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i'm a big hairy man with gyno if you wanna play with those
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I have this issue with older people without any cultural touchstones in common.
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I have a list of things im ready to talk about at any time to connect with all agegroups
in no particular order:
The weather.
Their job. Find comminalities with my job and gab. "So how long have you been doing x? is it harder now ir easier nowadays? You enjoy it?"
Politics. Dont go too hard. Most people are fine with "both sides suck"
Family life.
hobbies.
Food
Creative pursuits.
Random funny life stories.
The key is to ask questions like a news reporter. Roughly, don't grill them. If all else fails, standing beside them watching something is fine. Let the convo die after an appropriate time - you dont need to talk for hours.
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Does this come naturally to people or is it a learned skill.
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It took a long time to hone my autism. 20 years or so of awkward "im not fricking interested" convo's before realizing I didnt have any friends. I still get tired of it but drink some coffee and just "interview" people.
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I have lots of friends internet and IRL, but I have no clue how to make friends IRL in my adult age.
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Repeat what they say and phrase it as a question. Most people will interpret this as an invitation to elaborate.
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The solid snake strategy
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Asking people questions about themselves makes them think you are outgoing and interesting
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TFW you're chronically lonely but being around people is the worst
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Sometimes i say words in the wrong order.
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!KOWALSKI ANALYSIS!
!alligatorfrickhouse keep on 'gatin
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