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ConchShell de/i I love Israel!!!! 7mo ago #6263427

Tf is netorare?

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Stoicpeace He/Him KWAB ConchShell 7mo ago #6263433

Cuck porn.

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cyberdick pedda/modda Dead name deez nutz ya queer. 🍒🍆 Stoicpeace 7mo ago #6263558

You are incorrect about this.

It is true that as awful as both cheating, and cuckolding are, they do not always fall under the exact same definition. However, it is important to note that the two share the same flawed nature, hence why the terms are easily associated, often interchanged with one another, and rightfully hated on equal measure by those that understand said notion. The truth of the matter is that they are both essential parts of the netorare genre. The idea of cuckholding in it of itself derives from infidelity, being defined by acts of disloyalty, betrayal, and sexual, or emotional affairs just as it is in cheating. The only real difference between the terms stems from the fact that at its core, cuckolding is a variation which also involves additional elements to the affair itself, essentially serving as a subcategory of cheating with more excrutiating details. Cuckholding does this by including more heinous acts in the situation at hand, primarily the degradation of the person being cheated on (usually by having them bear witness to the affair in question, or sometimes unwillingly being forced to watch it happen), the making of negative remarks about the person being cheated on (Most often based on their sexual performance, or the supposed superiority of those that their unfaithful partner is having an affair with), blackmail, coercion, manipulation, sexual assault, and the person who was cheated on possibly being made to raise children that are not theirs, hence the use of the term "cucking" to describe this awful circumstances, and the category as a whole.

The very act of "cucking" has always been rooted around the concepts of adultery, neglect, deceit, abandonment, and abuse. The term "cuckold" itself was inspired by the name of an infamous animal known as the cuckoo bird. It derives from an old Anglo-French term meaning “adulterer,” serving as a reference to the previously mentioned animal's practice of laying its eggs in other birds' nests so that the unwitting second species of bird will then raise these infants as if they were its own offspring. Said process results in the actual biological children of the birds in question being neglected, and dying abandoned by its parents, which is why the cuckoo bird is regarded as a parasitic animal due the toxic relationship it has with other birds. This is the reason why cuckholding is inherently viewed negatively and became a manner to identify inapropiate, deceitful, and unfaithful relationships. Consequently, words such as "cuckhold" or "cuckquean" are used as insulting ways to describe someone that is being cheated on, or complicit in the sexual affairs of their adulterous partner (someone who, by definition is disloyal to them) which may involve, or alludes to a scenario that ends with the "cucked" person investing parental effort in offspring that are not genetically their own. You are right about the fact that cucking is not the same as cheating, for it is in fact inherently even worse.

Furthermore, cuckholding is in fact the same as netorare with both sharing the same awful traits, by their definitions, excecutions, and how the term N.T.R. stands for more than just the act of cheating itself. This is the reason why most pornographic sites present both as separate categories, yet ones that are usually seen together. The word "netorare" is a Japanese expression created from the combination of the characters 寝取られ, which when combined can be read in the form of 寝(ne), as in 寝取られ which means "sleep" or in this case, "the lover's sleeping with someone (cheating)", and 取られ(torare) is a noun coming from 取られる(torareru), "have something stolen/robbed". The N.T.R. genre itself is not just defined by the act of infidelity as it is with cheating, but by the pain, the humiliation, the unfairness and the degradation being done upon the person that loses their partner, or has them stolen/taken from them (either by being abandoned, the use of manipulation, or at times r*pe) in the process, as well the ruination of relationships. Essentially all netorare must involve some form of cheating, but not all cheating will fall under the category of netorare. Cuckholding is however is the most emblematic aspect of the netorare genre due to the previously mentioned elements, and how it perfectly represents its content.

Cuckholding and N.T.R. are also not the same thing as "open relationships" either. Even though I disapprove of open relationships for many reasons (not the least of which being how easily they can degrade into excuses for cheating, and are marked by a lack of real commitment to one's "lover") they should not be mistaken as being on the same category as cuckholding (even though open relationships can easily lead to infidelity, or as a way to attempt justifying forms of N.T.R. in relationships). For one, Netorare/Cuckholding is NOT inherently consensual, or fair to both parties by the very definition. On the off chance cucking does become "consensual" it is always through some form of coercion, or manipulation (an excuse for which can be the idea that one is having an "open relationship" hence why its supposedly ok for someone to have s*x with another person without even talking to one's partner about it before hand) for as mentioned previously the very idea behind the acts of cucking/N.T.R. are rooted adultery, unfaithfulness, humiliation, deceit, degradation, having one's lover be "stolen away" from them, or being in some way, shape, or form lead into staying with someone that isn't loyal, and possibly also raising someone else's children because of a mixture of these componets.

As for this or netorase being an acceptable fetish between consenting couples, think about what said "fantasy" entails, and what those that practice it are craving for. The wishfulfiment here is a desire to cheat on your significant other, or to get off sexually on the idea of pretending to do so. A twisted yerning to make them watch you be unfaithful to them, or for them to do that to you. To watch someone you are supposedly in love with have s*x with another person that isn't you, or for you to have s*x with someone else that isn't them. For them to enjoy s*x with other people more than with you, or for you to make your partner feel inferior by experiencing more pleasure with someone else other than them. For either of you to pretend, or be legitimately unfaithful to the eachother. For at least one of you to be downgraded, insulted, mocked, and berated emotionally along with sexually. All for an unhinged sense of supposed "thrill" that doing the wrong or "naughty" thing, and being dirty apparently gives. Does that sound like a healthy relationship, or one that people should wish to have? I suggest that anyone that believes that to be the case to reflect further on themselves, and just what this form of "fantasy" truly says about them, and the things they find to be appealing.

I still don't know what it means, cheating?