>I met my boyfriend (24M) when I was 18 and we hit it off immediately. He was my first kiss, took my virginity, first love, first boyfriend. We moved in together this past year and things have been great. But i have this nagging feeling that Ive never been with anyone else. Never ever kissed anyone else. I think Im a fairly sexual person and s*x with my boyfriend has almost become a chore. but I love him.
>do I leave him to find who I am single in my 20s? or do I stay because I can't imagine anyone treating me better?
the OP's post before this: https://old.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/1bdf2to/i_f23_love_my_boyfriend_m25_but_caught_feelings/
>my boyfriend and i have been dating the last 4 years, coming up on 5. i love him and he is my very best friend. we met when i was 19 and he was the first guy i had ever done ANYTHING with, e.i. date, kiss, s*x, love, everything. i had never really talked to a boy prior to him. we live together now and sexually things have definitely fizzled out a bit. we both work a ton and it's more like two friends living together than two people in a relationship...
>then i met guy number 2 (m23). he makes me laugh and gives me that butterfly feeling i haven't felt in awhile. i made it very clear i had a boyfriend and he agreed to keep it platonic. however the more we talked the more i realized i really liked this dude. i cut it off when i caught myself getting jealous of other girls he was talking to. this didn't quite work out tho and we ended up reconnecting a few days later.
>i drunkenly sent him a photo of my new tattoo on my ribs and the outward flirting spiraled from there.
>i KNOW i fricked up friends.
>but now i don't know what to do. do i leave my current boyfriend for the what if?
>do i tell my current boyfriend?
>do i become my worst nightmare and cheat?
>i really like guy #2 but am scared to throw everything i have with #1 away. help.
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What she doesn't realize is she's gonna get bored of guy #2 in a few years and move on to guy #3, and so on...
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You guys are losers. There's a place inbetween fricking everything that moves and dedicating completely to your first puppy love.
You guys never had puppy love. That's the real reason you are mad.
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Puppy love is 15-17. This chick is 22.
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No difference at that age if they haven't even kissed another dude.
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Wait are you saying dramatards never had puppy love, or any love?
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You should be more clear in what you're trying to convey
Don't go off on a tangent about puppy love and then be surprised when ppl think that's what you're talking about about.
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Oh, sorry. /s
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Now you're just pissing me off 😡
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Yes.
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I forget that incels
are just larping. 
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She has been with him for 5 years. This isn't puppy love, this is boredom. It happens to literally everyone at that point.
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It was puppy love. Now it ain't. Thanks for explaining it for the r-slurs, genius.
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Rslur what do you think the “honeymoon phase” means?
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R-slur, what do you think the word first means?
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The redditors are right though on her relationship_advice post: ""If guy#2 knows you have a bf and still going along with flirting, it a red flag.""
Excuse me for a moment...
Okay I feel better now after saying that. There's a reason why she now posts the same topic, without the "there's another guy" information.
She wants to frick something that moves that she finds attractive & gives her butterflies. Something that shows red flags for a partner.
She can do whatever she wants, but if the criteria of you ending your relationship is "I met someone I find really attractive, while I'm bored a bit in the bedroom at home"... then you are not into lasting relationships. Cause that happens a lot.
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Lmao what the frick are you talking about
How does one go from
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While it might be an unreasonable jump in any other context, we are literally in rdrama
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I'm not a zoomer, so I've had s*x.
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Disgusting, you should really be embarrassed
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Unfortunate, but I can only play the hand I'm dealt.
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I was going to write some long satire post about how you owe reparations to the gays on this site for having straight s*x but even ironically it sounded too forced. Just hit yourself once or twice for me and we'll call it even.
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why don't you tell her this?
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I already know she's reading all my posts and will fall in love with me soon...
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