>I met my boyfriend (24M) when I was 18 and we hit it off immediately. He was my first kiss, took my virginity, first love, first boyfriend. We moved in together this past year and things have been great. But i have this nagging feeling that Ive never been with anyone else. Never ever kissed anyone else. I think Im a fairly sexual person and s*x with my boyfriend has almost become a chore. but I love him.
>do I leave him to find who I am single in my 20s? or do I stay because I can't imagine anyone treating me better?
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>my boyfriend and i have been dating the last 4 years, coming up on 5. i love him and he is my very best friend. we met when i was 19 and he was the first guy i had ever done ANYTHING with, e.i. date, kiss, s*x, love, everything. i had never really talked to a boy prior to him. we live together now and sexually things have definitely fizzled out a bit. we both work a ton and it's more like two friends living together than two people in a relationship...
>then i met guy number 2 (m23). he makes me laugh and gives me that butterfly feeling i haven't felt in awhile. i made it very clear i had a boyfriend and he agreed to keep it platonic. however the more we talked the more i realized i really liked this dude. i cut it off when i caught myself getting jealous of other girls he was talking to. this didn't quite work out tho and we ended up reconnecting a few days later.
>i drunkenly sent him a photo of my new tattoo on my ribs and the outward flirting spiraled from there.
>i KNOW i fricked up friends.
>but now i don't know what to do. do i leave my current boyfriend for the what if?
>do i tell my current boyfriend?
>do i become my worst nightmare and cheat?
>i really like guy #2 but am scared to throw everything i have with #1 away. help.
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Hey, I saw that you just joined rdrama and a group of people who hate me are trying to smear my name by calling me a date male feminist. I just wanted to let you know that it's not true. If you want all the receipts proving it they're right here.
The TL;DR is that I hooked up with one of the hot girls on rdrama, and since I was twice her age, a lot of the guys here who wanted to bang her got jealous and assumed that the only way I could have managed that was by raping her, even though she herself said both before and afterwards that it was all completely consensual. So now that you're the new hot girl on rdrama, I guess they think that I'm going to somehow seduce you into flying all the way across the country (or some crazy shit like that) to hook up with me and they're trying to talk shit about me to make sure that doesnt happen. I don't understand it either, but I just wanted to let you know that I'm a nice guy and I hope you'll look at the evidence and make up your own mind instead of listening to all the jealous haters.
Anyway, with that little intro out of the way, welcome to rdrama! The culture's a little rough here and you're probably going to get tons of requests to •show boobsU but if you talk to some of the women here first before engaging with all the creepy dudes, they'll give you some good advice to avoid stalkers and predators. Or (If you haven't been scared off by the rumor mill) you're welcome to ask me and I'm happy to help.
Just out of curiosity, how did you find this place?
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