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— KayJae (@KayJae24) May 15, 2024

I'm hearing that this is an UNEDITED Jeopardy question screenshot. Can I get confirmation or denial on that? pic.twitter.com/K0MaruYfrE

— Eliezer Yudkowsky ⏹️ (@ESYudkowsky) May 15, 2024

“They never choose the OW.”

1. They already chose us. As in they literally chose a relationship with us and would have continued in that relationship for an unforeseeable future. There are women here who were with their MM for 8 years etc. That's a whole butt relationship ma'am.

1. They generally aren't choosing their wife over the OW. They're choosing their life over the OW (wife + kids + family + history + employment + social circle + status etc…). It isn't surprising.

1. Choosing said life and its obligations over a new life with the OW doesn't negate their love for us or the significance of the relationship we shared. In most cases it would actually be pretty shocking if they did choose the OW. Let's be real.

1. Many married partners would prefer to keep a secondary relationship if they weren't shamed into upholding vows/institutions they happily and repeatedly disregarded. Over and over again. Just like many OW would comfortably continue in a secondary relationship with them and not be “chosen”. Because not every woman wants or needs to be a man's “everything”. See: ‘polyamory', ‘non-monogamy', etc.

1. Not being “chosen” following Dday does not mean they didn't experience greater joy or fulfillment with the OW.

I don't say this to be redundant: no one can convince me this man didn't love me or that the love we discovered wasn't as profound as it was or that he wasn't genuinely unhappy, deeply unfulfilled, fallen out of love and hopeless in his relationship. He truly saw himself fulfilled in a life with me but dday arrived and he's with his SO and I have been erased like it never happened.

I'm sure he saw the “relationship” as something more than

Point being even an MM as unfulfilled as he was and as desperately in love with his OW as he was shut things down to be faithful to his SO. Because this is not a “competition” the OW can really win. We didn't get there first. They didn't make a commitment to us or promise themselves to us for life.

I'm not saying MMs don't love their wives or actually want to reconcile their marriage. They wouldn't reconcile if they saw no value in doing so.

But everybody and their mama wants to come for the OW - seemingly more than they do the MM who betrayed their spouse. You can shame us, devalue and dehumanize us, share our posts and ridicule us to make yourself feel superior and try to counteract your insecurities but we aren't the cause of your troubled institution - we are just a symptom. There are over 154k members in the adultery subreddit for Christ sakes.

It's become evident that the people (predominantly women) who take particular pleasure in hating the OW are motivated by underlying/internalized misogyny which is why a sub called adultery hate has made us its exclusive target.

You're a

It's also the reason the title of the “OW” or “mistress” exists without a counterpart to begin with. The vast majority of adultery hate is reserved for the OW and why? Because on some level you accept that a man engages in affairs because he is a man, and men hold the power. But a woman who engages with that man is a lesser woman: she's dirty she's vile she's unpure she's scandalous. She's deluded. She's a man's toy. She's desperate she can't find a man to choose her etc etc.

Whatever hun

In reality the OW is a symptom of a failing/dishonest/dying/dead marriage and a threat to an arguably unrealistic institution more generally. Adultery will never stop and married men will always be the perpetrator of betraying their union but you will disproportionately hate us because misogyny convinces you to forgive men and because the alternative is admitting those vows didn't mean shit at the end of the day.

We're not these inherently scandalous women who aspire to wreck the homes of unsuspecting wives everywhere. We're regular women - worthy women -who have formed a connection with men who authentically love and/or desire us. Men who for whatever reason were not satisfied in their partnership and it is that dissatisfaction or lack of fulfillment that led them to stray - not the OW. That is the threat to your sacred union. It is internal not external.

“They never choose the OW” but it's the very fact that they chose us that keeps you stalking this subreddit each and every day. You can call us “low hanging fruit” but the man you chose to marry was desperate to gobble us up. Nom nom nom.

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Gigi was there the whole time me mentioned to Luciano that she heard the last person to exit lock the door but it was unlocked somehow, regardless if something was done wrong the admins will address it I personally am expecting a clarification on the rules post later from hon lol (1)

I think if they allow it it will lead to more shady shit, player reports and overall bad rp. Especially with how unreliable the locks are and I can't imagine admins wanting to deal with that shit. Many groups can then camp warehouses and houses and run in when people come out and steal shit. I can also camp your door and shoot you when you come out and run in and steal shit. It sets a really bad precedent. You can still camp people's houses, wait for them to come out and rob the person outside. There are so many ways you can screw someone over in a fun rp way, so I don't really see the point of robbing player owned properties. There's also a reason cops have to file raid warrants, because there have to be checks and balances when making those kinds of powerful decisions in rp. (1)

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I don't understand why people still waste their breath stating how CG broke the rules or how they did something unethical because they do something of that sort every day and there's never any consequences. There's not going to be any for this either, the fact of the matter is 50 % still caters to them massively. (1)

Ramee was legit meta gaming last night after the shootout between CG and PD. He let his crew get off super light. K should have had over 240 months but got it reduced to 70? He also leaked PD info to CG on Conan. This shit is so whack. If smaller streamers did that shit they'd be banned.Edit: But hey guys, now we can expect another exciting week of NoPixel NoRP Tarkov all because CG fricked around and found out after messing with a ton of cops who weren't even there for them in the first place!! /s (1)

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Buddha is screwed regardless... if it does happen to be a rule break and someone gets banned.. the amount of weird comments from viewers and streamers will be insane whenever conflict with Lang happens again. Viewers will lose their mind and cry that the part owner got their favorite streamer banned. If its not a rule break, dealing IC with the grief that was done to the group is gonna demoralize so many people from continuing. (1)

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Did he Ack- himself?

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Completely unironically, they just want employees who are on time and can figure how to cover their own shifts for time off.

And that's too much for the redditor