https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/19csom8/my_36f_husband_37m_found_out_i_cheated_years_ago
This is probably ragebait but I love hating I am a real hater.
>I will start this by saying I love my husband more than anything and never once in our entire 17 years together, did I think about cheating.
Except when the dumb whore cheated lmao
>However, back in our first year of dating, I (then 20. joined his family for Christmas. We call got really drunk and I passed out at some point. When I woke up, I was in his brother's (then 24. bed naked. I had woken up just as he was finishing.
Teehee totally just blacked out and ended up in his bed for no reason.
We left the next morning and I had never told anyone about what happened that night. Believe me I was disgusted with myself and really ashamed but I was really scared of losing Evan. He was my first real boyfriend. He was mature, sweet, kind and we had started out deciding that we wanted long term commitment. I didn't want to lose any of it for a drunken mistake. I stopped drinking completely since that incident and never ever put myself in such a vulnerable position again.
>He was mature, sweet, kind
Fellas if your foid starts describing you like this she doesn't feel sexually attracted to you. You are her piggy bank "anchor" she (thinks) dates down because she wants commitment, not because she thinks you are hot.
>The guilt sort of lessened over the years and we were happy. Married right after college and have started a family since. I was very happy and so was Evan.
Oh well if the whore doesn't feel bad about fricking her BIL then everything is fine, right? Marrying your boyfriend with a skeleton who's related to him in your closet is morally righteous because "we are happy". Foids really can justify getting away with everything they want.
>But last week, his brother came back to town. He didn't tell anyone but called Evan to meet up and told him everything. Apparently he had found god and wanted to clear his conscious. Evan came home and he was crying. He's never shouted at me like that and he called me disgusting and kept crying asking me how I could do something so vile. I begged and apologized. I tried explaining I was drunk and didn't realize what was happening.
I swore I had no intentions to cheat and had never wanted to cheat.
But then the whore fricking did didn't she? How the frick can women be this delusional about their actions?
>But he wouldn't believe me.
I wonder why
>He has a job that makes him travel quite a bit. Now he thinks I was cheating all those times he was away and I can't convince him that it's not true.
Once a whore always a whore
>I know I made a horrible mistake and probably deserve what's happening.
>probably
>probably
Plebbit will surely call out this piece of shit that build her marriage on a foundation of li-
>You tell him "your brother r*ped me when I was drunk, then threatened you would leave me if you ever found out. Looking back I know it was r*pe now, but I was young and terrified then, so I believed him." Then you press charges if you still can, to make it official.
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