@Thirtythirst4sissies's comment on '["Effortpost"] TwoX copes about double standards for weight'

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And even if a woman is in the lower tier of normal weight, if she carries smidgen of fat in her thighs or butt, she's considered 'thicc'. It's like every woman needs to be underweight and curveless, like a young teenager, to be considered 'acceptable'. Just a common annoyance that's been on my mind lately.

Edit: All bodies are beautiful. I'm just frustrated that a 'normal' weight doesn't typically seem to be considered 'acceptable' for women in particular. And by 'normal', I mean BMI 'normal' not the more subjective, society 'normal'.

Has a woman moment

My uncle is 400 pounds and will get upset that a perfectly average sized woman is "a little chubby" and therefore unattractive to him. It's eyeroll-inducing.

Posts in r/BBW (full body post), sells her panties :marseypuke: , needs a CPAP machine, has a few comments in /r/sexworkersonly .

I am fat now but as a teenager my parent constantly called me fat so I just gave up and have had weight issues my entire adult life. I recently saw a photo of fat teenage me and I wasn’t fat at all. I was a U.K. size 14 and I was so upset that my parents did that to me

Likes marvel and star wars, is a bong. Not many kek posts.

I only weigh 100lbs and I still get called fat when I wear short shorts. There's no winning, so just keep your chin up and don't let it bother you, Hun. <3

Is a virgin

Seconded. Also only 100 lbs. Been told I have "too much jiggle" in my thighs. Only 20 minutes after being turned away from donating blood for being underweight too. Winning just ain't a thing here.

LOOKS LIKE A FRICKING GOBLIN LMAO . Also is a teacher

Now, as a trans man on T for five years, I am actually obese, since I weigh 155 lbs and am still only 5" tall. But for some reason no one views me as even being overweight, much less obese.

"No one views me as even being overweight" holy cope.

Also women are past their expiration at 25 yet men are s*x gods into their 80s.

Divorced with a kid. Surprisingly doesn't post in /r/datingoverthirty

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Mifflin_Devin they/them 2yr ago #2672522

I eventually forgave mom for it - her mother did the same and she was projecting her insecurities

I know quite a few mom's that have mentioned their daughters weights in front of them

My mom put me on my first diet at 11 and started weight watchers at 13. I was always forced to wear oversized clothes to hide my shape.

My mother started tracking my food intake at 9.

My mother did that to me too!

My mom never told me I was pretty until I underweight from anorexia

Sounds like my mom— when I developed bad acne, she said things like “that’s terrible— you used to have pretty skin.” (Yet when I had the pretty skin pre-acne, she never complimented my skin and she was always encouraging me to wear more makeup.)

My grandmother did it too, saying that my butt was as big as hers when I was 14, 105lbs, and a size 4. She was not a small woman.

at age 14 my mother also called me a slut, and forced me to take birth control pills, which made me gain 20 lbs immediately. I suspect in the early 70s the dosage was too high, anyway.
But yeah, her mother had a problem with body-shaming too

My mum used to tell me I was getting porkie and pike my belly,

My mother fat shamed me at 220 lbs when I was 17, when I lost 20 lbs, still very much "obese", she started telling me I looked anorexic. I'm now 37, 300 lbs

how could men do this