Most of my friends are men, not because I see women as sex objects, so much as in my day to day life of homo-separatism I sometimes forget women exist.
the only attractive women I ever hang out with are my buddies' wives/GF's, or my wife's friends. me being around a good lookin woman with no spousal supervision is just asking for trouble
men who don't understand this are simply unfuckable. they don't worry about these situations because no good looking woman is giving them the time of day, regardless of the context.
They hate Steve and Tariq because they tell the truth.
Women are annoying, I do not see why anybody would want to hang out with them unless you're trying to fuck them. I make it a point to refer to all of my wife's girlfriends as "her friends," never using the term "our" evem though sometimes I am forced to spend time with them.
The only exception is butch lesbians, the only female that I could call a friend is a butch lesbian. She likes bbq, beer and pussy just like I do.
95% of male-female friendships is just women using men and men letting them to get in her pants. In terms of being true and reciprocal friends, they rarely like the same things I like, and when they do, they rarely have the skills to keep up with the rest of my buddies. There is the rare woman that can keep up, but she's the farting, burping kind that always tries to out man the rest of the guys. I see no reason to surround myself with people like that.
Incorrect. Beta orbiters hang around women in hopes of banging them. Alpha are friends with whoever they want because they don't care. Your post is also written with a beta writing style, so there's no use trying to hide it.
For all of you fellow f-slurs, this is like the nice attractive straight guy you're 'friends' with in hopes that he discovers he's gay/bi. Big Steve is telling the truth, if you're friends with someone you find really attractive there is a 99% chance you'll go for it if they start to show interest, there's literally no reason not too. Where he's wrong is that you're still friends even if that's true, it's more of a warning to what might happen if you become friends with someone like that.
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Friends with another guy = no problems in current or future relationships.
Friends with a girl = a friendship that is a major stressor or thorn in either or both people's current or future relationships. Is that fair? Maybe not, but it's true
This is just beta male thinking, it's no surprise that drama endorses it. If you meet a woman you want to fuck and you don't hit on her within the first minute of interaction, you're a beta. I have many female friends, and it has never been an issue because with each one I decided in the first 5 seconds of seeing her that our relationship would be platonic.
I have many female friends, and it has never been an issue because with each one I decided in the first 5 seconds of seeing her that our relationship would be platonic.
y'all watching real housewives' together and drinking champagne? you said platonic maybe you meant homonic
Having drinks after work with your work buddies isn't the same thing. Those people aren't your friends. They're coworkers. They talk about you behind your back in a private group chat. They are spreading lies about you to get you fired. They are trying to take away your livelihood. Get them before they get you.
The only reason you would continue hanging out with these women is that you think that they can get you laid. So you're still using them for sex. Seriously, what other activities do you do with these women?
That's ridiculous. If I wanted to have sex, I would just have it. Why would I need to hover around my friends for years hoping for sex? That is nonsensical.
Do you really want me to describe friendship activities to you? Are you so unfamiliar with the concept? Drinking together, going out to bars, playing games together, watching TV / movies / sports, talking about different stuff, the occasional party.
Drinking together, going out to bars, and the occasional parties are all activities that if you surround yourself with pretty women, other new pretty women will feel much more comfortable talking to you and flirting. So you are using these women for sex, just not sex with them.
So? 99% of r/drama does the same thing with their male friends to attract fresh bussy and nobody cares. I'm not usually trying to get laid when I'm out with my friends anyway, I'm not sex starved enough to think about it 24/7.
I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I've done it. I also thought we were truly friends because I didn't want to fuck them. But after I grew out of the going out phase I realized that I really didn't get anything out of those friendships except more opportunities to run into new pretty women. My guy buddies have much more in common with me, don't need me to open jars or kill mice, and they'll help me move if I need it.
This sub should at least be able to admit that with all of the soymen that are around these days, it's not surprising that some women are easier to be bros with
His argument makes no sense, since then bisexuals could have no friends. Straight people ignore the existance of non-straights in their weird theories every time.
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34 BroboxylicAcid 2021-04-27
Most of my friends are men, not because I see women as sex objects, so much as in my day to day life of homo-separatism I sometimes forget women exist.
32 Smug_College_Liberal 2021-04-27
I speak Arabic to God, Russian to men, English to my horse, and I don't speak to women.
9 Wopitikitotengo 2021-04-27
I only use hand gestures to women ✋👉 (shut up and get out)
7 vrzv 2021-04-27
👑
21 busslordlowkeybussin 2021-04-27
All male camping trip at your lake when?
25 cassiorolex 2021-04-27
100 to 120 dramatards
20 jubbergun 2021-04-27
We already have that at least once a year. We call it the Special Olympics.
3 cassiorolex 2021-04-27
This is a standard pool party tho
Even the doctors can't diagnose the autisms we have
24 Corporal-Hicks 2021-04-27
show me the lie
7 tenebrous_cloud 2021-04-27
The lie is the one women tell themselves thinking they serve some other purpose.
24 GeauxHouston22 2021-04-27
unironically I agree
the only attractive women I ever hang out with are my buddies' wives/GF's, or my wife's friends. me being around a good lookin woman with no spousal supervision is just asking for trouble
men who don't understand this are simply unfuckable. they don't worry about these situations because no good looking woman is giving them the time of day, regardless of the context.
edit: holy shit owned lol https://imgur.com/n3cpVgh
9 lol_te_gusto 2021-04-27
Yeah women jump at my feet too, but i respect myself too much to engage with such "people"
7 red1dragon588 2021-04-27
Mike Pence is years ahead of the rest of us.
23 Iowa_Hawkeye 2021-04-27
They hate Steve and Tariq because they tell the truth.
Women are annoying, I do not see why anybody would want to hang out with them unless you're trying to fuck them. I make it a point to refer to all of my wife's girlfriends as "her friends," never using the term "our" evem though sometimes I am forced to spend time with them.
The only exception is butch lesbians, the only female that I could call a friend is a butch lesbian. She likes bbq, beer and pussy just like I do.
47 Funkyduffy 2021-04-27
She's almost as fat as you, too
21 cassiorolex 2021-04-27
Hawkeyes momma so fat she tries to eat the hole in a donut
13 ironicshitpostr 2021-04-27
She so fat she gave herself diabetes 2, 3 and 4
5 Iowa_Hawkeye 2021-04-27
My wife or the butch?
23 ironicshitpostr 2021-04-27
Gotta respect lesbians for their domestic violence rates
6 heretobefriends 2021-04-27
When you have double the number of victims in a relationship, that happens.
23 __TIE_Guy 2021-04-27
he just described the business model for twitch and onlyfans
23 alphetaboss 2021-04-27
95% of male-female friendships is just women using men and men letting them to get in her pants. In terms of being true and reciprocal friends, they rarely like the same things I like, and when they do, they rarely have the skills to keep up with the rest of my buddies. There is the rare woman that can keep up, but she's the farting, burping kind that always tries to out man the rest of the guys. I see no reason to surround myself with people like that.
4 lol_te_gusto 2021-04-27
So not 99.99%?
7 alphetaboss 2021-04-27
No, gay best friends exist.
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21 Lysis10 2021-04-27
even females understand this. Just go hang out with girls and let dudes be dudes. who tf cares about this shit? Oh right, twatter.
18 hyperactiveinstinct 2021-04-27
Absolute true, but the truth is not popular in this age whiteknighting, beta orbiters, to whom simping is second nature.
23 Shubard75 2021-04-27
Incorrect. Beta orbiters hang around women in hopes of banging them. Alpha are friends with whoever they want because they don't care. Your post is also written with a beta writing style, so there's no use trying to hide it.
11 MaskOffGlovesOn 2021-04-27
Male taxonomy is such a fascinating subject
13 Tobyghisa 2021-04-27
Whiteknighting and beta orbiting is the parasocial equivalent of what mr. Harvey is describing here.
4 lol_te_gusto 2021-04-27
Truth is relative
1 heretobefriends 2021-04-27
If you tried a little harder, you could have fit one more buzzword in.
16 AugustinesBitchBoy 2021-04-27
For all of you fellow f-slurs, this is like the nice attractive straight guy you're 'friends' with in hopes that he discovers he's gay/bi. Big Steve is telling the truth, if you're friends with someone you find really attractive there is a 99% chance you'll go for it if they start to show interest, there's literally no reason not too. Where he's wrong is that you're still friends even if that's true, it's more of a warning to what might happen if you become friends with someone like that.
8 busslordlowkeybussin 2021-04-27
F-slurs and m-slurs really are made for each other. Our respective r-slurredness truly compliments the other's.
13 Brilliant-Deal7937 2021-04-27
Yeahhhhhh
12 jubbergun 2021-04-27
Of all the words of we write and sing, the saddest are these: Pizzashill was right about this very thing.
9 busslordlowkeybussin 2021-04-27
Should note the interview is from 2010 but going viral today for some reason.
Twitter reacts:
What the hell is this? Catdog I guess?
Steve got one thing on his mind
The majority of y’all fellas is lying most of y’all disagreeing with Steve Harvey because the women are in a uproar 😭😭😭😭😭 I ain’t mad at cha get them brownie points from the platonic friend zone 💀💀💀💀 https://t.co/MCvjipQepc
Going to Steve Harvey for any kind of love and relationship advice is like going to a rabid porcupine for gentle hugs and nuzzles.
Steve Harvey is a misogynist and sexist so let’s start there. He is “incapable” of being friends with woman because he doesn’t see their value as people beyond what he can get for them sexually. That’s a flaw on his part. If he viewed women as people, this wouldn’t be a problem.
Consciousness over coochie
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1 DeficientRat 2021-04-27
This is unironically sadder than the tweet
9 lol_te_gusto 2021-04-27
Imagine thinking that friendship exists.
5 CurvyAnna 2021-04-27
Do men really think this lowly of themselves?
3 CulturalYogurt 2021-04-27
Friends with another guy = no problems in current or future relationships.
Friends with a girl = a friendship that is a major stressor or thorn in either or both people's current or future relationships. Is that fair? Maybe not, but it's true
2 CurvyAnna 2021-04-27
You prefer bussy. That's gay.
3 Shubard75 2021-04-27
This is just beta male thinking, it's no surprise that drama endorses it. If you meet a woman you want to fuck and you don't hit on her within the first minute of interaction, you're a beta. I have many female friends, and it has never been an issue because with each one I decided in the first 5 seconds of seeing her that our relationship would be platonic.
21 GeauxHouston22 2021-04-27
y'all watching real housewives' together and drinking champagne? you said platonic maybe you meant homonic
6 Shubard75 2021-04-27
Yes. I love nature shows and alcohol.
13 HodorTheDoorHolder__ 2021-04-27
Having drinks after work with your work buddies isn't the same thing. Those people aren't your friends. They're coworkers. They talk about you behind your back in a private group chat. They are spreading lies about you to get you fired. They are trying to take away your livelihood. Get them before they get you.
10 Shubard75 2021-04-27
What makes you think I work?
3 seenten 2021-04-27
Sounds like a shit place to work. That or I'm still not jaded enough yet.
4 alphetaboss 2021-04-27
The only reason you would continue hanging out with these women is that you think that they can get you laid. So you're still using them for sex. Seriously, what other activities do you do with these women?
5 Shubard75 2021-04-27
That's ridiculous. If I wanted to have sex, I would just have it. Why would I need to hover around my friends for years hoping for sex? That is nonsensical.
Do you really want me to describe friendship activities to you? Are you so unfamiliar with the concept? Drinking together, going out to bars, playing games together, watching TV / movies / sports, talking about different stuff, the occasional party.
5 alphetaboss 2021-04-27
Drinking together, going out to bars, and the occasional parties are all activities that if you surround yourself with pretty women, other new pretty women will feel much more comfortable talking to you and flirting. So you are using these women for sex, just not sex with them.
8 Shubard75 2021-04-27
So? 99% of r/drama does the same thing with their male friends to attract fresh bussy and nobody cares. I'm not usually trying to get laid when I'm out with my friends anyway, I'm not sex starved enough to think about it 24/7.
3 alphetaboss 2021-04-27
I'm not saying it's a bad thing. I've done it. I also thought we were truly friends because I didn't want to fuck them. But after I grew out of the going out phase I realized that I really didn't get anything out of those friendships except more opportunities to run into new pretty women. My guy buddies have much more in common with me, don't need me to open jars or kill mice, and they'll help me move if I need it.
3 UnexpectedLizard 2021-04-27
Lmao what a bunch of losers.
Just because y'all can't find decent, non-annoying women doesn't mean the rest of us can't.
9 lol_te_gusto 2021-04-27
Who thought simps would out themselves so easily too
6 busslordlowkeybussin 2021-04-27
This is my favourite post so far. Internal rdrama drama aka drama² always tickles my taint.
7 UnexpectedLizard 2021-04-27
Why don't we have a version of SubredditDramaDrama?
Oh right because we don't enjoy sniffing our own taints.
5 pepperouchau 2021-04-27
This sub should at least be able to admit that with all of the soymen that are around these days, it's not surprising that some women are easier to be bros with
1 Homofascism 2021-04-27
There is a reason all civilisation with the less amount of womxn rights had gay sex, fella.
3 Quad_RIP_Deux 2021-04-27
His argument makes no sense, since then bisexuals could have no friends. Straight people ignore the existance of non-straights in their weird theories every time.
4 busslordlowkeybussin 2021-04-27
Tbf Steve Harvey is now best known for being a game show host so can't expect much from him. Allegedly he's a massive douchebag behind the scenes too.
1 johannesalthusius 2021-04-27
good. shifty bastards
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