We have reached peak whiteness: OP literally gets cucked and decides to raise the baby with his wife, gets congratulated and called a "real man."

1  2018-11-14 by ChaiCat23

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Iā€™m raising my son who was conceived by my wife and her affair partner. My wife and I are still married and I love him as my own. The biological father and my son met for the first time this past weekend and Iā€™m needing to anonymously vent a little.

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My wife and I have been together for 20 years and we have 5 kids. The son who is not mine biologically recently turned 10 years old. My wife and I agreed it was the right time to tell him. We struggled with this decision because we didnā€™t know where the line was between waiting for an appropriate age and lying to him for our own comfort.

Based on the facts, our son has a good man who is his biological father who is willing to meet him and be in his life and he has 3 more siblings he has a right to know.

Our decision was made based on the maturity of our now 10 year old and the fact that his biological father was a good person, excluding the affair, and father to his other kids.

Shortly after our son was born (Iā€™d been told about the affair a few months prior), we had a dna test that would ultimately confirm our fears.

Myself, my wife, her affair partner, and his wife all agreed that he would sign away any parental rights and that our two families would go our separate ways. We wouldnā€™t sue for child support, weā€™d just proceed as if I had been the one who got my wife pregnant.

Since then, my wife and I are still married with no plans I know of to separate or divorce and we both are dedicated to our children.

I wonā€™t lie and tell you parenting our son this thread is about has been easy. Itā€™s been painful and it has also brought me just as much joy and pride as our other children have.

Heā€™s a good kid, heā€™s got a big heart, heā€™s very empathetic and I think this is his best quality. Even when heā€™s talking to his older siblings when theyā€™re upset theyā€™ve been punished, you can see and hear that he really, genuinely cares and wants to understand so he can help in some way.

When his friends at school were having a down day, heā€™ll tell his siblings and his mother and I about what it was and how he could cheer them up next time he sees them.

Heā€™s not a particularly gifted athlete but he tries his best and heā€™s well liked by his teammates and the coaches love him.

He struggles in school sometimes, but heā€™s got no quit in him.

I admire him and I love him so much and Iā€™m happy to call him my son but there have been many moments over the years that have been painful.

When Iā€™m with him or the whole family and someone comments that he has my smile or eyes or something. My mind immediately says, ā€œNo he doesnā€™t. He canā€™t.ā€

My son has some health related issues inherited from his father and every time we address them, I think of the man my wife cheated with.

Sometimes I just feel like a fool for raising him and I feel terrible for it. When Iā€™m putting money into his education, I think Iā€™m an idiot. When Iā€™m spending a day with him or helping him with homework or scheduling dentist appointments or ordering something for his birthday or taking care of him when heā€™s sick or teaching him something as a parent.

Itā€™s like something bubbles up inside me and I have to constantly reject it. Heā€™s never done anything to cause me pain. Heā€™s completely innocent in everything. But those feelings are there and I fear theyā€™ll always be with me.

And my wife. I love her. Sheā€™s a dream of a mother, sheā€™s funny, sheā€™s a great conversationalist, sheā€™s extremely well read and Iā€™m constantlyā€”constantly learning new things from her and I love that. Sheā€™s beautiful and I still to this day feel my heart rate pick up a little when she comes near. And I think Iā€™ve forgiven her but the feelings I mentioned earlier make me wonder if Iā€™m lying to myself and to her.

Just like with my son, I often feel like a fool when Iā€™m doing something for my wife or caring for her. A few months ago for her birthday, I was cooking her favorite meal and half way through, in the kitchen I just stopped moving and thought, ā€œYouā€™re a fool.ā€

I stood there in that spot thinking that over and over and trying to to reject it so long my oldest daughter saw me and asked if I was okay. I told her I was thinking about something at work and that was that.

I feel like a terrible person for having these feelings. Iā€™ve seen therapists and Iā€™ve practiced mindfulness and Iā€™ve had lots of success with moving on. I think or thought Iā€™d had forgiven everyone involved.

And maybe I have and these feelings are just bubbling up in me because of the presence of the biological father in our lives again and our son being very excited about it cuts me. Iā€™ll never tell or show him that, but it does hurt.

I feel exhausted and want to sleep, but when I tried to lay down and sleep, I couldnā€™t and ended up writing this.

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Heā€™s not a particularly gifted athlete but he tries his best and heā€™s well liked by his teammates and the coaches love him.

He struggles in school sometimes, but heā€™s got no quit in him.

My son has some health related issues inherited from his father and every time we address them, I think of the man my wife cheated with.

She had an affair with an incest baby. ):

Nice fanfic OP.

We can only hope.

But hope is cheap thing, cheap thing.

So is this dude's wife.

Nah, it's the son who dreams about having a chad father to make up for his failures.

Unironic got em

Haha got em.

Um sweaty, Iā€™m scared and Iā€™m lonely, but if you want it....

Upvote for the "Sweet Thing" reference!

These comments are a gold mine.

Personally I always find it absurd that so many decades long marriages end up in really brutal, messy, damaging divorces, over 1 person sleeping with someone that wasn't their spouse.

Yes, imagine that.

The betrayal of trust, I get. I understand the part that hurts the most is that they do this behind their spouses back, sneaking around and being intimate with other people...

So itā€™s less absurd?

But I've often said to my wife... "If you ever feel like you need to have sex with someone else, be it to spice things up, to gain new experiences, or just out of boredom, than just tell me about it first and we can give it a go". Sex is not the be all end all. Sex can and very often is purely physical.

I do believe a /r/hotwife aficionado has emerged!

People get married at such young ages... IMO to impose an iron clad rule to someone in you marry in your 20's, that they never have sex with another human being other than you, ever again, is actually depriving them from a lot of world experiences that could give them some happiness and joy in this 1 life that we all get. Infact, I think many people realize quite starkly that we only have 1 life, that can end in any moment, and then that leads to them going and doing stuff like having affairs etc. What I suggest is just being honest/open about it with your life partner.

Since itā€™s biologically installed that we mate and woman want the man to settle down for life...it kinda makes sense.

If you really, really love someone, and it's not just surface or based in romance, but love them to the core of their being... you'll want to see them happy. I can live with my wife wanting to have sex with someone else to gain a new experience.. as long as she is not having an emotional/romantic relationship with that person and it's purely physical, than I don't see why we need to be so iron clad about these things.

If you really love someone then you will understand when Jamal dicks her down. Or when pancake tits inserts her dicktits intobher.

Mommy is soooo proud of you, sweaty. Let's put this sperg out up on the fridge with all your other failures.

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don't elevate these people by calling them cuckold enthusiasts. they're not degenerates who get off to some dumb shit. they're pathetic normies who are coping with the fact that no one will ever be monogamous with them. it doesn't get their dicklets hard, they just pretend that ignoring the dicklet-shrinking disgust thots induce is "love"

I think alot of this is millennial westerners have been mind fucked their entire lives that marriage is worthless and can be invoked/discarded at the drop of a hat for any petty and selfish reason any narcissist came fathom. Which it turns into this self-feeding delusion of its arbitrariness because making a life long commitment to a person is a legit big deal. Sticking by your promise to god for your entire life is not something the feminists and/or marxists want you to believe is possible. Because strong martial unions makes all the members of the family stronger and less easily manipulated.

Dude, infidelity is not a recent emergence, and no one gives a fuck about promises made to the antihero of a book.

Dude, infidelity is not a recent emergence

Shut the fuck up. People had WAY less sexual partners on average just 60 years ago.

and no one gives a fuck about promises made to the antihero of a book.

Marriage is a contract between two people. I have no idea what you are talking about.

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Because strong martial unions makes all the members of the family stronger and less easily manipulated.

Pick up the swords family, we're about to get a lot harder to manipulate

I am embarrassed for this man on so many levels. He should've divorced his wife the instant she told him she was pregnant and he probably wasn't the dad. 10+ years and he is still resentful. Had he just divorced her and made her suffer the consequences of her stupidity alone, he would be much better off.

Murder suicide (less the suicide) is really the only sane option in these cases.

Whether his ass left or not, he's still considered the daddy until he gets a paternity test proving the other guy is the dad. OP's playing 5D chess right now by pretending to be cool with it so he can find the other guy. Then he hits her with the paternity test results and a divorce.

He said he got a DNA test that proved he wasn't the daddy

Doesn't matter. He needs a DNA test from the actual father to establish paternity so he doesn't have to pay for the little fuck head. IF it was me personally, I'd drop him off in the woods 2 states over

IF it was me personally, I'd drop him off in the woods 2 states over

killing an innocent child to show how not totally not cucked you are lmao big man over here watch out everybody

He's not gonna die, he's just gonna, you know, run free into the wild. Until he finds the butterfly farm.

Until he finds the butterfly farm.

God help him then

What's your opinion on abortion, dear enlightened redditor?

called out on child murdering fantasy

whataboutabortion

really getting our rocks off today huh

Imagine avoiding a moral question by accusing your opponent of getting their rocks off.

I mean it's completely irrelevant, my opinion at most could reveal a slight inconsistency assuming I'm even pro choice. So rather than getting into the weeds of whether a fetus is a human with someone who fantasizes about murdering kids, I continued to make fun of the very stupid thing you posted.
Hope this helps sweaty

my opinion at most could reveal a slight inconsistency assuming I'm even pro choice.

Which is why I asked you. What is your opinion on abortion?

So rather than getting into the weeds of whether a fetus is a human with someone who fantasizes about murdering kids, I continued to make fun of the very stupid thing you posted.

I'm not the person who talked about dropping off a baby in the woods, buddy. Altho I think you should have been dropped off, your mom definitely cucked some poor dude who you call your father. With a white trash name like that it's not to dangerous to assume that.

Hope this helps sweaty

It's just really annoying to me to see some retarded people be in favor for killing babies when it gets them white knight points with lesbian teenagers on tumblr, but then have a total breakdown over someone saying they won't raise another mans child. You would totally raise another mans child, I can tell.

Which is why I asked you. What is your opinion on abortion?

Mostly pro life, with exceptions in case of health issues

I'm not the person who talked about dropping off a baby in the woods, buddy.

nvm then

Altho I think you should have been dropped off, your mom definitely cucked some poor dude who you call your father. With a white trash name like that it's not to dangerous to assume that.

dam son, it really hurts to see people on the internet call the legitimacy of my lineage into question. do u even know how hard this will make inheriting the throne??

It's just really annoying to me to see some retarded people be in favor for killing babies when it gets them white knight points with lesbian teenagers on tumblr,

I mean there are strong arguments for abortion. I'm not persuaded by them, but you fucking retards who constantly screech these boring, played out strawmen over the people actually discussing the issues like adults are an active detriment not only to the conversation, but the world.
So please, kill yourself

but then have a total breakdown over someone saying they won't raise another mans child.

I never even commented on this, I made fun of him for being a cringe internet tough guy fantasizing about murdering a kid for no reason. I literally have said nothing on whether people should raise kids that aren't theirs at all

You would totally raise another mans child, I can tell.

There are easily situations where I would, and the absolutists on this issue are all the virtue signalling retards who constantly display how completely ignorant they are of any of the actual moral reasoning behind either position. So you can screech about cucks or killing kids or whatever all you want, you're just making painfully evident how desperately you're seeking the validation of strangers you want to agree with you online

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The kid did nothing wrong and he seems to be decently close with him. If I were this guy, I would probably cut ties with the wife but stay in touch with the kid because both of his biological parents are terrible.

Agree..100% cucked

if he even had a dick to begin with

he didn't because this entire post is fake as shit

Iā€™m 99% certain the OP is a bait.

You can't be embarrassed for him, he's a REAL MAN, according to some mombie cunt.

The best revenge is if the bastard is a girl. Wait eighteen years, then seduce her and knock her up.

There are other kids in the picture though. If the guy wants to sacrifice himself for his kids I say let him.

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OP is always over the top fanfic šŸ™„ but it brings out reddits actual cucks to share their authentic beliefs and experiences and they r fucking hilariously mong šŸ˜‚šŸ˜‚

Bad bait is shit like tumblrinaction where it's just everyone shitting on the strawman in unison.

Jesus Christ. There are nothing but cucks in that thread.

Hell no way am I raising a kid that's not mine. I can understand being a step mom or dad to a kid that's like say 8 or some shit. But that other crap?

šŸ˜‚ Fuck out of here.

At least hotwife guys get to fuck other women.

Since itā€™s biologically installed that we mate and woman want the man to settle down for life...it kinda makes sense.

Well, kinda. Biologically speaking cheating actually makes some good sense. Many species need to pair bond to raise offspring together. But if a male can go sneak around and fertilize another female then the cucked male will raise the offspring, none the wiser. That essentially gives the male doing the cucking an extra offspring for free.

Females also benefit from cheating because it gives them more genetic diversity, thus reducing the risk of getting all unfit offspring if they made a bad judgement of their chosen mate. So if another male comes calling, trying to spread his genes, the female is likely to let him.

So yeah it's biological to want to settle down for life... and also to want to sleep around after doing that.

all those deleted comments

Why does reddit moderation go hand in hand with being a gigantic faggot

check that imgur URL

Exposed.

No power IRL.

Id be a terrible mod if I thought internet forum comments mattered.

Iā€™m just trying to figure out why OPā€™s wife cheated on the kind of man I thought only existed in books or movies.

Deleted. Gotta be a foid mod.

power corrupts

100% agree!

Personally I always find it absurd that so many decades long marriages end up in really brutal, messy, damaging divorces, over 1 person sleeping with someone that wasn't their spouse.

The betrayal of trust, I get. I understand the part that hurts the most is that they do this behind their spouses back, sneaking around and being intimate with other people...

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But I've often said to my wife... "If you ever feel like you need to have sex with someone else, be it to spice things up, to gain new experiences, or just out of boredom, than just tell me about it first and we can give it a go". Sex is not the be all end all. Sex can and very often is purely physical.

People get married at such young ages... IMO to impose an iron clad rule to someone in you marry in your 20's, that they never have sex with another human being other than you, ever again, is actually depriving them from a lot of world experiences that could give them some happiness and joy in this 1 life that we all get. Infact, I think many people realize quite starkly that we only have 1 life, that can end in any moment, and then that leads to them going and doing stuff like having affairs etc. What I suggest is just being honest/open about it with your life partner.

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If you really, really love someone, and it's not just surface or based in romance, but love them to the core of their being... you'll want to see them happy. I can live with my wife wanting to have sex with someone else to gain a new experience.. as long as she is not having an emotional/romantic relationship with that person and it's purely physical, than I don't see why we need to be so iron clad about these things.

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I certainly don't see why, if done openly and honestly, it would need to end what it is a lifelong commitment and partnership to each other. We maintain a home together, we work for common goals, we raise a child together, we do our finances together, we plan our retirement together, we go on vacations together, we support eachothers interests and pursuits, we're thoughtful of eachother, we cook for eachother, we learn things together and we just generally are side by side throughout life....... So why does all of that need to be thrown out the window because one person might feel that they'd enjoy having sex with someone else, be it once or multiple times? Why does sexual freedom have to come at such a large sacrifice? That's part of our society I'll never understand. And no, we both haven't slept with any other people since we've been married, but we both do hold this view.

Long way to say you're a cuckold

Why are all our bots becoming sentient

I like the part where the one guy goes "U shuld git ur other kids DNA tested" and the OP is like "Nah, I trust my wife (but in reality I don't want to know how many other guys have fathered children with her.)"

I stood there in that spot thinking that over and over and trying to to reject it so long my oldest daughter saw me and asked if I was okay. I told her I was thinking about something at work and that was that.

^The point where it became too scripted.

I think theres just a cabal of trolls that troll other trolls in that sub

Heā€™s not a particularly gifted athlete but he tries his best and heā€™s well liked by his teammates and the coaches love him.

He struggles in school sometimes, but heā€™s got no quit in him.

This was my breaking point. 10 year old kid [Rudy Ruettiger](https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Rudy_Ruettiger).

Except Rudy's dad was a hard working blue collar man and not a massive cuck

the poor bastard, first one of his sons was an incel, now it turns out another was conceived by his wife cheating

Imagine spending 100s of thousands of dollars on a kid that isn't yours

And allowing the real father to have no responsibility for fucking up your life.

Holy hell is this website just full of pathetic and fucken creepy people.

lol you know this isn't real right

The replies are, though.

I like to think that everyone shitty on the Left is just a troll account created and maintained by Barron Trump, attempting to use his mammoth brain to make centrists vote Daddy 2020. Because if these people actually exist, and have these strange opinions that so many people supposedly might have, then I'll have to actually vote for Daddy, given he's the option most likely to put these fucking people in camps.

But I'm wise to you, Barron: you'll never actually make me vote.

Lol

If It's real, It's a sad look into the life of a person with low self esteem and no backbone

This is top-tier bait, well done.

Throughout the ages, the "moral minders" of sexuality have always had strange creepy vibe to them.

  • Have four kids then (presumably hot) wife cheats and keeps fifth.

  • Kid from the sounds of it is neither academically or athletically gifted.

  • Bio-dad doesn't even pay anything so even ore money on op's part.

  • Constant twinges of self hate over the fact that reading between the lines he'd rather bolt but is staying for his kids/to be a good man.

  • Is now on reddit looking for reassurance and getting shit on somewhat.

I f this wasn't all self-inflicted i'd pity op.

#CucksForTrump2020

I fucking hate the world. Fuck foids

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Not the OP. I hate the responses. The OP is a troll but the responses irk me

3/3 of the highest rated comments are coming from married women (2/3 recent moms) praising this account for the heroism he has done.

I would get a fucking paternity test immediately if I was married to anyone who posts to that sub

Look at all the beta males calling him a good man for getting cucked.

Now take a guess as to what party they voted for.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2018/10/27/sexual-fantasies-republicans-democrats-politics-221919

"Republicans also reported more fantasies with voyeuristic themes, including visiting strip clubs and practicing something known as ā€œcuckolding,ā€ which involves watching oneā€™s partner have sex with someone else."

Hmmmmmm .....

"Republicans also reported more fantasies with voyeuristic themes, including visiting strip clubs and practicing something known as ā€œcuckolding,ā€ which involves watching oneā€™s partner have sex with someone else."

Oh man, this is great.

Raising the child is good, but not divorcing the wife isn't.

As long as the hand that rocks the cradle is mine ...

The biological-dad should either stay out of the kidā€™s life entirely, or pay child support. Allowing him to visit the kid and not pay child support doesnā€™t seem right - youā€™re raising the kid and paying for him and you are not even getting the benefit of being considered the dad. That is bullshit.

In my opinion, this is why you are thinking to yourself ā€œIā€™m a foolā€ etc., you got the short end of this deal. Big time. You probably did so being the bigger man and for the benefit of the kid, your wife, etc. but the bottom line is you not only got cheated on, you got handed a life-changing responsibility and roughly a million dollar responsibility. The biological-dad is not taking any of the burden here and thatā€™s probably pissing you off.

Naturally the /r/parenting mods had to remove this comment.

Cue up the Funeral March for this guy's self-worth, holy shit.

What happened to reddit l? Those idiots are presiding someone for staying with a chearer

of course there is the female cheating apologist

https://www.removeddit.com/r/Parenting/comments/9wjwgy/_/e9ld335/

Sometimes I just feel like a fool for raising him and I feel terrible for it.

You are a fool. The moment that dna test proved he wasn't the father he should have done a little dance and left the cheating bitch.

i think we use execution by firing squad to sparsely

This is fake as fuck bait.

Translation: "My wife is REALLY hot and I'd be an incel without her so I ignored that she cucked me."

Hope OP gets a DNA test on those other kids.

this one thread just perfectly sums up reddit

lol So his spouse cheated and he went full Hillary Clinton and just fell in line? Fuck that guy. He deserves to dwell on it for ten years until his wife pops out another Swahili baby for him to raise.

Those comments make me legitimately fill with rage

Holy shit, why are all amerimayos so retarded

I swear there's some sort of Cuck Illuminati dedicated to normalizing it, the LARPs are getting more and more obvious as they try to push the boundaries of what normies will accept.

Ha hahah what a pussy ass bitch

HA HaHaH WhAt a pUsSy aSs bItCh

Being cucked is hot but it should always be the other way around. Men are the ones to exercise the control and direction of a relationship. It is the will of nature for a woman to heed her partner's wishes. If her partner wishes to fuck someone else, then she must accept the role. To subvert this is to go against nature and social norms.