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Wait, it's not a compliment that you're marriage material instead of hookup material? Or am I just an old fuddy-duddy?

Reading the comments I still don't get it. Is marriage not the ultimate in relationships at requires the most trust and bonding? It means you're better than the mere hookup losers who are only worth fricking but not trusting and being with.

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Wait, it's not a compliment that you're marriage material instead of hookup material? Or am I just an old fuddy-duddy?

You didn't "listen" to the foid.

"Hookup material" = "I want to frick you and feel safe that you won't kill me - or it's at least worth therisk"

"Marriage material" = "You can provide for me, and are fun enough to be around"

But what did the foid say? She said "You are marriage material but not hookup material". She didn't just say "You are marriage material".

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That's true.

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Wait, it's not a compliment that you're marriage material instead of hookup material? Or am I just an old fuddy-duddy?

Correct.

Guys want s*x. Women want relationships/investment. Being "marriage material" for a man is easy. Being FWB material for a man is difficult. The opposite is true for women.

Telling a man he's not FWB material but is marriage material means he's not attractive but he is good at giving his stuff to a woman. It's saying he's not good at the difficult thing that would make his life easy but IS good at the easy thing that makes his life difficult.

P.s., if you're FWB material as a man, half the women you frick also want to marry you, it's hardly a prize.

>It means you're better than the mere hookup losers who are only worth fricking but not trusting

Yeah, no, this isn't how it works. Relationships where fricking is happening and relationshipping is not are almost always because the man doesn't want to commit, not because the woman doesn't want to. The reason you find that man "not worth trusting" is because he is choosing not to care if you trust him.

Half-relationships where women are choosing not to go all the way are called friend zone relationships.

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She pretty much said that when her marriage is in a slump she isn't physically attracted to him and will frick the office/bar chad.

Men want to sleep with women that are genuinely attracted to them

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While fwb Chad was doing this to her :a2m:

Marriage guy will have to settle for some starfish s*x or a blowie once a month.

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You're supposed to frick women casually until one sticks.

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This is how the average mild mannered man breaks bad.

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She's calling him barely frickable. You hook up with people because they're sexy, you marry people because they have money. She's saying she loves him for his money and thinks he isn't sexy.

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For any man worth being with, being able to sexually satisfy their partner is extremely important to them. She basically said she's willing :marseywould: to tolerate him getting a nut every so often because she finds him useful. The bedroom will 100% die if she locked :marseykey: him in with marriage. S*x can be recreational for sure but between :marseyzeldalinkpast: two lovers :marseymemories: it's the desire to be as close :marseynoyouzoom: and intimate to each other as possible. The deepest social :marseysjw: bond two people can have.

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Frick it's a good thing you're into animals

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Yes. These kids think influencer whore culture is the ideal.

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this shit is way older than influencer culture

any society without monogamy has this harem-esque and jealousy culture

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She basically admitted that other guys were so hot to her that they could pump and dump her while he is just a beta paying her bills and she's with him for the long-term relationship, and has no raw sexual attraction to him.

If she said he is NOT ONLY or NOT JUST hookup material, but also a husband material, it would be better.

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