Hi, guy here and it's the opposite for me. My fiancée is 5'8", really strong, but I've quietly learned over the years that there's quite a gap between me and her in regards to brute physical strength. She's strong but I'm just on another level. I can't imagine the roles being reversed.

It makes me think of how Black Widow fights bigger, stronger opponents in the Marvel Cinematic Universe. She puts her weight behind her punches, uses her body weight for throws, always disarms, and uses her guns and whatever else she can get her hands on while Captain America is right next to her, simply punching and kicking people.