It wasnt obnoxious or creepy, just responding to a couple of my stories with heart-eye emojis or "you're beautiful". I just blocked him from seeing my stories after like 3 messages. Still, very unprofessional considering his page is to promote his work. I sure as hell am not letting a guy like that tattoo my side boob!

What a brave and beautiful victim. RIP

He needs consent re-education IMHO. We've let our society slide into moral decay and now men are sliding into DMs.

/u/sunshinerf prefers that guys call her ugly when they are trying to get to know her.

Dude, what the fuck is this troll thread? I was looking for professional business, not for a guy to hit on me. That doesn't mean I don't want to be hit on or think I am a victim. It just means that I won't be taking my business to this guy, because his behavior is inappropriate for the circumstances.

Admit it, you just liked to be negged to start the games.

You just made yourself out to be a victim for the points tho, so if it's not because it bothers you when why did you post it? Oh right, attention.

How in the world did I make myself out to be a victim? But pointing out bad busienss practice that bummed me out? Finding the right artist to tattoo you can take months. I thought he could have been a good choice, but he was unprofessional before I even had a chance to reach out, that's annoying. Back on my search now. Trollx get it.

nobody on trollx gettin any lmao

Thank fuck for that. Imagine all the lost drama if those women swapped the stick up their ass for a dick.

How in the world did I make myself out to be a victim?

the grain of truth in this

Still not making anyone a victim. I wanted to do business with this person. He was being unprofessional and now I need to find someone else to take my business to. So it's ruined. I haven't been victimized, it just foiled my plans.

It seems that the people on r/drama are just looking for that extra drama to stir things up. Obviously, especially since this was posted on trollx, I intentionally used an overreacting reaction gif.

It seems that the people on r/drama are just looking for that extra drama to stir things up.

Yeah it's literally why this place exists detective

To make shit up? Find some real drama, there is plenty of it. Go watch a reality show. Don't you have anything better to do other than over-analyze other peoples posts in subs that you hate?

Yes

We do

No

No

So it's ruined. I haven't been victimized,

the fact that this business transaction has been ruined, makes you a victim of a ruined business transaction.

i'm trying way too hard here to care, but you see the point?

No it doesn't. Not every time something doesn't go the way someone wants it to makes them a victim. You can be bummed about something without feeling like an injustice was in play. I can miss a flight because there was too much traffic to the airport and it will ruin the first day of vacation, it will be a total bummer. Doesn't make me a victim of anything, it's just that shit happens. See my point?

I'm so glad you said that. genuinely. trollx/twox/too many girls in one spot on the political boards have a bad rap. you changed my perception of that a bit. ty.

If you are genuinely genuine, you just made my day 🙂 literally the only reason I'm even engaged in this thread, glad to see somebody here is open-minded.

:)

It is, truthfully. Once you Go Your Own Way you will realize that women are literally children and have the iq of young gibbons . Check out /r/mgtow for more info, Ja Bless

self respect

People should value it more.

Tattoos on your tits are an indicator you have a whole lot of it.

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/u/sunshinerf What did he say?

Nothing much, sent a couple of heart eye emojis and said I was beautiful in response to my stories, so I blocked him from seeing them. It was harmless, but it is a business account. Don't mix business with pleasure! Especially if your job involves having your hands on other people's bodies... I also never met the guy or even messaged him, he is just a random stranger. Like an internet catcall. You wanna get to know someone? How about saying hi first?

Hi

Hi there, how are you today?

Not bad, you?

Oh, you know, just trying to figure out why people on this thread are so angry about life.

😍😍

Rapist

Personally it's because no qtpies respond to my IG DMs

If you call them qtpies, I think they have a valid reason not to respond...

Either way though, you shouldn't let that get you angry. Frustrated I can understand, but not angry. It's a waste of your energy!

Thank you wholeheartedly for your help.

I know it shouldn't get to me (I fully support enthusiastic consent and all) but it's just vexing when I'm hot and smooth and have a great gig drawing tattoos.

chasing gussy

Degenerates like you belong on a cross.

I really am quite Jesus-like

Tired. Was up late last night (not doing anything fun) and had a long day at work today. Right now I'm listening to smooth jazz, which is boring, but I'm too lazy to change the music. Also my roomate left a kitchen full of dirty dishes. I have some chores to do tonight, but I might just try to replace my crushing loneliness with banter on /r/Drama.

Yourself?

I am procrastinating on Reddit because I have piles of paperwork to go through and I really don't want to. Other than that life is great!

I'm sorry you are feeling lonely, that can't be fun.

lol what so you're this upset by a random internet compliment? I'm sincerely failing to see what this guy did wrong here in the slightest. I don't see how this was like catcalling since he wasn't vulgar or insulting.

Neither is a whistle on the street, but it's still annoying. I was bummed (not upset) because I wouldn't be comfortable letting a guy who is trying to hit on me tattoo me. General rule of thumb though, if you are interested in someone, commenting on their appearance or sending emojis is really not a way to get a conversation going. "This complete stranger said I'm beautiful, we will definitely vibe well, I should go out with him" - not how things work.

Have guys tried to slide in my DM before and I responded positively? Of course. Hell, I was the one sliding! But those are guys I at least met in person at some point in time, and the messages were not about appearance. They were about whatever I posted; a place, a dog, my job, whatever. That's how you should do it if you want a positive reaction.

slide into my dms

This is the first time I've seen this used unironically.

I hated the term for so long but I work in pop culture, it just ended up sticking. I used to only say "on fleek" mockingly and that somehow stuck also. Even "dude" used to be a joke but now I say it completely seriously.

I am ashamed but I am stuck 😕

Would have made a really long title though had I said "and tried to hit on me via direct message"...

I work in pop culture

Do society a favor and get a job that benefits us.

What does work in pop culture mean?

It means that I work in a field that is a part of pop culture.

Writer?

Music industry

Female entitlement in a nutshell, lad

Edit: TROLLS this post has been spammed with what seems to be RP'ers, and was reposted on r/drama. WTF? Apparently, the fact that I don't think it is appropriate for someone who is promoting a business to use that to hit on me, and not comfortable doing business with him for that reason, makes me an attention whore who hates men. I do not understand this logic whatsoever...

But why would hot babes follow my IG account if not to slide into the DMs?