So Alpha Male asked them guys on twitter to text girls that friend zoned them saying they should go on a date because they don’t want to be just friends again and some of my gender went straight to bill those guys💔🤣😭

A thread pic.twitter.com/D4kMgfUIhT

— UNSCRAMZ DOINGS😎 (@idrgafwhatever) March 26, 2024

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It's already almost impossible to find the perfect man, so don't senselessly share him with others once you do.

Found a rich man but can't bring myself to marry him

I have found what many gold diggers would consider ideal and my friends say I'm insane for not marrying him. A man who has long-term money earning potential and currently earns a good amount, about 3mil per year. he supports me and my family he takes care of everything financial and he's nice enough. But I am so lonely because he doesn't connect to me intellectually and we have no s*x life. Im really really lonely and I really want hot passionate s*x with someone I love. He is so gross I don't even like him to sit too close to me. I am fine with being his friend and playing along with whatever for me to be supported but I really don't want to be married to this man. I'm getting older, almost 40 and I feel like I need to make a decision to risk my financial wellbeing and have a shot at love or be financially comfortable and lonely. I know why rich people can off themselves, money doesn't make you necessarily feel good. If anything, in my situation, it has made me feel more lonely than when I was working because I don't want to jeopardize it. Don't get me wrong, I don't want to work, but I want a hot love affair. Why do we have to choose between hot, smart, loyal, and has money. 🙄 Where are the men with it all? Do I just settle? Should I get a job to remind me why I don't want to work?

Edit: You guys have a lot of questions: he and I were dating and almost got married nearly a decade ago, but I broke it off and decided I couldn't live a fake life of pretending to be happy when I wasn't. After we broke up, he kept hanging around and taking care of things hoping we would get back together and we have been in a kind of limbo for years. And my friends think I'm crazy for not just locking things in with him. Theoretically I can probably just hang around in limbo forever and be taken care of. But it's like being married without the tax benefits. I can't really date anyone else seriously as long as I'm involved with him. Do any of you have experience with dating while still being involved with someone else? What would you say about the situation to a future partner potential?

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Help! New wife has crippling debt.

Throw away for hopefully obvious reasons. I just got married yesterday, and last night my wife drops the bomb on me that she has $160k in debt between school, judgements, cars and credit cards.

I have 120k in investments and 30k in savings. She's pressing really hard that it's “our” money now and she's expecting me to withdraw everything and put it towards her debt, per Dave Ramsey who she's been apparently following for years.

Not gonna lie, had I known this I wouldn't have even thought marriage to be an option. How should I approach this? We're filing with the court later today if that makes a difference. Admittedly, I was incredibly pissed when she told me last night and we haven't talked since then.

Edits

News was broken, she left in a firestorm. Broke a lot of things on the way out, and was telling me things like she plans to sue me for wasting her time and pain and suffering 😂 it's shitty, but onto the next I guess. Thanks to everyone for giving me advise on this!

alright, I'm not going to file with the court. I'm gonna break the news and I'll keep you guys posted! Thanks for the help!

Lots of questions asking why we didn't discuss finances before getting married. We did discuss them a year ago when I first proposed, and she told me she was debt-free.

lots of questions about her judgements. I don't know what they're for, but there's 4 of them totaling 55k

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the "male loneliness crisis" is a good thing actually, because why would i ever want to date a guy that looks like this?😭😭 pic.twitter.com/kqHHEI5B1y

— ai (@orbitves) March 3, 2024

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male's lack respect for themselves, others and Mother Nature, refusal to stop mentally/verbally/sexually/physically harassing & abusing females even on digital spaces (but especially in real life) & wonder why more and more women are refusing to date, marry, & reproduce w them.

the world that has been controlled by male decisions while exploiting domestic/emotional/physical labor from females and other enslaved people all throughout history is ugly and full of suffering and pain.

but we control the birth rates. we can simply ignore males, come together & remove them from existence. they know we have this power. this is why they use fear & abuse to prevent it.

this is why i don't waste any of my time interacting with males. no male will ever have the power females do. we control their life, their very existence. females can even birth without them with scientific advances so they arent even needed for creation of humankind.

so i only focus on getting the truth out to females and i think all radfems should hyperfocus on this. only females as a s*x class can come together & change the patriarchy. nobody & nothing else. leaving it up to males to understand will never work. it would have already

a common misconception is that the Creator/God/ur ancestors/deities always expect the "kill them with kindness" approach for every single wrong done to another. they love JUSTICE.

Women definitely make better spiritual leaders, religion is all about, wisdom(women), structure, nurture and justice. Women have great spiritual understanding

the only true way to connect with the Creator and spirituality is by being pure.

being pure can have many definitions but to me, it means living in TRUTH (not feelings), protecting urself from energies that harm u or take u out of alignment, & only making decisions that dont include lying, omitting, raging, or manipulating.

it means clearing out ur cognitive distortions and learning/practicing universal truths. it means not allowing urself to participate in behaviors that you know are not good for u. u will never be 100% pure bc human nature is not perfection, but its the EFFORT that matters to God

i purify myself by honoring myself and God. it is definitely personal in many ways but there are many universal truths that can only be learned thru trial & error.

the issue is never if God will listen. the issue is we often forget that in ANY moment no matter how difficult, we can remind ourselves to ask God to help. God is there for us no matter what, but to what level is up to us.

stop venting to/asking for advice from others before u vent/ask advice from Self & the Creator.

i just luv me so much. i cherish me. i captivate my own interest. i honestly feel like i actually am in a romantic relationship with myself. this is a new layer of self love i never reached before!

feeling this extra today 🥰

men say feminism is what's ruining women's perceptions of men but downloading a dating app as a woman is enough to radicalize u fr. the way men act on dating apps is enough for u to believe all men should be put down like dogs.

men of color are not exempt from being sexist because they experience racism. gay men are not exempt from being sexist because they experience homophobia. experiencing a form of oppression does not give u the right to oppress others, too.

Males aren't human. Woman is human. Males are a genetic deformity created by woman for variety. The Y chromosome is a dying parasite and behaves nothing like a human

You were created by woman and will die out by woman.

You have no real power. That's why patriarchy exists, Y's built it to give yourselves artificial value because you have none. It's embarrassing. Women are waking up en masse now and all you waste males will simply die out.

When women give their energy to males it is like pouring into a bottomless pit. It disappears into darkness. When women give their energy to women we reciprocate, grow, build, evolve, love and connect. We make magic. Stop letting males drain you, they will take every drop

I do not know a single woman who didn't give away a part of her youth trying to fix a man who refused to seek therapy.

Therapy is not a fix all but mental health professionals can signpost you to other professionals or activities that may be beneficial. You have to talk to someone first, that is the point

We need to teach young women to be mad and angry. From very young.

Nothing good comes from extending grace to those who disrespect you and undervalue your time, cuss these people out and block them.

These girls are getting into emotionally abusive relationships too early in life

What do you mean they shout at you and bang doors in your face?

What do you mean they constantly blow your phone up even though you've told them very clearly that you are busy?

You get admitted into a mental institution and they're still pestering you?

We are failing these kids!

And I know they'll still do what they want, but bottom line is, they wouldn't get into something like this if we taught them to stand their ground and be insanely strict from the beginning. Society has conditioned women into being too malleable to evilness, let it end w us!

pisces placements especially pisces moons need physical release of energy/emotion or they go insane.

so many females have reached out to me on tips to stop dating men and centering them in their lives after that tweet from the other day. it is a true blessing to use any platform of mine no matter how small to help females decenter males and center themselves & females only.

Terfs don't want to acknowledge that they're more than ovaries bc their identity doesn't exist outside of that. They're so lacking in depth that they have to base their entire being around reproductive organs. They don't kno what womanhood is without referring to bodily functions

a cool thing about being a mom is being in charge of generational traditions. i may honor (some) old traditions passed on but i get to add my own to be passed on for a generation (even more generations if my daughter chooses to have kids).

i am excited to teach her my witchy shit honestly. explain my altar to her, practice all our little spellwork together like cinnamon thru the doorway etc. im excited to pass on spirituality based in energy/emotional work with no particular basis in religion.

i'm blessed to be me. i'm blessed to live the life i live. i'm blessed with love surrounding me even in my darkest moments. i'm blessed with joy in my heart. i'm blessed to protect my energy and soul.

i am so hard on myself. i thrive on holding myself accountable and keeping my standards high. but i think i surpass that and offer no patience or understanding to myself the way i do others. working on it!

i just need women to love themselves more. be egoistical and selfish and arrogant. these men are not better than u fgs man

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