People who are terminally online are terrible at reading body language and interpreting social cues, menslibbers transform this into WORDSWORDSWORDS to cope with themselves.
Some people don’t turn every human interaction into a mathematical equation where they have to “solve”. Sometimes they just go up to someone and talk to them. Crazy stuff right
I’m a lady who flirts w everyone. If you’re looking for fun ways to ask for consent, here are my 2 faves
-“Wannaaa get drunk and make out”
-“How do you feel about going back to mine, taking our clothes off, and having some fun”
Also a quick “you good w this?” doesn’t hurt.
"Oh my god I feel like if I said that I would get called a fuckboy and/or get slapped lol. I could never say something like that - maybe I am just too polite and shy haha"
"Mmm, maybe nix the drunk line if it’s someone you just met. I’d probably save it for when you’re already dating for a bit lol but that’s just me. It’s a fun, sexy line but when talking about consent and mixing it with alcohol, it gets a little sketchy. :P
(Then again, I’m also a dumb dumb and don’t know how to flirt very well.)"
"Those are the sorts of lines that would get a guy slapped. Idk maybe I'm just a chicken."
From her posts, I've got the pressentment she's XX, but she's on r/genderfluid, too. Would make sense her being bio-female, the comment sounds incredibly autistic, and that's an overrepresented trait in the 𝔱𝔯𝔞𝔫𝔫𝔦𝔢 community
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I don't know what I should be more disturbed by, those terrible lines or the dudes without balls replying to "her" comment that they could never ever say something sexual to an angelic woman
How often do we need to see women coming out with some form of abuse allegations against a man, that we all thought were so socially competent, charming and handsome and a real 'ladies man'?
Did you think the "All male feminists are rapists" thing was just a joke? Because the mindset that guy displays is exactly why it's not.
Male feminists are men that desperately want to sexually assault women, but have just enough cognizance to realize that's a bad thing. Unfortunately, rather than taking a look at themselves and their flaws, and then working to improve those flaws, they latch onto an ideology that says all men are like that. All men are rapey little monsters. They're not a terrible person, men are terrible as a group! Which means it's not their fault when they inevitably rape some woman.
He's absolutely teeming with jealousy and projection, absolutely unreal
I skimmed through the profile and it's either a t-slur or a severely autistic foid. If it's a foid it's a slightly less pathetic comment but still embarrassing
>Oh my god I feel like if I said that I would get called a fuckboy and/or get slapped lol. I could never say something like that - maybe I am just too polite and shy haha
I was told I sounded like a fuckboy once, I told her I'm definitely down to fuck. She was wit it. They know girls like sex too right?
The more you beat around the bush about the fact you wanna have sex, the creeper you sound. Just don't slide in her DMs saying you want to fuck immediately. These dudes act like wanting to fuck is a grave sin that needs a gentle approach.
Sure, but I'm going to be stubborn about what I feel is basically a "why are humans so complicated??" argument. You can just say the problem is with meeting people in and of itself. Since meeting people is rewarded, we are pressured to do it more and more and eventually people cross boundaries. So we need firmer boundaries around meeting people.
Honestly that might even be more useful. Who, and where, are easier to observe and be black and white about than what were they saying and how. First dates should be in public always. Imo that's a pretty good rule and guys should feel a lot of social permission tldr not pursue girl who can't be bothered to meet at a sbux first. If you leave the bar drunk it can't be with someone you didn't enter with. Things like that.
Lol where to even begin with this one. Is this guy actually saying that we need to regulate sex so that it can't happen without a first date?
....who tryna start r/LoveForSocialLife with me where we just post pictures of college kids hanging out with each other on beaches, trump and biden-supporting boomers grilling together, cops being friends with black kids.......
i think this concept could go somewhere
E: it's a thing now hop in y'all 😎 unless u hate friendship of course
Oh it's not confinement, I think I phrased it badly. I live in a small uni campus, and not allowed outside the campus. Can roam around inside it's just that the ppl I used to know have left.
Except for the socialization part, it's pretty good actually. Really peaceful and I could get some work done.
Boomer and Gen Xers would flood the planet on foot and wonder in complete confusion why the bugs are absolutely destroying them. Zoomers and Millenials would ignore the planet and have fun in the sun at Buenos Aires.
Yo what's with the hostility towards women and enbies here? Maybe we could promote mens discussion and growth and not entirely rely on other people to fix men's deficiencies
Literally the top post, talking about women and “enbies.” Wouldn’t be menslib without shoehorning some obscure tumblr gender thing into the conversation
Same. I've always been too autistic to tell until later though. The attraction was pretty much always mutual too. If only I were less of an autistic bitch.
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89 JanniesDeservePain 2020-07-26
Holy fuck this is gold.
They actually believe everyone's as autistic as them
48 AuthDemGang 2020-07-26
People who are terminally online are terrible at reading body language and interpreting social cues, menslibbers transform this into WORDSWORDSWORDS to cope with themselves.
39 Riderz__of_Brohan 2020-07-26
Some people don’t turn every human interaction into a mathematical equation where they have to “solve”. Sometimes they just go up to someone and talk to them. Crazy stuff right
72 unapprovedcel 2020-07-26
"Oh my god I feel like if I said that I would get called a fuckboy and/or get slapped lol. I could never say something like that - maybe I am just too polite and shy haha"
"Mmm, maybe nix the drunk line if it’s someone you just met. I’d probably save it for when you’re already dating for a bit lol but that’s just me. It’s a fun, sexy line but when talking about consent and mixing it with alcohol, it gets a little sketchy. :P
(Then again, I’m also a dumb dumb and don’t know how to flirt very well.)"
"Those are the sorts of lines that would get a guy slapped. Idk maybe I'm just a chicken."
Jesus fucking christ that sub.
65 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
[x] doubt
49 Jeb4Pres2020 2020-07-26
Lady (male)
24 trosdetio 2020-07-26
From her posts, I've got the pressentment she's XX, but she's on r/genderfluid, too. Would make sense her being bio-female, the comment sounds incredibly autistic, and that's an overrepresented trait in the 𝔱𝔯𝔞𝔫𝔫𝔦𝔢 community
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5 ironicshitpostr 2020-07-26
Based and regex-pilled
4 tux_pirata 2020-07-26
every time I heard "I'm a lady" I think of the transaxial guy from little britain
41 JanniesDeservePain 2020-07-26
Anyone who uses either of those lines should be given a fucking swirlie.
That's the sort of shit a STEM major imagines a smooth guy would say.
23 Hoes_very_Mad 2020-07-26
No need to call me out like that
7 Feanorfanclub 2020-07-26
I just use ironically terrible pickup lines. I'll score one eventually
1 Platycel 2020-07-26
OnlyPretending.jpg
29 CrosbyStillzandSwag 2020-07-26
Lool anyone actually confused about how to initiate sexual encounters is going to be so, so much more confused if they place any stock in that sub.
20 AuthDemGang 2020-07-26
I don't know what I should be more disturbed by, those terrible lines or the dudes without balls replying to "her" comment that they could never ever say something sexual to an angelic woman
9 Klepto121 2020-07-26
Classic sweaty, tralier home, egg-scented pick up line.
grabs em by the pussy “you good w this?”
8 RollUpMySpliff1 2020-07-26
These people need to be bullied. Being this much of a bitch should not be supported, ever.
1 Takenforganite 2020-07-26
Comment Removed for saying bitch. Don’t be a bully bitch
49 Ultrashitposter 2020-07-26
Theyre probably ugly lmao
40 MasterLawlz 2020-07-26
holy shit look at this guy that I replied to
I think he might actually be a sexual assaulter/abuser based on what he said here
46 CeetheAndSope 2020-07-26
Did you think the "All male feminists are rapists" thing was just a joke? Because the mindset that guy displays is exactly why it's not.
Male feminists are men that desperately want to sexually assault women, but have just enough cognizance to realize that's a bad thing. Unfortunately, rather than taking a look at themselves and their flaws, and then working to improve those flaws, they latch onto an ideology that says all men are like that. All men are rapey little monsters. They're not a terrible person, men are terrible as a group! Which means it's not their fault when they inevitably rape some woman.
After all, any man would have done the same.
24 CrosbyStillzandSwag 2020-07-26
Did they remove your comment? Also when are we getting a seriouspost sticky about /r/menslib from you?
10 MasterLawlz 2020-07-26
yeah, they removed the comment and banned me lmao
this was the comment: https://imgur.com/a/hiOWR6L
14 godsrmay 2020-07-26
Hahaha holy shit
He's absolutely teeming with jealousy and projection, absolutely unreal
I skimmed through the profile and it's either a t-slur or a severely autistic foid. If it's a foid it's a slightly less pathetic comment but still embarrassing
9 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
Do you have a screenshot? It got deleted
2 MasterLawlz 2020-07-26
https://imgur.com/a/hiOWR6L
31 AuthDemGang 2020-07-26
>Oh my god I feel like if I said that I would get called a fuckboy and/or get slapped lol. I could never say something like that - maybe I am just too polite and shy haha
The absolute state of menslibber eunuchs
6 Dizzy732 2020-07-26
I was told I sounded like a fuckboy once, I told her I'm definitely down to fuck. She was wit it. They know girls like sex too right?
The more you beat around the bush about the fact you wanna have sex, the creeper you sound. Just don't slide in her DMs saying you want to fuck immediately. These dudes act like wanting to fuck is a grave sin that needs a gentle approach.
2 donpendejo 2020-07-26
These are men of virtue who prefer to court a maiden and wait until marriage to engage in coitus.
28 CrosbyStillzandSwag 2020-07-26
Lol where to even begin with this one. Is this guy actually saying that we need to regulate sex so that it can't happen without a first date?
31 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
these last few months have taught me that r*dditors hate nothing more than normal, happy, people having fun with each other
36 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
....who tryna start r/LoveForSocialLife with me where we just post pictures of college kids hanging out with each other on beaches, trump and biden-supporting boomers grilling together, cops being friends with black kids.......
i think this concept could go somewhere
E: it's a thing now hop in y'all 😎 unless u hate friendship of course
22 AuthDemGang 2020-07-26
unironically a good idea, even better if it produces seethe from the permanently shut in crowd that's now celebrating covid lockdown
11 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
yea lol i think it can hit a lot of seethe spots
10 jabracer 2020-07-26
You will piss off leftoids and rightoids lmao
11 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
exactly 🐎👞
7 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Fuck, that will unironically trigger me, but if it triggers the other redditors more, it's going to be worth it for the drama.
Joined
6 UpvoteIfYouDare 2020-07-26
lol why
3 anotherincel 2020-07-26
The virus and lockdowns etc meant that none of my friends live nearby now.
Cant even go out for a smoke (even alone) due to restrictions. Not sure when they will be lifted. Atleast a few more months of complete isolation.
3 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
bro that's horrible :(
legit, can you move somewhere less restrictive? solitary confinement is fucked
2 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Oh it's not confinement, I think I phrased it badly. I live in a small uni campus, and not allowed outside the campus. Can roam around inside it's just that the ppl I used to know have left.
Except for the socialization part, it's pretty good actually. Really peaceful and I could get some work done.
3 MasterLawlz 2020-07-26
wait where the fuck do you live?
2 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Uni campus
2 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
Are you able to make a post? I’ve never been a jannie before
3 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Yes, I could post. Remove it if u want.
8 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
I’m not cleaning up your shit
3 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Bad janny 😡
2 anotherincel 2020-07-26
You nuked the sub lol why are u gay
2 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
I actually didn’t do shit, did mods nuke it?
1 anotherincel 2020-07-26
Seems that way. Cant access it now.
1 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
Reddit admins jealous of our social lives?
5 Secretly_Gay_Cyclist 2020-07-26
How are these r/loveforx constantly getting banned
7 ironicshitpostr 2020-07-26
Chadmins oppress you again
6 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
admins have a secret list of #problematic users
any time too many of them join a sub, it gets #cancelled
3 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
How the fuck do I allow people to post in it
3 Lord_Sticky 2020-07-26
Can I be a jannie? I’ve never gotten to be a jannie before
6 600_lbs_of_sin 2020-07-26
it got y'alled :'(
admins have no friends confirmed
3 ironicshitpostr 2020-07-26
lol benned
2 HackerManifesto 2020-07-26
we need a new naming convention other than LoveForX these things are getting banned too quickly
12 804-929-4988 2020-07-26
Sex should be regulated because neurotypical people have sexual privilege and regulation would even the playing field
6 anotherincel 2020-07-26
This. Where my leftist comrades at?
8 godsrmay 2020-07-26
Rodgerism-Marxism is the only way to achieve a true communist utopia
20 Iowa_Hawkeye 2020-07-26
Men are never going to be men again, I don't know what we gen xers did, but we fucked up big time.
16 mqL49J 2020-07-26
They just need a worthy opponent to find their true self, perhaps a race of highly-aggressive arachnids habitating some sort of a Bug planet...
6 JanniesDeservePain 2020-07-26
Zoomers and Millenials are way too fucking pathetic to do their part.
On the bright side, they won't be citizens
4 AXA125 2020-07-26
Boomer and Gen Xers would flood the planet on foot and wonder in complete confusion why the bugs are absolutely destroying them. Zoomers and Millenials would ignore the planet and have fun in the sun at Buenos Aires.
16 ChapoDestroyer 2020-07-26
Literally the top post, talking about women and “enbies.” Wouldn’t be menslib without shoehorning some obscure tumblr gender thing into the conversation
5 KetchupStewedFries 2020-07-26
What about enbies! Screamed the bipolar need.
10 godsrmay 2020-07-26
I'm too retarded to understand the post, what is he even trying to say?
14 Rimmmer93 2020-07-26
“Don’t encourage chads to randomly approach women because some women have said they’ve been offended and accosted by chads approaching them”
13 cfbWORKING 2020-07-26
Its not that i suck at picking up women, all men suck at it. The ones that do get laid are likely abusers
10 Fortizen 2020-07-26
/r/MensLib thinking that women respond to attractive men they same way they respond to them.
5 waffen_waffle 2020-07-26
Literally only once in my life has waiting for someone to come to me ever worked.
The amount of times I've heard "I used to have a crush on you"...
1 TouchFIuffyTaiI 2020-07-26
Same. I've always been too autistic to tell until later though. The attraction was pretty much always mutual too. If only I were less of an autistic bitch.
5 PM_ME_UR_SUSPICIONS 2020-07-26
Everything this guy knows about women he learned playing female NPC's as a dungeon master.
2 GaysianSupremacist 2020-07-26
That's how straight mayos get to be non-privileged.
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