
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
I thought this was like a normal version of SRD.
Not SRD but 200% in the opposite direction.
1 DeepDickedHillybilly 2017-11-24
300% in the 135 degree direction tbh
PS, go fuck yourself and have a shitty Christmas
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
I dont celebrate christmas because its a capitalist scam xd
1 incineratechicken 2017-11-24
Now you're getting the hang of it. Grab an edgy flair from the sidebar and shitpost ad nauseam about how much you love twink anus.
1 youcanteatbullets 2017-11-24
Nah, /r/Drama is the retarded lovechild of SRD and TRP.
1 CucksLoveTrump 2017-11-24
You took a joke seriously dude. Maybe go back to SRD. You'll be safe there
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Nah, all these comments are r/incels cancer.
I just want a normal reddit drama subreddit, is that too much to ask?
1 CucksLoveTrump 2017-11-24
Is this your first day here?
1 uniqueguy263 2017-11-24
Difference is that normally it's ironic.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
I usually just see the major drama that pops up on my front page. I never really click on the subreddit.
1 _Petronius 2017-11-24
Incels are hilarious, but you don’t have to be an incel to recognize women are awful. Especially white women, the most privileged people on the planet.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
so these are TRP comments. Thats just as bad, jesus .
1 buttermyself 2017-11-24
Lol, we got another ShareBlue shill trying to Correct the Record!
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Shareblue? Theres nothing political here, what? This is the weirdest time to call someone a shill.
1 _Petronius 2017-11-24
Well you really come off as a neutered Shareblue manlet, so take of that what you will.
Anyway, what would a “normal” drama sub look like?
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Just good slapfights on reddit without “haha stupid racist/tansphobic/sexist reddit stricks again!” or “triggered feminists lol stupid women” as the main titles and comments.
Why does drama have to be so political?
1 _Petronius 2017-11-24
I wish it wasn’t that way too, but we can worry about that after the mayocide.
1 Mayo_Macerator 2017-11-24
FOR THE LOVE OF BUSSY, GET THIS KIND HUMAN SOME 🍞 BREAD!
THAT'S 62 MAYOS SPLATTERED ON SANDWICHES, 62 STEPS CLOSER TO COMPLETE MAYOCIDE!
At this rate, the white race will be finished in no time! DO YOUR PART, FOLKS!
1 Redactor0 2017-11-24
If you haven't been called a Muslim and a Nazi too, you're doing something wrong.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
I’ve been called a soon to be fascist, does that count?
1 Redactor0 2017-11-24
Yeah, as long both sides of the horseshoe have a problem with you, you must be all right.
1 buttermyself 2017-11-24
Take your bullshit and get right the fuck out pushing your twisted agenda on a genuine moment of another's growing as a person.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Jesus, were you dropped on the head as a baby?
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
actually yes. Thats probably why I think women are actual human beings.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
more fool you tbh.
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
Reasons why women are the embodiment of evil
Society view femoids as the benevolent creatures of light that can do no wrong. They think that cum dumpsters are nothing but angels that should be compensated and put in a godlike pedestals because they happen to be born with a vagina. But society is wrong. Bitches are nothing but natural born psycho(paths). They are pure and utter evil, who have no thoughts or feelings and should be seen as the malevolent creatures they truly are.
Here are the reasons why:
Femoids pretend to be victims whenever they want so they can get their way.
Femoids accuse men of false ra(pe) allegations only to get them convicted for a lifetime.
Femoids are hypocritical creatures that say one thing only to do the complete opposite.
Femoids are pathological liars who never say the truth; which is why you can't believe anything that comes out of their mouths.
Femoids are masters manipulators who will exploit innocent souls to get what they want.
Femoids treat a large percentage of the population (ugly men) as subhuman.
Femoid are racists who solely reject men due their race.
Femoids are hypergamous sluts who reject men of their own footing for genetically superior males.
Femoid love shaming/rejecting men due to things that they have no control of (example: looks, height, cawk size, and etc).
Femoids will reject a man because he is a virigin.
Femoids are not capable of loving or caring towards men, unless the man is Chad/Tyrone/Chang.
Femoids are serial killers who end the life's of thousands and thousands of unborn children.
Femoids are child abusers who put their children in hormone therapy in a very young age.
Femoids take away attention from males oriented mental illnesses such as depression only to make it about themselves.
Femoids condemn countless of men to suuicide and feel nothing about it.
Femoids are all unloyal and untrustworthy cunts who will cheat no matter how good they appear to be.
Femoids are gold-digging whores who marry men solely due to money only to divorce them and take half of their shit.
Femoids are deceptive cunts who show a facade of false emotions to a man only to lead him on and use him to get what they wants.
Femoids take joy in bullying, shaming, mocking ugly men whenever they can.
Femoid appear to show that they are creatures of emotion and compassion, but only in an attempt of virtue signalling so they can show the world how kind they are.
Femoids only want a small part of the population to reproduce.
Femoid not only take part in degenerate acts, but encourage others to do the same, which leads to the destruction of society.
Femoids say that they care about Incels but won't provide them with sex.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Wow r/incels gets banned, and then I get delivered incel memes directly to me. Amazing.
Buddy unless you stop creating this evil strawmen (strawwoman) of women, you will never be happy. Not all women are evil, men can and do almost everything on that list too. I think you know that these “all women” statements are false, just like “all men” statements are false. Are you telling me every women you ever met is like this? Like your mom is a woman, do you think she applies to this entire list?
Most people in the comment section are (hopefully) ironic. You need help. Being this hatefully isn’t healthy, it would be better to just forget about women entirely than to stew in hate all the time.
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
I don't consider myself an incel. I gave up on dating awhile back and have decided to go my own way.
People are fucking boring to talk to. I would rather be working (day trading crypto), shitposting on reddit, watching Netflix, etc.
The only thing I ever got out of a relationship was sex and affection. I don't understand the hype. Your girlfriend is not a special snowflake. People chemically bond to people they are sexually attracted to. That's it. I can chemically bond with literally any decent looking woman who is nice to me. That's "love". Oxytocin and dopamine. If you want dopamine so bad, there's something called the dark net markets where you can buy drugs. There's something called cough syrup in an everyday pharmacy that will fuck you up in high doses. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z09lYqdxqzo Also, you need food to survive. You don't need sex to survive. It's called jacking off my dude. Adults don't need affection to survive (apparently babies do or whatever). People with sexual market value don't give their affections freely. You have to be useful to them in some way. Men are pussy beggars so they give sex and affection out very freely. Women don't have to work for it. So women have all the leverage here. They can demand your resources. My last gf was not materialistic at the time that we dated (she started being materialistic after she dumped me because then I think she realized that simps were willing to buy her shit). But she was an emotional vampire with Borderline Personality Disorder (a lot of women have Cluster B personality disorders) who demanded a big chunk of my time and wanted me to give her attention to feed her narcissistic ego. And wanted me to treat her like she was the most beautiful woman on earth or something and that I couldn't live without her or whatever. If you want to be mentally intoxicated that bad, get fucked up on cough syrup. The world is not a Disney fairytale. You are not a special snowflake. Neither am I. You should see the things that my ex-girlfriend admitted to me about her new boyfriend while she was drunk. lmao. She admitted that she didn't love him even though he said he loved her. That's why you liberals virtue signal for starving homeless people from your child slave labour-made conflict mineral blood diamond iPhones while telling incels they are entitled for wanting sex. lmao. You need food, you don't need sex.
Women are so needy. They want you to text them regularly. Talk on the phone with them. Then once they have sex with Chad, they pretend like you never even existed and they never loved you. Women will chemically bond with you. And then when they find a genetically superior male who provides her with all this excitement and takes her on an adventure, she will no longer have those gina tingles for you anymore. It hurts me to remember how my last gf did me that way. But at the end of the day, it was just basic biology on both ends. She was the best I could looks-wise without paying for it, this is why my brain tricked me into thinking I loved the bitch. And women can get fucked by literal Chads on demand so they will never fucking love you. At least not for long.
If you're not Chad and you believe your wife/girlfriend loves you, yous a cuck. If this tall cocky successful Chad tatted low-inhibition badboy white rapper with a big cock approached her https://i.imgur.com/Udg5GYb.jpg, you think your girl would be faithful to you? ROFL There's nothing stopping your girl from having sex with Chad or Tyrone. And that's NEVER going to change. No matter how much you vote for Trump and think that is magically going to change the clock. Tradcon women never loved their husbands. They always wanted Chad. And with the sexual revolution, their sexuality is unleashed in free market sexual capitalism. Ancapistan but with genitals.
r/incels are complaining about nothing. Complaining about not being Chad is like complaining about not being a billionaire. Life is unfair. Life is an injustice. That's why most of the world is in poverty.
Fuck bitches, get money. Money is literally the most important thing in life. Other than health. Like my nigga Drake says, "All I care about is money and the city that I'm from".
You can use all the shaming language you want. You have nothing of value to offer me. The social contract that society hands over to men is fucking bullshit. Be a citizen-slave in exchange for what exactly? A couple warm wet holes, some affection and "social acceptance". Oh and possible divorce rape losing half your shit, paying out child support and paying out alimony for life. The terms of that trade aren't worth it. Normies are boring as shit. I don't receive any dopamine when I listen to some normie talk about his life and his problems. But I get a hit of dopamine when I trigger SJWs on reddit. So I have no incentive to honor that social contract.
After you normies wage slave for the man, you logon to reddit to make fun of people you think you are better than in order to feel better about your shit wage cuck life and the fact that you can't satisfy your wife/girlfriend the way her bull Tyrone can with your average penis.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Sounds like your last girlfirend sucked. You can believe love isn’t real or is just chemicals and thats fine, but it doesn’t mean you have to be a misogynist. You can believe what ever you want about sexual strategy as long as you don’t hate people who haven’t done anything wrong. You can hate your ex. You can’t hate every single woman.
1 ComedicSans 2017-11-24
1 morerokk 2017-11-24
"Everyone I don't like is Incels"
He was clearly being ironic.
1 SeaSquirrel 2017-11-24
Fine, these comments are [insert women hating sphere of choice] cancer
1 morerokk 2017-11-24
If you can't take an obvious joke then maybe you should try SRD instead.
1 wowbagger88 2017-11-24
Black? Muslim? Men forced to pay for women's healthcare? God?
1 Fletch71011 2017-11-24
It's hot takes everywhere you look in /r/Drama. Just do yourself a favor and don't take anyone seriously and you'll be fine.
1 satanismyhomeboy 2017-11-24
It pretty much is
This will pass. /r/Drama is older than SRD, it always swings back to neutral.
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
SRD is thataway bro
1 pi_over_3 2017-11-24
Lol, you can't take the joke from the title and pass it off as your own.
1 grungebot5000 2017-11-24
wasn’t TrollX always the Jezebel of Reddit? Except Jezebel is sometimes funny.
1 neveryousay3 2017-11-24
Well, if you sort by top and find older posts, you actually can find that it was a normal, funny sub before.
While Jezebel ( I was linked to that site by women who made fun of it, lol) was always shit as I found, well articles are less shitty now by comparison, the comment section is still hell.
But if you take it like satire of american white feminism, it's better than The Onion.
1 Fletch71011 2017-11-24
It's worse than Jezebel. They're just female incels. I wish the mods didn't remove that comment earlier pointing that out.
https://www.reddit.com/r/TrollXChromosomes/comments/7et7n8/preach/dq7qxyi
1 neveryousay3 2017-11-24
Oh, believe me, I know about this post.
1 Darenflagart 2017-11-24
1 captainpriapism 2017-11-24
jokes on them i think of all women as prostitutes
1 YHofSuburbia 2017-11-24
I don't really think anything in that thread was too crazy, at least by TrollX standards...
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Found the nasty breeder
1 DrinkProfessionally 2017-11-24
By TrollX standards nothing is that crazy though
1 DrinkProfessionally 2017-11-24
I just read the thread and shit was crazy son, even for TrollX
This people actually think women work more in general
Salt the earth, gas the roasties
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
The crazy level wasn't too high, but the pettiness was through the stratosphere. Imagine being so salty that your SO called you to double check to be sure if you needed anything when they went out to the store. "God, why must he always make me think about stuff and talk to him by asking what I might want!"
1 CaptainNeeMoNoy 2017-11-24
Feminists should compensate me for the emotional labor of listening to the retarded shit that constantly spills from their drooling mouths.
1 lunchza 2017-11-24
Everybody that disagrees with me must be male so that it fits my narrative. Am I doing this right /u/lacywing?
1 CaptainMemer 2017-11-24
Are we back to doing that thing where half the posts here are from TrollX?
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
You can't truly love bussy until you fully understand the evil of gussy
1 polddit 2017-11-24
Can we get rollin on /r/ShitTrollXSays?
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Someone start that now
1 polddit 2017-11-24
I'm not enough of an autist to be a mod.
Maybe /u/annoysthegoys could help?
1 disgruntled_chode 2017-11-24
I'd do it but I don't want to compromise my South Park neutrality. r/drama pls
1 DeepDickedHillybilly 2017-11-24
Done
1 xKillerDreag 2017-11-24
It's very obvious these retards have never been in a relationship because nearly all of what they consider emotional labour is something men do too. Because that's what a fucking relationship is.
1 DrinkProfessionally 2017-11-24
Go to a psychiatrist /u/taytay9955
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Eh. Literally all of /u/taytay9955 's posts are about being a bipolar nutjob.
Like 75% of TrollXers are self-admittedly mentally ill, which is why it's retarded that they think their dumbfuck political and cultural opinions should be regarded as anything more than the unhinged ravings of lunatics
1 DrinkProfessionally 2017-11-24
I thank the lord every day for all of my ex-gfs and girl-friends being reasonable, rational, pleasant human beings.
/u/taytay9955
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
You don't seem to be working very hard at it, /u/taytay9955
1 nmx179 2017-11-24
I wonder if pinging people like /u/taytay9955 with stuff like this ever helps bring them even a little bit closer to self awareness or whether it just gives them an excuse to plunge even deeper into their myriad delusions.
Oh well, either way is good.
1 life_is_painfull 2017-11-24
Am delusional, she's just self centered retar who thinks her life TV series written by lena Dunham
1 Senator_Chickpea 2017-11-24
Well, after the Hyundai was repo'ed, and then they made the decision to take every door off its hinges -- voila! No need for keys!
1 CarnistHappyCamp 2017-11-24
This depends entirely upon which mental illness we're talking about. Not sure there's a treatment for TwoX Disability.
1 SCV70656 2017-11-24
Was expecting a dank new Rick and Morty copy pasta. 0/10 would not read again.
1 zergling_Lester 2017-11-24
Oddly enough as in her boyfriend is actually underage?
1 CirqueDuFuder 2017-11-24
/u/taytay9955 stop torturing people by going on with this deluding thought that you deserve love.
1 taytay9955 2017-11-24
You're right I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years. You and everyone else here has finally given me the push I need to try and end it again, this time I won't use pills, I'll use my dad's 45. Good thing I am just some mentally ill internet stranger and not a real human. I'll be sure to leave a link to this thread in my note.
1 lunchza 2017-11-24
Yo include me in the screenshot
1 AN_ERECT_PENIS 2017-11-24
Lmao me too
1 OniTan 2017-11-24
Ayy lmao.
1 PastaVagioli 2017-11-24
As long as you blame anyone but yourself. That’s the important thing. Don’t kill yourself drama queen.
1 Thulean-Dragon 2017-11-24
Holy shit, we have spoilers?
Noice
1 CirqueDuFuder 2017-11-24
You being mentally ill isn't an excuse to subject people to mental abuse. Solve your own problems with professional help or go eat your emotions while projecting human feelings onto an army of pet cats.
You are no better than male incels. I know you are shit posting too because only a man would be man enough to use a gun instead of crying for attention with pills and horizontal wrist slashing.
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
Some people might say that laying a guilt trip on strangers saying it’s their fault you were going to kill yourself, implying if they don’t try and talk you out of it that it will be on their heads, is quite a bit of emotional labor. And we’re not even dating you!
Talking people off of a ledge is actually quite emotionally draining. This might be a job for your boyfriend. Just saying.
1 Senator_Chickpea 2017-11-24
"I only wish I could have gotten to her sooner...
But I forgot where I put those damn keys!"
1 Mathrex88 2017-11-24
No need for suicide, that comment killed me
1 OniTan 2017-11-24
"Hey babe, I found the... oh. Well, her body's still intact." (Zip. Squeak squeak squeak.)
1 r4chan-cancer 2017-11-24
What a load of shit.
Just proving everyone right with the "boo hoo I'm gonna pretend I'm gonna kill myself over internet comments".
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1 SDIHTD 2017-11-24
Lol
1 ahbslldud 2017-11-24
Oh, is it emotional manipulation via suicide threats time already? Gosh, I very nearly missed it.
You're right I've been struggling with suicidal thoughts for years. Your post blaming me for your actions has finally given me the push I need to try and end it again, this time I won't use pills, I'll use my dad's 45. Good thing I am just some autistic shitposter and not a real human. I'll be sure to leave a link to your comment in my note.
1 shallowm 2017-11-24
This is literally emotional labor. Who knew /r/drama would be carrying the brunt of it?
1 ____________13 2017-11-24
Ah, the ol' reddit suicideroo
1 AggressiveChimp 2017-11-24
Hold my exit bag, I'm going in
1 Couldnt_think_of_a 2017-11-24
Make sure to shoot some coons before you fag out.
1 TheCodexx 2017-11-24
Could you be sure to mention me by name?
1 upvoteguy6 2017-11-24
Louis CK did a funny bit on suicide I saw on Netflix this year. You would find it funny,maybe.
1 80BAIT08 2017-11-24
Drama aside get off Reddit and stop letting TwoX poison you. This shit isn't good for you.
1 Joe_Bruin 2017-11-24
Please do, thanks and keep yourself safe
1 SlackBabo 2017-11-24
help me find the remote or i'm going to kill myself
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1 EarnestNoMeta 2017-11-24
Does the depravity of this subreddit have no end?
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Thanks for the new copypasta
1 MyStrangeUncles 2017-11-24
Omg, I was here when copypasta was born! Woohoo! Lookit me Ma!
1 wOLFman4987 2017-11-24
Fucking lol
1 AIDS_Fairy 2017-11-24
Women like you are so strong and brave, unless you ask them something, then they become suicidal. Still, I'm sure it's the patriarchy's fault somehow.
1 smokes_degrass 2017-11-24
bye felicia
1 YourLocalMonarchist 2017-11-24
livestream it
1 onitsuka 2017-11-24
>this is a high school teacher
1 OniTan 2017-11-24
Why couldn't she just fuck her students like usual?
1 JonCemen 2017-11-24
I would kill myself too if I my family used fuddyfive instead of glorious 10mm.
1 aqouta 2017-11-24
Could a 10mm even penitrate your thick skull?
1 MissTawdryHepburn 2017-11-24
I seriously have a deep loathing for people who try to get attention by claiming they're going to commit suicide. However, just on the off chance you were serious, it's not a good idea to shoot yourself. I was in treatment after my own attempt and I met a guy who blew his entire jaw off by trying to shoot himself and survived. Suicide in general is a really bad idea. I highly recommend you stop putting so much importance on people on the internet and maybe get some psychological help/meds. I'm probably wasting my time and you're probably full of shit and seeking attention, like I said, but I don't like to think of someone who may truly be going through some shit and decides to off themselves over the internet. So I hope this is just a joke or whatever. If not, it's a good idea to find someone to talk to, because not a single person here is going to care if you live or die. The internet is not a nice place and not a smart Avenue to walk for any substantive attention or help. Good luck.
1 Gothmog26 2017-11-24
Please don't. Brain matter is expensive to get out of the carpet.
1 niggerpenis 2017-11-24
Honestly man I don't think your dad would be happy if you did that.
1 OniTan 2017-11-24
Self immolation is the only serious way to go.
1 SuperShake66652 2017-11-24
Don't miss, fam.
1 ABillionYearsOld 2017-11-24
I can't believe how much arrogance it takes to expect that kind of emotional labor out of us...
1 lachis 2017-11-24
Try and do it? Just fucking do it and get it over with
1 Discouraged_Lime 2017-11-24
Man. Try harder next time, yeah? Down the tracks and not across?
1 SSJKiryu 2017-11-24
Jajajajaja
1 old_grumpy_grandpa 2017-11-24
Include me in the screencap
1 PewdiePieRapedMe 2017-11-24
r u dead yet
1 ArchangelleLovesRape 2017-11-24
Stream it live, bitchtits.
1 takaci 2017-11-24
this made me hard
1 RudyGiuliani_AG 2017-11-24
do it, pussy.
1 DrecksVerwaltung 2017-11-24
Includ me 2 pls
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-11-24
Interestingly, women almost never use firearms to kill themselves. They favor methods that won't disfigure them.
I hope you try it and fail, and end up like this.
1 htmlcoderexe 2017-11-24
Is that lemon juice?
1 IAintThatGuy 2017-11-24
No idea. But that would be fucking hardcore!
1 geraldo42 2017-11-24
Don't be that guy
1 AIDS_Fairy 2017-11-24
Lol are you dead yet
1 canine_canestas 2017-11-24
I think you done gone and done diddlied..
1 Singulaire 2017-11-24
I guess that's still technically true if you've never had a single relationship with a woman, physical or otherwise.
Which is completely reasonable, I don't know why you'd ever waste your time on women when there's bussy to be had.
1 80BAIT08 2017-11-24
When you critize your husband through a marxist lens. Is he paying /u/taytay9955 by the hour to he his wife? Imagine if he could see his way calling him manipulative and how resentful it made her feel. What a cunt.
1 newprofile15 2017-11-24
This girl is legitimately crazy.
1 rewind45 2017-11-24
AI waifus. AI waifus NOW!
1 headasplodes 2017-11-24
That's like a plantation owner complaining about how his slaves just don't understand how hard his job is
1 lickedTators 2017-11-24
My slaves are better off as my slaves. I give them housing, food, and an honest days work. Without me they'd be starving out in the woods, getting raped by incel drama shitposters.
1 Neon_needles 2017-11-24
Fucked up but unironically true. 👿
1 AlyxLovely 2017-11-24
RRREEEEEEE
1 thats-alright 2017-11-24
Great Analogy
1 TSwizzlesNipples 2017-11-24
God damn...my gf loses shit ALL. THE. TIME. She once lost her keys and found them in the fridge. THE FUCKING FRIDGE!
I finally understand TrollX. Goodbye, /r/drama. <3
1 jet199 2017-11-24
Is she dyspraxic? Keys in the fridge is pretty standard for them.
1 TSwizzlesNipples 2017-11-24
No idea, but she is kinda clumsy. However, just to be safe, I will not inquire as to whether or not she has a developmental disorder. Don't wanna get shanked in my sleep.
1 tencmwhenerect 2017-11-24
Imagine being straight, and having to put up with that all the time.
1 Morgoff 2017-11-24
Do traps go on about this kind of bullshit? I'm thinking of making the switch to "I can't believe it's not woman."
The Asian ones look decent.
1 JasonJewnova 2017-11-24
Dawg that doesn't even remotely look like a woman, you couldn't find a better passing slant than that?
1 Morgoff 2017-11-24
Yeah but this way the trussy is probably untouched.
1 XLauncher 2017-11-24
If my only experience with women was twox, I'd probably be a misogynist.
1 allwordsaredust 2017-11-24
If my only experience with women was trollx, I'd probably call myself "genderqueer" to avoid being associated with other women.
1 jet199 2017-11-24
The thing is I'm pretty sure that over half the people who post there are actually guys.
1 disgruntled_chode 2017-11-24
Damn, that thread is ripe.
u/beckoning_cat, I appreciate you coming right out and saying what's on your mind like this. Makes everything much simpler without needing all this talk about "emotional labor" as a workaround.
1 PoorLilMarco 2017-11-24
Didn't you know gay guys are the real manly men out there, slaying bussy like nobody's business
1 serialflamingo 2017-11-24
It's true.
1 incineratechicken 2017-11-24
MACHO MACHO MAN
1 wisty 2017-11-24
I wanna be a macho man
1 yourmumsanargonian 2017-11-24
Guys aren't emotional enough. Guys are pussies. Hmm.
1 aqouta 2017-11-24
/u/Durbee
Why even get married if you clearly dislike your husband?
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Because despite all the hot air she blows about female empowerment, /u/Durbee knows she'd be miserable alone
1 Unicorn_Abattoir 2017-11-24
None of the others ones ever came back from the store.
1 shanewater 2017-11-24
implying she actually has a husband and she's not just LARPing to fill the massive void in her life.
1 aqouta 2017-11-24
>implying that void isn't filled by massivr amounts of food.
1 Singulaire 2017-11-24
It isn't. No matter how much food goes in, the void is still there.
1 Redactor0 2017-11-24
When I see a thread this retarded, I feel compelled to make a comment about it. So by linking to it, OP is essentially forcing me to perform the emotional labor of writing this comment.
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
And I'm not even sorry. Make me a sandwich, ho
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
/u/Prestidigitalization and /u/NoMorePie4U, you're literally bragging about successfully training and conditioning your significant others to behave a certain way as if they were dogs.
Don't be surprised if these guys man up one day soon and decide that they don't want to be emotionally abused by two self-righteous cunts who have the nerve to act like they're victims
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
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They honestly, genuinely believe that men intentionally give up on looking for things, just to irritate them. And probably also something something patriarchy.
(Also, that doesn't match how I've heard the term explained in feminist spheres before. But of course, it would be "mansplaining" to raise that objection.)
1 aqouta 2017-11-24
Doesn't seem unfair, he doesn't care if people get useless presents and you do. He doesn't care if the clothes are folded properly and you do. so you do those things. Have you considered the patriarchy version of this little situation is that you've been duped into caring and not that he doesn't have strong feelings about wasting money on useless trinkets and uncreased clothing?
1 DeepDickedHillybilly 2017-11-24
/u/hh831713 uses a harmless, stupid question her boyfriend asks to gaslight him into feminism.
This is legit abusive. I feel so bad for that guy
1 japsock 2017-11-24
I give the guy a year and he'll have killed himself if he stays with her.
1 PoorLilMarco 2017-11-24
I think I understand why so much more younger people opt for bussy instead now.
1 Denny_Craine 2017-11-24
Seriously that thread is full of bullies
1 James_Kvetch 2017-11-24
Holy shit, this is fucked. I would leave my girlfriend before her eyes finished rolling if she ever acted like this wtf.
1 serialflamingo 2017-11-24
In all fairness, I think it's just spank bank material and it didn't actually happen.
1 CirqueDuFuder 2017-11-24
No way a man would read that entire diatribe of a "comic."
1 lunchza 2017-11-24
/u/hh893731 how's your imaginary husband doing?
1 Charles_Thunderpenis 2017-11-24
That's funny because if you reversed the genders it could easily be spun as abuse by the guy. My SO has asked me really dumb questions about simple stuff like that, things that she really ought to know, but am I going to berate and lecture her over it? No because that's a shitty thing to do.
1 ImDaBestAtWhatIDoAnd 2017-11-24
Is Emotional labor just another way to see the various day-to-day things that needs to be done as oppression?
1 some-other 2017-11-24
It’s to labor what micro-aggression is to abuse.
1 ason 2017-11-24
It's a way of berating your overworked accountant boyfriend into making dinner while you fuck around on Instagram 9 hours a day.
1 Finagles_Law 2017-11-24
That's just labor. Emotional labor is shit like knowing the kid's schedules and making family plans, etc. If you're going to mock it, at least get it right.
1 ason 2017-11-24
My comment is about claiming to do "emotional labor" as leverage to get your boyfriend to do more than his fair share of actual labor. Cute interpretation though, sweety.
1 wellimout 2017-11-24
It's for when you're a control freak who has to everything done exactly your way, and your "partner" isn't an equal partner because they've learned the painful lesson that they're not allows to make any decisions at all without you berating them. So they're not a partner, they're a follower - a good little follower. And as a result, everything is getting done exactly you're way.
So that's good, right? Youre a control freak and you have control. Mission accomplished. Well no, because now you don't have anything to complain about. The patriarchy has literally robbed you of the joy of complaining. "Emotional labor" is literally complaining that you got your way. Your ~partner~ follower did what you wanted, but you still want to complain about it.
One example from the thread is about how she sends her husband to the grocery store to buy [product] but then he calls her when he realizes there are two brands. "Which [product] do I get?" he asks. And then he gets exactly the one she wants.
So she complains that the phone call was annoying. She complains that she has to micromanage her servant. Wow. Such oppression.
What's really going on is that he has learned from experience that if he gets the wrong thing, she's going to make him feel like shit for it. Even if he remembers "we got this brand last time, so I'll get it again" there's a good chance he'll get in trouble. "I TOLD YOU, I WAS JUST TESTING THAT BRAND AND DIDN'T LIKE IT, YOU SHOULD HAVE GOTTEN THE OTHER ONE!"
There's no way to win, so he's just checked out of the game. He's a brow beaten man.
1 xyisok 2017-11-24
u/joonami
This wonderful human being who totes doesnt hate men has managed to twist the simple question and polite gesture of "do you need me to pick you up anything at the store" into weapon's grade misogyny, and over 300 other harpies upvoted it.
I guarantee this woman abuses her husband.
1 metameanderer 2017-11-24
husband doesn't explicitly state everything he already knows he has to buy
take 5 seconds per day to actually keep track of what you need to buy instead of hoping both of you remember everything
literally working 16 hours per day with emotional "labour"
1 DannyLee90 2017-11-24
I don't understand how you can be that socially stupid while complaining about "emotional labor". It's like complaining that your spouse keeps too many secrets while shopping for a birthday present.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
This self-hatred is impressive. /u/Rexsplosion can't consider the possibility that he's actually right about something and the feminists are wrong; he forces himself to re-interpret his own personal experience in a way that validates the criticism of others.
1 Rexsplosion 2017-11-24
Wow. Fuck right off. What I realized is "hey, a thing i didn't think about doing can totally be an extra burden on someone i love that I didn't intend, i love them and am willing to be better as a person."
Take your bullshit and get right the fuck out pushing your twisted agenda on a genuine moment of another's growing as a person.
1 Butch_Patterson 2017-11-24
That's the spirit! Now if you could just muster up some of that piss and vinegar the next time your harpy of a GF lays a guilt trip on you for causing her emotional labourrape you'll be doing much better!
1 Rexsplosion 2017-11-24
Man, fuck you thinking you understand my life from one Reddit comment, you have to be the most arrogant fool I've ever had the misfortune to come across.
And when you actually have someone you care about, i hope you figure a few things out yourself.
1 Butch_Patterson 2017-11-24
Now if only you could man up and say something along those lines to whoever has your balls in her purse. Maybe you wouldn't be so angry online.
1 SCV70656 2017-11-24
is prepping the bull for her considered emotional labor too?
1 DeepDickedHillybilly 2017-11-24
WARNING! WARNING! WARNING! THIS IS AN EMERGENCY SPERG ALERT. /u/REXSPLOSION IS CURRENTLY ENGAGING IN CATEGORY 5 SPERGING. THE DETAILS ARE HERE:
SPERG OUT CONTAINED IN /r/TROLLXCHROMOSOMES
SPERG OUT CONTAINS QUOTATIONS SUCH AS: "I don't have a way to link in a "no participation way" but geez, i'm fucking riled."
SPERG OUT IS ENCOURAGING BRIGADING
THIS HAS BEEN ALERT OF THE EMERGENCY SPERG OUT SYSTEM. HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/Quixadashani
I am not the tiniest bit sexist, and there is no twisting involved. This objectively was not a "moment of self-growth"; it was someone uncritically accepting man-hating rhetoric. Like, look at the phrasing again:
The implication here is that there's somehow something wrong with the idea that "sometimes you just need a fresh set of eyes". But there objectively, and completely freakin' obviously, is nothing wrong with that. Sometimes you really do just need a fresh set of eyes when you're looking for something. The only reason to discredit that view is because it reinforces the feminist narrative that serves as the backdrop for this self-flagellation.
Keep in mind, in the same thread we have another man complaining that his spouse actively hides things (possibly abusive behaviour), and OP openly laughing in response.
1 _Petronius 2017-11-24
geez I’m fucking riled
Imagine how far this dude’s dick must be tucked between his legs.
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
posts a gif of an attempted spouse murderer raging
Intentional or unintentional irony?
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/syncopacetic
Holy shit, you actually think anyone here is taking any of that seriously.
1 syncopacetic 2017-11-24
Lol like it matters if it was serious or not
1 syncopacetic 2017-11-24
As if it matters if someone says something like that, or agrees with it, in jest or not.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/NoMorePie4U
The point is to highlight the evidence that y'all are ridiculous, embarrassing caricatures of yourselves.
1 Thot_Crusher 2017-11-24
When did you decide to become a rapist?
1 EarnestNoMeta 2017-11-24
Lol u virgin
1 ShitCommentBelow 2017-11-24
Maybe you're right. Dealing with you does seem like it be an emotional burden.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
There is no bullshit, I am not pushing an agenda, and there is nothing twisted about it. I am trying to save you from needless supplication, because the thing you "didn't think about doing" is objectively completely reasonable and should not be seen as "an extra burden", and that community seeks to gaslight you into imagining otherwise.
BTW, I quoted you, that's not a screencap.
1 Redactor0 2017-11-24
People on r/drama actually care more about your happiness than people on r/trollxchromosomes. That should tell you something about the kind of company you keep.
1 AIDS_Fairy 2017-11-24
Anytime a man asks something of a woman it's automatically oppression-rape. You my friend are a rapist for asking something of a woman because women are strong, capable creatures, unless you ask them something.
1 DickingBimbos247 2017-11-24
are you being physically abused by your wife right now?
blink twice for yes,
wink once for no
1 saltytrannyballz 2017-11-24
Soy's one helluva drug
1 Singulaire 2017-11-24
This is my first time seeing a DIY struggle-session. I knew that Soviet Russia promoted the concept of "self-guarding" where you had a duty to the people to constantly monitor yourself for counter-revolutionary sentiments, but this is next-level.
1 DickingBimbos247 2017-11-24
/u/Rexsplosions is basically gaslighting himself.
On one hand I wanna laugh about how pathetic that is, on the other hand I'm kinda worried how abusive his relationship must be. Like, does she regularly demand he cut himself in front of her, to prove his commitment to feminism?
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/beckoning_cat
Right. Straight (specifically, for some reason) men point out that feminist narratives are one-sided not because they feel it's unfair that such bullshit is promoted with a straight face, but because they "are pussies" and feel the need to justify themselves personally.
Also, it's totally not at all reinforcing gender roles for you to frame things this way, and it's perfectly okay to call a man a "pussy" even though I've been told a million times by feminists that it's unacceptable to use the same rhetoric towards women, but this is still about treating women the same way as men. Somehow.
1 saint2e 2017-11-24
Should we just start calling them xxcels at this point?
1 ConsoleWarCriminal 2017-11-24
nah they're not good with computers either
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/Prestidigitalization
Why is that funny to you?
1 v_is_one_person 2017-11-24
I think she was scoffing at the idea of a woman building a loft.
1 ChateauJack 2017-11-24
https://www.reddit.com/r/FancyFollicles/comments/6tk9sx/on_a_whim_decided_to_have_my_roots_dyed_purple/
answers your question?
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/Joonami
Or maybe he was putting in the effort to care about the fact that you might have been inconvenienced by running low on something, and thus asking if you'd noticed a shortage. Because he thanklessly goes out and takes care of this sort of thing, you know, that whole "provider role" deal.
1 Senator_Chickpea 2017-11-24
a.k.a Schrödinger's Bitch
1 some-other 2017-11-24
Tbh I feel pretty tired over all this drama labor. Y’all should pick up some of the slack. Lazy shitlords.
1 wackbott 2017-11-24
u/heretofartaround
YAAAS GURL THAT IS EXACTLY RIGHT OMG YOURE BLOWING MY MIND WITH THESE TRUTHS RIGHT NOW
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/empress_p
Or maybe you grew up in an environment where people are expected to think that things like this matter, and others didn't? Maybe some people haven't grown up drinking the same brand and type of milk all the time, and can't fathom that that sort of consistency is a big deal to other people? Like, seriously, have you ever tried considering outside perspectives? At all?
1 bishlasagna 2017-11-24
u/heretofartaround
Women are expected to be born adults and men aren’t until, what...50? If ever. It’s a creepy dynamic that Republicans love to use to excuse behaviour. Men are never old enough to do wrong and women are never young enough to be victims.
YAAAS GURL THAT IS EXACTLY RIGHT OMG YOURE BLOWING MY MIND WITH THESE TRUTHS RIGHT NOW
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/joey_bag_of_anuses
I would suggest that you find another subreddit, because that one is never any different from what you just experienced, and it's clear that the regulars there consider your experience highly atypical and are never going to give it any credit.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/stripedpinkboxers
100% serious question, why do you think it is simple?
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/Maddie-Moo
He behaved perfectly reasonably. You expected him to infer the presence of random other items on the explicit enumerated list you gave him simply based on the context of it being a grocery list. Yes, he doesn't think about what supplies you're low on, because he doesn't cook with those supplies. He thinks about the work he's coming home from, because he does that work.
And don't fucking kid yourself, if he somehow did get the idea to "make all the food decisions for the week", they would be wrong in your estimation. No matter what. Because in your own words, you were dreaming about this. In reality, people are not mind-readers.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/5quirtle
Do you understand that this doesn't work, because people get used to their own smell?
1 5quirtle 2017-11-24
I do it all the time. I can absolutely smell my own BO.
But even if you can't smell for some reason, there's so many other things you can do. I look at where I found it and how the item looks. If it's all crumpled or has stains? Laundry. Found it in the bathroom? Laundry. A single sock? Laundry. If it's sitting right next to the clean basket from last week and looks ok, probably clean. If I'm not sure, I default to washing it.
1 LightUmbra 2017-11-24
Ah I see, you probably smell like your own feces and people are able to smell their own feces after a little bit.
1 yourmumsanargonian 2017-11-24
Classic stuff. Idiots arguing with idiots about who is the bigger idiot.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/TheLaramieReject
I legitimately don't understand how you think there's anything wrong with that response. Nothing prevents you from asking the question you actually want answered. "Do we need" implies "I want your subjective judgment of this". If you mean "are we out of", then use your words.
1 BigLordShiggot 2017-11-24
You know, if you swing her the big D, your wife will generally be pleasant and compliant for up to a week.
Work smarter, not harder.
1 LordZedd84T 2017-11-24
So stop fucking doing it for him. Let him deal with the fallout, if any, for not doing shit.
1 ryaba 2017-11-24
lol folding clothes. Like just keep that shit in the laundry bin or throw it on the floor and give it the smell test when you wear it. Who even gives a fuck if laundry doesn't get folded.
1 TheTrueNobody 2017-11-24
>implying incels don't have tits
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
And then as /u/Requiem89 was walking away, he threw a can at her, and it hit her in the forehead, and the can contained a rolled up $100% bill, upon which was written, "GET OWNED BY GAMERGATE BITCH!"
1 Gil-Gandel 2017-11-24
I'll see her "woman eyes" and raise her "man magic", which is the form of words my wife uses when she can't get something technical to work. Often as simple as turning it off and on again. But I have the emotional maturity not to REEEEEE "functional adult, you make the workplace hostile".
1 PM_ME_HAIRLESS_CATS 2017-11-24
See its shit like this that makes only male feminists hang out with you
And we know how that usually ends don't we
1 Protect_Me 2017-11-24
TrollX and Incels are similar in that they both sociopathically think of a relationship as some sort of business transaction. If my girlfriend asked me to bring her clothes I would do it because I'm not a cunt and I'd expect her to do the same.
1 abraham_pimpin 2017-11-24
Can someone please explain what that picture is even supposed to mean. I keep rereading both the original version and the edited one and I can't decipher it.
Wtf does emotional labor have to do with not being able to find something??
1 avistel 2017-11-24
I think this is a symptom of the fact that these harpies can only manage to attract the sort of sorry-ass wibbly bivalve who cannot handle baisc domestic shit
1 GARBAGE_MACHINE 2017-11-24
Imagine this actually happening.
1 Singulaire 2017-11-24
Imagine saying this unironically when the all the shittiest jobs of maintaining basic infrastructure (road construction, waste disposal, mining, etc.) are overwhelmingly male.
1 zahlman 2017-11-24
/u/TheLaramieReject
I legitimately don't understand how you think there's anything wrong with that response. Nothing prevents you from asking the question you actually want answered. "Do we need" implies "I want your subjective judgment of this". If you mean "are we out of", then use your words.
1 PracticalOnions 2017-11-24
Everyone on TrollX sounds like they need to get out more tbh
1 starship_litterbox 2017-11-24
And they claim women are the majority recipients of emotional abuse, when this mentality reflects the status quo.
1 StormLegionGaren 2017-11-24
ez pz ban
1 Fieryfrogs6969blaze 2017-11-24
Being a decent person to your spouse is just too much emotional labor.
He's gonna leave you girls for the bussy
1 Spectre_06 2017-11-24
The only reason they have tits is because they're morbidly obese.
1 hotblondeboob 2017-11-24
Incels have anime waifus, so what are trollx's husbands?
1 hotblondeboob 2017-11-24
/u/bleeker_street
Some? The best million chefs are men.
1 hotblondeboob 2017-11-24
/u/NoMorePie4U
Still waiting for women to come up with revolutionary inventions
1 hotblondeboob 2017-11-24
Emotional labor is the process of managing feelings and expressions to fulfill the emotional requirements of a job.
More specifically, workers are expected to regulate their emotions during interactions with customers, co-workers and superiors. This includes analysis and decision making in terms of the expression of emotion, whether actually felt or not, as well as its opposite: the suppression of emotions that are felt but not expressed.
At the very top of wikipedia which is the first link google provides for you when you google it.
Why are women so incapable of grasping simple concepts?